You win /r9k/, I'm officially one of you
>girl messages me out of nowhere
>talking for over 6 months
>get really close
>stay up almost all night talking
>she's never had a bf, still virgin
>closer with me than anyone else
>talk about each others' deepest problems
>even gives me cute nicknames and send the occasional "x"
>she's always kind and doesn't cut me off no matter how much I sperg out
>finally get over fears and make a move
>cop this
what do guys
this is fucking me up bad
>>27671206
>6 months
There's your problem. I think if you don't make a move within a month you're a cuck, and that's generous.
>>27671206
It took you six months to make a move wtf do you expect.
shes probably an attention seeking valdition thirsty typical insecure little girl
that or you missed all the hints that she thinks your only a friend to her
if she genuinely didnt give any hints that your just friends then shes probably the first one
>>27671206
She seems like she's handled that perfectly though to be honest family
What didbyou say to her?
canbyou play it off as "omg I can't believe you took it like that! Sorry if you got the wrong idea"
>>27671206
Women are evil. They must be beaten into submission. She knew she was leading you on.
>>27671228
also this, if you didnt show any attraction or any sexual interest for this long then she has no reason to think your more than friends
>what do guys
Never talk to her again. Is it your first day here?
>>27671214
>>27671228
These
>>27671206
>what do guys
Cut all contact, because eventually she'll start fucking someone and it will become a distinctly one-sided friendship (if knowing her boyfriend gets to pound that relentlessly wasn't bad enough)
>>27671206
>6 months
You were her beta orbiter. Her emotional tampon.
>>27671240
I told her i was just curious as to whether she would think of me like that or wouldnt
probably didnt work desu
>>27671214
>>27671228
but she stuck with me the whole time
i dont get it
she didnt even look to anyone else during that time
>normies posting normie problems
Go away failed normie.
>>27671236
I know :^(
makes it that much worse cause now i can't even hate her to get away
>>27671286
You were talking with a tranny
Now fuck off failed normie faggot.
>>27671278
>Go away failed normie.
but this is the first person to care robot
im still an autistic KV
>>27671273
She was attracted to you, you made it known you were too beta to do anything besides let her dump her emotions on you and be validated, she is no longer attracted to you and sees you as a friend, because you continued to talk to her for six fucking months.
You fucked this up dude. Learn from your mistakes
>>27671296
>has female friends
Fuck off failed normie
>>27671342
i didnt know she existed before she messaged me
pls this is my only home
>>27671320
but its not my fault anon
i have paranoid schizophrenia and cant care about anything for the life of me.
until i met her that is, and shes the only person i've told and she was really kind and supportive about it
im only realising i liked her now is there any way at all i could redeem, and how do i know she was ever attracted at all
>>27671206
>>she's never had a bf, still virgin
and you believe this because?
she said so?
>>27671369
Her message says that she doesn't see you as anything more than a friend. So you should probably take her words over anything a random on a chinese cartoon forum will say.
It sucks but that's life. Next time a girl messages you out of the blue, realise that it's a 90% chance she thinks you're cute.
>>27671414
but i dont understand
if she thought i was cute and now we're closer than ever and trust and care about each other, why would that mean she STOPPED seeing me as a love interest? like seriously what the fuck i dont get it
>>27671278
This is a classic robot problem.
What the actual fuck is wrong with /r9k/ these days, Jesus Christ. 4 years ago this would've been a normal thread but now everyone, no just the minority, is concerned with these stupid identity politics of "who is" and "who isn't".
>>27671434
She thinks you are beta now. That's why she isn't attracted to you.
>>27671469
>She thinks you are beta now
but only recently she started being even nicer saying things like "youre pretty cool" etc
I DONT GET IT MANE
>>27671434
Happened to me before. It made perfect sense for us to be together, for some reason she didn't want to. It's happened to many others too. Maybe they were never attracted to us. Maybe we "didn't make a move" when we were supposed to and that made us lose points somehow. She won't change her mind, by the way. Don't stick around if you're still holding on to that idea, you'll just feel worse later.
>>27671465
Not just the minority*
>>27671492
Shes being a good friend...
Look, she already told you she's not intere sted. You can push it if you want, but my advice is don't. There's nothing more to be said. You just want to be told you have a chance when all the info you've given points to a big fat NO
translation
>i was wondering how would you react if i flirt with you
>i really dont give a shit about you, im just bored
>im not sorry at all though, its fun to see how much power i have over ppl
>>27671532
>>27671505
;_;
thanks robots
i guess
>>27671434
they dont like cute
they like daddy, daddy is not cute
they dont like knowing their love interest, mystery gets pussies wet
remember kids
womenfolk cannot be trusted
>>27671206
>>she's never had a bf, still virgin
You don't need a bf to give blowjobs and handjobs or to have anal sex.
Men are fuckoff stupid and wonder why women "trick" them.
I dunno, if a girl's really into you, she'll wait at least a year, if not more. I had a girl who was really into me and when I finally worked up the courage to ask her out six months later she started crying and thought she never had a chance and hugged me.
>>27671593
>wanting a stupid spineless bitch
Can't wait til she's too spineless to say no to fucking other guys.
>>27671549
i got the same treatment from a girl when i was 18. i loved her but she didnt think of me that way. she was nice about it so we stayed friends.
and then she got a boyfriend and i my heart got fucking smashed. i should have just left when she rejected me but no, i had to stay to watch her with another guy.
>>27671602
This was seven years ago mate, I broke up with her six years ago and haven't had a girlfriend since.
>>27671206
you are a beta. the more you wonder why you wish to please girls, the sooner it will end
Reminder that Gilmore Girls is redpilled on women and betas.
>>27671214
>>27671228
I really dont know how dudes can last 6 months without making a move.
Im as awful as the next robot, and even I let carnal desires get the better of me making lewd comments within a week.
>>27671434
women view friends as a separate category from guys they date
it would seem the logical progression would be acquaintance > friend > dating > bf/gf
but that just isnt reality because women are dumb
>>27671616
>literally far left but without being fat
oh God why
>>27671206
Rekt OP.
You got cucked. Took way too long and where too much of a fag so she put you in the friend zone.
Now YOU WILL NEVER EVER BE MORE THAN A FRIEND TO HER.
You got game over.
Move on to the next girl now, The more you hang around this one the more time you'll waste because you're still trying to put quarters in even though the game has locked you out.
Learn from this mistake and try not to fuck up as much with the next girl.
>>27671214
This.
Women decide VERY early on if they want to pursue a relationship or friendship.
Pic related explains your situation very well.
>>27671770
she was so perfect tho anons :^(
>>27671434
Because now she sees all your negative traits and doesn't want to take them on full time.
You make a move early, then start spilling your soul. If you're already in a relationship she'd be more receptive of dealing with whatever potential issues you're dealing with. But as "just friends" she can vent to you her issues will shrugging yours off.
>>27671206
shes not into you
sorry brah, women are manipulative and retarded
>>27671434
Just want to let you know I'm in the EXACT same situation.
Told a girl I fancied her for the first time in my life and we've been talking for months since then. We're closer than ever, she's talked about her failed past relationships, I've talked about how I've never trusted anyone enough to love them. She said I'm not like any guy she's ever met, and I've made her realise she's been with the wrong people her whole life. I thought she was going to change my life, so I finally asked if we should do something.
She never replied and it turned out she was talking with other guys the entire time.
I don't understand....I thought the beta/chad thing was some meme
>>27673347
>I thought the beta/chad thing was some meme
looks like life is just a meme robot
>I've never trusted anyone enough to love them
i said the same to her and she said she was in the same boat
to no avail
i think im just gonna turn into a living meme diogenes style til i die
best of luck from a fellow anon :^) nice to know the whole world isnt insane
>>27673347
Call her a whore
when she replies, simply write "whore".
when she replies again, do not reply in 1 week
I guarantee she will contact you again
>>27673424
This desu rape her and she we realize her feelings for you.
>>27673396
Good luck to you too dude, have you spent a day or two laying in bed crushed as well? Having hope was basically what was keeping me happy, it feels like I'm being weak by giving up but I know it's what I need to do.
>>27673424
I already stopped talking to her when she first told me she was seeing other guys, and you're right she did start messaging me again. It's what gave me the confidence to actually ask her out...
I can't call her a whore, she technically hasn't done anything wrong.
>>27673843
yeah just been laying here trying to watch movies n shit but lose focus
starting to go away so i guess i might be near the clear if she doesnt pull anything before then
>>27673843
Block her, you sound weak. Have we taught you nothing?
Sorry to say but it's done dude. If you're anything like me though you'll ignore that, try to get repair things and make them even worse
>>27673901
>Have we taught you nothing?
you never believe the robot until you experience the meme for yourself
thats when your hope can finally die
>>27671206
>messages you out of nowhere
Messages you on what exactly OP? Normiebook or through OKC or PlentyOfFish? I know that the screenshot is from Facebook messenger but doesn't meant you met on that in the first place.
If she messaged you on a dating site you for sure fucked up pretty hard. Girls don't initiate conversation unless there is some attraction and you went and fucked it up by being an emotional tampon for 6 months.
Either continue to orbit her as her 'friend' and pursue other girls or cut her off before you move on to pursue other girls. Either way, focus your attention elsewhere because unless you become 10x more attractive or mega rich in the near future because this broad is a lost cause.
>>27673901
but what if she wants to talk to me again
>>27673993
normiebook :^)
pls no h8
>>27673995
depends if you wanna talk to her
if she's worth the risk sure but keep in mind if you trust her again and this repeats itll probably hurt 10 times over
>>27673995
Why the fuck would you want to talk to her? She led you on and hurt you. Blocking her makes sure you dont go back, you are weak and you will go back and hurt yourself more. I am just trying to lookout for a fellow robot anon, we are selling memes based in facts. Get well soon.
>>27671465
Yes. This is a normal thread. That's why we mad.
>>27671539
this every time.
oregano
>>27674058
he said its a classic robot problem
as in this happens to robots a lot
hence being normal on r9k
y u mad friendo?
WHY DO GIRLS DO THIS IT HAPPENS EVERY TIME JESUS CHRIST
actually there's no point in asking that. I know why they do it, why they want beta orbiters, but it fucking makes me rage
it's basically them saying "you entertain me so I'll take your company but I don't want your genes anywhere near my eggs"
>>27673843
while I'm here can you guys explain why she would 'hypothetically' ask me out? She knows I'm into her, so is she messing with me on or did she actually want to go out with me?
Did I mess up a chance by acting like a sperg?
>>27671539
get a clue, nobody actually cares about anybody. then we die and people pretend to be sad.
>>27674159
desu I'd be pretty sad if my best friend died m8
I'd have nothing left in life
anyone else dying would be fine though
>>27674148
TAKE IT TAKE IT RIGHT NOW BEFORE ITS TOO LATE FOR FUCK SAKE ITS DO OR DIE THIS IS YOUR CHANCE ROBOT
>>27674148
Holy shit anon where do you find these cunts?
>>27671261
/thread
o-oh wait, there's more...
>>27674148
>like "will you be my girlfriend please"
>she
r u lesbinim?
You waited too long you faglord.
Follow the 3 conversation rule.
>>27674226
>3 conversation rule
then how would you know if you liked her like that
>>27671273
Lmao you stupid motherfucker
She correctly interpreted your lack of sexual advances and emotional bonding as you being a low test beta cuck. She's absolutely right and will now go get split-roasted by the football team. Good job dude :^}
Please just stop, this is painful to watch.
Stop being her beta orbiter, beta provider, emotional tampon, beta doormat... I'll throw every arcanine buzzword at you until you stop.
Help me out here, lads
>>27674239
In all fairness it only takes me one conversation to decide I don't like a girl
>>27674195
That was a few days ago now, after we've been talking for 7 months, are you saying that was a sign she's still interested?
>>27674216
yeah I messed up, meant boy
>>27671342
I befriended a feminist. It goes pretty well except the one time I told her women can not be robots, she got mad... But w/e.
She lets me hate on women and all. Its pretty gud.
>>27674304
Meal ticket, mangina, incel, blue pilled, cuck.
>>27674332
DO IT DO IT NOW FOR FUCK SAKE IF YOU DONT TRY NOW YOU MIGHT NEVER WIN JUST TRUST ME DO IT YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE
>>27671206
>he thought a woman would make logical sense
EL
OH
EL
>>27671286
You don't have to hate her to get away.
Just end the friendship politely.
>>27674357
>blue pilled
nah i knew the whole deal with women from frequenting here and /pol/
thought one was different
boy was i wrong
>>27671206
1. push for it, come up with something witty its up to you what
2. if she refuses, remove all contact with her whatsoever. chances are high she'll come begging back to you. If she doesn't nothing of value was lost.
orbitting women like this literally reduces your testosteron levels. It makes you a cuck.
>>27674497
This but without step 1
Don't be an asshole, OP. Give up and leave.
>>27674359
I tried. My message was in the morning and she was online all day, so was obviously ignoring me.
We talked a little yesterday but she was taking hours to reply instead of the usual seconds. Then just completely didn't reply, which is the first time in months.
I don't understand.
>>27674531
Jesus christ just be straight forward
>>27671434
Women don't work like that. They love mystery. The kind of love which blossoms from a strong bond and only gets stronger over time as you learn more about the other person is (no matter what women might tell you) purely a male fantasy.
One of two things happened.
1. She knew you were interested in her but she didn't make a move because she's a woman and they're TERRIFIED of rejection. You didn't make a move and your weakness turned her off. She wanted a strong man to lead her and you didn't.
2. Women have so many options constantly bombarding them with attention that some other guy she was talking to made a move first.
She liked you initially but you didn't polarize early enough and she lost interest.
That's okay, pal. You've learnt something important. Don't mess it up next time.
>>27674531
>you continued to talk to her after that
god op apply yourself. couldnt have made it more obvious that youre the one who wants her and not the other way around
>>27671206
Ask if she has any single friends. Then cut contact
>>27674531
oo that dont look too good robot
if you want to, just go for it
right now
theres no use in wondering what couldve happened
too late is always the worst, so if you want her, do it now
>>27674239
By going on dates with her you retard. If you frame the relationship in a romantic sense from the start then at least you aren't going to be friendzoned
>>27674563
>god op apply yourself
im op thats not me m8
different bot
>>27674531
You're an exhausting awkward retard and she would be stupid to put up with your nonsense.
Try again with someone else once you have learned your lesson
>>27674017
its literally never worth it
>>27671206
Same thing happened to me but I made a move in the second week. She's now been my gf for 5 months
FeelsSoGoodman
>>27674623
I think I have. If I can overcome the pain of rejection after being into a girl for a year, being rejected after a week or 2 won't feel bad at all eventually.
It's knowing she must have been into me at one point that hurts me the most, I actually had the chance to change everything and failed.
>>27674647
>Same thing happened to me
>She's now been my gf for 5 months
what?
then its not the same thing you fucking normie
>>27671206
>he thought he wasn't one of us before
Serves you right, beta cuck.
