How much better do BJs feel in comparison to fapping?
>>27850395
Fap = 30 to 60 secs until cum
BJ = usually some minutes
>>27850424
My PR is 1 min 43 seconds
>>27850395
None desu. I don't think bjs feel that good at all unless the girl is an absolute artist at it. Vaginas on the other hand feel way better than fapping
It can be better than fapping. If done right it can be pure bliss.
But the thing is, most girls don't do it right. Even if they don't suck at it (hehe) it's not that good if they're just average.
>>27850461
OK but how do you do it right.especially what do if he is cumming.
Keep moving, or keep just in your mouth or swallow it deep?
What do?
>>27850395
BJs are garbage if she doesn't care or put effort into it, but they can be better than actual sex if everything goes right. When I find a good hooker that knows how to suck dick I don't even fuck her, I just show up for the BJ. It ends up being cheaper, involving less effort on my part, and I nut WAY harder.
>>27850424
>Fap = 30 to 60 secs until cum
Lel whut?
>>27850492
Ugh, are you asking "for a friend"?Are you a fag or a femanon?
When the guy is cumming, the girl shouldn't move (but keeping it in her mouth). The dick gets all ticklish, it actually gets uncomfortable to keep getting head post-orgasm.
>>27850395
It depends on the person who is sucking.
Blowjob proficiency can vary quite a bit from slut to slut.
>>27850492
For me all I would expect and enjoy would be if the girl was like sucking on the top but basically just giving a handjob. I think that would be hot and I don't expect girls to deep-throat me.
She would definitely have to want to do it and really be into it. Being apprehensive is cute but if you are disgusted then the guy is not going to be into it.
>>27850555
Pick one.
Thanks. So I basically keep it in my mouth/throat with medium suction and let him do any last strokes? Right?
>tfw dated a 8/10 small blonde for 4 years and trained her to suck my cock to my exact specifications
>Nutted in her throat while grabbing her longish blonde hair and shoving her deeper
>tfw she had no gag reflex
>tfw would nut on her big blue eyes to watch it drip onto her c cup titties
I miss her
>>27850614
Hell no go for broke. If he tells you he's gonna come don't stop or change what you're doing until his dick stops pulsing in your mouth. This is basic shit
>>27850555
>>27850614
This is bad advice, some dudes get super sensitive and might not like it if you keep going, but it can also ruin orgasms for dudes like me. It's important that you keep going and try to take it deep unless they tell you otherwise.
Honest question, have you ever gone down on a dude before?
>>27850604
Deep throating is actually pretty hard. It makes me physically cry.
I get it so far I just want some actuall real advises.
Guyes always say that it can be shit/heavan but can't often really tell what's good or not.
A specific question.
I heard I'm supposed to look up in his eyes while doing it. The thing is I don't look super good while I have oral sex.
Should I rather hide my face or still do it?
>>27850550
You've never tried to bang one out real quick before you had to leave for work or something? If I'm not trying to savor it I can do it in under a minute, easy.
>>27850424
>tfw can't even last that long anymore if I were to fap strongly without stopping
>>27850614
Well, a fag would have a dick so he should know how to please one, but then again there are no women on the internet.
Yes. Just to add the obvious tip... Touching the dick with the teeth is the biggest no-no. And when I said "pure bliss" I was thinking about expert-level suction while shaping your mouth as comfy as it gets, like a vagina: just wetness and soft touch of skin and tongue
>>27850395
How many times do I have to see this girl jesus christ.
>>27850656
>Dream journal entry #13513
depends on the girl, but seriously, they don't feel much better. a lot of girls just bob up and down and they don't suck on it, so it's like sticking your dick in a loose fleshy self lubricating hand with teeth.
I honestly think the people who think blowjobs are amazing are the uncut guys.
basically, overrated.
>>27850686
I have sex for ten years so yes. But only with two guys total. And they are very different.
I guess it's just the smartest thing to ask my partner. I was just hoping for some universal advise to surprise him
>>27850708
Obviously no teeth.
How do I shape my mouth? I can't find any information on that?
>>27850395
BJs feel like shit to me desu family, but it could just be because I was jewutilated as a kid.
>>27850395
It is warm and can tickle a little. But the biggest mind-blown is the moment when you realize that you actually do nothing with your hands and this pleasant feel you know is happening. For example you put them behind your head that feels good.
I think it is important to just enjoy the moment and do not think about staff like "does she think it is small?", "I hope it doesn't stink" or "hope I'll not cum fast"
>>27850765
Here's something that every dude loves: fuck his dick with your face.
No hands, go as deep as you can, breathe through your nose, don't stop until he nuts.
>>27850793
Just watch a fucking porno you dumb cunt,
Do you really think you're going to get experienced advice on /r9k/!?
>>27850688
don't worry about deepthroating, it seriously is just a visual thing, it doesn't feel that good, some guys just like seeing girls choke down on their dick.
a girl kept fucking doing it to me, over and over, it got so annoying that I just wanted to yell at her to get the fuck on with it and suck on it. it's
>>27850819
I can't do that for longer than 10 second's at once. Also I cry and my nose gets runny.
I somehow doubt it's super appeling?
>>27850822
You realize that they pause in between the shots and that no guy comes from you rubbing the side if his shaft.
Also no need to be hostile. Better asking men than women. At least you guys have a dick
>>27850850
some guys like seeing shit, some don't. I know I don't, I don't want your snot running down your face while you choke on my dick and then all that snot gets on my dick. that's just fucking nasty.
but some guys like that shit...
>>27850826
Uff OK. Contradicting but good to know.
Thank guys.
I think it's safe to say the smartest thing is to ask your partner what he wants
>>27850850
I said go as deep as you can, not make yourself cry and get snot on his dick.
What's appealing about it is that you are literally using your face to get him off. You get no pleasure out of it, and are willing to do it for him. It's different than sucking him off in that a BJ is can be a loving act, whereas a facefuck is all about getting him off.
>>27850902
Jep it's not so cool. Also if you cry you can't breath trough your nose anymore and it makes it hard to continue.
Why do some guys like it then?
Because it gives the illusion that the girl suffers?
>>27850883
>no guy comes from you rubbing the side if his shaft
She's clearly made him cum from licking the underside of his head...are you blind too?
>>27850492
Disagree. Girl should keep moving BUT when your done cumming stop. As with women, Everything gets very sensitive shortly after coming, can be painful even if stimulated too much.
>>27850924
But I always enjoy giving him pleasure no matter what we do. It's the basic impulse of our sexlife.
>>27850395
most girls suck at sucking dick, but get you a girl who knows what she's doing and it's better than sex.
>>27850954
I know I asked for advice and I don't wanna be rude.
But I'm old enough to know that porn is useless to learn sex.
>>27850950
it's just a dominant thing, it's almost like a light version of facial abuse. I'm not into that deep throat choke on dick stuff, the noises are just gross.
I do like light slapping though... strangely.
>>27850974
It pretty tricky right?!
Also the responds are very different.
I wonder if women are so different too.
>>27850950
>Why do some guys like it then?
They've got mommy issues
>tfw overmasturbate
>finally managed to get a gf
>pretty much impossible for her to get me off
>>27851024
Slapping face or body?
Because face is pretty ard core in my opinion. Boobs and ass and pussy not so much.
>>27851059
face, ass, body
>>27851056
If that's true you have to try to fix it.
The situation is incredibly humiliating for her. Even if she maybe doesn't admit it
>>27850395
If she knows what she is doing, it is great. One chick was so good it was better than fucking her. Most aren't very good though.
>>27851087
So you would feel comfortable slapping your girlfriend/wife in her face?
Or only random bitches?
No judge. Just curious
>>27851024
That's normal m8. Women subconsciously like it aswell. Choking, biting, hitting.
>>27851127
Biting yes, but hitting?
Biting seems to be out of passion. Hitting is degrading and humiliating
>>27851125
doesn't matter as long as they are comfortable with it, so yea
she can slap the shit out of me too if she wants
>give bf road head (kink of mine)
>he drives over a speed bump
>moans really loud as my head moves up and down rapidly
>>27851186
That's a good attitude I guess. I still would be uncomfortable if my husband would have pleasure from hitting the mother of his future children in the face.
Sex just has different rules I guess.
>>27850761
Thank your jew parents for it
BJs > sex
>>27851178
Not if you know how to hit right and you gauge the appropriate time. There are certain ways of delivering a hit that can be passionate and even romantic.
You'd be surprised.
God she is fucking disgusting.
I'd rather fuck a bowl of curry than that filthy disease ridden "sexually liberated" cunt.
>>27851307
I wouldn't do it if she didnt like it, so it's not like I want to just slap the shit out of a girl. plus it's not like I always want roughed up sex, that's like a once in a while thing, if it was always rough it would get boring, and that's how people get more and more extreme with bdsm roughed up abuse shit
>>27851344
I'm actually not. I'm experienced with it and it can be very pleasing especially if you combine it with gentle touches in-between.
But not the face. It's just a humiliating act and I think that's what's the arrousing part about that is for people in the first place.
I'm not judging. I just don't know if it's possible to maintain a respectful relationship outside the bedroom if you do that.
But who knows
>>27851415
I think that's very important.
That in-between all the different stuff you try, you are still able to have just normal regular sex without being bored to death.
>>27851307
>husband
See, this is why you can't see the appeal in it.
Don't picture some dad bodied, doughy fuck slapping you. Imagine having rough sex with a 10/10 rugged Chad breathing heavy and staring at your face, lightly choking you, mouth agape and then grabbing the sides of your face with his hand and lightly tapping you across the face.
Instant orgaism.
>>27850614
Just keep sucking, desu.
>>27850924
Why are people such degenerates?
>>27851455
Not all women want an equal relationship with level give and take. Some women--most women imo--like being dominated and protected, in and out of the bedroom.
>>27850924
>caring about a woman's pleasure
Really, faggot?
>>27850988
How can you suck at something so easy though.
You literally just suck and provide suction, while moving your tongue around the head.
That's like half the work considering, the heat, is already there to begin with.
>>27851517
I am 25 and he is 13 so we are still attractive.
We both are very active(climbing,hiking,gym)
So that's really not the issue.
He is 11/10 to me.
But your right maybe I would feel different if I would have sex with someone who I don't know.
My guess is just that I would feel horrible and insecure.
I'm not judging sex without feelings (ok I secretly do) but the point is from what I heard sex with strangers is not as good they tell you.
Because there is no trust.
You don't know the other persons body.
I could imagine enjoying this with my partner while it's happening.
I'm just worried what happens afterwards if we reat dinner together or cuddel.
>>27851666
>25
>13
wat?
oregano
>>27851596
I think every person dreams about a relationship of true partners.
Of a team.
I think a lot of women are ether to scared/or tho entiteld to act like it.
And dominance and humiliation are not the same.
>>27851666
He is 23!!! Obviously...
>>27851640
it's a porn thing I think, women are just as susceptible to porn shit as men. in porn girls mostly just bob up and down on the dick and lick it, so maybe girls just think that feels good. blowjobs that actually feel good aren't that exciting to watch.
if some girl wants to get a guy to bust fast all they need to do is suck on it hard near the head, use some tongue on the head, bob up and down slight and jerk off the shaft in the same motion. two minutes of that consistent motion and he will nut.
>>27851666
>I am 25 and he is 13 so we are still attractive.
FUCK FUCK FUCK! SATAN NO!
DIE WHORE!when you try to give women a chance, and they just keep on reminding you why you hate them in the first place.
>>27851835
It was typo
come on
Original
>>27851094
wat. For real?
>>27850395
I don't like blowjobs. Would never admit it to anyone in person but all the make me want to do is fuck the girl. I've never once cum from a blowjob.
Probably due to deathgrip and over-fapping but whatever.
>>27850454
This.
With the average girl, pussy >>> ass >>>>> handjob >>>>>>>>>>>>>>> blowjob
For girls who really know how to suck dick, blowjob = pussy
>>27852136
nah, more like girls are usually bad at sucking a peepee
I mean really, we fucking jerk off with hands, a mouth is a better place for a dick but girls just don't know what the fuck they're doing
>>27852240
I've had hookers blow me and while they've undoubtedly been far better I still wasn\t anywhere near coming.
Best blowjob I've ever had was with two hookers, one old slut who stunk of cigarettes and one fresh off the boat Asian who could barely understand English. Took turns licking my balls and sucking my dick. I could probably have cum from that with 10 minutes more.
>>27852111
Yes. For real.
I'm not sure if your sarcastic or not but just in case.
Imagine you girlfriend watched so much porn and masturbateted with such big dildos that sex with you is boring to her.
Feels good?
>>27852395
I do not have a girlfriend but I see your point. Thank you.
>>27850793
it's all about the suction. Once his dick is in your mouth, make sure you create a vacuum w your cheeks, and curl your tongue underneath his dick. Release vacuum a bit on the downstroke, hwoooooowover it up on the upstroke. Go as far down as you feel comfortable, and keep a steady rhythm/pressure. Save your strength for when he's close to cumming as that will be when it's most intense.
ring your fingers firmly at the bases, and bring them up and down to the same rhythm as your mouth, but in the opposite directions. fondle. his . balls. also, suck on his balls occasionally for a fun surprise.
swallow your prize at the end, and congratulate on doing a great job at reinforcing the patriarchy.
voila, best blowjob.
>>27852571
>great job at reinforcing the patriarchy
Why do faggots always have to make oral sex about some imagined power struggle when (for healthy people) it is usually about making your partner feel good and is usually reciprocated
>>27852430
Sorry my mistake.
You were talking about a hypothetical future girlfriend.
It still will be most likly an issue one day.
Be careful brother
>>27852571
Actually good advises. Thanks. I appreciate it.
>>27852683
I think it was just a joke buddy
>>27850395
gross
looks like herpes
>>27851056
Same problem. I actually stopped fapping for about a month, and would only have sex with her. It fixed things up.
>>27850395
Well...they're warmer.
>>27850395
its not really that their mouth feels that much better, its that the pleasure from sex is directly related to how horny you are. it is very arousing to have your dick being worshipped by a hot girl. ergo, if you have recently cummed and/or youre not horny, its not that fantastic of n experience
>>27850809
stay virgin bro..
>>27850395
It's low-tier for me. Women usually dont know how to pleasure a cock properly using their mouths. From my personal experience it always felt like they are bitting my dick, i think they use their teeth when they should use their tongue more and lips especially (some lipstick would be very nice, femenine stuff turns my pee pee on, but women are not even good in being femenine anymore).
Tl;dr it feels warm and cringy
