what is the point of trying to date when the way you have to do it is by you and potential partners having casual sex with people on multiple occasions until you decide to become exclusive with eachother?
this seems like the pattern. you have to "hang out" which means casual sex, a few times until you decide you're "dating". i can't have casual sex, i tried, i get too fucking nervous to the point where sometimes i dont even get an erection. the only time i wasnt nervous when i was about to fuck a girl was when i was 16, with my first girlfriend.
>>27664837
I don't understand how a man can not want to have sex. I get that you're nervous but usually in a relationship I'm the one who wants to fuck, I don't understand why some people either don't want to do it or are afraid of it.
You guys need to get your sex drive working properly.
This is the future our parents chose.
Thank you feminism.
>>27664898
I jack off to porn just fine, but with a real girl its so fucking nerve wracking, im also insecure about my 6 inch dick which makes it worse
what happened to actually forming a relationship and getting to know a person before ramming your dick into them?
why am i expected to perform right out the gates like this? it's fucking sickening, it's too much pressure
>>27664898
because society is sick, dissolute, and anti-male
i dunno. i gave up on it already. tired of being ignored and there's too many double-standards.
the biggest one is girls who aren't doing anything with their life expect or seek a career man.
the other one is highly educated women who don't date down. they're stupid because they basically restrict themselves to very few options by doing that.
you can tell by women's behavior that they don't care about options, they want the best possible guy they believe they deserve.
so in other words, deeply seeded entitlement.
>>27664944
This. I know the feels anon
>>27664944
>what happened to actually forming a relationship and getting to know a person before ramming your dick into them?
That never existed, ever. History is riddled with sexual degeneracy even in the most chaste circles of society. Just look at all the countless sexual scandals of the ages, if anything we're living in a time of relative sexual stability, there is a lot less adultery now than there was in the past that's for sure. Presidents can't even get blowjobs in the oval office these days without being nearly ousted, while in feudal Europe if you were a lord and not sleeping with every wench you could you were probably going to be burned at the stake for being gay.
>>27664944
>6" dick
You really shouldn't be insecure about six inches. That's about the size of my dick and I've been fine in sex. There are still people out there who want to get to know someone before fucking. It's pretty obvious when someone wants to rush right to sex versus someone who wants to have an actual relationship. Even if you're inexperienced and don't know what the fuck you're doing, any decent woman will be patient.
>talk to someone online
>get along so well
>never found a girl so perfect
>starts ignoring me and stops replying to my messages
Why even bother? we will never be guy A. We will always be guy b,c,d,e,f etc..
>>27664898
I don't want to have sex. Anything you want to know?
>>27665104
>Why even bother? we will never be guy A. We will always be guy b,c,d,e,f etc..
This is what I fucking hate, there is always someone they want more.
>>27665130
Women, they will always choose looks and social status over personality.
Nobody here has just given up on dating/relationships/sex by now?? Come on guys.. thank me later..
>>27665270
i guess my post was too long to read.
>>27664995
>>27664837
What? Where the fuck do you live? Dating always comes before sex. You have it all wrong.
t. normie
>>27665384
That's only true if you're ugly.
>>27665305
sorry I just quickly glanced over most posts and barely read them. I'm a lazy fuck. good post.
>>27665384
>t. normie
I have some bad news anon
>>27665384
I've seen both at college, I don't like to associate with those kinds of people thought.
>>27664898
>hit over the head with abstinence only sex education my whole life
>STDs area real thing
>unwanted pregnancy is a real thing
>not really comfortable with abortion
>even condoms arent 100% safe
>false rape allegations
>fear I'll get accused of sexual harassment just trying to get a date
>not really religious, but uncomfortable with fornication and adultery.
>on top of all of that Im a socially awkward loser.
Yeah dude. Its not that hard to end up a 28 year old khv even if you have a raging libido. You just have to think before you act.
>>27665384
>Dating always comes before sex.
Where have you been the last 15 years? lol
>>27665407
Should be tell him?
>>27664932
Theres not enough Hotline Miami-esque images.
>>27665452
Im in college too. Dating a 9/10 asian qt right now. Here's the general formula ive noticed everyone here seems to go by
>coffee
>dinner
>whatever (next dates can really be anything i guess)
>kiss her
>on the next date, ask if she wants to be official
>after some time have sex
I guess i just dont live in a particularly degenerate city
>>27665548
anon, you aren't a normie nor are you dating a 9/10 women.
Snap out of it. Snap out of the delusions.
>>27665469
Not on /r9k/
>>27665548
That's pretty normal, I'm more conservative but that's what all my friends do. But I have seen people get into relationship after hookups a few times.
>>27665593
>getting into relationships after hookups
That never ends well
>>27665615
Ya, I think it's fucked up, but hey its not my problem.
>>27665548
My experience is typically as follows
>meet for first time, exchange numbers, schedule date
>coffee, invite back to my place, make out, hopefully fuck
>if no fuck yet, invite them straight to my place, no coffee or anything, then pretty much guaranteed fuck
>if still no sex yet find another girl in the mean time
You learn a lot here.
