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How do I make friends? I'm a 23 year old with a pretty
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How do I make friends?

I'm a 23 year old with a pretty good job but I just spend all of my time inside at my computer.

It's killing me.
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This hit pretty close to home my friend.
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get involved with something that isnt directly about making friends, like a hobby or something
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>>27675624

At least we're not alone... even though we are.

>>27675638

All of my hobbies involve being at a computer. I'm not an outgoing person at all.
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>>27675616
Don't you talk/socialize to your co-workers or something?
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>>27675738

There's only 2 my age and they're not the kind of people I want as friends.
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>>27675756
What about those not around your age?
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>>27675826

They're married with kids.
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>>27675832
Maybe your best option is to just make online friends since you're always in front of your computer. Or if you rly want real life friends, you gotta stop being anti-social and go out sometimes.
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>>27676091

I have very few online friends. I used to be part of an online community but the drama turned me away.

Now I'm just a lone wanderer, both IRL and online.

I'm not against more online friends, I just don't know where to find them.
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See you in another life, brothers.
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>>27675832
I'm a old fag married with kids, whats wrong with having a friend who is older?
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>>27676444
Trips, how you going to suicide
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>>27676470

I have no idea how to connect with them. They all seem like normal people.
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>>27676479

Dunno, what's the easiest way?
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>>27676091
>anti-social
You mean asocial you dumb cunt
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>>27675616
>>27675624
Where do you guys live? There's a way to socialize with people in real life that can let you speak with strangers that you get along with.
I am into visual novels so I don't exactly have many friends into Chinese porn slide shows.
I went to a local anime convention. There was multiple people hosting VN panels. I went to them and asked for the contact information of people who liked the same stuff as I did. Now I have online friends I see once a year at the convention
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>>27676540
>talking to strangers in public
I'm not falling for that one again. Last time I tried that I spend the night in jail.
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>go to bar
>go to smoking area
>walk up to somoen/small group and ask for a lighter

Thats probably how it works but im no expert on these things.
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>>27676618

I don't smoke though
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>>27676618
And then what? Do you really think I'm capable of conversation?
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>>27676583
I don't think it's quite the same when it's a person dressed up as s fictional soldier and spent the last 45 minutes talking about mechs and waifus
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>>27676618
>>27676657
he forgot one step
>drink alcohol
but don't go to a bar alone that's just weird
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>>27676482
Idk m8 I'm x military and can get along with people of all ages, just bs with them or talk about shit its pretty easy
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>>27676583
Story time , famalan
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>>27676647
neither do i but as far as i understand its an acceptable way to approach strangers.
>>27676657
I dont know. I'd just put it down to it being the worng person you are talking to if it doesnt go well.
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In this thread, normies giving "just bee confident" advice
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>>27676683
>don't go to a bar alone that's just weird
why is that weird

it's an open establishment

people go there to drink and maybe meet people

there's no 'no singles' policy
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>>27676782
He's right only an autistic loser would resort to drinking alone.

I do it all the time, but I've never made friends or had a proper conversation
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>>27676760
>makes thread about how become a normie
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>>27676782
you don't make friends at bars, mate
you go there with friends
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