>decide to take a walk outside for once
>everywhere I go I see couples kissing, holding hands, laughing and being happy
>I'm alone and I never had that experience in my life
>feel depressed and lonely more than ever before
It isn't fucking fair. Why don't I deserve to be happy like everyone else? I didn't ask to be an ugly loser. Why is the world so fucking cruel? I'm seriously considering suicide right now.
>>27767890
please settle down Elliott.
>I just don't understand why girls don't want me.
You did ask to be a loser. If you didn't want to be a loser, if you wanted a relationship, then you would improve yourself and get it. But you'd rather post shitty drawings of crying cartoons and whine about it.
>just go out, anon!
>do so
>even lonelier outside
I realized I'm hiding in my basement because it's less bad here.
>>27767890
>Deserve.
There's your problem friendo, don't be so entitled. Live your own life and don't compare yourself to other people.
>>27767904
>>27767911
FUCKING NORMIES LEAVE LEEEEAVE
RRRRREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
>>27767927
>juss improve urrself xdd
And water is wet, yes?
the only thing that pisses me off is i'm actually a good looking guy but no women give me the time of day
i see these ugly spergs with, admittedly ugly gfs, and it is irritating to think of how i'm alone
i'm no elliot roger either, i'm just a laid back guy who everyone ignores
>>27768009
>i'm no elliot roger either
funny you sound just like him...
>>27768009
Failed normal fag. Fuck guys ust kill yourself. No hope left for you. NORMAlFAGGOT. God you are so gay.
>>27768026
Nothing wrong with that. He spoke to us on a spiritual level.
>>27767890
>deserve
nobody deserves to be happy or unhappy, in te grand scheme, just some people are and some people are't, all by luck.
maybe take some solace in the absurd and fleeting nature of existence, lad.
lmao
that's why you don't go outside fucking idiot
>>27767948
Nice rare pepe! Mind if I steal it?
>>27767979
I agree, the idea that being a loser is your own fault is as obvious as water being wet.
>>27767890
holy shit Eliot has reincarnated and he ended up here agian, kek
>>27767927
Normalfags did not have to improve themselves to get a gf
This is not a moral failing on OP's part like you're implying it is
>>27768504
elliott didnt think he was ugly dumbfuck cuckold
>>27767890
Just learn to make a shitload of money
>>27768564
Nothing moral about it. The simple fact is that he is a loser because he chooses to be. If he wanted to get a GF, he could. I was a loser, too, until I started putting effort into my life. I'm a lot happier now than I was then. Morality doesn't enter into it. I wanted my life to get better, so I made it better. OP doesn't want to do anything except whine like a baby.
>>27768692
>I started putting effort into my life
What changes did you make?
>>27768692
I'll take the bait here, I have Crohn's and arthritis so how do I go about just willing these away?
>>27768692
I too try to improve myself but I still have no gf. Things don't just will themselves into existence because you want them to, that's a logical fallacy that's passed around a lot. Some people are just unlucky
>>27768761
lol bro it's your defeatist attitude, I actually know a guy with a Crohn's and arthritis and he's a massive pussy slayer
he's also a leper but he's so charismatic and confident that it's not a problem for him
>>27767890
Those people put in effort to be happy. You don't. It's not luck it's a reward.
>>27768761
That's it? That's nothing dude.
>>27768758
I put myself into more social situations and made myself interact with people more. I started working harder at my studies so that I would actually get good grades for a change. I started taking better care of my hygiene. I made myself ask out girls I liked instead of just quietly pining for them.
>>27768761
Lots of people with diseases get friends and GFs all the time. You don't have to "will them away", retard.
>>27768853
Try harder and work at it longer. It took me a long time but my life was getting better throughout anyway. There are lots of ways that your life can improve and make you happier before you get a GF.
>>27767927
3 years ago I wouldve called you a normie, but Ive made some great progress once I realised this myself.
Work on improving yourself, forget girls while doing so, theyd only me detrimential to it anyway. You'll get them after youve made the best out of yourself.
also, get rid of the huge amounts of self pity you guys feel. This is the curse thats holding you down in the first place, you don't realise how dangerous this trap is until you've climbed out if it.
>>27768859
>>27768996
I actually can't tell if these are serious or sarcasm, if you're trolling then good job senpai
>>27769024
I do have some friends, but that's not the point
No matter how bad I say I have it, you'll always come up with some guy who has it worse and still has a gf. The problem is that having this shit makes my life significantly more difficult and then people like you trivialise these problems and blame it on my lack of effort, which I can assure you is not the case
>>27769174
They're two minor diseases. You are holding yourself back, not chrons.
>>27769174
I'm not saying your life is easy. I am saying that having a GF is attainable and it is your own fault that you don't have one if you give up.
>>27769205
I have psoriasis which is basically instant repulsion to girls and have to get fluid drained from my joints periodically or I can barely walk, it's not as trivial as you make it out to be
>>27769717
I'm not denying that's its possible, but realistically the chance is extremely low. My issue is that you make it sound like I have the ability to completely reinvent myself (standard normie platitudes of just be yourself, just lift bro, just have a shower) but in my case there is something holding me back that I can't deal with that easily
>>27767927
This improvement shit is total bullshit
It's a meme, you can't change what's hardwired, an autist cannot unautistify himself
>>27770755
An autist absolutely can unautistify himself. I have met several professionally-diagnosed autistic people who are very outgoing and have a lot of friends because they put effort into learning how to interact with others.
you think a kiss will fix you?
that's what I thought
silly me
now I have oneitis and I'm scared of my next move
>>27770778
If they show no symptoms of autism then surely they don't have autism
Yet I was told there was no cure for autism?
>>27770801
They have autism and they show symptoms of autism but they are human beings with free will who are able to learn and to some extent control how they act. Autism has no cure but it is not a sentence to a life alone.
>>27767890
>It isn't fucking fair
D'awww, Timmy is throwing one of his tantrums again. So cute!
>>27770782
>you think a kiss will fix you?
>>27767890
Chad is in a relationship because he works out, eats well, studies, puts himself in social situations. He invites people out with him instead of waiting to be invited and crying about it on the internet. He also had the balls to ask a girl out and take her on a date. That is why he deserves it and you don't.
The absolute answer to every problem is not caring about it period
>>27768436
save it friend, it all yours
>>27767890
The world is deliberately showing you these things to try and piss you off and get a rise out of you. My advice is to not give a fuck and get drunk, turn the tables around, piss the world off.
>>27769119
>you don't realise how dangerous this trap is until you've climbed out if it.
How?
I feel like it's all I know.
I try to change, then feel like a wave of grief and despair hit me all at once and I crash into the depressive self pity state again.
>>27770940
If I did all that and still have no gf, does that mean I do or don't deserve a gf?
>>27770940
He was born and raised like that though, it's effortless for him, he doesn't even know anything different
We lost the lottery of life, that's the truth
>>27771105
deserving or not doesn't come into the picture
it just happens of not
its all up to mindless chance
this universe is mindless
If you're willing to convert to my denomination, get a good job, move with me off the grid, don't drink alcohol, smoke weed or any drug, become vegetarian, and abandon pornography, I will be your gf then wife.
>>27771141
You mean he was raised not to be lazy? There is nothing stopping you from doing any of those things besides laziness. It's much easier to whine on the internet then change something.
>>27771105
It's not a checklist of things that you complete and receive a gf in the mail. You keep doing it, keep improving, keep trying, and eventually you won't get shut down and a girl will say yes.
>>27771144
>>27771202
So just world fallacy. Got it.
>>27771176
So ultimately it's my parents fault for raising me this way?
>>27767890
you didn't ask to be a loser, but you didn't ask to be happy either. everyone else does and after a while fits in where they need to fit in to be happy.
you are scum who doesn't belong here. if you did, you'd be happy as a lonely idiot.
>>27771176
>lol just don't be lazy brah
t. guy who was raised well
Don't you think we know that already? This picture was made for white privilege but it applies here
>>27771218
its as much a fallacy as saying "if you put a bunch of letters together you can spell out words"
>>27771274
except you aren't racing against other white people, roastie. race against other ugly roasties for the things you can accomplish and life will be fine. get off of social media and stop comparing yourself to white people. they might not have serious problems but they race among themselves and have their own issues. you're not special anyway.
>>27771274
Some people have it easier than you so there is no point in trying to improve?
>>27771317
>>27771325
All I'm saying is we lost the lottery of life, I'm sick of people telling me it's all my fault when it clearly isn't
I do try to improve but to deny how difficult it is for people like me makes me fucking angry
>>27771231
No, it's just easier for you to blame them then do something about it. It's 100% your fault you are lazy.
>>27767927
I'm 5'2
How the fuck do I improve myself
>>27771286
But there are guys who don't do anything have words spelt out for them.
>>27771368
But why am I lazy?
What made me the way I am?
>>27769024
based self-improvement anon
>>27771368
Nah fuck this shit, fuck you
How you're raised has a huge fucking impact on how you are, fuck you for being an ignorant piece of shit
>>27770960
This is the best post in the entire thread.
>>27767890
this.
every day when i have to leave the flat.
i fucking hate spring and summer.
>you gotta put in effort, you have to have balls man. It worked for me
>>27767890
>does not throw boiling hot coffee on them
>does not take it out on single mom at home who is already on the verge of killing herself
You are a disgrace to this community.
Also you dont deserve to be happy because you are a piece of shit. You dont deserve anything, you have to work for it.
>>27771402
I don't know why you're lazy. Probably because no one forced you to work hard and build a work ethic when you were growing up. All i'm saying is you don't have to be.
>>27771358
Not denying that it's much more difficult for some people, just that it doesn't mean you shouldn't try.
>>27771423
You are incorrect. I was raised a lazy piece of shit with NO work ethic. my parents handed my loads of money every month that i pissed away, then they died when I was 18. I was sent out into the world alone with barely any money and no one to rely on. I had to learn to not be lazy and work hard or become homeless.
>>27771473
>you have to work for it.
Theres that phrase again.
>>27771487
>Randomly expects a nice live with loving individuals that care about you
>literally puts zero effort into achieving that
>literally puts zero effort into meeting others
>literally puts zero effort into self improvement
>there is that sentence again
GF:
>What are you doing around noon?
>I am not doing a thing around noon (Thinking were gonna hang)
>"Okay, let's meet up then? I just wanted to tell you something before I hang with Heather for the day is all.
>Like could I meet you at your house?
On a scale of 1-10, how humiliating is this breakup going to be for me?
This will be happening any moment now.
OP sometimes I truly think it's better to have never loved at all than loved and lost, all that corny shit. It's an incredibly terrible feeling to give yourself completely to someone, and have them walk out the door after multiple years.
Then 1 year of being alone later, this girl comes along and is fixing to leave me as well. It's not worth it, what's the point
>>27771358
practically nobody wins the lottery. even the type of dude who you think does all that shit "effortlessly" probably struggles over the quality of his relationships or his career unless he was a fucking machine as a kid. i wouldn't deny that it's difficult for you or Chad in general, but i would deny that it's difficult to make positive changes in your life. the difference between a single man and someone in a relationship is literally just a question. if it means so much to you then you won't be lazy about asking that question or learning how to in the first place.
>>27771385
yeah and ninja turtles protect us from master shredder
>>27771485
So again, it's my parents or whoever raised me, fault.
I don't have to be, but I am because of the way I was raised.
Why does change seem impossible even when I try and force myself to change?
Why does it feel uncomfortable even though I want it?
Why do I find no solace in change but instead feel so empty inside even after said change?
Why do I ultimately always revert back to my self-loathing self?
>>27771508
>People caring about you is random variables now
>implying most people don't have people care about them growing up
>implying most people aren't just clashed into friendships at a young age and grow social skills growing up
>implying lonely people are not lonely because they are the deviation from said notions
>>27771544
Sure it may be they're fault for rasing you like that, ill give ya that, but I refuse to believe you are unable to get off the computer to go to the gym for 40 minutes a week. Yea it's uncomfortable and shitty and hard. It's like that for normies too, but god damn you feel good about yourself when you're done. It's worth it.
>>27771519
>yeah and ninja turtles protect us from master shredder
I'll wait for a an actual response.
>>27771604
I go to the gym 5 days a week for an hour before work and during my off days.
Hasn't changed anything.
>>27771544
if its the way you are raised then why are you unhappy or uncomfortable or feel guilty about anything? you were RAISED that way so you should be that way what the fuck are you even saying???
>change seem impossible
you don't want it
>i want it
you are either bored or you're doing it for someone else
>no solace
you don't want it
>revert back
you don't want it
now you can feel guilty about not giving a shit about improving your life, but you're owning up to your shitty decisions and at least you'll have clarity. you just can't fucking have it both ways, blaming other people for what you do now while saying you also feel shitty about the life you have. i think you were raised better or had better examples around you and you fucking failed.
>decide to take a walk outside for once
>huge groups of Indians prattling to eachother in Punjabi or some shit
>Mexican dudes and their sons
>Muslim women in full hijab
>maybe one or two white looking women in their 40s jogging, even they look mixed, maybe Asian
>absolutely zero white people under the age of 40
>lot of ambient chatter and yelling, almost 0% of it in English
this is why i dont go outside except for work
>>27771519
>practically nobody wins the lottery.
Now I know not to take you seriously.
>>27771579
No, you actually have to invest time and effort into social relationships.
Other people have friends because they do make the investment and sacrifice needed to maintain a friendship.
Granted, some have it easy. Simply remaining within a relatively small core group of friends they have associated for as long as they can remember. Afraid to leave the friendbubble and face reality.
Even then. You dont have this luxury. So the only solution is to try hard to make new friends.
(you will never truely make friends and be alone forever, but at least you tried)
(having friends suck, other people are terrible and only out to ruin your entire existence. Avoid when possible.)
>>27771629
The same point stands for going out and being social. It's gonna be awkward and shitty but you can learn to go out and talk to people and fake being a social person in order to get laid if that's your goal.
>>27767890
literally elliot
>>27771668
>what is a lottery
Some of these responses are pretty damn funny. Has /r9k/ finally turned a corner? All this motivation & push for personal improvement instead of encouraging wallowing in misery? bravo gents.
but yeah i agree with the others. today is the start of a better you, OP. first step is to get off the internet though and stop feeling sorry for yourself. good luck!
>go in the park
>can visibly see how people avoid you taking slight detour around you
>always sit alone on a bench even if it was partially occupied at the start
Maybe they are in awe of my presence and fear my power.
Yeah. That must be it.
>>27771629
>I go to the gym 5 days a week for an hour before work and during my off days.
oh the lies we tell ourselves, OP.
to all the normies giving advice, how to escape feeling afraid of a relationship, because it might not go well?
help me I'm going to kiss this girl again and she keeps calling me cute things and I don't know what to do, I mean, I like her but I don't want to cry again
>>27771719
people can only hear so much "bla bla you're a loser :)))" before they kill themselves or hit rock bottom and start climbing again.
also most of the jokesters who pretend to be l-l-l-l-l-lonely v-v-v-v-virgins who h-h-hate roasties are asleep or watching sports right now.
>>27771647
wow a bunch of people didn't speak your language of choice what a heartbreaking drama indeed
>>27771636
I've pretty much lived my entire life alone, in my room with no friends because of overbearing parents. While other kids were out, growing up and making mistakes and living life, I was in my room watching anime, playing video games and masturbating.
I feel as If I know nothing else in life. Everything feels robotic and I just feel empty inside, especially when I go outside.
I can't even fully feel my emotions anymore.
My head feels hazy all the time and my chest hurts.
Sorry for blogging, I've just been feeling worse lately and need to let this out...
>>27771719
>encouraging wallowing in misery?
I'd rather read a discussion than a circlejerk
>>27771763
>how to escape feeling afraid of a relationship, because it might not go well?
you cannot be afraid of failure. nothing ventured nothing gained. gotta be willing to put yourself out there and potentially get hurt.
keep focusing on improving yourself. a girl won't complete you. think of women as a complement to all the other great things you have going in your life, not as the thing that defines you. that is approaching from a point of weakness & neediness if you go that route, and girls can sniff that out in no time & you'll definitely be dumped (self-fulfilling prophecy of what you feared most)
>>27771689
I don't even know what my goal is anymore. I feel nothing when talking to people. I'm just filled with angst most of time.
>>27771752
I'm not lying, but I would appreciate a response.
>>27771800
Same fate anon but i'm also neet.
There's no escape but pic related. I am convinced.
>>27771763
do things go well when you're not in a relationship?
find a hobby or job that will become your anchor in life until you truly start trusting somebody to support and care for you. everyone is scared in a relationship for the first 2-5 years. its a risk but you can always look at it in terms of the value you got out of it compared to the relatively small amount of time you have to suffer from the breakup.
>>27771800
not the guy you are talking to but i lived almost the same as your life, with the exception of a few people that i thought were my friends, in the end they were with me only because i was sharing drugs and stuff with them and they were only using me as an autistic amusement, now i never go out or do anything but drink and suffer from various health issues at 26, there is no hope for me senpai
>>27771837
no things were never well in my life
I'm just afraid of her giving me hope only to have it taken away from me again
I had oneitis before, it hurts
>>27771822
Well that is just shitty. No advice can change that. Life sucks. I guess just keep trying and looking for anything that can bring ya some fucking joy. There's gotta be something I mean it's that or kill yourself but you might as well not waste the one blip of consciousness you will likely get in an infinite universe.
>>27771818
>gotta be willing to put yourself out there and potentially get hurt.
This is the truth. You can't slide through life without getting a few bruises. Everyone eats shit once in awhile.
former robot who ascended into a normie here.
>meet a girl
>date her
>often get into arguments because I hate public demonstration of affection and consider the lovey-dovey shit to be something private that people should to at home
>never even held her hand outside
Tbh I think that deep down she likes it and it makes my signs of affection more valuable to her
>>27771822
>I'm not lying, but I would appreciate a response.
saying that your gym routine has changed nothing is ludicrous if you are indeed sticking to a 5 day workout schedule
now at least you can look in the mirror and like the person you see. workouts are a big stress reliever too, and good for mental health (which clearly you need). moreover you should be sleeping better with a steady workout program.
to say that your workout routine has changed nothing either means that (1) you're lying or (2) your workouts aren't having the desired impact on you physically, which either means you're half-assing them or not eating properly
i was in your shoes about 3 years ago, and establishing a steady workout program was the one major change i've made that increased my happiness long-term.
>>27771763
Accept that you will probably fuck up and let it happen. The earlier you get the social fuck ups out of the way, the quicker you learn from them and get better at it.
>>27771375
just B Urself, man. ;-)
>>27771800
are you allowed to go outside and make mistakes now?
you can feel hazy and retarded and empty and whatever but that wouldn't physically stop you from taking up classes, going to events/therapy, and working on your social skills. if you were "raised" to value being alone to blog on 4chan over everything else, then accept who you are and stop comparing yourself to people from a completely different background. clearly those things would make you feel worse. there are just as many unhealthy fucks who do have everything you wish for and they are miserable and want a simpler life. the difference you can make (if being hazy is your biggest issue) is to sleep, eat, and exercise better. the social shit might not be for you. if you wanted it, there wouldn't be an excuse that you get so emotional about, you'd fucking go and fail a million times to get it.
theres a point where you just think too fucking much about meaningless shit. take one hour out of your day to dabble in something new. every fucking day. there's literally no sacrifice there, especially if you already feel nothing. the only way to find out who you are is to live it.
>>27771893
Anon, I've been sticking to this routine for 2 years. I could like my physical appearance all I want. And it might have been nice to see a change in the beginning, but it still doesn't fill whatever void in my life.
It's like watching a real good movie. The first time is nice, but you already know what's gonna happen when you watch it the second time.
The only reason why I even go to the gym is because I have nothing else to do aside from the internet. And the internet is very depressing.
>>27771375
My buddy is roughly your height and has fucked more girls than me. Follow the same advice I have given everyone else in this thread. Try
>>27771901
yeah, I guess you guys are right, I can't retreat because it will fuckup, only thing I can do is try to make it right
This girl took my kv and replaced my former oneitis, so that's probably why I'm so scared
>>27771856
why would you have hope if you are scared it will fail? you're just fantasizing right now without any logical thinking involved. the fuck does it matter if it hurts when you're saying being alone sucks anyway? like i said have something else be the thing you invest the most in, and don't be a fucking desperate clown about the girls. take control of your life senpai. if you find that girls just use you, lower your fucking standards.
>>27771963
I cucked myself with the girl of my fucking dreams when I was in highschool. I don't even know why she liked me but she did, literaly 10/10 imo and so cool, was down to fuck and lose our virginitys together. I bitched out and cut it off and still dwell on it to this day. Even though I have fucked other girls since. I will never get one like her again. Don't fucking bitch out you will regret it forever.
>>27767929
pretty much this
the only thing noteworthy that happened while being outside on my own was this one time when i was waiting for the bus this girl sat next to me and started talking to me but i spaghettied everywhere
this other time i was riding the bus and this girl was sitting next to me chatting with her friend on the phone that they should go somewhere she doesn't wanna go home, i was thinking to myself the whole time "for the love of god please take me with you, i don't wanna go home either"
>>27771947
>2016
>"i have nothing else to do" :(
what are you 10 years old?
>>27771888
>>meet a girl
how did that happen?
>>27772002
at first I only wanted to try how kissing and those intimate things felt like (I was kv as I said before)
but I think she likes me, and I like her too
>>27771947
great so at least you have a workout program then. and you stick with it and eat healthy right?
then the next step is to get a job. if you spend all week on the internet, clearly you dont have much else going on in your life. so make something of your abundance of free time.
at least that will get you off the internet and get you socializing with people in a work setting. you'd be surprised how having a job can boost other life skills (e.g. small talk) too.
good luck bud!
>>27772063
the guy that she likes supposedly, is it who you are or is it some act you put on as a compromise?
>>27772016
>"for the love of god please take me with you, i don't wanna go home either"
bwahahahaa, i was feelin you up until that part, now i think you are a huge faggot bitch
>>27772097
it's how I act overall
it's just me when I'm not at home hearing music and jerking off
no facade here
>>27772111
well then suck my dick you double faggot bitch
>>27767927
Shut the fuck up, nobody chooses to be at a disadvantage. Although what you say is true, the act of improving yourself is a monumental task that seems damn near impossible, especially if you are depressed like many robots are. It's hard to change what comes naturally to you. It's hard to put yourself out there when you don't want to. But it sure as fuck doesn't help when you post a comment like this.
>t. Cyborg
>>27767927
Yeah, OP is morally deficient. That explains why good people like wifebeaters, drug addicts, and serial adulterers can find partners and shitty people like OP can't.
>>27772149
cry harder little bitch
>>27772197
i will bitch
fuck you
>>27772078
not him but I have a job and go to uni, everyone sees right through me. I appreciate your support, but everyone experiences their lives differently and there's no way to tell someone will see success from doing the same thing you did.
>>27772131
then i don't get how there's any time for you to feel scared here. the more time you spend with her and have real conversations, the more you will know how she feels. if you're the dude in the relationship you should be the one guiding it and there will never in your life be surprises.
i would understand if you're a poor cuck who dates sluts and has to give up money and free time to be with them and you always get kicked to the curb. there's some problem there. but you're literally worried because of memes and having a oneitis in the past. if she likes you and you get into the relationship, it will be in your hands as much as in hers. if she tries to distance herself you figure out how you can pull it back in or reevaluate or whatever. if you're not even in a relationship then there is nothing to be scared of. you do your best but life goes on. don't let yourself be abused.
>>27772286
I'm kinda holding on, I've kissed her before actually texting her and I just don't want her to think I'm clingy
But when I texted her yesterday she liked it and called me cute things, she seemed really happy
Now idk if I should give some time to her cravings or just keep texting her to see if it'll take us somewhere
we're going to make out tomorrow anyway
Even after you 'improve' yourself, you can't forget your past.
>"anon, tell me about your past relationships"
>"How many gfs did you have?"
>"How come I never hear about your childhood?"
Once a robot, always a robot. Also these faggots giving the normie advice obviously don't get it. You can't escape your inevitable future. You were destined to be here, as a Robot.
>>27772332
Don't text, my man. Women "love" attention but hate guys that give it to them. Texting is a losing game. Use it for logistics only, ie asking out on date.
>>27767890
>go check out some vests at the sports shop with my mom
>walk back to the car after
>two girls walk past us and one looks at me
>notice, look at her, thinking "whatever"
>resume walking with my mom
>>27772382
/thread
Even if you lie about your past, you will slip up once and get busted. If you tell the truth, she will be disgusted that she's with a robot, and wil drop you immediately.
>>27772408
yeah I really don't like texting too much
but idk if there's really a way of losing yet
she's younger than me too
I'm just going to get her again and then try dating
>>27772332
idk ive gone both ways. i stopped giving a shit altogether except for how making out felt and lost a girlfriend practically overnight. i also tried being too into it and drove a girl away.
if my experience means anything overall, i'd say you have to make her believe that you listen to just about everything she says. if you're a good listener then she won't just toss you aside but of course she might still try to give up on the relationship. beyond that, there is nothing you can do to control how she feels for who you are, so there's no reason to cry about it especially when things are going better than if you were alone. girls like self assurance and a dude who is constantly growing, but i'm looking at it from your pessimism and saying so fucking what? you'll have a story, some good experiences, and plenty of new opportunities.
>>27772491
thank you
she's younger than me but nothing out of the norm
>>27772430
I'm a Normie with a severely fucked up past/childhood. Who cares? If she is that judgemental about your past then she's a cunt anyway
>>27772430
girls love redemption/underdog stories. if she finds out you were a fucking asshole misogynist who posted child porn on the internet maybe there's an issue, but just being a pathetic loser is something you can be very open about if you turned into protochad
>>27772542
Yup "be yourself" gets a lot of deserved flak. But in this case you be the person you are NOW, not the person you were. Keep walking on the path that goes forward, not just staying depressed over the past.
>>27767927
this applys to everyone except autists/the mentally ill
>>27767890
started to worl at a gas station store
job is annoying (it's diffrent then gas stations stores at america.
>first day at job I work with a girl and I have a nice time with her.
>she is not work hard and Arranges the store so this is why I had nice time because I was mostly in the register with her.
>next day I work with arab so I have nothing in common plus extra work
>the day after I work with annoying and stupid girl plus extra work and her bf is somekind of manger in the store so even more work.
>realize all the qt's girl don't work much and allready have almost the same partners they work with.
>there are qt twins girls at senior high school age but they allways work together and only once a week
>there is one more girl but she allways work with the shift mannger
so I left to work with the arabs and that annoying girl.(that the shift that I got for next week)
also the girl that I had nice time to work with only work 2 days a week and with others.
also work have a lot of things I don't like.
>quit job after 3 days
>thinking about me and that girl, about what I missed.
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>>27771171
Sounds good to me. Can I still play vidya?
