How do you cope with having no gf in your 30s? I'm 32 now and it's eating at me even worse than it was when I was younger. I thought it was supposed to get easier being a kissless virgin at this age?
>>27887072
I'm also a 32 yo KV... Even now I sometimes curl into a ball and cry.
>>27887072
>>27887115
Shit, I'm 19 and already feel worthless.
Have a hug.
At your age you should have enough disposable income to afford high class escorts.
Become the wizard you were born to be
Being alone during my teens: tolerable
Being alone during my 20's: shitty, but can still grind through it.
Being alone during my 30's: holy fucking shit this sucks.
>>27887072
I'm not in my 30's yet but I will be very soon.
I honestly don't know what the big deal is. It's just sex, and I think that it's probably overrated.
I've decided that if I'm still a virgin at 30, I'm going to go to my local brothel and pay for it just to see what it's like. I don't have any high hopes, though.
>>27887072
>I thought it was supposed to get easier being a kissless virgin at this age
Why the fuck did you think that? As you age your body and "potential" diminish and you need to gain money, possessions, status or skills to compensate or you will be left behind.
>>27887120
Don't waste your youth. It's one of the biggest regrets at my age.
>>27887072
I'm also 32 and never had a gf. I don't even know where to begin.
Every girl I talk to is in a relationship.
Normie here. Not gonna lie to you you are missing out but also your dodging a fuck ton of metaphorical bullets here never having a gf you'll never get cucked, lied to, milked for money, put up with feminist shit, deal with a period, slog through female insecurity, not get any because of her "boundaries" she made up, never deal with her parents, never have your sleep stolen. The list almost never ends women are a double edged fucking sword and can devour your soul more effectively than loneliness sometimes.
>>27887197
I think he's talking about coming to terms with your virginity.
I'm 5 years away from 30 and have no idea how I'll be able to cope being that age. What can you possibly do with your life? It isn't socially acceptable for you to do anything fun other than go out for a drink with friends; which means you'll be miserable if you don't have any. You're just expected to dedicate your life to your job and family and if you don't have a family you have nothing to live for.
>>27887184
>It's just sex, and I think that it's probably overrated.
When you become a wizard it actually becomes less about sex and more about just wanting a girl to say "I love you anon".
>>27887072
Where are you looking for women? Also are you interesting/worth their time?
>>27887120
Please just fuck off you baby. Life starts at 20 you have nothing to even complain about.
>>27887211
The Dubs are right.
This way of looking at it has been the most effective for me.
Also their vaginas were probably sour anyway.
>>27887072
It has gotten easier for me but that is because instead of spending my money on gfs and such I have saved it and spend it on what I want.
Of course this means you have to have a job. I do because no parents but I have my own 2 bedroom apartment with all utilities paid, porch because on 3rd floor, garage for car. Its also cheap since I live in midwest.
My job is a joke, I load trailers with soda at night. I am the only one in my warehouse so I am by myself, just check computer for what order goes into what trailer, use a forklift so it goes fast. Get done early and just screw around, play my 3ds, read some books, ect.
Expenses only eat up around 25% of my monthly pay, the rest I save or use to buy what I want.
>>27887211
Dubs are right.
Also their vaginas were probably sour anyway.
>>27887276
I'm a friendless KHV that's getting worse at interacting with people, I have a lot to complain about normie.
19 year old engaged university student reporting in
AMA
>>27887241
Nah, you just gotta find other singles or couples with no kids. They still do fun stuff, maybe just a little more low key. It's kids that make people stop doing fun stuff more than marriage/gf.
Why do wizards come here instead of posting on wizchan? Seems like they'd be much more at home there.
Hows having a bf looking?
>>27887331
You'll make up all of that in a few years. Nobody has friends in their teens and everyone is still a stupid kid.
>>27887361
Wizchan is awful, it's just sour grapes - the imageboard. I may be one of them but I'm not going to delude myself into thinking that being alone with no gf is alright, because it fucking sucks.
>>27887352
>implying that being engaged at 19 is a good thing
top kek
Instead of complaining, try doing something else, find a hobby. Try learning to meditate and let go in life, it really is just your mind haunting you, nothing else, calm it, then you'll see.
>>27887279
Still normie here, wife bot was a virgin checked her myself and broke it, literally only ever touched by hands, vagina still tasted like shit. For everything a woman can give you she'll cause you suffering of some sort purposefully or not.
>>27887411
I'm sorry, i'll let you return to being depressed over your lack of intimacy with other humans
Whats wizchan?
>>27887184
>I honestly don't know what the big deal is. It's just sex, and I think that it's probably overrated.
I'm not OP, but we both sail in the same boat. What bothers me the most is not the sex, but the thought that I missed an important part of my life, something that money can't replace right now, no matter how luxurious and good-looking an escort might be. It's the sentiment behind it. Unlived opportunities that are crucial at a certain period in a person's development leaves a mark of disappointment and harnessing pleasure from your hobbies can only get you so far until you desire the companionship of another like-minded person. I sometimes wished I was homosexual, than maybe life would be easier, at least on the relationship part.
>31 wizard
On my 20's I still had some hope left, thinking that with hard work I could figure out how human relationships work and turn my life around, but now its starting to hit me that I'm seriously going to be always alone.
>living longer than 30 as a robot
Kek why do that to yourself
>>27887072
Sometimes I think I'm broken. I'm 32, have never had a gf, and have no friends. I am in college. It's like I'm a retarded baby but I feel no shame or dworse sion anymore. My 20's were absolutely horrible and I'm just glad it's all passed. I'm lonely but maybe I'm just used to the loneliness now.
It feels like I wont be able to accomplish all of my dreams (like getting a gf, getting married, and having children) but I will be able to accomplish some other dreams, like graduating. Maybe that's how life really is?
>>27887496
>I sometimes wished I was homosexual, than maybe life would be easier, at least on the relationship part.
it's not really
>>27887404
I could say the same about r9k except the opposite is true. People delude themselves into thinking that having a gf is the most important thing in life and everything else pales in comparison. Having a gf isn't always what it's cracked up to be, and people here have such weird fairy tale expectations. It's sad. The honest truth is that there is good and bad to both sides, but you get the "grass is greener" effect. Just because all the normies are doing it doesn't mean it's the best thing ever.
>>27887496
Yeah the feelings of regret are very intense.
>>27887510
I ask that question every day anon.
>>27887496
You're making me really sad. I'm younger than you but I wish I didn't get nervous when being in public
32 here. In the end I would estimate losers like us represent 20-30% of the male population.
You are not alone in being fucked by life
>>27887496
>harnessing pleasure from your hobbies can only get you so far
This is kind of why I've lost interest in my hobbies, I'm starting to see now that I'm just using it as a way to compensate for my lack of relationships.
>>27887539
Still the lurking normie, I second what this guy says. Also with regards to human companionship having someone you can call a good friend is almost as fulfilling as having a loyal woman even if that person is as socially broken as you are that brotherly bond can still "feed" you to a degree
>>27887072
it becomes more meaningless with everyday.
>>27887072
15% of people never reproduce
that's like one out of 7. Hopefully that makes you feel better. You're not as unusual as you might think
>>27887661
But society promised me a happy ending and lots of sex.
>>27887124
>spend more than 50 dollar for a prostitute
you really deserve to be unhappy.
27 here. Eh, I can always dedicate my life to getting money. If I get bored, I can kill myself later on. Shame though, I wanted to be a family man. What can you do.
>>27887072
>20
I did not care
>24
Maybe a gf would be nice...
>27
I dont even know how female breast feel like...
>>27887661
>15% of people never reproduce
Most of those aren't KV.
I suggest the op and guys over 30 I guess become friends. Text each other. You understand things about each other.
>>27887687
>14
maybe a gf/wife wouldn't be so bad
>15
acquire crush
>18
tell her how I feel but she's taken now
>22
flirt with countless strangers
>23
women are bitches, but I need a better job and just want someone around
still a virgin, not kissless though
>>27887072
30 in less than two months here, I've embraced a life of solitude where I can do what I like without hassle. Being a manchild is really pretty great
Guys there r woman with kids and no husband and think differtly about men.than they did when they were younger. You can still have what you crave
>>27887072
Things get better past about age 35. You will develop a much more rational view of women and see clearly what a tremendous disappointment they really are. Trust me on this.
>>27887775
>Being a manchild is really pretty great
I like the carefree life style but not the hormone war that involuntary celibacy brings.
>>27887748
Still the normie. Try mine craft on the same world, you can do your own things and slowly ease into group projects. Also you can start with the in game chat and use that to ease into a team speak for actual conversations
>>27887793
That's what prostitutes are for
>>27887510
>>27887542
The only good thing is that after all the bullshit I went through during my 20's (PTSD, crippling anxiety, depression) I came out a little tougher in the end just for grinding through it. Sure I'm still socially retarded and with 0 friends or gfs, but now in my 30's at least I can try to help others so they won't go through all the bullshit I went through. Or at the very least make life a little less painful for some.
That is my reason for continuing to live anyway.
>>27887776
a money leech, and a pride destroyer?
Well you have our attention uncle. What advice would you give us?
27 and reporting. If you faggots think it's easier with slavs - you are wrong.
>>27887197
left behind what? from who?
nobody fucking cares.
why would a woman make you happy?
because you are not alone anymore and soneone loves you?
you dont even know how and why it would make you happy.
as soon as you fuck a hooker you will realize its worthless.
its complete false happyness.
if you have a girl she will leave you for a better one as soon as she gets bored or simply find a better one.
trapped in an echo chamber of thirsty betas putting woman on a pedestal even god would envy.
>>27887774
>>23
>women are bitches, but I need a better job and just want someone around
>still a virgin, not kissless though
This is exactly me too
>>27887776
My wife's son agrees
I think when they say gf I think they mean love.
>>27887539
unlimited percentage this
>>27887437
wizchan.org
i's an imageboard for wizards (30+ year old virgins)
it's kind of like r9k except with fewer underage fags clogging up the board with memes and ironic shitposting.
>>27887959
That normie. Even if a woman loves you she'll still inadvertently cause you grief. Mine almost worships me and still does. I've seen it a dozen times over with normie friends to
>>27887810
Good reason. Make sure no one you know falls onto this path. I'm just gonna end it before 30, theres really no point for me
>>27888005
without the memes its only half the fun.
but more important, do they ban transexuals and racebaiter?
42 yr old kv here. it gets easier i think once you give up all hope and possibility of finding a girl. mid-late 30's i just seemed to accept that id be alone forever and havent really thought much about women ever since. i dont even jack it anymore, really. im just a non sexual creature
>>27887625
maybe you hobbies were just useless shit?
>>27887243
thats not about beeing a wizard.
what you have is called the thirsty beta mindset.
>>27888048
>racebaiter
you mean trolls? I don't know for sure. Go there and look at their rules. I doubt they ban transsexuals for the sole reason of being transsexual.
>>27887352
It's not gonna work out and you're gonna be devastated
>>27888102
Go be a dick elsewhere, there's plenty of shit tier threads you could be polluting
>>27888139
its true and im annoyed by your pathetic shit.
Whats a wizard? They have powers? Or you mean like mages who larrp or whatever?
Whats robot btw?
I assumed its a "loser" or like someone with aspergers or autism.
No offence meant.
>>27888110
The rules prohibit trolling of any kind. There aren't any rules against mentioning you're trans, but there are rules against posting porn.
They try to keep the content mature and on topic for the sake of actual discussion.
>>27887361
I've commented on this before, and my comment got lots of praise. The basic points are these:
-I've used wizardchan a few times, about 3-4 years ago (whenever it was available). Its rules are very stringent, and the average internet user, even robots, can't abide by such strict rules.
-Its atmosphere is uniformly depressive, except when they talk about sexless hobbies, but even that is depressing in its own right, as obvious distraction.
-It's /so/ depressive in fact, that even many people who "qualify" to post there can't stick around for long. You need to be a mid-functioning autist or cliniccally depressed, not mind repetition, etc, to be able to hack it. Not even most robots and their larger ilk can hack this.
-Also the fact that hotwheels had a "gf" and moved on to another project is/are annoying, of themselves.
This place is filled with normies now, but even here, there's a bit of variety, and the odd silly/funny thread in between feels. A certain variety and entrenched "outcast-culture" gives this board its continued appeal, in spite of all the normalfags.
>>27888191
I'm not that anon I'm just a lurker who says "take that shitpost elsewhere"
>>27888235
>Whats a wizard?
30+ yo virgin.
Whats robot btw?
Someone who feels outside of normal human society.
>>27888235
Robot is a code word for failed normie.
>>27888080
Not all hobbies involve going to the gym or exercise.
>>27887361
on wizchan you can't even talk about sex or talk about waning sex w/out getting banned. It's for autists who trick themselves into believing they can be happy alone.
I feel like everyone has it tough with getting older. the norms try to mitigate those feelings with accomplishments but to no avail. god damn getting old is the worst thing that can happen to a person. each day your situation becomes a little bit worse just by existing
I tried to seek refuge at wizchan at a point when those sex advice threads were rampant and it was so damn depressing I felt better about myself sitting in the dark reading pages of lore on things on 1d4chan
>>27888390
What if they are genuinely happy being alone? Maybe they are tired of the stupid "tfw no gf" threads that plague this place. They make it clear that it's not the place for that. If that's a topic you have to discuss, then just do it here. It's not r9k, so don't hold it to the same standards.
>>27887429
Haha mate I'm 22 and fucked a lot of girls I can tell you that shit is highly unlikely to work out. The later the age of marriage the more stable it is likely to be. Young couples are the reason the divorce rate is so high. Also everyone thinks you're a loser in uni lmao I bet you're muslim
>>27887404
>it's just sour grapes
same can be said about bernie's campaign.
>i hat muh rich people
>muh one percent
How do I avoid being lonely like OP?
Do I have to settle for a roastie?
>>27887496
>Unlived opportunities that are crucial at a certain period in a person's development leaves a mark of disappointment and harnessing pleasure from your hobbies can only get you so far until you desire the companionship of another like-minded person
these feels
>>27888056
How was 9/11?
>>27888235
I would define a robot as firstly a depressed individual, he recognised the futility of life. he goes about in life with despair, constantly on the edge of suicide. he feels alienated from his peers and the world around him. some robots can be successful but miserable nonetheless. as he's young the robot hopes that someday this situation changed, and reality becomes tolerable again; but as he gets older he realizes nothing is ever going to change. then the despair takes on a new form. he is a sick man. he is a spiteful man.
>>27888519
NEVER settle for an actual roastie, that's the same as hiring a prostitute except you also get to deal with the negatives of having a woman
>>27888355
nevermind. if someone forces himself to see relationships as the true meaning of life and abandons all his hobbys for it, he will have nothing as soon as his relationship ends.
>>27887072
having a relationship is like playing world of warcraft. you can spend your time beeing happy and at the end you have attained nothing, or worse, you have kids.
Are there any steam groups for 30+ yo robots?
>>27888571
this is really the perfect discription
>>27888715
Glad I never played WoW in that case
>>27887701
This
It's so annoying when normies who've had gfs tell us it doesn't matter. When you've had basically no romantic or sexual experience it matters a fucking lot. It makes you feel worthless. A failure for not being able to do what 99% of humanity can do easily.
>>27888571
>he is a sick man. he is a spiteful man.
While the first part is true, I try to be rather caring about other people.
>>27888571
>but as he gets older he realizes nothing is ever going to change
this one hurt, because it's so true
>>27888774
>steam group
>30+
pick one
>>27888862
when i think about it, it seems like a valid reason for suicide.
>>27888837
I never said it didn't matter I just said its not perfect and there are things that can help
>>27888864
Why? Are you implying we should have social lives and not play video games?
Im in my 40s now, OP. Still no gf.
It gets better, your libido goes down, and so the effects of a fap to not think about sex lasts longer.
>>27888905
i think about suicide every day...
Well all of you are here you are like minded ppl. You all get each other. You knw in your heart youre not that bad, other ppl just didnt get you.
Like your from a small town but now you traveled to the city and there r ppl like you, and they arent bad, there r some good ppl here, that means ypure not that hopeless.luke u thought. U realize its not the end of the world. If other ppl have a problem, well thats their problem not yours.
No gf/bf so what!
Like pokemon/ my little pony, so what!
Youre differnt than others do things differntly? So what!
I forgot what I was saying but its not like normies dnt feel bad sometime too.
>>27888949
i imply you all should rollerblading together while listen to music
>>27888980
Same. I really don't know what to do anymore.
>>27889016
>its not like normies dnt feel bad sometime too.
If this was a serious comment and not just trolling...
>>27888980
me too.
i probably not do it, but if i get older, mabye when im 60 and the body starts to get shit, life will even be more like hell.
i cannot imagine not to kill myself then.
im not 30 yet.
People always say im trolling. What is that?
Well they assum iim trolling
>>27888864
the third arrow is for suicide
>>27888390
I feel like many of them still seek for a gf or human interaction but it's simply not allowed to talk about to prevent that it becomes r9k 2.0 with cancerous feel threads all the time.
>>27887352
marry in haste, repent at leisure
>>27887198
what does that even mean?
serious, what counts as non wasted youth,
>>27887301
Nicee
I am original papi
>>27887072
normalfag here. Wy wife is from china. she said women over 25 are called "leftover women" (or maybe thats 30, i cant remember) and literally noone wants them. you could pretty easily get a 30 year old chinese girlfriend. Find a way to meet one online. They may not be the most attractive women, but they are almost certainly skinny and if they arent a virgin, they are close to it. One catch - you need a stable job and obviously can't live with parents. Good luck OP!
>>27889187
Why are they cancerous?
i truly don't understand
if i remain lonely passed 30 years old, i will just kill myself
i can't even imagine your daily pain, all is ended for you
>>27887072
Well, OP, I've been a wizard for six years, and I deal with it through the magic of liquor. From what I recall, it's been more than a year since I've gone more than 24 hours without getting drunk.
It's nothing like a solution, of course, merely a way of coping with something that becomes increasingly difficult to cope with as time goes by. Sure, the liquor dulls all of the nasty feelings, but that only lasts until I pass out.
Sleep doesn't bring any relief. All of the hurt follows me down into sleep. My dreams are almost all nightmarish, an endless parade of violence and sex in its ugliest manifestations.
Of course, it was the same way since I was young. All of my sexual dreams involved the grotesquely deformed and monsters afflicted with the most repulsive tortuosities. Perhaps I knew sex would be something alien to me even from a young age.
Perhaps it was an apprentice wizard's prescience.
