>Stop watching porn/jerking off
>Start eating right, drinking plenty of water, getting the right amount of sleep and working out
>Find a profession to become successful in and go for it
If you do all of this you are guaranteed to get a girlfriend. Also, if you give yourself a purpose in life like a higher goal that isn't about getting into a relationship or simply getting laid you'd be feel better. The true man should have pursuits other than seeking companionship/sex and when the right girl comes along she'll be attracted to you for being fulfilled, not for being a "cool pick up artist".
>>27684907
you're full of shit
you're so full of shit that your shit is full of shit
>>27684931
You refuse to accept this because you're too lazy to do any of this, face it.
>>27684964
No, I refuse to accept it because I did it and it didn't work.
These self improvement threads are all shit, because once you finally complete everything it tells you to do, you're no better off than you were before, and now there's no comforting lie that things can get better.
>>27685004
You're being too vague, detail how you reached this point. I want to know.
>>27685004
you need to stop having your social skills cucked by your internet addiction my dude
>>27684907
If I did all that and then got a gf then I would resent her. She hasn't earned me. Why does she deserve to share everything I would have worked hard to attain?
Some people are going to be losers, for reasons entirely out of their control. There's no avoiding it. Why is it so hard for you to grasp this concept?
Goddamn turboshit normies, your idiotic platitudes are a diamond dozen here.
>>27685004
Yeah. It never gets better. Never. Does that mean I have to be a sack of shit? No. If you wear the skin of a human being, act like one motherfucker.
>>27685076
You could always be alone if you like, my post is for people who want to accomplish things in life and get a gf.
>>27685092
>normie
right, let's go with that
>>27685092
>diamond dozen
kek
>>27685110
Even if that guy couldn't manage to get a gf and he did all those other things right then he'd still be a successful, fit and healthy dude.
>>27684907
Nope.
I'm 2 out of 3 working a shity night job and getting in shape to go chair force. I have zero friends to hang out with and meet people through and the loneliness is eating me alive.
You neglected step zero senpai. Don't be a friendless loser.
>stop watching porn/jerking off
You don't understand how far my addiction goes
>>27685206
>letting the loneliness get to you
That's the problem, a guy who can deal with loneliness and work his way up is the guy who's gonna be enjoying life later on when he's actually achieved something. The tougher you are the more you're willing to keep your eyes on the prize. Most people on here just aren't strong enough for that and come here to complain instead of doing something about it.
>>Find a profession to become successful in and go for it
this one is fucking bullshit
>>27685247
I understand because it took me two years to quit for good (three months without a single fap so far). You'll have to give up 4chan first and foremost and never look up porn. I only came here to post this thread since I've improved significantly since then.
>>27685277
You're the kind of guy who's never gonna get high up in anything. My proof? Your post. Never ever has there been an accomplished person who thought like you so either change your way of thinking or stay in your shit forever. Sorry man but that's the fucking truth.
>>27685277
it's not necessary, but if you can work a job that isn't hard for you and pays well then it's worth doing for a few years. Having money is nice and makes a lot of things easier. living in a house with no money sucks, if you don't have a job then just wander; it's more fun
>>27685004
>Being healthy and wealthy is no better than being sick and poor
ok
>>27684907
>become a boring fucking normalfag
lol, no thanks
>>27685264
It's shakey senpai. Real shakey.
When I'm not at work or running I have to glue myself to videogames or I actually start feeling bad. Really bad. The first suicidal thought in a long time crossed my mind the other day and I can't tell if I was joking or not.
On the other hand I'm like half done and I started in Feb so I can most likely sign up before August. That time will fly by.
I just wish some asshole from highschool would call me. Anybody. I'll hang out with the fucking JW vegetarian kid for Christ's sake.
>>27685447
k, this post ain't for you special snowflake.
>>27685477
Once you get used to the loneliness it serves as your motivator for making something of yourself.
>>27685480
enjoy your meager wages, unexciting sex life with your used up 'gf', and your overall depressing normalfaggot lifestyle
I will be over here with my three hour fap sessions and eroge, composing symphonies and writing masterpieces.
>>27685636
>composing symphonies and writing masterpieces
Post proof, fagboy.
>>27685636
>three hour fap sessions
enjoy urinary incontinence you retarded sissy faggot
>>27685636
Did you even read my post? I never said get a job. I said make it high up in a profession, as in be a rich fucker. Also, a top tier man can get a virgin girl if he likes. Meanwhile you'll just be masturbating in a corner.
>>27684907
None of them will be virgins by then.
Virgin or bust, shouldn't be too much to ask.
I'm honestly considering being a virgin for the rest of my life, taking a stand.
>>27684907
Partially true, but the aspect you and most people on this board missed is
You have to actually ask them. Women almost never pursue. They've been conditioned to think they shouldn't. Note I didnt say shouldnt have to, because that's how robots think, girls are told and shown by example that it's un-feminine/undesirable or weird for them to chase a guy.
I don't want to detract from my main point here too much, but really, most of you are fairly normal. You need to stumble and fail a bunch of times and it's going to hurt, but I think most of you fear rejection and/or women to the point of it being a psychological block. Then you finally work up the courage to try, but you have no skill in the area and you blow it and you convince yourself that something is fundamentally wrong with you instead of acknowledging that people don't just wake up able to run a 5 minute mile after sitting on the couch for years.
You will have to fail, but if you give up immediately each time you do, you're digging a depper hole. Get some friends, if you have a shyt day and you get rejected because your autism kicked in, don't resign to defeat. Go relax, load off the stress, and try and talk it out with someone. You probably did something that is obvious from the outside, like waiting an entire semester for the perfect opportunity to ask out a girl who lost interst months ago and now thinks youre weird for doing it all of a sudden
To those of you who are genuinely ugly or have a real disorder, I'm sorry you got a shit hand. The world is going to be unfair to you and it's going to treat you badly, you can hate the world or you can work harder to make your lot in life better.
>>27684907
>cs degree with 3.6gpa, minor in japanese with 3.9gpa
>sleep 7-10 hours everyday
>run 30min 3 days a week, lift weights other 3 days a week
>drink copious amounts of tea
>150g+ protein, carbs and fats I don't count (eat around 2500 calories a day; 200 of which are from sweets)
>fap only once a day
>white
>24yo
>no acne, freckles or noticeable scars
>blue eyes, straight white teeth, no neckbeard
>6 pack, bicep veins, 6' 3", 180 lbs, chiseled back
>probably a 5-7/10 in overall appearance
>been like this for the last 6 years
>no gf ever
>no friends
>virgin
>no job
>live with grandparent (going to get kicked out soon)
It doesn't get any better OP. Looks and intelligence is a good tool, but without social skills and proper mind its all useless. I have the goals, I have the motivation, but I can't do them. I'm going to die alone, probably soon.