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The thought of just going up to a random person and talking, let alone a girl with the intention of starting a relationship is scary as fuck. Anyone else feel the same way?
How the hell do these people do it?
>>27640393
This isn't /soc/ you fucking moron.
Normalfags and failed normalfags are not welcome.
>>27640433
Oh calm down. I only come here from /soc/ when there's nothing interesting on reddit.
>>27640393
well, most people meet their significant others through friends or at work. its less of a random person and more of a carefully picked out individual.
The problem today is that no millennials keep jobs so that never happens.
>>27640393
looks fake to me
approaching a girl in a library will NEVER work, ever. 99% of the time they will just tell you to fuck off and stop being a creepy.
Honestly, this idea of "picking up chicks" is outdated, almost every relationship people have today, is from knowing mutual friends or from working together. People don't just approach women randomly wanting to go out.
>>27640393
You're not supposed to do that.
The best way to get into a relationship with someone (friend/girlfriend) is by having a shared experience.
An example would be:
You stalk a group of guys for a while, hire two guys from craigslist and have them fight each other in front of the people you want to be friends with and then say the things you scripted prior to the event that were sure to get those people to laugh and think of you as a cool person.
Basically if you experience something out of the ordinary with a stranger, something uncomfortable happens and you manage to ease the tension somehow then that person becomes your friend.
Like in high school or middle school, during the first day, everyone was nervous but Guy A asked Guy B for a pencil and then returned it during home room. Later that day they met again in science class or something, they can ease the tension of being in a new and unknown environment by asking each other "hey weren't you in my homeroom" then a conversation begins and those guys are now good friends.
Making friends as an adult is about recreating these things, tense or out of the ordinary environments are windows for you to climb into a relationship with whomever happens to be in the environment with you. You gotta learn to recognize these opportunities or make them happen.