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how do I get confidence bros
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how do I get confidence bros
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just be yourself bro

broblox
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>>27728816
I feel confident whenever i get a fresh haircut but thats jest me
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>>27728816
Adderall, not even fucking with you bro. 30mg of adderall xr
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>>27728816
crippling existential depression actually improved my social anxiety

i'm even less likeable now but whatever, i don't care as much
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>>27728816
Detach. Stop caring. Acknowledge the possible consequences of an action,
and then spit in the face of said consequences. Lack of confidence stems from fear, foremost fear of failure. Once you stop becoming afraid of the fail state
you stop having a reason not to do things.
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>>27728816
bullshark testosterone injection in balls
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>>27730287
> just stop caring bro
gimme a break u tard. lack of confidence/anxiety is probably chemical and likely only changes over years or with drugs
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>>27730578
or with food

or bullshark testosterone injection

or new stimuli, experience etc

or cancer
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>>27730578
It's like you stopped reading after two words.
Anxiety stops when you stop it you lazy sack of shit.
No pill will save you. You won't just randomly grow out of it.
You need to make a conscious, concerted effort to change
your actions and disposition.

>Acknowledge the possible consequences of an action
This is your tool.

Lets say for example, you are scared to go to the mall.
You want to go to the mall to buy a shirt, but are afraid
people will judge you as you walk around.

If you decide to go to the mall, you may be silently judged.
If you are silently judged, literally nothing is different from
if you went to the mall and were ignored, because judgement
does nothing to you. If you pussy out, you will not get the
shirt and it will compound your confidence issue.

Now try to apply this to a real situation in your life.
This example may be weak or make no sense, but I am very drunk.
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>>27728816
get mad
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>>27730829
tldr
> trying this hard
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>>27730578

Is there some pill that completely kills all emotions?
I just want to become a brain with a body. I want the pain and loneliness to go away. I can't take it anymore. It's been a decade now and there's long way to go to old age. I can't.
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>>27728816
>be me
>pretend to be confident
>people think I am actually confident
>gain confidence because of this
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>>27728816
listen to fast music when you talk to people
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>>27732099

That works if you aren't shy and passive.
How do you fix those two?
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Misogyny, racism, and general misanthropy. These are the keys to success.
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>>27732257
Yeah, just take a look at this place, it reeks of success
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>>27732223
The fake confidence will. You just gotta force yourself to do shit. (BTW i'm a diff dude but it worked for me too)
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>>27728816
Alcohol. They don't call it liquid courage for nothing.
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>>27732073
tell ur doctor you've got depression. he'll prescribe you zoloft or some other SSRI and that'll make you feel pretty numb
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