Friend Zone
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/r9k/, I think I know how to avoid the Friendzone and how to escape it if you are already there.
To avoid getting dumped in the Friendzone, whatever you do, never compliment a girl. If you do, you are just giving her an undeserved self-esteem boost and undeserved praise is what creates entitled Stacies. The thing is that the dating system seems broken because so many betas compliment girls when they don't deserve them that they put them in a pedestal and start to believe in their own hype. To avoid being dumped in the Friendzone, you have to make them earn your admiration, tell the girl to do something special to stand out from other girls(i.e have sex with you) instead of saying she looks prettier than other girls because she wears a new dress.
If you are already in the Friendzone, there's a very simple way of escaping: just walk out. Ignore the girl and seek others elsewhere. Given some time, the girl will see you don't need her to be happy and she'll get jealous because you're not paying attention to her and she'll try to get your attention. That's the mentality of an alpha, anons. Stop beatifying yourselves and you won't ever have to fear being in the Friendzone.
>>27653401
rule 1:
fuck a girl asap within hours of meeting her.
rule 2:
don't obsess over a certain girl.
>>27653401
Just stay in the friendzone and find a new girl. Who cares? There's literally millions of girls out there.
>>27653497
>fuck a girl asap
This. It doesn't have to be within hours of dating. But it shouldn't take more than a couple of dates or times of hanging out together. It is literally all it takes. Once you've had sex with a girl, all the power of the relationship dynamic shifts to you.
>>27653545
>This. It doesn't have to be within hours of dating.
Yeah that came of wrong. What I mean by that is cumulated time. A date takes around 2 hours, so if you add up all the time spend during these dates it should take just a few hours until you guys fuck.
>>27653517
So many guys think that the Friendzone is an unescapable hell. Don't be mistaken, the Friendzone does exist but escaping it is as easy as just stop being friends with the girl. If you show the girl that you're not going to keep sobbing in the friend zone, she'll be interested because most betas that asked her out stayed there. This will make her attracted to you because you refuse to play by her rules.
>>27653592
Gotcha pham, agreed.
>>27653497
>fuck a girl asap within hours of meeting her.
>>27653401
theres no hope for any of us real robots so stop trying. find comfort in whatever shitty cartoons or tv series you can because we arent seeing vaginas without having to pay (waste of money)
>>27653781
>So many guys think that the Friendzone is an unescapable hell. Don't be mistaken, the Friendzone does exist but escaping it is as easy as just stop being friends with the girl. If you show the girl that you're not going to keep sobbing in the friend zone, she'll be interested because most betas that asked her out stayed there. This will make her attracted to you because you refuse to play by her rules.
Why go through that trouble if you could just find a new girl? You're gonna waste all that time trying to convince this one girl you're not her friend anymore, while you could be out meeting new girls instead who you're not in the friendzone with.
>>27653831
What's wrong with that?
aslkjkwekr
>>27653871
all you roasties care about is dick in vagina
disgusting pile of flesh
i am out this game and happier than ever
>>27653847
Last rule of the alpha: never give up, no matter how many rejections you get. Otherwise the Chads and Stacies win.
>>27653893
I'm not a girl. No idea why you'd think that advice would come from a girl.
>>27653897
chad doesn't ecis so does not Stacey
WHORE does, in masses
>>27653897
being this delusional. you are on r9k you have already lost. remember this the next time your hopes are smashed
>>27653871
I'm not saying you shouldn't seek out someone else, I'm saying that while you're looking for someone else, the girl that friendzoned you will notice that you're happy even when she doesn't return your affection. This will make her curious and attracted to you because all the betas before you stayed in the friend zone while your out there being happy.
The friendzone isn't real.
>>27653781
>This will make her attracted to you because you refuse to play by her rules.
Lol no, she'll just completely forget you exist while a dozen other betas still orbit her. It's still better to just stop talking to them once they friendzone you, though.
>>27653953
It is. It's just not as hard to escape as guys make it out to be.
>>27653972
I agree, just ignore her and be happy.
>>27653948
>This will make her curious and attracted to you because all the betas before you stayed in the friend zone while your out there being happy.
As opposed to being sad and miserable to be in the friendzone? Who behaves like that?
She's not even going to notice what you're doing. Literally wasting your energy on that.
>>27653924
No anon, you're the one who lost by virtue of giving up. I'm only on /r9k/ to spread my wisdom to those who need it i.e you.
>>27653973
It's not real it's just a euphemism for a girl not liking you.
Friendzone: sticking around after you get rejected.
Maximum faggotry.
so your advice is to alienate all women unless they have sex with you immediately?
Wow this is the worst thread I think I've ever seen on r9k and that's really saying something.
>>27654173
>Wow this is the worst thread I think I've ever seen on r9k and that's really saying something.
Why?
>>27653401
Just came here to say you've got it right homes. Good luck with da bitches.
>>27654173
This guy and others like him are hopeless, don't bother trying to help them.
>>27654302
>Just came here to say you've got it right homes. Good luck with da bitches.
Hello OP, what's up?
>>27654260
Because everyone is so delusional. I just can't believe how bad it has gotten. I know a lot of you haven't formed close personal relationships with women, but holy fuck we aren't that bad. If you take any advice from this thread you are fucking retarded and deserve to be alone forever.
>>27654345
>any advice from this thread you are fucking retarded
>used to be a beta retard and really bad with women
>started being more assertive and pushing for sex asap, just like people recommend doing in this thread
>had three gfs and some casual encounters since
>had sex with all of my gfs within a week of knowing them
How is it bad advice?
>>27654015
Me (>>27654302) again, bout to break my own rule.
>Literally wasting your energy on that.
It's not about being happy at her not returning affection, it's about you enjoying yourself on your terms and not giving a fuck. There comes a point where you can laugh at rejection bc you don't need the hoe and she doesn't know what she's missing. You actually internalize that and laugh it off.
>>27654345
Tbh I think most of the stuff in this thread is fine. As long as you're trying and getting out there, who actually cares? I think reality is going to help people find the right way eventually.
>>27654418
>It's not about being happy at her not returning affection, it's about you enjoying yourself on your terms and not giving a fuck. There comes a point where you can laugh at rejection bc you don't need the hoe and she doesn't know what she's missing. You actually internalize that and laugh it off.
Uhm yeah.. But then you would actually not care and just move on instead of starting this whole charade.
>>27654345
A lot of us have formed what we thought were close relations with women only to be thrown away like trash. And you'd probably say "well, get over it, not all women are like that." Then you go on to lambast people like op when he says he's going to avoid the same mistakes, like he's some evil villain for no longer putting women in a pedestal, which is actually healthy.
All the while, women spout unhealthy and toxic "advice", men can't even win within your rules, that's why they neglect them with red pilling.
>>27654465
>charade
I know what you're saying but it's not a charade:
>You actually internalize that and laugh it off.
It's the antithesis of oneitis.
There's no such thing
As the friend zone
The only reason that
You're Lonley
Is that you're
Fat and gay
>>27654512
OP here.Thanks for your understanding anon.I only started this thread since so many /r9k/s complain that the system is in the favor of women. Again, this is because a lot of betas put women on a pedestal, which gives them an unfair advantage over men. All I'm trying to do here is to give /r9k/s a chance by putting women at the same level of men.
>tfw don't develop crushes and don't care about rejection
>tfw have ascended into normiedom
feels great man
Another piece of advice is to stop using words like "hot","cute" and "sexy" to describe women because a lot of men tend to betafy themselves because they get intimidated by a beautiful girl and drop their spaghetti. I strategy I recommend is watching porn but not tapping to it, all the while thinking that the girl/s in the video are ugly. This way you build up a resistance to the beauty of a woman and are less likely to drop your spaghetti in front of them irl.
>>27653401
I usually have to compliment girls if I want them to like me. Otherwise they just think I'm a creep. I figure the key is not to spoil them with adulation, but do let her know how you feel with a nice, tempered compliment or two. Just be tactful about it and don't let them take you for granted.
There's this girl which is a friend of a friend and he sometimes invites her to play steam games with us I kind of like, but we haven't talked in private or anything, my friend tells me she's going to study abroad this year. I am developing feels for her, she has great humor and looks good, but dunno if I should say it now or wait for her to come back in 3-4 years when I've got my shit fixed up.
>>27655204
In theory this would work. The problem, anon, is that complimenting them elevates them above you, thereby killing your chance with them. and besides,if you need to compliment a girl so they don't think you're a creep, I think you have other problems you need to work with, buddy.
>>27655254
Never develop feels. That will just come back to hurt you. Be close with someone, but not too close.
>>27655254
>wait for her to come back in 3-4 years
It will be too late by then anon, you have to act now.
>>27655267
I can't work with being ugly, now can I? I can only work on being nice, where women are concerned. Let her think she's above me. I'm into femdom anyway, so I can't really afford to be a stubborn asshole with her.
>>27655348
Ok now I know what's your problem. You're a faggot.
>>27655341
but I'm not ready yet definitely not bf material, don't even have a driving license and live with parents
>>27655382
Start lifting, improve on your personality and keep the license and parents thing a secret.
>>27655373
Nope, not gay. I just want certain kinky things out of a relationship. I could be the dominant if I wanted to, and I have been, but I don't prefer it. You can't be a jerk to her if that's how you want it. At this point I'd almost be more content with having a girlfriend who I am dominant with, and just go see a pro-domme for my submissive needs.
>>27655382
And even if you fail, remember to not get stuck in the friend zone by following my advice.
>>27655443
Anon, I'm not asking you to be a jerk. Just don't compliment her. That doesn't mean you can't do other things to maker her like you. Just remember to stick with the rules of the Alpha.
>>27653781
It shows the girl you weren't her friend and you were just a manipulative asshole trying to get laid.
>>27655506
Maybe it is for the best. Things are so much easier in a relationship where you have the upper hand. I like being the one who decides things, but I have to give up control sometimes. I figure that's where a domme can come in. Most women prefer to be dominated anyways.
>>27655511
Being manipulative would be pretending to be her friend when you secretly want to fuck her. But you don't want to be her friend. You have to make it clear from the beginning. Even then there's the possibility of rejection. I'm just giving advice on how to deal with that rejection in a way that still gives you a chance to be her bf.
>>27655571
And that's what the friendzone is. Some beta loser trying to nice his way into a girls pants
>>27655559
>Most women prefer to be dominated
My point exactly but if you compliment her, you're giving up part of your power to her. This puts her in a pedestal and women don't like to have men licking at her feet. This is why so many betas get rejected and why the system seems unfair.
I wish I had the balls to have female friends.
I don't care about the friend zone or whatever. If I could "be myself" around a girl and talk to each other and meet her friends I'd be happy. I'd look for another girl to fuck.
Instead I'm a dick and I can't help it. I leave a good first impression but no girl wants to see me a third time.
>>27655624
That's the point that I've been trying to get across. What I'm proposing /r9k/s to do is stop being nice for the sake of getting laid and start acting like Alphas by not complimenting girls when they don't deserve it.
the friendzone is fucking great. its being a kek thats pathetic. the can be mutually exclusive.
>>27655629
I know that feel bro. I was just like you a few months back. I've been trying hard to not be a jerk and so far more girls have started talking to me. Keep trying and you'll eventually get there.
>>27655660
Alphas still are nice. Just stop being manipulative manbabys
>>27655714
I know. I'm not telling anyone to be a jerk. I'm just giving out some advice that took me years to figure out. You either take it or leave it dude.
>>27655683
>being a kek
Wut?
>>27655160
>tfw haven't had a crush since junior year in high school
Over 6 years and no disappointments. Feels alright
does this work on men too? asking for a friend
>>27655835
>laugh at his shitty jokes
>play with your hair when talking to him
>be somewhat pretty
Ez modo. Don't really need a personality desu, but it helps for long term relationships
>>27655880
he just dumped me but said we could be friends and text though. i doubt i will ever really see him again
>>27655744
I can't help falling in love with every girl I talk to, tho. I can't have a female friend cuz I want to fuck all of them and I can't help but try to hit on them and end up making an ass off myself.
>>27655900
So you were dating a guy and he dumped you to friend status?
>>27655900
>asking for a friend
>he just dumped me
Weren't you asking for your friend, fembot?
>>27655962
Fuck this was directed to >>27655699
>>27655900
Man you must have been a real high maintenance bitch.
>>27655967
yes
>>27655976
obviously i lied anon ha ha
>>27655962
>Another piece of advice is to stop using words like "hot","cute" and "sexy" to describe women because a lot of men tend to betafy themselves because they get intimidated by a beautiful girl and drop their spaghetti. I strategy I recommend is watching porn but not tapping to it, all the while thinking that the girl/s in the video are ugly. This way you build up a resistance to the BEAUTY of a woman and are less likely to drop your spaghetti in front of them irl.
Follow this advice my friend and you'll be on your way to become an Alpha.
>>27655987
n-no i was supportive and gave him his space and always let him do what he wanted
>>27655996
Sorry fembot, he's probably been talking to another girl
>>27656037
yeah what good am i to someone like him he can have anyone he wants. i know what i must do now
>>27656015
I do that too. I sometimes look at girls who aren't attracted to me and look at their biggest flaws. If you take a good look at the mole or eyebags or whatever you'll start getting turned off and they notice.
I don't struggle at hitting on girls, though, I struggle at creating relationships.
>>27656085
Do something that makes you stand out from other girls. Something that other girls aren't doing. Offer to have sex with him.
>>27656015
So what words do you use?
There was a time that I was super beta and I wouldn't compliment girls at all, thinking that I was "showing my cards" or being creepy.
Now I only compliment things they do, like "that was sexy/cute." I'm not sure that's the best route but it feels better than what I was used to, being a closed up loser
>>27653912
12 y/o confirmed
>>27656155
You don't need to compliment them. Just ask them shit and give them a good look in the eye. Validate them once for every two times you neglect them. Debate them. Show them who's boss and who's bitch. Don't be bitch.
>>27656131
For the longest time I had a crush on this girl. I thought she was perfect. Then I started noticing the little things, like she frequently had acne outbursts on her face, she had a small surgical scar on the bridge on her nose and I noticed she had a little bit of a belly. After that I was really turned off by her.
>>27656155
>So what words do you use?
You don't use any words. Since the beginning of this thread I've been saying that you shouldn't compliment a girl. Describing them with words like hot, sexy or cute puts them in a pedestal and you don't want that.
>>27654345
>fucking retarded
>deserve to be alone forever
so you DESERVE what you get for being born with a mental disability
ok
>>27657085
Don't feed the troll anon. It means they win.
>>27654345
>stop hating women we're not that bad
>in order to convince you of this i'm going to insult you and take joy from imagining your unhappiness
women
>>27656141
if this guy is chad that's literally the worst possible advice
>>27657653
>i'm going to hook a chad by playing hard to get because guys are just as retarded as my gender and are inherently attracted to social status
what could go wrong?
I dunno, I like the friendzone. This one girl let's me sniff her panties and use her bras as slingshots. She even asks me if I can wash them sometimes for her. Holy shit they smell so good
>>27658433
Holy shit, you are the king of the friendzone. may God bless this poor bastard's soul.
>>27658433
>She even asks me if I can wash them sometimes for her.
that is good little beta.
>>27658527
>>27658772
She lets me keep the ones she doesnt like anymore, i can post them if you want.
>>27658875
Yes, Post it anon!!!
There ya go anon
>>27659327
Now post pics of the girl
>>27659394
Dont feel like losing a good thing in case she sees this. But heres a pic with her face out
>>27653401
this is the most autistic shit I've ever heard
you get friendzoned because a girl just doesn't fucking like you and you can't do anything to change that you fucking sperg
you can't make other people behave in any certain way
the "friendzone" is literally that - they would be your friend but nothing more
jesus christ, how much of your life do you waste trying to figure out how to 'cheat the system' when you could just be bettering yourself instead?
>>27653401
Thanks Mystery, good thing old memes actually work
>>27659717
whats the most sexual thing she's ever done with you? how aware is she of how hard you perv about her?
>>27659849
We've just slept together, as in like literally sleep. She stayed over my place one night because she was lonely. And i got to rub my dick on her ass. And yes she is aware.
>>27659901
she stood there bent over letting you rub your dick on her or was this while she slept? you should ask to grope her or some shit for your birthday desu
>>27659901
Found a picture of you anon.
>>27659901
Oh she was asleep. I got to rest my hand on her chest tho, which was nice. But then she rolled onto her side.
>>27659818
My advice is meant to make anons improve on their game instead of wallowing in their own sorrow and yes I agree with you, if a girl doesn't like then walk away. I'm not trying to "cheat the system", I'm trying to revert it back to the way it's supposed to be so more betas become Alphas and stand a chance in the dating game.
>>27660131
the last sentence or two you had it right, but with the whole "don't compliment her, ever" and "tell her to have sex with you to make her special" - that's just weird rapist shit.
sex happens as a mutual thing between two people. if a girl doesn't like you, it doesn't matter whether you compliment her or not. if a girl likes you but you treat her like shit, you're not making things better between you. the only time treating a girl like shit makes her like you more is if she's a crazy bitch who likes being treated like garbage, so in any case she won't be loyal, trying to date you or anything like that.
I'm not sure how you think things are in real life but I guarantee you don't have it straight here.
>>27660212
>reeeee things i don't like are rape
>the only way you're allowed to treat a girl is like a princess then wait for her favor
fuck off tumblr
>>27660020
I once touched a girls breasts while while she was conscious in class. Thankfully noone noticed and the girl scolded me flirtatiously.
>>27660212
>sex happens as a mutual thing between two people
Damn. I shouldn't have come on r9k
>>27660257
fuck off reddit
>telling a girl she isn't special until she has sex with you isn't creepy/rapey
enjoy your loneliness retard
I never said to treat girls like princesses, only that if you treat them like crap or like strictly platonic friends then you'll never advance anywhere either
lrn2read faggot
>>27660212
1.The thing is a lot of anons here are getting wrong about my advice is that they think I encourage you to treat girls like shit. I DON'T ENCOURAGE YOU TO BE A JERK TO GIRLS. I just think guys shouldn't compliment her if she doesn't deserve it.
2. If the girl is trying to impress you, she has to do something special i.e have sex with you.
I'm not trying to offend anyone here and yeah you're beginning to sound vaguely like a white knight or social justice warrior.
>>27660342
>>telling a girl she isn't special until she has sex with you isn't rapey
that's correct. that is nothing like rape you infinite pussy
>I never said to treat girls like princesses
you cry about how any pressure or ultimatum is rape
If you think about it, how can it be rape? You're not forcing the girl against her will, it's entirely up to her if she has sex with you or not.
>>27660395
>I just think guys shouldn't compliment her if she doesn't deserve it.
if you think she's pretty, you should tell her she's pretty
just as if she thinks you're handsome or smart or funny, she should tell you she thinks that.
I think that's how you deserve compliments. right? at least that's how I use compliments.
sorry, I misunderstood your original text.
the whole "something special = having sex" thing is totally effed up, though. a girl shouldn't have to have sex with you to impress you. I'm just not understanding what you want from girls. sorry, I'm a little autistic. I'm a female if that helps explain what I'm not getting. I don't have any idea what to do to get a bf but I know that I'm not having sex with them just to impress them before we're even dating.
>>27660500
you still can't read you double nigger
it's rapey, it's not RAPE, but it's rapey.
it makes you seem like someone who would rape someone else.
girls don't like creepy assholes who pressure them into having sex.
>>27660637
What if you take a girl out on a boat so you can coerce her into having sex with you due to the implications of there being nowhere to go? Is that rape, or just rapey? Keep in mind she's never really in any danger.
>>27660637
I understand that this maybe hard for a fembot to understand. The dating game requires both genders to try to impress the other, for men it's things like money, muscles, etc... For girls, it's clothes, looks, etc... What I'm encouraging robots to do is not be impressed by things like new shoes, clothes, makeup because any girl can wear those. If a girl wants to get a man's attention she has to do something the other girls aren't doing. What's sure to grab the guy's attention? having sex with them. Basically, if a girl is trying to impress a robot, I'm telling them to refuse to be impressed until the only other thing she has to offer to make her stand out is sex.
>>27660637
>it's rapey, it's not RAPE, but it's rapey.
>i make up words that have nothing to do with rape but still include rape because i want to abuse the connotation without saying anything coherent
>i'm not tumblr tho
>it makes you seem like someone who would rape someone else
>waaah someone is trying to convince me to do something instead of tripping over himself taking responsibility for my choices. he probably rapes people
you're a retard that 'argues' by spewing whatever vague feelings you have. on the off chance you're not from tumblr please fuck off anyway. you may like it there though.
Every complex problem has a simple, easy to understand WRONG answer...
Felt like saying that.
Walking out of the friendzone is something I tried last time I got friendzoned. She forgot I existed... I guess that's really the only way out isn't there?
>>27660812
Yes, anon, walking out of the friend zone is easy. You'll be much happier from now because you can look for a relationship in other girls.
>>27660733
that's rapey. if she feels scared, and has sex with you because she's afraid, that is technically rape and you won't have any defense against the charges. don't get yourself into a shitty situation, anon, just have normal consensual sex with a girl who loves you.
>>27660797
I understand what you're implicating, but I don't understand why SEX is what you'd want. so many robots spend their time crying about women = whores. I think going by your advice is going to leave these men very alone. you should be turned on by things like a woman's intelligence, her taste in media, her hobbies and skills, things like that that make each person unique. sex should be something special that you do on mutual terms. I don't know why you're trying to wring it out of women like that. I think it's very callous and deceitful of you. if you refuse to be impressed by anything other than sex, just go hire a hooker.
>>27660805
calm down, I can't even be assed to read your bile at this point
I've explained myself and you're more assmad than reasonable, so think what you wish.
I'm just explaining it from a female perspective. take it or leave it.
GUYS IT"S NOT RAPE IF THE GUY DOES NOT FORCE THE GIRL TO FUCK AGAINST HER WILL!!!
>>27660957
>I'm just explaining it from a female perspective
i just said you're a retard that argues by spewing whatever vague feelings you have
>>27660957
I'm a five star man, but I've had a hard time with girls lately. A bunch of them downrated me on dating websites. Idiots! They just don't understand my greatness. I've been wanting to do the boat idea for a long time though, anon.
>>27660957
First off, I'm not a mysoginist, I do believe that women have more to offer than sex, but many of the robots here have been lonely and are looking for some female contact. Believe me, dating is easy, having sex is hard. I know that rape is bad, that's why I'm offering a way that doesn't force the girl in an uncomfortable situation. She can say no and walk away if she wants. Hiring a prostitue is good for a quick fuck but it's so impersonal and cheap, and many robots and I myself included want some emotional bond instead of just physical. Why not give sex a chance? Many people have married people after their first fuck because sex brought them closer.
>>27661047
you're strange, strange indeed.
don't do the boat thing. I'd hate, hate, hate to be that girl and I don't want you to get yourself into a bad situation either.
>>27661099
now you're not making sense - if you want emotional connection with sex, why not wait until you're closer with the girl in question?
in any case, if being nice to girls doesn't make them want to be around you, asking them for sex isn't going to help you either. it's just going to make it weirder.
I think a good step would be to try to find women with whom you share things in common, and develop actual friendship, and find out what turns them on and do that. and if they don't reciprocate your advances - if you feel used, or unloved, or like you aren't getting the attention you want or deserve - then you aren't with the right person, and you should seek someone else.
do you want emotional connection, sex, or both?
>>27661047
>A bunch of them downrated me ON DATING websites.
You know what happened? You turned into an insufferable narcissist. get your head out of your ass already.
>>27661194
I can't speak for everyone but I want both. Yes, I know you have to establish some bond beforehand, but keep in mind, this is advice for robots that want to get out of the friend zone. And it is a great way to establish what both parties want. If they don't agree, they part ways and none's feelings get hurt.
>>27661194
On a more personal level, you're a fembot, correct? What are you doing in /r9k/? It is pretty rare to see any girls on 4chan, especially on /r9k/.
>>27661294
How dare you? You are talking to a god. THE GOLDEN GOD. I AM UNTETHERED AND MY RAGE KNOWS NO BOUNDS.
>>27661546
You arrogant prick, how dare you speak to me so, I AM THE GOD OF THIS NEW WORLD!
>>27661352
I guess if it's someone you're already friends with, yeah, but jumping straight from friendship to sex is also an uncomfortable move for a lot of girls and you could lose a potential partner by not taking things slowly. it's just my opinion.
>>27661509
it's less rare than you think, desu. I know a fair amount of girls from here.
I've been on /r9k/ since its inception and never really left, sort of changed with everyone else who used the board. it's a good place to just be depressed and post about my abnormal feels. you meet interesting people here.
>>27661597
I know. The Internet advertised 4chan to be the place where the scum of the Earth congregates but frankly, I've been able to hold some pretty civilized conversations here, including in this very thread. I'm a normie and know many robots come here but it's pretty peculiar to know that girls can be robots too.
>>27661677
how is it peculiar to know that women can end up just as fucked up as men?
it's pretty narcissistic to believe otherwise.
women and men have their unique struggles, but both do have struggles and no one's life is easier than the other's, I'd say.
most robots on here say they'd rather be women to get "life on easymode," but I'd rather be a man. the grass is always greener, I suppose.
how old are you, anon?
>>27661857
Oh God, are you a cop? Because you legally have to tell me. Are you even female? Or are you a G.I.R.L? Tits or GTFO!
>>27661857
OK sorry for freaking out. But seriously be completely honest, are you female and not some old pedo?
>>27661958
I don't think cops legally have to tell you if they're a cop otherwise drug stings and shit wouldn't be very effective, don't you think?
why would I be a cop on 4chan what am I gonna do, arrest you for being underage b&?
>>27662074
of course I'm actually female, stop being so weird I'm just trying to talk to you you sperglord
>>27662108
Ok then you tell me your age first.
>>27654040
So what if it's a fucking euphemism?
Dammit, the friend zone is a feeling. It's the feeling of unrequited love/lust/somewhere in between.
It ticks me off when people say Shit like "the friend zone doesn't exist." It's like you're telling someone that they have no right to feel that way.
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>>27662246
The friend zone is not a euphemism. It really does exist. It's not a physical place but more like a mental prison where you are your own torturer because only you can get yourself out. It's really easy, you just have to walk away and look for love in other places.
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>>27662269
And anyways, why is my age important?
>>27662320
smdh you can't even drop text correctly
newfags gtfo my board
thanks for the lovely conversation tho, I hope you find qt gf sometime
>>27662372
Didn't I tell you? I'm a normie. And are you really gonna end the conversation over something so petty?
>>27662451
no I wasn't trying to end the conversation
only deciding whether or not I wanted to pursue conversation over skype but
desu there are just too many damn teenagers on this web site
where have all the twenty-somethings gonemfw they all normied up or killed themselves
>>27662485
You're acting really weird. If you want we can continue the conversation we can do it on this thread. If you wanted to move it to Skype to make it more private, you're making me uneasy about your intentions. And I know what your opinions are on teenagers but not all of us are entitled little shits.
>>27662562
I didn't have any intentions, I just wanted to know who I was talking to, that's it, anon.
I'm curious what your guys idea of the friend zone is? Are these females you have an interest in who are friendly to you? Or actual friends, who message you and want to hangout without you initiating?
Cuz if it's the latter "just ignore her for a bit" is never going to work. Even with girls I've already had sex with, ignoring them only works if they're already initiating on their own.
>>27662291
I don't see how that makes the term "friend zone" less of a euphemism.
It is a short hand term for the feeling "I like her/him/anything in between, but...[insert some obstacle here]"
I still agree with you, only you can set yourself free from it.
>>27662668
It's the latter dude. A girl can't really friendzone you if you're not friends to begin with.
>>27662689
Well there is the archaic term "unrequited love" which means the same thing but who uses that one anymore?
>>27662668
And ignoring her does work. If your friend hasn't been responding to your texts or calls for weeks, they're definitely going to start noticing and caring about you
>>27662651
Well that's the point of 4chan being anonymous. You don't focus on the person's physical appearance but instead on what they say
>>27662803
if your friend has been ignoring your texts and calls for weeks, they're going to be put off and STOP caring.
jesus, you're a fucking dumdum.
>>27662861
I was just wondering if it was something I wanted to pursue outside of anonymous, friendo. no hard feelings. if there is other conversation you wanted to have feel free to bring it up.
>>27662803
Eh, I noticed it with guys too. I haven't got a reply from my friends. Guy or girl
>>27662911
What if something very bad happens and you can't physically answer the phone?Then your friends aren't really your friends if they stop caring. Well, that's also a part of anonymity and 4chan. The bonds made here don't last very long, much like all threads last until they get archived. The posters are all anonymous and after commenting on a thread it is unlikely that they will cross paths again.
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>>27662911
How you "ignore" them is important.
If you flat out don't respond, at best they'll forget about you, at worst they'll be miffed.
Ignor ing them politely, like "Yea, I can't go do [thing] right now, maybe next time. Sorry"
Is probably what Chads have in mind when they say "ignore her"
>>27663141
Interesting thought. It also makes you seem "mysterious" which girls seem to like too.
>>27653401
STOP BEING NICE TO HER
you are currently "her friend" Girls dont fuck "their friends"
dont be nice to her anymore. dont even talk to her. And next time you do be a dick, and make it clear you want to be more than a friend.
>>27663141
personally, if someone keeps doing that to me, I'm going to assume they're nicely letting me down and that they don't want to be around me anymore.
don't play headgames like a childor a woman. just be up front with what you want. the shitty asking for sex suggestion was better than this, at least it was direct...
>>27663223
You're right, being a "nice guy" doesn't work. But trust me, I've tried being an asshole, it doesn't work either.
