Guys, im going to give you one tip to improve your lives and start dealing with your loneliness, social anxiety or whatever problem you have.
Stop visting this fucking place. This board is awesome at making people insecure about the most little things that at the end doesn't really matter in real life.
After that, you will eventually stop being self-indulgent and you will start facing your problems.
You are welcome.
>JUST stop visiting this place
What else would i do when i'm sitting at home?
If there is anything you can be insecure about, you should be insecure about it. Because obviously it's important. It's just that most people IRL ignore this to feel better.
>>27607047
Anything, read a book, learn to play an instrument, improve your cooking skills... Eventually you will feel better about yourself.
browsing this shithole is probably the worst thing you can do with your time if you are lonely or depressed.
>>27607047
write a novel or someshit
>>27607055
no most people choose to focus on being productive rather than how life is a dirty bitch and you might die tomorrow
>>27607047
Anything man. This place is fucking hell.
Goes for the internet in general. Don't live your life on your computer. Do anything else.
I don't visit this place that much anymore but I still can't function in public.
>>27607104
>no most people choose to focus on being productive rather than how life is a dirty bitch and you might die tomorrow
That makes them cucks. Focusing on being productive and accepting injustice. That's some slave mentality.
>>27607047
go to reddit
before you do anyhting you needto havesome discipline
It's hard to do anything else with absolutely no willingness.
I feel lonely, worthless, and just horrible.
I try to pry myself away from 4chan to do anything else but I just can't push myself to do anything else.
Nothing seems to work for me. I bought all of these books I was super interested in and I can't bring myself to read them.
How the fuck do people do anything.
>>27607089
I do have a book i could read, i cook sometimes but that's not enough time, i tried guitar but i was too bad to be able to do anything and can't afford classes to get started.
Going on here is just so easy and comes automatically unlike going to read.
>>27607104
>write a novel or someshit
nice suggestion but not possible for me since i have nothing to write
>>27607144
>Anything man. This place is fucking hell.
like what?
>>27607180
>go to reddit
I did try that but couldn't find enough interesting stuff.
I try to go man but when in a sick way this site helps my mood. I have more in common with everyone here than I do with anyone else in my life.
Probably shouldn't stay though because I'm starting to hate women instead of myself. I'd rather not feel hate at all
>>27607342
>I do have a book i could read, i cook sometimes but that's not enough time, i tried guitar but i was too bad to be able to do anything and can't afford classes to get started.
>Going on here is just so easy and comes automatically unlike going to read.
just stick to it man, you dont need classes to to improve at guitar, stop making excuses.
Anyway , those were just examples, there are infinite things you can do in life, just try to find your path. But visiting r9k wont help you find it.
>>27607182
Force yourself to read 5 pages a day, its not a great commitment and eventually you will want to read more naturally.
Reading is a great exercise for the mind and actually helps you feel happier (and there are studies that say that) . You have no will because you are depressed not the other way around. Change your life slowly but steady, and you will feel better in a few months i promise.
>>27607459
>I have more in common with everyone here than I do with anyone else in my life.
You don't need to have anything in common with the people here, your thoughts right now are not part of your personality but a result of your current state of mind.
But I don't have anywhere else to go.
>>27607478
I'd need something to at least get started.
What good is "just stick ot it" going to do when i can't play anything?
>>27607478
>just try to find your path.
I have no idea how to "find my path" or even try to "find my path".
>>27607569
>What good is "just stick ot it" going to do when i can't play anything?
Go to justinguitar or download Rocksmith, or watch some basic guitar lessons on youtube.
>>27607591
Stop doing what you are doing in life at the moment if you are unhappy, that's the first step. You don't really have to change your lifestyle in one day, start with the little things.
>>27607162
no offense but you're retarded. I don't know what you mean by injustice but I doubt it's something like world hunger or political corruption or some shit or the general state of the world, war , etc. I think you've conditioned yourself to think being productive is shilling your self out to the man or selling your soul integrity but why didn't it occur to you to be productive for the sake of yourself and the world around you? In this life you're on your own, there is no help, no free lunch, and life's a dirty bitch that you need to pimp and you need to break that hoe. I think i've realized that about this board. The meaning and sole objective in your lives is love or some sort of romantic connection but since you want to be handed everything because you have it so hard you poor snowflake you don't put in the work because some girl you fell in love with one time when you were a teenage made a porno with a 40 year old while you wrote her love letters now you cut your wrists while jacking off to that shit. Next time you're considering suicide realize there's a scientist that starved to death in africa and his life could've been saved with a fraction of the money you spend on doritos monthly you pathetic sacks of shit christ i hope i never become like any of you
>>27607342
Have you experienced nothing in your life? You have absolutely nothing to say?
I'm a kissless permavirgin schizo who got out of a psychward 5 months ago and i spend all of my time in the small village of a foreign country where i dont spend the language if you faggots say i cant relate. Coming here saved me from becoming a miserable bitter old faggot because fuck all of you the world would be a better place without you whinging consumerist automata normie cucks there isn't anything in the world thats special
>>27607024
I was insecure way before I started visiting this place. When I go here, at least I feel better knowing that there are others who are in the same situation like me and I am not the only one who is this pathetic.
R9k has ruined my fucking life. I can't think positively. I can't talk to girls anymore. I have tantrums and black out and run through the streets like a fucking maniac trying to jump underneath a bus to kill myself.
Now I've lost all my hair and I'm GOING INSANE. There's nothing left for me. I should end my life.
>>27607529
I have been doing a lot better since December. I'm on a lot of antidepressants and am 30 pounds lighter. I don't think about suicide every day and have gotten back into music, which is what I've always been best at.
I'm planning on moving out of my parent's house in June and moving across the country to start a new life. I have some hope for the first time in awhile.
But I still have bad days. I was very lonely last night and unhappy.
I come to this website to find reasons to improve, and within the sludge of shitposts there's sound advice and interesting stories.
I agree with you that I need to leave, but for now it's another way to kill time.
From browsing /r9k/ for a few months now, I can see that it is now a board for people to talk about how their lives are inadequate and how they will always be a virgin. I'm sorry for all of those people who actually have autism or physical abnormalities and can't change anything about it. But, spending your entire life on the internet not doing anything about it isn't going to help. Sure, call me a normie but I just don't want to see good people go to shit just because they feel that they can't and never will fit in. If I ever met one of the sad users on /r9k/ in real life, i would try to make them feel better and give them some1 to come to when they feel down. I'm not perfect, but I just try to look for the good in life and try to live it to it's fullest regardless of what comes in my way...
>>27607983
>I agree with you that I need to leave, but for now it's another way to kill time.
The worst way probably
>>27608876
No question. Right now I'm watching a Nazi documentary on history channel, then I'm going for a run to get some sunlight. But for now I'll shitpost.
>>27607569
http://justinguitar.com/
Don't thank me, just get the hell out of this place. That's thanks enough.
>>27607821
the only reason I continue to live is out of spite to people like you
>>27607821
Improve myself for the world? Don't make me laugh. I'm inferior and for that the world treats me accordingly. Why should I go out of my way to help it.
>>27607024
Wow thanks i never thought of that!
>>27609206
so why aren't you doing it retard.
>>27607024
>After that, you will eventually stop being self-indulgent and you will start facing your problems.
But, boards like this are the only thing that motivate me.
Wageslaving just makes me want to sleep. Listening to normalscum makes me want to die.
T-that's probably a good idea.
i don't have anywhere else to go though
this is all I do, and it's all I've done since I was a kid
>>27609379
>But, boards like this are the only thing that motivate me.
>Wageslaving just makes me want to sleep. Listening to normalscum makes me want to die.
im talking mostly about r9k , b, and soc
I just don't care about my life enough to do anything else. I just wake up, go on my computer, then go to sleep
also, your qt, innocent virgin waifu exists, but the whores on here would like to convince you otherwise to feel better about their used goods status.
your qt, innocent virgin waifu DOESN'T BROWSE R9K.
The only thing I can get myself to do is write. I'm probably utter shit at it, but I'm more shit at everything else.
