Give me one good reason why you don't have a gf yet
I'm unattractive
>inb4 hurr workout brah bee yourself
No, I'm just unattractive. Simple as that
I can't handle the responsibility of having one.
I'm also terrified of it, the last thing I want to do is let someone down.
I'm not a Chad. That's one reason among many, but you asked for one.
>>27594801
That guy's probably tall. He's got nice hair and a decent enough beard. He dresses acceptably. He's probably social with an okay personality. I'm none of these things.
>>27594801
>OP is such a fagget that he wants to provide for some random girl who notices him
you are a true hero OP
If I get a girlfriend I'll have to do better in life, I'll feel more responsibility, and It's something I can't really handle. Also every time I have put myself out there I always end up getting hurt.
>>27594847
this anon understands
>>27594801
I'm uggo and even if not every girl I know is taken.
Because I am anti social. And I don't want to change. I also fear intimacy.
>>27594801
I'm fatter, less attractive, and more autistic than he is.
women cost money. I don't have money. and I'm not attractive enough to make money irrelevant.
I'm ugly as fuck
How can i fix my fucking face?
>balding at 23
>big jew nose
>acne scars
>greasy skin
>latino shitrace
>>27594801
I'm fat and have had no self confidence since my dad walked out on us
I'm too fucked up to change into someone who is capable of having a loving relationship with anyone.
>be 18, I would say average looking
>senior year of high school
>pretty strange guy
>have 5 AP classes
>busy studying most of the time
>if I'm not studying I'm at the gym
>spend free time watching anime, playing PC games, or browsing 4chan
>never been to a party
>don't really enjoy drinking or drugs
>if I'm stressed I just go to the gym
>don't really talk to many people at school
>have 4 good friends I've know since freshman year, mostly talk to them
>only talk to girls about schoolwork, never talk to them unless I have to
>girls I talk to don't seem to be interested so I just don't assume anything
Long story short, I focus more on my academics and getting /fit/ than getting a gf. I really regret sometimes, like tonight, I'm feeling really lonely and wish I had a qt to cuddle with ;.; but oh well I'm still young so maybe things will change in college.
Realistically though, I'll probably end up with a job where I don't have to talk to many people and I'll hire escorts whenever I get lonely.
>terrible interpersonal skills
>bad hygiene
>terrible mess myself
>shy
>the list goes on
![[UTW-Mazui]_Kill_Me_Baby_-_01v2_[h264-720p][D277F47D].mkv_snapshot_15.03_[2015.10.29_00.34.41].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/DMXEYq5.jpg "[UTW-Mazui]_Kill_Me_Baby_-_01v2_[h264-720p][D277F47D].mkv_snapshot_15.03_[2015.10.29_00.34.41].jpg")
I'm a lazy, scrawny, worthless piece of shit who smokes to much pot and I refuse to change myself.
The idea of having one makes me absurdly uncomfortable, and I'm unattractive so I don't have to worry about girls wanting me.
>>27596459
That file
I'm going to remember this for the rest of my life and I'm honestly excited
This is my new creed
>>27594801
i do online school and dont leave my house
Real life and /r9k/ have combined to make me so bitter, jaded and cynical that I no longer have any desire for one.
>I'm not a Chad
>beta as fuck
>muslim
>dating is non existent in Pakistan
>>27594903
>thinking it's only 5000
That poor normie.
I wore my diapers well into my teenage years, poo poo pee pee mommy clean up after me
>>27594801
The only girl who likes me is ugly as fuck
Every girl I ask on a date fucking flops or ditches within an hour or so. Fuck me man..
>beta as fuck
>Muslim
>live in Pakistan
>dating non existent
>>27594801
I dont like normie activities and therefore I dont practice my social skills 24/7 like they do.
Plus im poor.
If I had my own place and car, id have a gf years ago.
>>27596615
I feel like I've heard someone say that before...are you memeing or are you serious?
If you're serious start browsing /fit/ and read the sticky.
Well...
>Fear of intimacy, both physical and emotional
>Live with parents
>Going nowhere in life
>Insecurities about my body because I'm incredibly thin
>Teeth aren't great
>Collect stupid nerd shit
>No idea how to handle a relationship of any sort, let alone a romantic one
I think I'll stick to being alone. I would like to have a girlfriend but I'm just not fit for it, physically, emotionally or financially.
>>27594801
He must have a lot of money.
>>27594801
I've been a robot for so long that the idea of intimacy scares me now.
The thought of actually kissing or having sex disgusts me now, I don't know why.
>>27594801
I'm a complete and utter recluse who is incapable of having normal, smooth interactions with other people whatsoever. LOL
>what would you even do with a gf? asuka.jpg
>>27597098
roger roger hahahaha
>tricking another person in to thinking im not a ticking time bomb with boat loads of problems just to make them care about me and suffer because of that
Nice bait thread OP
>>27594801
i don#t know any girls except a few colleagues at work, and they're all 36+ and unattractive physically and mentally. I'm 19.
Because I'm busy playing make believe with my internet gfs
I can't stop pining for this girl, and living at home. Things might change soon though.
>>27594801
because I'm short.
>>27594847
>tfw that's exactly what I'm doing right now
Trust me robots it's most definitely not worth it. Not to people like us
>>27596459
Crippled by fear.
I'm short and I hum my
A E S T H E T I C about
Because I fucked up and thought charisma was a dump stat IRL
i'm the ugliest living person
I don't know how to open up and be vulnerable with who I really am. I know all of the rights things to do, say and not say, but I can't seem to open up.
>>27597257
pic for evidence
>too ugly to ever have a gf
>>27597280
You're not that bad my man. Chin up and don't worry about shit too much. You seem like you have too much on you'd mind.
Extremelly expensive
Kynda having a job and going to college right now barelly making it since i 1/4 of the pay check goes to mom so she can pay some of our bills.
>>27597280
obviously your not ugly, your like one of dumb attention seeking thots
>>27594903
>one of the richest wite bois on earth
>best he could do was a horrendously plain asian wife
God we're fucking doomed.
>>27594801
I've given up on getting a gf. Then again shortly after I gave up on getting a job I wound up getting bombarded with job offers.
>>27597302
That's very responsible and good of you. She'll come around soon, anon. I promise.
>>27597313
>Zuckerkike
>white
>>27594801
I'm Elephant Man tier ugly
Literal genetic abomination
No amount of lifting can ever fix my face and no surgery can ever make my head smaller than a basketball
;__;
>>27594801
I have a gf. She's pretty great. Y'all should consider it.
>>27597328
Thank you, so nice of you.
>>27596459
Things aren't going to change in college. I was in an exact situation as you with lifting and all. In highschool, it's easy to make friend and keep contact with as you see the same people everyday. In college, it's everyone for themselves. I don't want to let you down but expect to stay inside the house with 0 friend 99% of the time outside group project.
>>27597280
lose the fucking weight fatty
>>27595055
shave head
>>27597104
Let's play: Spot the Meth head.
You start.
>>27597302
Get yourself a low maintenance gf
Because I've been alone for so long that it'd be weird to meet someone now.
I couldn't do that to some poor woman, that would be a terrible thing to do. I know I'm a shitty person and I'd rather not impose myself on others.
>tiny dick
>ugly as fuck
why do you think
>>27594801
My alcoholism. I have a good job and never have problems, but when I'm not working I'm drinking constantly and the only people I consider friends are my bartenders. I probably miss a lot of chances because I can be distant when I am sober.
The other day I was thinking about how I want a gf, and then I thought about having to meet her friends and family and having to talk to them. I didn't want a gf anymore.
>>27597385
>>27597385
Nah i don't even have extra income to increase "social points" like buying nice clothes or going to party
Neither have spare time, only mornings and 2 days off from work, one is sunday, the other wednesday. I use that time for studying.
It's alright, i don't plan getting a normal gf ever anyway. I had one relationship and i wouldn't recommend it.
Work equals to time you lose into something you dislike, for a low maintenance gf you would need to find one who 1) is in the same situation as yourself and understand the real value of money and 2) doesn't give a fuck about their awfull women friends or family about how i don't have a car and shit like that
Wage slave life that's it.
Thanks for the space so i can bitch about wageslaving
i'm fat and ugly and not an e-famous twitchfaggot
there, i gave you three for the price of one
my old one dumped me in january and i made it myself a rule to not date/fug/flirt/whatever for 4 months after a relationship ended
>>27597477
Girlfriends are more work than they are worth, but we're slaves to biology so it's difficult to make your sex drive disappear. I got so pissed when I had to waste my weekends doing some retarded shit with my ex and her family. The worst was when she had her nieces and nephews spend the weekend with us. They are between 2 and 7 so too young to do anything fun with, it was all just annoying cartoons and waking up at 6 AM. I fucking hated wagecucking all week and then spending my two days off babysitting screaming little shits. Watching them made my ex too tired to fuck (plus she was worried they would hear us) so that was an awesome bonus.
t. fallen normie
>>27597559
lmao why dont you get a gf you actually enjoy spending time with
I'm defective product
>>27597587
Maybe he actually liked her
never have actually put effort into obtaining one, much like the faggots here who complain about not having a gf
>>27597587
I did enjoy spending time with her. It was her family and friends I didn't like. We lived just far enough (4 hour drive) from her family that we didn't see them all the time but when we did it meant spending days at a time with them.
If I could find a shut in gf with a small family that lives on the other side of the country that would be great.
>have crush on girl for years
>talking to her regularly
>me her and some normies complaining about being single
>she says "I'm not looking for a relationship anyways lol"
>one week later, gets with someone.
>surely must be some chad
>is pic related
>why.jpg
These things are truly beyond my understanding
>>27596741
Haha nice you're fucking retarded that's so cool haha wow love it great post keep doing it
>>27597634
look pretty normalshit to me, not that chad.
>>27597614
shut the fuck up you fucking asshole
>>27597625
i see
>>27597648
That's why I am confused.
Not only am I extremely picky, but I also lock up when I'm speaking to women I find attractive.
Every fucking time I decide that a certain girl is girlfriend material she already has a boyfriend. Last week was the 4th time this has happened and I'm just sick of trying my hardest to develop a bond with a girl, then to find out I'll never be more than an acquaintance to pass small talk with. Being socially inept doesn't remedy me.
What's the best way on giving up on wanting a gf?
I hear 2D is pretty liberating, how does one embrace it?
>>27597652
But i was right
faggot
>mfw when i could have kissed her
>mfw when i didn't because i started thinking about how ugly and useless i am
I guess i should have, she's amazing but what's the point? i'm a burden, it would only take a little time to realise that i have no idea of who the fuck i am and that i'm a mess with multiple personalities for multiple people
>>27597664
Maybe he met all her standards and decided to give it a try.
Take it count that it's not a "week later". For sure they were dating before.
It happens a lot, do not be confused
>ugly as hell
>fat and lazy
>13 cm needle dick
>not white
>manlet
>poor as fuck
>only girl that likes me lives in another country and actually has a boyfriend so I'm a fucking cuck
>>27597666
yes i know but youre still an annoying little shit. nice trips.
>>27597713
reply to this >>27597666
With your wish, only one, and i will grant it... but with a surprise included
>>27597299
it's pretty fucking bad man
>>27597303
obviously i am. no girl ever liked me, i'm 0 for a lifetime
>>27597359
my facial asymmetries become way more obvious when i lose weight
it's an unwinnable situation
>>27597737
what the fuck are you talking about buddy
>>27597634
>>27597648
Confidence is key anon. He's a solid 6-7 on looks, but add confidence and personality and he could attain near chadhood.
>>27597765
im not your buddy, pal
+-+
idk i think im ugly no self confidence so yolo
>>27597767
hes not that low
But i can tell he is a mantlet lmao
>>27597809
You're not good looking either. You're about 3/10 now. Could be 4/10 if you shaved.
I literally don't know any girls. There are less than a dozen girls (none of whom I've seen except on the other side of the lecture theatre during the first term) on my computer science course of ~180 students, and there are no girls in the anime society, nor do any show up to gaming.
I'm kind of OK at being social, I have some friends, but it seems like the only way for me to even know girls, let alone have a gf, is to go out drinking (I don't drink) or take up hobbies I dislike, and I'd rather have no gf than do things I don't like doing.
>>27594801
omg omg omg
>>27597812
Unfortunately I am too so no advantage there.
>inb4 manletbtfo
>>27597826
pretty sure i just have a fat face
>>27597907
you're ugly fag, stop posting multiple pics seeking approval
>>27597907
Get a different haircut. That one is full autism teir.
>>27597927
damn ur a angary little bitch how fat are u?
>>27597907
Your biggest problems I can see is negative canthal tilt, puffy homo lips, eyes too big, shitty jaw/chin.
As I said before - 4/10 - will not slay.
>>27597906
say hi to the ants for me buddy
>>27594801
As of right now I'm not interested in anyone and no one is interested in me.
I'm broke and I don't want a girl paying for me on a date. I do have a fuckbuddy though if that counts.
>>27594847
This exactly. I've had opportunities, even to where girls actively try to get with me or set up dates in their own not-so-subtle ways, but I just don't like commitment and don't think the benefits of being in one would outweigh the drawbacks of being in one. It wouldn't really be fair to actively go seeking relationships when I know that 9 times out of 10 when I'm 'supposed to be doing something with my gf', I would rather make up an excuse so I can chill out alone.
I'm a robot by choice
>>27597634
Only flaws I can see arelated he's a tad skinny and has some skin problems. Plus he might have an appealing personality. If you are the average poster looks wise, it's no surprise. Still, sorry brobot.
There are 4000 more males than females in my age group where I live.
>>27594801
I never had a crush on anyone
I have a hard time keeping relationships
Two reasons because fuck you
>>27594847
This. I'm at some point where I'm just afraid of having a gf. I wouldn't know what to do with her besides from sex.
>>27596459
holy crap i was exactly that
Haha, faggots. I do have a gf. My only issue is trying to remain single for as long as possible.
>>27594801
>JUST GET A GF!!!!11
>HONESTLY BRO YOU HAVE SEVERE EMOTIONAL PROBLEMS THAT NEED TO BE WORKED OUT FIRST BEFORE YOU EVEN CONSIDER A GF!!!11
cant even b8 consistently
>>27594801
becouse i dont want one, im pretty busy dealing with my life to expend energy in that shit.
>>27594801
Because I have absolutely no interest in any form of romantic or sexual relationship or encounter.
>>27594801
delete this elete this elete this elete this elete this elete this
I have fordyce spots.
I'd have to hide everything in my life from her
>how I spend most of my free time (4chan)
>my internet history and harddrives
>my living situation (mommy)
>my social situation (like 2 friends)
>my career situation (minimum wage retail)
>my personality (boring and autistic)
So much work, just to get to an average level. I don't think I could keep it up.
>>27597280
STOP POSTING YOU'RE FUCKING FACE
YOU POST IT IN EVERY THREAD JESUS CHRIST REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
DOES NOBODY ELSE SEE THIS GUY ALL THE FUCKING TIME
IS THIS A MEME? AM I MISSING OUT ON A MEME? I CANT TAKE IT ANYMORE REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
>>27597366
I'm not him but my head shape is shit, can't shave. I miss my decent hairline.
>>27597907
You've got nice lips imo. Not bad at all. 6.5/10
>>27597268
same situation here. Really don't know how to get out of it, even if I could I would fear the reaction of people who knew me in the way I show them before.
>>27594801
I'm ugly, boring and dumb. Not to mention I'm too scared to ever try to get one.
The idea of me having a gf is so absurd that I can't help but laugh.
>>27596459
>I'm still young so maybe things will change in college.
Should I tell him?
>>27596738
Cool (original) clock, Ahmed
Guy in the OP webm has godly beard
Ofc he's getting pussy
>>27597352
Really?
The idea never crossed my mind!
I'll run out and get one today :)
>tfw you had a gf but she broke up with you
fucking REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE-
>been going out for a month
>love her, it was going pretty smooth
>get a text one day
>"I miss the old you anon, you used to be so hilarious"
>"I am so lonely sometimes and you're not there for me".
1. I never changed? Wtf, am I supposed to be a comedian 24/7?
2. I was always there for her, it's just that we have different working schedules and since we both live at home with parents, she's a bit sheltered so she HAS to have "a day's notice", so I can't do anything spontaneous with her.
>tfw prom is coming up and we broke up
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
>she was my first gf
>ugly as sin
>black
>schizophrenic
Take your pick
>>27601445
Nobody asked for your fucking life story, you stupid faggot normie
>>27594801
several reasons:
1. I'm fairly average looking, 5/6 on a good day
2. I occasionally go outside apart from work, and all my friends who i hang out with are married/have gfs
3. Ive let go of myself and gotten fat (5'10 230 at last measurement)
4. I'm not sauve enough to come up with a great line when messaging girls on dating sites, and I end up sounding like a sarcastic asshole
5. I'm a 27 year old virgin (not kissless, tho)
all these things factor in, but at the end of the day, all it really means is that I can save up to buy the car I want and easily put 15% of my paycheck into my roth 401k, also with some other investing shit
>manlet
>probably objectively ugly
>skinnyfat
>terrible hair that can't be styled because it's so thin and damaged
>permanent bags under eyes
>borderline jew nose
>blackheads
>probably small dick (never measured)
>socially retarded
>few friends
>pasty skin
>faggy voice
>shit facial hair
>shit dress sense
Need I fucking go on? TELL ME WHAT TO DO
I'm currently attempting to go into the 2D realm so I could meet my waifu.
All of my attempts ended in failure but I won't give up yet!
I'm also trying to master shapeshifting so she wouldn't be disappointed by me.
1. i can't love anyone anymore, i can't even love myself
2. even if i can, i don't like relationships. it forces us to be someone we're not
3. i can't approach women
4. my personality is not attractive to women
5. i have a small dick, so i can't trust any woman.
every woman I met are fucking plebs
>>27601474
you sound like a pleasant person
>>27601607
>i have a small dick, so i can't trust any woman.
is it under 5 inches?
>>27601445
Wow it's like I really am on reddit!
>>27596459
>>have 5 AP classes
>>busy studying most of the time
Chad has 5 AP classes and still fucks and parties all the time.
AP classes are a joke anyways, pretending like they're hard as an excuse for not getting laid is pussy shit.
Just admit that you're too scared to try.
>>27601636
yes. if i'm above 5 inches i wouldn't identify myself as small.
>>27596459
Shit, You just described my situation perfectly, except for that watching anime part
I miss my ugly ex gf.
pic related
>>27601947
Nice tache.
>>27601629
I have a magnetic personality
>>27601617
10/10 grammar
You should win a Pulitzer
I'm a faggot
>hur why don't you have a bf
Simple. I'm 30 and not dominant
>>27601525
Fix dress sense, keep clean shaved, get buff, wear hat/beanie, wash face regularly, get better sleep, and tan.
>she will eventually cheat on you
>she wants kids and will lie about birth control
>you have to hide all your anime/hentai
>because she is female she will intellectually demoralize you
>she will smell
>she will control when you get to sex and attack you for masturbating
>no porn allowed
>she will expect expensive dinners and gifts
>you will have to drive her everywhere including to her male friends (its 2016)
>she will get fatter/uglier as time goes on
>she will be a roastie unless you're the luckiest guy on earth
>she will hide her feelings from you and trashtalk you behind your back
>she will never truly care about you, you are just one of hundreds she cucked
I could go on forever but all you get in return is sex. Is that worth ruining your life for?
>>27594801
because i am literally and figuratively a homosexual
Personal issues and shit aside, I don't have my own place right now. I'm an idealist so I want privacy because family is stupid so I don't want to get bitter from them while having fun with a partner. That's assuming I manage to get over other problems I have with socializing.
Then there's my high school crush I haven't gotten over yet (grad last year) so getting any interest in other women is tough.
I'm pretty much addicted to vidya, saving for an upgrade.
Basically, everyone has their circumstances. I can't have one at any rate because neet bfs are red flags and as productive person I need more cooldown time from people.
dick too big might kill woman LOL
>>27594801
>APD
>GAD
>Depression (diagnosed yet unmedicated)
>No job and not one friend online or offline
>Hate everyone and always did always will
I don't care about a 'gee eff'
>>27604483
APD = avoidant personality disorder
fuck google it doesn't come up when searching apd
>>27594801
disgusting, she's with him for money.
>>27604498
Which is why you say AvPD
>my ex left me 3 months ago, too soon
>I'm a single dad
>I met with a girl off pof and she was much fatter than hie pics, and I realized it was too early for me to start seeing someone anyway.
I'm just waiting for DAS3 right now.
>>27604579
My best friend is dating a dude whose wife left him and their kid for someone 25 years older she met on a MMO
Fucking women
>>27604787
>getting clucked by 45 year old runescapers
lmfao wew
>>27604787
Woah that's fucked.
My ex is just extremely unstable. She left because she realized she was slowly destroying me and the kids. It sucks, but it's definitely the most compassionate things she's done for us.
>>27604833
50 year old, and not Runescape, Oh, and he was a virgin, so don't give up hope if you're a wizard, I guess?
She looks like a mess though.
>>27594801
>tfw chad looks
>some stacies show interest in me
>i actually am in love with a girl who thinks of me as a best friend
>>27596459
Hey jacob
Multiple reasons.
For one I am overweight and that is simply not attractive. Secondly I kept to myself and a small circle of friends and I don't go out in general. You don't meet women that way. Personalitywise I'm pretty shy and I don't really pick up when women show interest. It's happened a few times that I noticed too late. Losing weight now and I'm more confident than in my teens, but the social situation is pretty much the same. Also I'm 29 now so experiencewise there is a big gap. I'm not saying that I'll never get a girlfriend but for the foreseeable future there is none in sight.
>>27594801
Because I have small dick and also I'm unatractive (but I think some girls like me but maybe I'm just telling myself). Also I haven't find female worth my attention.I'm fucking degenerate
I've never asked a woman out and at this point have rejected two
I'm a KHV at 26
>>27594801
because unlike that guy I have no idea what to do with women.
my looks are ok I would say, I don't get hit on by women but they don't run away from me either.
once I start to talk it's different story. my personality is really fucked up apparently.
when I go through my old text conversations I can see how creepy I am but at the time it seems like good thing to say.
I don't say anything creepy at its own. it's the whole feeling out of what I say that creeps me out.
I pretty much say exactly what they want to hear but then it sounds like I am some kind of psychopath that wants to manipulate them.
I don't try. Waiting to move out so I can have somewhere to fucking bring her.
I do, but I know she loves me far less than i love her and every day it kills me.
I'm 23.
Too old to find anyone new at this point, and all the good girls are taken.
>>27594801
Give me one good reason why I should get a gf.
>>27597634
she said it because she knew you were crushing on her and she didn't want you to make a move
>>27606248
well you aren't going to date 23 years old girl are you? you can go for 18 years old one np. 5 years is nothing. my uncle is 10 years older than his wife. he got her pregnant when she was 17.
>>27596768
tell your brothers and fathers to stop raping our beautiful women please
>>27600884
look at the filename
>>27601947
She's qt. Are you serious right now?
>>27606509
Well fair enough, but now I am wondering whether or not she was even single when she said that, or if they were already together. Perhaps I'd do better to put it out of my mind for a while.
>>27594841
Shit man, I'm unattractive, fat and hairy as fuck and I have a girlfriend.
>>27594801
Not looking for a relationship. Got offered to hook up, declined.
Mfw I value education > relationships
>>27596738
>>27596768
Are you even 18 yet lad?
Heera Mandi might be the place for you if you want some action. Granted you live in Lahore.
Truthfully, it just seems like too much work for me. Having to constantly call/text someone, having to go out and entertain them, having to buy them things, just too much of a hassle really.
>>27594801
This. I'm also too lazy to do all the social shit needed to get her to like me.
I'm 5'3" and nonwhite. 80% of the dating pool is eliminated right there
>>27601947
Fuck man she looks like my ex too. She had these big knockers as well though.
She came out as gay though.
>>27597907
Something about just makes you look autistic. I think you could be a 6/10 or 7/10 if you start caring about what you wear and get a better haircut.
>>27597809
Shave.
>>27596738
>I'm not a Chad
Most of the population isn't
>beta as fuck
You can become more "alpha" with just experience
>muslim
You can leave a religion
>dating is non existent in Pakistan
Move away.
>>27597634
>Crush on a girl for years
>talking to her regularly
It was already done at that point. Anon women aren't like men, if you aren't a couple in 2-4 months of meeting she only sees you as a friend. Especially if you just keep talking with her, that's what girls do with their friends.
>>27597280
Not ugly just fat.
>>27596459
Most likely girls are interested in you, you just aren't noticing the hints. Learn about body language and flirtation mate.
>>27601445
>A month
>love
Lol nope, just infatuation
>"I miss the old you anon, you used to be so hilarious"
Nah you just turned from a hilarious guy to the clingy limp dick doormat.
>"I am so lonely sometimes and you're not there for me".
Just another excuse for making the break-up easier for her.
>>27601522
Get fit, no need to be a fucking Casanova just be interesting, get hobbies, if you are a virgin don't mention that just pretend that you have had sex.
>>27601525
Get fit, shave you head, try going to sleep earlier (force yourself if you have to), take care of your skin (Facial Cleanser, Exfoliator, Moisturiser), measure your dick and compare it to your nations average, speak slower, fashion is easy nowadays just use google and you can find multiple resources for it.
>>27603157
>Letting woman control your life
It seems there are 2 bitches in your relationships.
>>27604579
>Too soon
Fuck no, get over it she doesn't love you anymore and never will
>Single dad
Women love that shit
>Meet an ugly woman, feel no attraction
Whoopdie doo. Try again
There you go guys, don't wallow in your sadness when you can actually fix shit.
>>27606248
>believing a graph made in fucking ms paint
Holy shit how much insecurity can a single person have. Also the age for men for dating never actually ends since you can always make children, the age of death only exists for women and its late as 35.
>>27609395
Here is a graph of how the sexual market value actually goes.
>>27607756
yeah but your girlfriend is probably fat and hairy as fuck too
>>27604907
Ask her out anon, you will risk your friendship but regret is always better than the pain of not knowing how it would go.
>>27609440
What about the dude in OP?
>>27594801
What does it matter? Telling you isn't going to help change my situation.
>>27609440
fuckin rekked him anon good job
>>27609333
>trips are wasted by a wannabe Chad poster
Life is a joke
>>27594801
Because I don't care enough anymore to try.
>>27609440
fucking
R E K T
E
K
T
>>27597280
holy shit you are ugly, have you ever even made eye contact with a girl that wasnt accidental on her part?
I have a very small penis and my entire body is covered in stretch marks and loose skin from when I was 100 lbs heavier. I can't get over the fear of a girl seeing my horrific body so I don't even bother trying.
>>27597634
>why don't she like me?
Elliot is that you?
You're obviously an ugly weirdo
>>27609759
>holy shit you are ugly, have you ever even made eye contact with a girl that wasnt accidental on her part?
not even once
Never tried getting one.
Can't be that hard though.
never had a gf
never will
i feel like im missing the part of my brain that knows how to deal with females
i dont care, never have
>>27609654
>Wannabe chad
Not a chad, barely a normie. I just fucking hate it when people whine about sadness, how their life sucks, why can't they get a gf and then give a list of FUCKING FIXABLE THINGS. Its like they fucking want to be pathetic failures. Because while I don't have anything too wrong in the looks (completely average imo) I've had to battle with mental issues. An eating disorder, depression and paranoia have made my life at points fucking hell and now I'm just glad I'm still alive.
Oh boy I already love babysitting my kids, my family's kids, and my parents might as well babysit one of my peers too
>>27609888
Its something called experience anon.
>>27601711
lol @ dicklets
>>27609333
>It seems there are 2 bitches in your relationships.
>>27609848
so you're an eyecontactless, handholdless, hugless, kissless manlet virgin?
Are you meaningful conversationless too? how old are you?
Maybe there's some ugly faggot prize you can win. You will for sure be a wizard congrats
>>27609824
This. Even if you aren't necessarily ugly, your competition in pic is near chad. Unless you were chad or very lucky you were doomed to lose.
>>27609654
Shit, does this now mean he is right? I though that trips = the truth.
>>27610042
>Are you meaningful conversationless too?
yes
>old
25
>for sure be a wizard
i'm pretty sure i'll kill myself first
>>27609924
>An eating disorder, depression and paranoia have made my life at points fucking hell and now I'm just glad I'm still alive.
Most people don't talk about their mental issues when they are replying to OP's question, they'll use superficial flaws because those are the things that people are willing to admit. If the people on this thread started talking about non-superficial flaws this thread would be way worse. Let me show you an example about non-superficial flaws preventing me from getting a gf:
My constant need to hide the fact that i'm a ticking time-bomb keeps me from establishing any meaningful emotional connection.
See? Would you actually visit a thread filled with these kind of shit?
>>27610151
>See? Would you actually visit a thread filled with these kind of shit?
Its /r9k/ so yeah. Complaining about superficial shit is just absolutely stupid unless you are just fucked by your genetics completely and go into the 1-3/10 category. You can fix them, so go do it why would you ever let something that negatively affects your life stay willingly.
>>27598164
>Having sympathy for a sore loser like this.
>>27610077
well at least you got double dubs
>>27610297
>the only thing in your life is getting consecutive digits on a pakistani oven cleaning forum
>>27594801
My Personality is as ugly as my looks
I tried my best
i haven't made an effort to meet new people in over 3 years
>>27610277
Getting fit won't get rid of all their deeper flaws like:
-Self-hatred
-Inability to trust other people
-The belief that nobody cares about them so they need to do everything on their own without the help of others
-The belief that they are not meant to be happy.
-Etc
>>27610566
lol get a load of this emo loser
>>27609924
>An eating disorder
lol just eat less bro
>depression
lol just be happy bro
>paranoia
lol you're just imaging things bro
that's how you're sounds
>>27610566
>Getting fit won't get rid of all their deeper flaws like
That is exactly what I'm saying anon, please read my posts again.
>>27610649
You're basically saying that people shouldn't complain about superficial flaws because they can be changed, i'm telling you that superficial change does jackshit to the real problems
>>27610638
The fuck, I never addressed the mental problems that some people said. All of the things I listed were completely fixable and mostly on looks which are changeable unless its, height or something fucked by genetics. Maybe you should practice reading comprehension.
>>27597313
>best he could do was a horrendously plain asian wife
it's almost like he chose to spend the rest of his life with a person he had a deep and sincere emotional connection with.
Because I am a mistake.
>>27594801
Because i don't have one. /thread were done here close thread mods.
>>27609924
that's the thing, anon
we can fix ourselves
but the truth is
deep down
we are all lazy
i am too
i have given up
i will never try again
i pray only for death
>>27610806
>>27609924
kek
>muh depression
goes on to say how he hates people who can fix their problems but are just too lazy
kill urself my man
>>27610806
I'm the laziest spic you'll ever know and i get shit done by force of habit
>>27610761
Except the woman looks like a 45 year old taiwanese shoe factory slave
>>27594801
Ugly, shit personality, not actively doing anything about it, manlet, egotistical ass, and I give off an unwelcoming vibe. Tbh it's mostly my fault so I don't really complain
>>27610701
not the guy you were talking to but...
if you can get rid of something you believe is bringing you down it can boost your self esteem.
I had wart on my nose for few years, I felt like it makes me ugly but never really cared enough to get it removed. after years I decided to get it removed and it kinda helped me.
but then I found another flaws so I suppose you might be right after all.
>>27594801
I don't have a vehicle.
I was talking to one girl who was on spring break for a week recently, but because I don't drive there'd be no way to see her. I'm not good at texting and I'd have felt worse if I didn't cut ties sooner.
>>27610701
>You're basically saying that people shouldn't complain about superficial flaws because they can be changed, i'm telling you that superficial change does jackshit to the real problems
Your logic doesn't make sense. "I should not fix things I can fix because there are also things I can't fix so I will leave everything broken." You can make your life better, you can't fix everything but you can definitely improve your life so why not do it? I myself suffer from mental issues that I mentioned before but I'm not 100 lbs overweight anymore, I'm not wearing autism clothes anymore, I don't smell shit and I don't have acne anymore. My life has improved substantially to the point I don't consider suicide everyday anymore. Life can is still shitty but at least not everything is shit.
>>27610933
I'm saying that mindless self-improvement is like pouring water in a broken bucket, it's a futile exercis because you're not dealing with problem you should be dealing with.
Look at /fit/ if you want to see what i'm talking about
>>27610806
Well then I cannot help you
>>27610806
>goes on to say how he hates people who can fix their problems but are just too lazy
>>27609924 Is me, I fixed my problems even though I have depression dipshit, I'm the dude complaining about people not fixing their shit
>>27610933
I suppose your problem is that you care way to much about what other people think about you. sure it's nice what you did with yourself but it's just covering up the real issue I mentioned. but I might be completely wrong as well. I just speak from my own experience.
I have constant fear or bad feeling that people are judging me. whenever someone talks to me and looks at my face for more than few seconds I fell like he is looking for flaws and so on. yes I can feel better when I know that I have perfect clear skin but that feeling is still there.
I have no idea how to get over this. it really bugs me. it gets even worse when you really need to keep an eye contact for example when I talk to a girl I would like to date.
>>27597313
personality is more important than looks later in the relationship, looks are good but who wants to spend 40-50 years of thier life with an annoying SJW neo Feminist Super model.
also beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, who knows what hes into
>>27610991
>I'm saying that mindless self-improvement is like pouring water in a broken bucket, it's a futile exercis because you're not dealing with problem you should be dealing with.
Can you fix the holes? If not then you have the choices: Kick the bucket or keep filling it to the point you can fill it. Because what you sound like goes like this: "I can never have a full bucket therefore I shall have an empty bucket and keep complaining about never having any water at all"
>>27597313
he's probably not as shallow as a typical robot. but nobody is.
>>27597280
> white skin
> those eyes
Listen here pigskin, move to NYC and get an office job, they will hire you cause "muh perfect race" and you will get tons laid
>>27594801
I am a terrible person who doesnt deserve love
>>27611162
You're the one who is adding that self-defeating meaning to what i'm saying. I'm no expert but i think you're projecting your own insecurity onto me
>>27601947
she's such a qt
I wish she was my gf
>>27611098
>I have no idea how to get over this. it really bugs me. it gets even worse when you really need to keep an eye contact for example when I talk to a girl I would like to date.
This feeling will never go away completely but you can lessen it. Improving your looks and getting experience are a huge help. Also what helped me personally was picking up a hobby that requires a lot of practice.
It helped indirectly since after all I know that 99% of the population cannot do something that I can which was a huge confidence booster and people can't just dump it to talent since I worked hard to get that amount of skill.
I know this might sound like "lol just get more confident bro" but the way for me was this. Improve your looks, find a passion and get experience. Only thing that is same
for everyone is getting experience. The mental issues for me are still there but they aren't nearly as prominent as before since they aren't infecting everything else in my life.
Finding a date is jumping into unknown waters every single time. Sometimes it might break your ass. You just have to embrace it and try again and hope it will go better.
Or you can just give up and wallow in your sadness till you die. You decide that for yourself.
And I guess some people find their happiness somewhere else, godspeed for them.
>>27611401
>You're the one who is adding that self-defeating meaning to what i'm saying. I'm no expert but i think you're projecting your own insecurity onto me
Am I mixing up anons that previously commented to you then? I though you said you can't help with mental problems and I went with that even though I disagree with it.
Who here /neverfalleninlove/?
>>27611098
>>27611401
Also sorry if I'm not explaining this clearly, English is not my native language so I will try to explain my thoughts as simply as I can.
I'm annoyed people complaining about people not fixing their superficial problems because they can be completely fixed. I think mental issues can be helped a lot but not completely and utterly fixed, since this has been my experience with them. And fixing superficial problems has helped with the mental problems along with getting hobbies which is even more of a reason to fix them.
If you have had mental issues and have fixed them completely I'd be really interested in hearing your story. Trough medication or therapy? Or something else?
>>27611717
>It helped indirectly since after all I know that 99% of the population cannot do something that I can which was a huge confidence booster
I can see your point but I am modest and humble person. I don't usually look down on people that are worse than me I rather look at people that are better than me to further improve myself.
so in the end I am bringing myself down but at the other hand I am improving my skills as well. every time someone criticize my work (I am programmer) I welcome it because I can and I usually do improve.
it's loser attitude when it comes to communication but it something else when it comes to the results.
my idea of "fixing" this issue is kinda different. I have been thinking about convincing myself that everyone has flaws. but that way I would be doing exactly the same thing I am afraid others do.
>>27596459
This is my situation too, kind of. The girls in my sixth form are all pretty, nice etc. but i dont really want to fuck them. or date them, its like they're just my sisters or something. Is something wrong with me? i just dont have any drive for it, any lust i do feel is gone for the week once im done tossing myself off.
>>27601947
Hey man, I cutified your ex.
I have this vibe with puts other people off. For example i'm somewhat similar with my brother but he gets them laugh and open up everytime while they cringe at me.
>>27594801
unattractive , ugly , lazy , poorfag , no self confidence, irresponsible , miserable , will successfully make every one around him disappointed no matter how easy is his job
>>27612236
FUCK YOUU
SHE WAS CUTE BEFORE YOU DID THIS TO HER
FUCK YOU FUCK YOU
SHE IS A CUTE
>>27594801
>Give me one good reason why you don't have a gf yet
shut-in. enjoy video games and hobbies too much.
>>27596863
That looks to be about 5x more work than just exercising, all that reading and checking and calculating
>>27612064
>my idea of "fixing" this issue is kinda different. I have been thinking about convincing myself that everyone has flaws. but that way I would be doing exactly the same thing I am afraid others do.
That's exactly what it sounds like anon, it seems you are trying to bring others down in your mind. I only work to bring myself up and help others, I don't try to put them down. I don't think people are beneath me just because they don't have the skill I have. But the skill helps with the mindset, if someone were to say or think that are better than me and do not posses the skill I have, they would be automatically false. I hope you understand what I'm saying.
