Is it true that the pendulum swings in favour of men when they reach their late 20s/30s? Ie you have the upper hand on girls, easier to fuck young sluts, you become more attractive, more respect.
>>27666461
Yes, but only if your younger self is working hard every day to attain wealth and power. Once you're a man, you'll amass a good amount of stuff so women, both older and younger, will be more attracted to you then they were when you were younger.
> it gets better later
>>27666507
>Yes, but only if your younger self is working hard every day to attain wealth and power.
This.
If you're sitting on your ass, shitposting all day and eating tendies, you'll still be SOL.
Not at all, probably the biggest incel virgin delusion. Prime hotties want nothing to do with a 30+ year old man and women around your age are beyond used up and see you as a human ATM machine. Also 99% of men don't age like george clooney. Your hairline will recede, you will get wrinkles, your nose will grow even bigger, your jaw will look weaker etc
>>27666507
It's not just the money, it's about the looks. Guys develop into our 20s. Looks, money, that younger women prefer older men all add into it.
Being an ugly out of shape virgin NEET wont become attractive once you hit your 30th birthday. If anything were worse off because we'll become "creepy" at that point
That being said i know this guy who was a virgin into his 20s and would watch anime and shit and i was speaking to his brother who i havent seen in years and he wasnt at the house because he was at his GFs house
This guy actually worked though and actually tried to get laid when he was a virgin in his early 20s.
I cant approach girls and havent worked (i go to school though) at 22 so im worse off than him despite looking a little bit better and not being a stereotypical geek
>>27666461
It's about the wealth, confidence and experience you get by being in your 30s that attract younger women.
You still have to be handsome and in shape.
a 21 year old hottie doesn't want a 30 year old man, that's just creepy even if hes good looking.
>>27666461
Personally, it's not working for me. >>27666507 is mostly right. It's not like turning 3X magically activates a pussy magnet.
>>27666640
After a certain amount of money, looks don't matter in the least bit. I live in Los Angeles and the pictured type of couple is very common.
Only if you're busting your ass to become successful.
If you're asking if women magically start to prefer older men who weren't desirable earlier, you're mistaken.
What happens is a woman's societal currency starts to deplete and she needs someone to provide for her indefinitely, and she starts to seek out provider types.
If you're asking if she's no longer attracted to the alpha, you're mistaken. She's just less likely to be able to get with him.
The 30s are when women want to settle down and find someone to take care of them because they're not that girl anymore, which is why men have the "upper hand". You still have to do everything for them, only without the sex.
>>27666732
I know but the average guy isnt going to get that rich by 30. What I'm saying is it's more than just money but yes, by your mid 30s most guys are financially well off enough to be attractive to girls
>>27666461
im almost 25 and i haven't fucked since 2011 and i've never fucked before that
fuck this
>>27666461
>Is it true that the pendulum swings in favour of men
The pendulum never swings in favour of men. Regardless of what anyone will have you believe.
You will maybe get more attention if you have amassed wealth and power, but that's the least of your problems by then, because then you can meet a woman that is going to suck all that wealth and power away.
>>27666557
Anime with a fairly odd parents art style.
>>27666557
Man this anime is so redpilled and sort of convinced me not to be a NEET. Video games and anime are just temporary escapes, you need to be doing something in the real world and not be obsessive.
working hard and becoming successful just to wife up some 30+ year old used up former Stacy whore and let her suck you dry of money sounds like the most beta thing you can possibly do... but that's just me.
so.. they rode the cock carousel until their looks faded, and you then allow these whores to settle down with you and they can then live in beta provider money. fucking pathetic. enjoy getting cheated on.
>>27666461
Yes, but you have to work for it. Not outrageously hard but just a little bit every day.
I think that this has to do with as you get older you (should) start giving less of a shit about other people and only care about what it is that's important to you. This exact mindset is what women find the most attractive in partners.
>>27666461
>28
>have been a neet for a few years because I got a worthless degree.
>finally got a job and am going back to school (community college)
>however, I work with a bunch of 18-22 year olds
>finally decide I might not want to give up on having friends and a gf
>cant really see yourself in a relationship or dating someone your age
>most the women my age have aged terribly. So have a lot of the guys.
>really disconnected from people my age too because I've missed a lot of milestones like going to graduate school, having a half decent job, being in a serious relationship, etc.
>Ate healthy, avoided the sun,have half decent genetics, and exercised, so I look like a 25 year old, and I'm actually in better shape than when I was 17.
>but it is still taboo to hit on or date 19-23 year old women according to the normies
>probably can't impress roasties my age because Im poor and stunning career success is unlikely anytime soon. Feel like Im 5-8 years behind my peers professionally.
>stuck again
>>27666602
So, what the hell am I supposed to do?
>>27666914
I wouldn't know personally, but I assume you work hard for yourself and not to get some trophy wife. Women throwing themselves at you post success seems to be a side effect, not a goal.
>>27666914
This shit only happens to people with little experience with women. Which is ironic considering they deserve that the least. Chad's in their 30s are still fucking girls in their 20s despite having passed them in age.
>>27666557
>>27666842
>>27666859
wot is the anime?
>>27666557
Can someone please babify how life isn't provisional and death is?
It's my understanding that after you're dead that's it, eternal nonexistence without access to memory or senses
>>27666984
I'm in the same position as you but i'm 25, no idea what to do I feel so behind. Only good thing is people assume Im 19 or 20, I might just start lying to girls. But man do I feel behind. All my co workers are early 20s. I don't make shit and I see guys my age driving $50,000 cars.
>>27667030
Darude Sandstorm
unoriginal!>!>
>>27666999
checkederinominino
>>27667030
Kaiji, it is an anime about an indebted gambler who has shit luck and has to overcome many bullshit situations.
For instance, debtors might need to play high stake gambling games to remove their debt or even gain millions of yen. Losing could mean death or a lifetime of slavery in a sewer.
>>27667050
>I don't make shit and I see guys my age driving $50,000 cars.
Yeah, I know that feel but dont let it get you down. Those cars are probably leased. At least I own my 220,000 mile bucket of bolts.
>It's getting better for me
>Better for me is easy because the bar is so low.
>Better for me means that I'm getting a job I don't hate and doing well in school
>Better means I'm literally the only straight man in a program packed full of ridiculously hot, sheltered, sexually repressed girls who live like monks because their degree requires them to study 24/7
>They want dick? They gotta go through me to get it.
>Opera ftw.
>>27666461
>Is it true that the pendulum swings in favour of men when they reach their late 20s/30s?
If you are a neet then obviously this won't do shit for you. If you are already ugly you will just still be ugly. Normies only say this because it applies to normal men. Not fat virgins from /r9k/.
>>27667050
Everybody has to make their own way man. Nothing is guaranteed, just choose life and live it
>>27667097
What program is that? Tell us now!!!
Creepy losers in their 30s are just as unpopular as creepy losers in their 20s.
>>27667181
But I dont get it, based on the standards of society Im not a creep loser even now. Im in the navy, Im tall, white, and Im not socially awkward, and women still dont want me. Theres just no winning for guys like me. It probably will be the same shit as I get older.
>>27667050
a lot of those people are just in massive amounts of debt, so don't worry too much about those types. a lot of people live beyond their means and end up financially fucked sooner or later.
>>27667148
Literally any music department that has a dedicated opera/voice section. Voice+Theater=nothing but the gays and hetero girls. Classical singing is dominated by women. Men are rare as fuck. The ones in there are so gay or so effeminate/pussywhipped that no girl would ever fuck them.
Seriously, I've watched this shit turn a battle hardened combat veteran lifer Marine with the thousand yard stare into a guy who acts gay as fuck just so he can hug a girl he will never get to fuck. It took less than a year for him to get turned into 'one of the girls'.
>>27667144
>>27667234
Sorry, replied to the wrong post.
>>27666461
I hope so. I'm 29 and spent several hours today trying to organize some of my porn folders. Sifting through hundreds of pics of gorgeous women that exist and sleep with guys, but that I'll never sleep with, is disheartening.
I don't look anywhere near my age, though, so hopefully that will finally help me get some girls in their early 20s.
>>27667218
You're probably boring, then. Women have different standards than men do. Men just want a young, healthy weight, white girl to fuck. Women think of the entire package (looks, charisma, social capital, wealth, etc) You don't need very thing to be maxed out but if you're just coasting by on being white, being tall, and having a job you can literally sign up for, then I can't help you.
Because for every guy like you, there's another guy with your qualities and he goes rock climbing or something.
In their youth, women are considered most valuable, and therefore have to be the most selective. Have a problem with it? Get mad at biology.
>>27666732
Only in LA
I'm neet mid thirties and the main thing is you know more about dating and have more experience and confidence. You're more grounded and aren't as nervous. I do pretty well.
>>27667181
not really, women in their 30s have stopped being irrational whores, drop their irrational whorish expectations for men and look for actual life partners due to pressure from biologial clock/child craze
>>27667305
seems like you're mad at biology desu
>>27667397
I feel bad for you if you actually believe that. they never stop being whores, if anything they are forced to lower their standards in their 30s because they know they can't get top tier chads anymore, because all Chad wants are a bunch of early 20s Stacies. they get bitter and go after beta bucks instead
>>27667305
I dont know man everyone I work with seems to be coasting by just fine with even less than what I have. Almost everyone my age is married. They tell me I dont put myself out there enough. Maybe theyre right. I really dont want to get rejected. 23 btw
>>27667477
Everyone you know at 23 is married because you're in the military, you dingus. You're young and inexperienced, don't rush into anything. Most intelligent people are not married at 23 years old.
>>27667397
OP was talking about young women.
>>27667477
Married at 23? Where do you live?
>>27667552
California
Almost every marine and sailor out here at least has a girlfriend...but yeah lots of them are married
>>27667563
You do know half those guys are cucks and they dont even know it? Getting hitched right out of boot camp to random gold digging sluts is SUPER RETARDED!
>>27666461
26 here and yeah it got easier every year for me after high school. 15-21 is the worst stretch IMO because you gotta treat getting pussy like a full time job always pursuing leads and shit constantly texting as many girls as possible. Once you get into your 20's you'll start randomly meeting interested women all over the place.
Thing is, this assumes you have developed strong social skills and had some relationship experience by then or else you're kinda screwed.
>>27666507
As usual; first post is best post.
Getting older works out, if you put in the work for it.
Aged 18 - 30 there are usually 10,000 more males than females within a 30km radius of a major city.
35 + the number eventually evens out. But who gives a fuck by this stage. The prime dating years of our lives are heavily skewed in a woman's favor.
This is why so many women are entitled and expect so much from men because there is a surplus and they can be the picky ones.
>>27667218
>tall and white
>still fucks it up
>>27667627
Can you give us a quick rundown of what skills you get through relationship experience? Like what things do you have to handle that require relationship experience that you cant get anywhere else? I work in customer service and deal with crazy people everyday. Im pretty sure I can handle any sort of relationshit issue.
>>27667673
That's actually relevant experience, so is having friends and close family relationships. Mostly I was referring to being able to communicate effectively and understand social cues and nuances.
It comes naturally after interacting with people a shit ton irl. Customer service is a great start
>>27666461
Pretty much. People in their 20s look like boys compared to men in their 30s. You gain more experience.
Men age like wine.
>all this sub-25 year olds whining
Goddamnit r9k. Don't end up like me. I've been come to 4chan for almost a decade and it hasn't amounted to shit. GET OUT GET OUT
I'm 27 where the fuck do I even meet new women? I went to a nearly 80% male engineering college.
I need exposure to women but I don't know where the fuck to get it REEEEEEE!
>>27667218
Same here except I'm a muhreen to be
It doesn't make any sense whatsoever
>>27667718
>Aged 18 - 30 there are usually 10,000 more males than females within a 30km radius of a major city.
It's the other way around anon
Cities (especially major ones) usually have more women at that age than men, because muh big city life/university (and the possibility of snatching up some uber-wealthy Chad).
It's usually rural areas that are sausage-fests
>>27667947
Don't be a cuck to a stupid unloyal hoe back home. Just enjoy yourself and bang sluts in foreign lands without having to worry about getting cucked.
>>27668000
yea, and every 5/10 and up girl in a city is chasing after Chad cock, so all that's left are a bunch of fat ugly nasty cunts.
>>27667893
>almost
2005 here.
11 goddamn years.
>>27668051
>mfw decaying small town
>mfw single mothers are the only major group of unattached females between 21-30
>>27668059
Honestly, I've forgotten what year I started coming here...I'm 29 now. Save yourselves..
>>27668092
it's not much better in a city. instead of single mothers, you just get a bunch of career driven women that work so much you will barely ever spend time with them. plus those women have tens of thousands of fucking options around them, why would they settle for you or any of us?
>>27668000
It's not though. There is just a surplus of men on this planet within prime dating years.
If the numbers were the other way around, you would be in demand.
>>27668000
>000
>000
weeeewww - bloxz
>>27668033
I think that's partially what it is, I've read too many stories about Jodi back home and I'm subconsciously ruining my chances because of it.
I guess that's pretty alright then huh
