Can men even love girl who isnt 10/10?
It seems they are only able to settle while drooling over hot girl, watching porn or taking part in "you fall in love you lose" threads if they are robots?
The thing is men have different standards for what 10/10 is. Women don't even think 10/10 exists.
Most men have fairly low standards but love itself is a meme anyway.
That girl in the pic is a 7 because her eyes are too far apart.
All 3D girls are 8 or lower to me because I have been spoiled by glorious 2D girls.
>>27649208
If that's your 10/10 I feel bad for you.
>>27649208
Is love even legit family?no
>>27649208
yes, just keep their stomach full and their balls empty
>>27649242
Go to any 10/10 thread, including current ylyl thread- all those girl would get mainstream modeling jobs with no problem (and majority are models or instagram stars).
Men having different tastes is a myth
>>27649208
>>love itself is a meme anyway.
>tfw love as depicted in fiction doesn't exist
>tfw you will never experience a pure, genuine love
>tfw not even Chads will ever have that kind of experience
Just kill me right now
>>27649275
And they will cheat on you anyway, first chance they get.
>>27649292
I'm over it. You'll get over it too when you're a little older.
Everybody has their own tastes for a gf/bf.
This is because there used to be three genders; male, females and hermaphrodite.
Humans also used to have four legs, four arms and two heads each.
Providence saw that humans were getting too strong and decided to split us in half.
That's why love is a way of completing yourself by finding the person that fits as close as possible to the other half of you.
>>27649208
I don't know about rating people on a scale but I usually date up when it comes to the girls' looks. I mean, with most girls it is me who has to approach anyway. Might as well go after the cuties.
>>27649288
>Men having different tastes is a myth
Bullshit. Some men like 2D.
I expect her to be a 10/10 with a good personality if she's not a virgin. If she is a virgin as long as she's at least a 7/10.
>>27649319
leave ancient greek out of it.
>>27649308
I'm 29 and I'll never get over it. The world is literally too shitty to bother with. For a talentless and unremarkable person like me, when you take away the possibility of even something as petty as being genuinely loved by another human being, nothing in the world holds any value.
Fuck it, I'll just an hero eventually anyway, there's no point to any of this.
>>27649417
i think it's a good explanation
>>27649432
Its on the same level as myths and isnt worth shit.
People dont have "one special person just for them" - many have multiple partners where there is never one decisive "this is the one", others never get anyone.
Also if there is 1-1 ratio, why you have milions of men obsessed with the same women?
>>27649465
because it's about resemblance to the other half
the myth never says the one half will necessarily find the other one, just that it will try to
>>27649486
again- then why milions of men are attracted to the same 10-20 women?
>>27649496
beause they think that's what their other half was like in ancient times
>>27649208
Men can only conditionally love unless he is stupid.
Unconditional love comes before the fall. All wise men know both of these maxims.
- Anon Chapter 1 verse 1.
>>27649505
all milions of them think the same thing but somehow you still have 1-1 ratio, where at one point they should find their second half, each different? Come on, I get that idea is cute but its just plainly wrong.
>>27649530
people are wrong all the time about what they think is good for them, so they might have an impression of who would fit them the most that isn't actually true
>>27649208
You can easily go all the way to 7/10, and if you try hard enough you can fall for 5-6/10s too. Thing is, even if a girl isn't that attractive to begin with, you can mildly obsess with her good features and fall for those. 10/10s are just flawless or near-flawless so you can feel things for them without trying at all, that's why you see 10/10s in those threads. I mean, the whole point of those threads is posting 10/10s, of course they should look objectively great. Only if people were plebs would you see uglier women posted, like
>>27649288
if you go to /s/ and check the equivalent thread and witness how 50% of the women posted are ugly as fuck and often old.
>>27649540
but milions of them are wrong about 10 same women?
>>27649542
those women are posted in very specific, fetish threads, never in threads that are about most beautiful women
>>27649567
milllions of people were stalinists and nazis
>>27649588
thats not the same thing. You said everyone has their own taste for gf/bf and this is obviously not true if, like I said, you have millions drooling over same 10 girls.
>>27649628
yeah i know i just wanted to post that story for fun because i like it
>>27649567
Not at all, they are posted in the threads about most beautiful women, or ideal women. The closest to that I could find on /s/ right now is
>>>/s/16604871
First post starts fine, first reply is already not at all 10/10, second reply not at all 10/10, rest of the thread is a mix of a few 10s, some 9s and plenty of 7-8/10s. And this thread isn't even bad for /s/, since no one started posting fatasses or grandmas.
Nope. Men lust, they do not love. They are attracted to a woman's youthful body and appearance and lose interest once she no longer fits these standards. So even a 10/10 won't be loved forever. Men watch porn and need it for variety because their biology tells them they HAVE to spread their genes, AKA not be monogamous.
Men may get married to or invest in an average or even decent looking woman, but they will always lust for someone hotter, younger, and new. They will never truly "love" a woman who has lost her beauty, even if she has had his children.
>>27649208
she's not a 10/10, she looks like a 12 year old me
>>27649208
putting appearance above everything else is the male version of women wanting le badboy, it's something r-selected dysfunctional morons do, which unfortunately is a large selection of the populace, but you shouldn't want to date them anyway as long term relationships are unsurprisingly not their thing
>>27649208
All "love" is just a compromise. No woman wants to be with Joe Middle Class, she wants Christian Grey to tie her up and beat her ass with a gold bar.
That's why both sexes should work on improving our escapism and give up on the 3DPD meme.
>>27649647
first of all thread is "faces" nowhere mentioned that they are going to be most beautiful, ylyl kind.
Also you just agreed with me through this thread- out of 77 images there is maybe 1 that doesn't go with standard beauty: all other girls are:
>white (already excludes majority of world)
>good to great skin
>small, upturned noses
>big eyes, mostly lightly colored
>delicate facial features
>skinny
>shapely but not too big lips
those are the literally top 1% of women
The fact that you consider only some as 10/10 while other as merely 8/10 here is irrelevant.
>>27649255
>>27649251
Love (in this context) is an act of the will.
>>27649208
You're right to doubt men. However, if a man can't love a woman below 10, then neither can a woman love a non-perfect male. Are you willing to admit to that, sweetie? No? Then you're done.
>>27649731
so which men don't want that? give me some examples or anything
>>27649750
>tfw no redeeming qualities but happened to be born into a rich family so women love me
>>27649704
Is there an implication hiding there that most women are fully capable and often willing to lust for men who are completely unattractive?
>become unattractive with age
>gee I wonder why people aren't physically attracted to me
You do lose lust over time, but you can grow to love people as you love family, that's how a successful marriage stays together even when physical attraction mostly wears off. Or you can pretend that that isn't the case, but I don't even know what you have to gain from that.
>>27649704
Fujoshit summarized it well. Guys are wired to lust, not love. I never had a girlfriend until I was about 19, and before that I'd get infatuated with even 4/10s. My first girlfriend I was in love with for a month before we started dating, and it literally took no more than 3 days before all my feelings for her were gone. Since then, the same shit has happened over and over again and now I just completely avoid relationships because it makes me feel like shit that I can't keep my infatuation for the women I love.
Anyone who has never had a girlfriend before really needs to shut the fuck up because they completely lack experience on this subject
>>27649811
Problem is, physical attraction is the most important thing for men.
Women fall for and list after conventionally unattractive men all the time due to other, nonphysical qualities. Benedict Cumberbatch, Seth Green, Christina Hendricks' husband, Tom Hiddleston, etc.
These are all celebrities but it happens closer to home all the time. Women are frequently able to forgive unconventional looks if the man has a specific personality or social status. A man can keep his personality, status, or even his wealth for his entire life. It's physically impossible for a woman to constantly be a young, hot, new piece of ass for her entire life.
Men can respect their wives once they age, but they will never love them like they once did, if at all, because men express their affection physically and lust is the main component of their attraction.
>>27649771
>neither can a woman love a non-perfect male.
I loved men who were far from perfect, especially since looks don't matter to me much.
Can men say the same?
>>27649884
>Anyone who has never had a girlfriend before really needs to shut the fuck up because they completely lack experience on this subject
Speak for yourself. I've been with my 4th gf for more than five years and I love her more everyday.
>>27649761
That first line is idiotic and you probably shouldn't have added it. The reason why the thread I linked is shit I noticed afterwards, namely that almost all pictures were dumped by one or two people, so it really doesn't represent any diversity. As such there's no good thread on /s/ to use as an example.
That thread really doesn't have top 1% women though. Ignoring the few odd cases it's maybe top 20% for their age range, top 5% ignoring age ranges. Almost all of them are pictures that are either taken from the best possible angle, with heavy makeup, or photoshopped.
>>27649208
I'm eternally obsessed with a girl who most would rate as a 2-4/10, while having had sex with several 7+/10s.
>>27649928
Wrong, men still lust after them, just not as much, or they develop weird fetishes having been with them for so long, especially if she performed her wifely duties correctly.
>>27649940
>4th
My point exactly. Thanks for refurbishing
See the images at >>27649928 and >>27649704
>>27649942
>either taken from the best possible angle, with heavy makeup, or photoshopped.
true but that doesn't change the fact that for me (women who doesn't fit beauty standards) it just proves the fact that men go for the same thing.
I was regular on /s/ for years and really, on threads focused on "beautiful" women you have very little diversity in looks.
No matter if you have 10 posters or 100.
You also haven't commented on same features I listed. Photoshop and angles are one thing but similar features are another.
>>27649974
give an example of those 2-4/10
>>27649989
Having a disorder due to a fetish is not the same as genuine love and it's ridiculous that you're arguing that.
Men that have specific fetishes like that (obese women, diapers, whatever) are in love with the act, not the woman. It's why many women dislike the idea of a man of another race saying they "love girls of your race!"
>>27649761
Sounds like youre seeing what you want to see t.bh. of maybe this is just bait
>>27649928
>physical attraction is the most important thing for men
That is most likely true, but even with that you can get a good 15-20 years out of your body if you marry at 20, more than that if you actually put effort into it.
Someone else already addressed this but men usually develop a liking for the wife's features though, or fetishes if you will. Now, if you approach this with your attitude of "they either just want young hot girls or they're just fetishizing me, it's not real love", then you should be able to see why your conclusions are questionable. Fetishes can lead to impersonal attraction but I really doubt that they necessarily do. If you already love your wife in the first place, the fetishes just carry that, they don't (or at least in a good marriage they don't) supersede everything else.
But it's also true that many men will just cheat and fuck women over, if you're looking for a fix for that you could just try getting into /cuckquean/, not much else I can suggest.
>>27649993
>My point exactly. Thanks for refurbishing
You sound paranoid as all fuck. It didn't work out with gfs no. 1-3 for various reasons, none of which were related to cheating or "upgrading".
>>27650131
Doesn't matter. If you truly were devoted to your girlfriends, you wouldn't even be able to move on to a next one regardless of reason
>>27650097
thats true but it only comes from my looks not being considered good, ever.
Tell me, how many girls in mentioned thread and current r9k ylyl thread have my features?
>light but olive skin
>brown eyes with brown hair
>bigger, hooked nose (important one)
>bigger than average teeth
I'll wait.
If you tell me thats too specific, then why "blonde hair, small and upturned nose, blue eyes, light skin" is so common combination thats just as specific?
If you tell me my features cannot be considered attractive, then you just proved I'm right.
>>27649208
No. I have incredibly low standards, and would happily date and fall in love with any girl who isn't
>literally deformed
>literally retarded (down syndrome etc)
>severely disabled
>1/10 disgustingly ugly
>terminally ill
>>27650154
>you wouldn't even be able to move on to a next one regardless of reason
Has this become a mental illness thread now?
>>27650156
I forgot to add glasses but that one is least important since it isn't feature but an accessory most of the time
>>27649208
as someone here who has a 10/10 gf
its not all hyped up to be.
You are constantly worried guys will hit on her, worried she may find someone else easily, worried that she will leave you. Sure you get to drool over her looks but honestly a 7/10 is more than fine desu.
>>27650156
>light but olive skin
>brown eyes with brown hair
i see girls like that in those threads all the time. Im really starting to think this is b8
>>27650206
10/10 is subjective though your gf might be a 7/10 to me
>>27650209
don't select two most common features out of all I mentioned. How many of those girs have noses I mentioned?
Thats probably the most important one for me (as I already mentioned).
>>27650156
The nose isn't exactly hard to fix though. Brown eyes with brown hair can be attractive just fine, glasses can usually be fixed easily, the only relatively hard to fix issue you have are teeth, and "bigger than average" doesn't sound like a huge issue unless you're downplaying it. Skin color doesn't matter at all as long as it fits with your general appearance.
>>27650320
>The nose isn't exactly hard to fix though.
I am not saying about fixing it- I like it.
But I asked a simply question: if men really have varied taste, surely there must be at least one girl with such nose in those threads, right?
there is something you need to realize
a 7/10 girl and a 9/10 girl are miles apart in terms of beauty
a 7/10 guy and 9/10 guy aren't so far, not like girls are.. well because that's how nature made us, you can debate that but i think beauty is something is somewhat limited in men
>>27650336
There probably has been. This is a pretty pointless argument to make since verifying it would take an unreasonably long time of archive diving.
>>27650380
There is one right now on r9k. If men have varied taste, surely out of probably 100+ girls, one or two would have similar nose,right?
Come on, dont pretend when the answer is so obvious.
>>27650421
>pretend
I never claimed that there's any kind of huge number of people really into hook-nosed women, my point is that there probably are some. It is most likely less than 1% of the population, if I had to guess it's probably closer to one in ten thousand. Men having varied taste would sooner show in how a good number of them are totally willing to date fatass women, and a good number or them would be fine with dating hook-nosed you, and they do these things without settling, they're genuinely attracted to those features, even if often not enough to put those women into their "10/10 absolute perfection"-category.
>>27649292
>>27649308
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fjg5TuXV09U
I feel bad for anyone who's never seen Mad Men
If you haven't you should watch it right now.
>>27649935
I love my gf, who is probably about average looking to most people. Looks are important to a certain extent as some physical attraction is needed for a longterm relationship, but it's her personality that made me head over heels for her. I find her physically attractive, but honestly there are women more physically attractive. (Same is very much true for me, obviously; average looks and plenty of men are a LOT more attractive than me.)
I'd never consider cheating even if a woman was to throw herself to me, nor do I fantasize about other women.
It can be argued that my personal experience is nothing more than anecdotal evidence and not sufficient to claim men in general can say the same, but let's be fair: same applies to your personal experience.
Thing is, on this board there tends to be a trend to overgeneralize everything that doesn't fit the poster's personal group or view.
Bitter men will assume all women are vile, disloyal, cheating, horrible creatures.
Bitter women will assume the exact same about men (as OP shows).
However, as this board predominantly consists of men, a woman claiming generalizations regarding men are often disregarded or argued against, while when men claim things the arguments against are often drowned by other bitter men (as well as trolls and shitposters/memeposters) due to the sheer amount of men vs amount of women on this board.
Fact of the matter is that crappy people exist of both genders. Men AND women incapable of loving sub-10/10s exist, men AND women pretending to love someone but looking for the next best deal exist, the list goes on.
