"Porn isn't real, its a fantasy. It will ruin your expectations of sex and its all fake."
This is literally just coping.
Porn is real. They are real people, really fucking. There really are guys out there with 9 inch hammer cocks who fuck like beasts. Who can make girls cum 3 times and fuck for half an hour before they cum. There really are people out there who are sexually gifted. NOT watching porn is actually the fantasy. You get to pretend your 6 inch penis and 7 minute sex sessions (including foreplay) are good enough. You get to lie to yourself and pretend there aren't guys out there like pic related who could make your girl feel ways she could never feel with you.
Wait are you trying to tell me, that the actually social and "normal" people live in a happy delusion to prevent themselves from going insane? Gee who would have thought.
I will take the bait.
They actually do lots of things that make porn fake. That person who is pounding the girl for like 40 minutes is probably on a couple of pills that make his penis stay hard, and probably has done it so many times before that he is probably desensitized to it.
Same goes for the women in them. Whatever, dawg.
Then why are there only like literally 5 active male pornstars at anytime while there's literally an endless amount of female pornstars?
>>27575055
now youre sounding like a cuck
>>27575098
Do you even watch porn? There may be like 5 guys at a time on the brazzers payroll. But just look through redtube or something. Thousands of no name, amateur guys with huge dicks and amazing fucking ability. These guys are out there. Now imagine all the guys like this who dont do porn. And theres a good chance any decent female is going to have been fucked by 1 or more of them in her life.
>>27575183
Now you're sounding like a cuck. Just as /r9k/ planned.
You fucking retard.
>>27575200
I dont care retard, half of this board has never and will never have sex. The rest are most likely involuntary cucks and im pointing this out to them. Hiding from reality (not watching porn) doesnt make it not exist
>>27575200
Is what he said not right? Are guys like that not out there? Then what's stopping the girlfriend you (potentially) have from just leaving you for one of these guys? Nothing. You're just acting defensively because you know realizing this would make you insecure and so you try to delude yourself by calling anyone who tells the truth a cuck.
You can call people like him cucks all you want, but it doesn't change the fact that guys like that are out there and they can steal any woman you might fancy whether they want.
>>27575055
>Who can make girls cum 3 times and fuck for half an hour before they cum.
Nigga it's called pacing. And learning how to get good with your hands, mouth, and dick. I'm average dick at best, and I've had not a single problem getting anyone off. If you believe you gotta jerk your hips back and forth to make anyone feel pleasure you are sexing wrong.
>>27575245
I know this is a robot board, but you know shit about shit. For normies, sex I'd not everything, but it's a huge part. I have a Chad friend who's girlfriend broke up with him because he liked sex too much, while she was frigid and she felt bad. In 3 years he couldn't turn this saint girl into a slut.
>>27575245
>Then what's stopping the girlfriend you (potentially) have from just leaving you for one of these guys?
I'll take the bait again. What's stopping them from leaving me? My personality. Despite what you think, not all women are parasite vultures who only go for "who got sum fuk" for them. You fucking retard.
It's possible to be an interesting, funny guy without being on a desperate quest for women. Not everything you do should be a desperate quest for pussy, and not every concern you have should be about how annoying women are and how annoying the men who like women are.
I have no idea how I can get this through to you, other than saying that maybe you should live for yourself. Your end goal is not "getting pussy". Your end goal is having a good time, and you can't do that when you're worried about your "facial aesthetics" or fictitious porn chads taking your hypothetical girlfriends away.
>>27575055
Man this is comedy gold brother upvoted Nice aprils fools ruse!
Now for the sake of the more idiotic anons. Porn is a performance. It's like saying Hugh Laurie is a PhD MD because he played Dr. House.
>>27575294
So you said I don't know shit and you threw in an anecdote. That's cute and all, but do you have anything on topic?
Like maybe replying to my post?
>>27575323
It's over, OP. You've lost.
>>27575299
>not all women are parasite vultures who only go for "who got sum fuk" for them. You fucking retard.
[citation needed]
Having a good time? But having a good time would be doing nothing but eating, sleeping and internet. Yeah I can see that attracting many women.
You are full of shit.
>Beta 4chan nerd neet never leave the house
>21cm dick and master of edging
/mischief/
>>27575055
Pornography is degenerate. You deserve in the securities it gives you.
>>27575332
I'm not OP. And you're right. I've lost the moment I wasn't born a top Chad. How is that relevant though?
>>27575055
One thing that is fake is the sizes they say the penises are.
>>27575341
>Yeah I can see that attracting many women.
I said in my EXACT SAME POST that "attracting women" shouldn't be your concern. Let me break down your logic.
In your post here, you refute my point and insist that women ARE in fact, parasite vultures, BUT, in the SAME POST, you refute that living for yourself and enjoying what you do is a BAD idea because it won't get you any women.
WHAT THE FUCK, MAN.
If women ARE vultures who are just after your money and sex, then why do you WANT them?
Exaggerated fiction about real life events is still fiction.
Go spread your cuck fetish somewhere else yiu self defeatist cuckboi
>>27575098
Because there are way less human pussy blasting machines than average looking girls.
>>27575377
>If women ARE vultures who are just after your money and sex, then why do you WANT them?
Don't know, just do. I think that's the case with most men.
>>27575299
>What's stopping them from leaving me? My personality. Despite what you think, not all women are parasite vultures who only go for "who got sum fuk" for them
Kek stay delusional m80
>>27575299
>What's stopping them from leaving me? My personality. Despite what you think, not all women are parasite vultures who only go for "who got sum fuk" for them
Totally spot on
>>27575414
You have to be fucking trolling. Sex isn't that fucking great. It won't make you complete. It won't make you any better of a person. Having sex does not make a relationship. Why don't you guys try forming relationships that don't have anything to do with sex? Like relationships with your family or friends?
When you factor sex out of a relationship, all you have is talking and sharing your interests, which is something that is INFINITELY more satisfying than having sex.
Women will appreciate you treating them like human beings, which they are, and will be more interested in you when you're not just stringing them along until they "open their hole" for you.
But, it's impossible to get to any of you people.
>>27575523
Chads can get sex easily. I can't, that's not fair. And that's why I want it.
>>27575537
Good point. But here's an idea, maybe if you want something, you should try to get it instead of attempting to over-analyze and take down the oppressive "system" that keeps you down.
You can only "win" if you play by the "games" rules. You can't whine and complain until the rules of the game change. I know, it sucks.
But it's like fighting games. It sucks that there is such a large entry barrier to play them, it sucks that it takes a long time to get to any competent level, but you can't just whine and scream until the game developers casualize the genre and take out all of the conventions that make the game deep, intricate or interesting.
lol
all those betas in this thread, even if they get a gf they are going to get used as an emotional tampon and as a purse while they get cucked by chad.
sex doesn't matter when your gf is getting it from someone else.
Ex porn actor here.
I can stay hard for a long time (we're talking in hours) solely because I fap daily.
>deathgrip is real
Also, I need to be in control and use the female as a sextoy to be able to cum
>>27575055
>implying that 21 year old virgin with autism would care about sex
>implying I didnt lost hope long time ago
>implying..
>>27575576
>you can only win if you play by the games rules
IF WE COULD DO THAT WE WOULDNT BE ON THIS BOARD! GET OUT NORMIE REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
>>27575576
>Good point. But here's an idea, maybe if you want something, you should try to get it instead of attempting to over-analyze and take down the oppressive "system" that keeps you down.
Like a bitch.
>You can only "win" if you play by the "games" rules. You can't whine and complain until the rules of the game change. I know, it sucks.
I can't accept that without being angry.
>But it's like fighting games. It sucks that there is such a large entry barrier to play them, it sucks that it takes a long time to get to any competent level, but you can't just whine and scream until the game developers casualize the genre and take out all of the conventions that make the game deep, intricate or interesting.
But why should I accept this? Or even if I accept this how could I ever be okay with this?
Far too many r9k posters seem to base their entire world view on porn. No wonder there are so many self-hating cucks on this board. Woe is me, I don't have a 10 inch dick! May as well stay a virgin for life, jerking off to Chad and Tyrone fucking Stacy.
>>27575873
As opposed to working very hard to get low-tier women just because I got dealt a bad hand?
>>27575789
You should accept it because it's the game you want to play.
If you don't want to play, then don't play. If you stop giving a shit about women and having sex then you're free.
>>27575899
Yes, blame God you faggot. Sometimes you get dealt a bad hand, but you have to work with it. No sense in folding.
>>27575909
Well I know that. But it makes me insanely angry. Normies say it shouldn't, but I just don't understand how can someone live with the humiliation. I know I can't. Trying to play the game is making me miserable and bitter.
>>27575920
No sense if playing if you're gonna get almost nothing compared to luckier people.
>>27575948
you chose to feel humiliated by facts that dont really matter
>>27576001
Not true. Say for example I try hard to approach women while my taller, better looking friend can get a girlfriend easily while playing videogames(real story by the way). Should I not be humiliated about that? Just an example, but generally being expected to work hard or pay more because of arbitrary things you can not change.
>>27576025
im a different guy from the person posting before just saying
and no you shouldnt honestly because your life shouldnt revolve around other people. meeting expectations for people who doent matter, how much sex you have really means nothing. whether your tall really means nothing. if you really want something out of life you have to reach out and make it for yourself not curse the gods for not giving you something right from the start know what i mean
>>27576061
I don't know what you mean.
It's not fair and only a cuck would accept that without being angry. And only a bigger cuck would work hard to "win" a losing game.
>>27575899
May as well just kill yourself and get it over with desu, if that's the sort of attitude you're working with.
>>27576084
I'm ugly as fuck and I got a cute girlfriend that loves me. Instead of wallowing on your own sadness you should strive to better yourself, not for pussy, not for anger, but because of you
>>27576084
you honestly dont feel as though you care to much about what another person thinks about you or why they wont have sex with you. sex is just sex in the end we all die tall guy ends up in the dirt same as the short one dont you feel that its wasted energy to view every person you think has it better than you. maybe you just care to much about the wrong thing?
>>27576102
Is that not true though? Is the attitude not based on the truth?
>>27576106
Yeah I wonder if Chad would have had to work as hard as you to get her.
>>27576106
and by becoming better because of yourself I really mean it. We'll die one die anyway, so may as well make the ride better instead of choosing to only get angry and cry. Life is beautiful and a one-time chance.
We are fortunate that we have internet, a home to live on, food and more or less health.
>>27576133
I think it's wasted energy having to work very hard for things that people get easily. All of this because of getting dealt a bad hand. Things I can't change.
>>27576138
I don't really care if other people had to work hard to get their girlfriends or not, if they need to work harder for pussy or not.
Everyone lives their own drama. If you live on being angry and bitter because people have it better than yourself you're never going to enjoy your own success.
Out there, there's always a person better than you at anything, and really, WHO GIVES A FUCKING FUCK.
>>27576167
then don't work hard for them. Don't work for them at all, who the hell cares.
If you think getting pussy or a girlfriend is too much effort then just don't work for it. Nobody other than yourself will chastise you for it.
>>27576168
I give a fuck. my success? How can I enjoy it? Imagine you walk into a shop wanting to buy shoes. You see some Chad buy shoes you want for 50$, so you pick out your size, go to the counter and the cashier laughs in your face and tells you that you have to pay 200$ for the same shoes. So obviously you ask why. And you get told something like
>Life is not fair deal with it
>Why do you care so much about other people
>You can't be angry that others have it better
>>27576061
Youre right, life has never been fair. It just sucks when you realize the harsh realities. I go to the gym, I work hard and save money, I try to be a successful person and not succumb to the inner robot.
But I have friends who are drinkers, jobless or poor and pretty dumb. But they're good looking chads with big dicks and have the effortless, carefree charisma and personality that stems from that. They can objectively be total losers by societies standards, but countless times I have been with them when we are talking to a group of girls and within seconds the girls are totally focused on them. I try and join the conversation and barely get a glance or acknowledgement, and im not even autistic. Im just normal. But i realize i am totally outmatched and outgunned.
I find myself being thankful i live in the 21st century so i can at least live a comfortable safe life, otherwise i probably would havr been beaten up/killed by these guys who in these modern times just accept me as a friend because im no threat.
It is a natural and very real feeling of inferiority.
>>27576106
>>27576138
>>27576151
>Is that not true though? Is the attitude not based on the truth?
no honestly is just our human habit to label things. we rationalize life but in the end our world is irrational. Sorites paradox is what i think of when thinking about this. your putting value on a distiction that reallly dosent matter and probably isint as bad as you make it to seem for yourself
>>27576179
Of course they will not care. No one will, they want me to either work hard to compensate for things I didn't choose or get nothing.
They think it's fair, that some people have to work very hard for things just because of getting dealt a bad hand. I don't think it's fair and I'm going to be angry about that. Why should I not be?
>>27576197
yea i would be pissed if i was charged a different price but a fuck cost nothing you controll where your effort is put. a show store owes me shoes at the same price another person owes me nothing and i dont owe them anything at all
>>27575055
Okay so what's your point ? Without you saying that, we're already pessimistic about sex and love. What do you get from saying that ? What are you trying to achieve ? Yes, we lost, you win, we can't compete with you, we hate ourselves, and all of my love life didn't work because i keep believing in stuffs that you said. So now what ? Are our sufferings and hatred not enough for you ?
>>27576138
Your attitude is the sort of attitude that scorns any effort ever, since someone else has it easier. I'm not going to pretend that some men aren't going to have a much, much easier time than others when it comes to women. Just like some are born rich and others poor. But we can choose to try to do as good as we can at anything, and accept that doing our best won't nessecarily lead to us being a multi-millionaire Chad. But you are willingly choosing to give up any hope of ever improving and making your life as shit as possible.
>>27576231
Yes because nothing else really makes sense. I just can't live with myself knowing I accept this unfairness. I would be a royal cuck. Someone who lets people shit on him and then works hard for the very same people. That's just surreal to me.
>>27575576
If we're using fighting game analogies, how am I supposed to compete using a broken PS2 controller for Mortal Kombat X on Xbox One?
>>27576222
I don't at all understand your post. I can understand the words obviously, but it just doesn't make sense. Seems like something google translator would generate.
>>27576267
you go to store
store has to pay same price for shoes regardless
its a store they owe you that
girl fucks other guy
she dosent have to fuck you
stop whining
your not accepting less your not a cuck your just blaming life for not fucking the same girls as other people
>>27576198
yeah, I agree with this. Life sucks and is unfair.
You can cry and moan or you can try to enjoy the ride.
>>27576252
Life is unfair in every aspect. You don't want to accept it, but living on earth requires that you do. Don't you want to improve your own life? That doesn't mean chasing after women. But it does mean putting in effort, any sort at all, despite the fact that others might have it easier.
>>27576218
because it only damages yourself, don't you get it?
If you're already hung, why do you feel the need to bring everyone down ? Just use it and stop being here. Seriously though, penis size insecurity feels worse than loneliness, depression, or any suicidal thoughts. It's very difficult, you have no idea
>>27576299
>enjoy the ride
Literally how, nigga. Sex and admiration from girls is all that matters, the only source of joy and pride.
>>27575055
>You get to pretend your 6 inch penis and 7 minute sex sessions (including foreplay) are good enough.
Let's be real here. It's more like 5 inch penis and 3 minute at best sex sessions. These anons also delude themselves with the eating pussy meme. Girls invented this meme to make guys not big like this Chad think they can somehow be good at sex when the girls know these guys can never be. Eating pussy is a beta thing to do anyways. Vagina's were meant to be fucked by cock. Not licked by tongues.
>>27576210
That's why I created a theory, us all should be come more rednecky so we could all get gfs, you see, intelectual and good people like us just exist to suffer, so we should become like those guys who have GFs.
I was thinking about it yesterday, and I will put my plan on work as soon as possible (after I beat Arcanum).
We should do this together guys, really, change the way we dress, talk, act. Be more alpha, fuck the white trash stereotype.
It's not about what you can do for these bitches, it's about what can these bitches do 4u. You act like these cunts are some kind of mystical creatures who's vaginas leak out holy water and not blood. Hold on a minute family, once prostitution is legalized women will have to compete for you. You could drive by a shopping pavilion and see a signs that says "$20.00 blowjobs. $10.00 hand-jobs"
>>27576338
thats sad that you feel that way
>>27576311
Honestly what I really want to do is to leave society and live somewhere in seclusion. Hell I even got a job so I can save up money towards this. Obviously I'm not talking buying land, that would be retarded. I mean just leaving somewhere where no one lives and being on my own. Obviously I would die soon.
But then again if I keep living my normal life, I'm gonna kill myself in a few years anyways. Because as I said, there is only so much humiliation and inferiority one can take.
>>27576342
This. He knows what he's talking about.
>>27576252
you don't even know what is to be a "cuck".
A cuck accepts his situation like you and does nothing to get out of it. There's nothing cucky in trying to better yourself.
>>27576342
>should be come more rednecky so we could all get gfs, you see, intelectual and good people like us just exist to suffer
>intellectual people
you mean libcucks?
>>27576338
if you feel that way then I'm very sorry for you. I have a very high sex drive, but I have a girlfriend and I'll be quite honest for you, she's boring me a little on the sex aspect.
Am I going to leave her because of that? Of course not, I love her. Not everything is fucking sex
>>27576312
Not being angry is not an option, because it makes sense to be.
>>27576299
Yeah lol except in my case enjoy the ride means working hard to get things that many get easily. It means always failing and always being shit compared to people around me. Always being the laughing stock. Being the George Costanza, being the Gunther from Friends, being the guy who always tries and always fails.
>>27576352
i think lot of the people here have felt that before, honestly i hate all this " oh woe is me talk" but i have felt that same feeling whats stops you though i think it would be kind of heroic or deep in its own right
>>27576298
I'm blaming life for not being a top Chad. That's all.
>>27576361
See that is not true. A cuck is someone who accepts the humiliation and isn't angry about it. And even works hard to improve, thus helps the society which humiliates him.
>>27576371
No, I'm rightwing and I consider myself intelectual, anticuck mentality is my way to go.
>>27576375
No, it doesn't make sense to be angry because you fail. You know why you fail? Because you don't even try.
Don't come here with that bullshit about being the guy that always tries and fails, because your whole speak drips defeatism and a "not-even-trying" way of life.
>>27576387
What stops me that if I do this I also help the normies, the society that humiliates me. The Chads. If I work hard to improve, I help the Chads. If I leave, I help the Chads. If I kill myself, I help the Chads.
Seems like there is one more option, one that makes people very angry. We all know what that is.
>>27576396
i think your just focusing on the wrong things why does it bother you that your not top chad
it humilitaing to focus on your own body and say other people are better than you and fuck more girls than you and all that odd cringy shit.
>>27576396
>thus helps the society that humilliates them
You know that you're also "helping" the society by being a self-wallowing cuck, right? You're perpetuating a stereotype.
Do you seriously think that society is something that can be abolished? Nigga, that's retarded as fuck. To kill society you would need to kill every one but one person on earth.
>>27576340
What's your point ? Which side are you on ?
Like many girls look or act like pornstars either? Works both ways.
Sex is sex, it's not a big deal once you do it on the regular. It's put on such a high pedestal on here because nobody gets it.
The reality is, if you haven't got a micropenis, know what do do with a clit, and don't blow your load in 30 seconds, you'll be completely fine.
>>27576423
What, being angry at shit? Old people do it all the time. Liberalshits do it all the time. Conservacucks do it all the time.
Guess what being angry has done to your flawed concept of society since millenia ago.
>>27576407
That's only partially true. I used to be a guy who tried a lot. Tried to be social(I still have some people who consider me a friend from this phase that I talk with regularly), approached women(no success though), I got a job.
But I burned out because I kept failing. Because others got more success than me even for less work. Just keep assuming that I never try, you fucking bluepilled faggot.
>>27576423
what about you wether you like it or not you exist in this culture so even if all is exactly how you describe does that mean nothing else matters everyones going to die at one point and then how chad they were means nothing. theres to much in life to just say oh shit im so beta game over fuck this
>>27576427
>i think your just focusing on the wrong things why does it bother you that your not top chad
Because they have better lives? They will be better at pretty much everything they do and even if they are not better, thanks to halo effect everyone will consider them better at least.
>it humilitaing to focus on your own body and say other people are better than you and fuck more girls than you and all that odd cringy shit.
It is humiliating. It's the truth. Calling it odd and cringy does not disprove it.
>>27576446
>you still have friends
>you have a job
>waah waah why do people have it easier than me
You stay there moaning, nobody will do shit for you other than yourself. Just remember, the "society" you blame for all the wrongdoings? You're part of it and you're perpetuating it by behaving like that. Your only choice is to literally become a hermit without any human contact. Even killing yourself would help to "society"
>>27576428
Yeah I can never win. Obviously.
If I don't accept my inferior position and humiliation society will destroy me. I know that all too well. But to accept this? To bow down? I've tried and it's not a life I want to live.
>>27576461
better lives just because they have more sex i doubt that. it sounds like your cucking yourself idolizing others bodies and cursing life and feeling humilated.
>>27575055
>Porn is real. They are real people, really fucking.
Yeah, it's real in that sense, but it's not a real depiction of how people actually fuck when not doing it scripted and on camera.
>There really are guys out there with 9 inch hammer cocks who fuck like beasts.
Sure, but those guys are incredibly rare. Most women will never be with one. And porn uses camera angles and tricks to make guys cocks look bigger than they actually are.
Who can make girls cum 3 times and fuck for half an hour before they cum.
I hate to tell you, but most girls in porn aren't cumming for real. And the guys are on viagra and can take breaks to cool down so they don't cum too soon.
Are there people out there who are better than me at sex? Absolutely. But who gives a shit, I don't have to be the best in the world at something to enjoy doing it.
You guys are just encouraging more pedos and rapists by discouraging us. Just like how beta uprising worked
>>27576441
Missed a point. Being angry is no way to live long term.
>>27576458
But the Chads will die knowing they had much better life. While I didn't. Even if I work very hard. They will irregardless. Tell me one good reason why should I not be angry about that.
>>27576478
then become a hermit. Stop using this shit.
Oh, wait, you can't. You're admiting your own cuckyness because you can't abandon dear old computer. Funny, isn't it? You cry about everyone having it easier than you yet you're her with your computer and internet.
You have access to porn, to videogames, to entertainment. You benefit as much from society as anyone else. And that's what you don't get.
You're part of the society you hate and you've always been.
>>27576470
Yes. I've came to the same conclusion, as said here >>27576352
>>27576478
what are you fighting and how your on /r9k/ complaining. what are you goign to do shoot all those you consider chad. an alphaholocaust
>>27576487
Retard. You're gonna ignore all the benefits of halo effect? How attractive people are treated better, live longer, have on average happier marriages? Right.
>>27576495
>But the Chads will die knowing they had much better life. While I didn't. Even if I work very hard. They will irregardless. Tell me one good reason why should I not be angry about that.
you determine wether you had a good life dont waste it being angry at something so twisted. also there fucking dead who cares what they thought thats some deticated anger.
>>27576506
True. I am a part now. Point is society needs me or men like me. Not everyone can be a Chad. And someone has to fill in the inferior position. And that's my problem really. Being a part of it but being in an inferior position.
>>27576511
Obviously that's never gonna happen. They would always win, just because they're better than me(obviously). As I said. There is nothing I can do. I'm trapped, between a lifetime of delusion/humiliation, hermit lifestyle that is going to end with me dying soon or suicide.
>>27576515
i mena the way your putting it yea. i mean your the only one making yourself unhappy no one owes me anything and i dont have to do anything for them. maybe its just the way i think but dont you feel its pointless to let these thoughts consume you when there pointless
>>27576525
Because I will live 50 or so(assuming I don't kill myself) of shitty years and they won't. Actually I'd trade my whole life to be a prime Chad for a week. That's the exchange ratio as far as I am concerned.
>>27576551
>>27576593
you both have let this consume you its so wrong but if you insist on holding onto these ideas thats your choice. live life how you want to live it only you can give yourself worth
>>27575523
>Women will appreciate you treating them like human beings,
Nope.
>which they are
Nope.
>>27575055
considering most of those guys have been dicked in the ass themselves I'm not too worked up about it
>>27576629
How can I not insist on holding them if they can't be disproven? Look at the people ITT. They don't try to tell me I'm wrong. They just tell me not to think like this or I will be miserable and other bluepilled bullshit.
>>27576635
>I don't consider women human beings but I want them to give me sex anyway
amazing. You could give Chris-Chan a run for his autism
>>27576664
i mean lot of people on this site think that way so im not surprised but outside im sure people would agree. however it cant be dissproven because its so inconsequential like how many grains of sand make a pile how much sex and attention make a good life is there an exact number does it even matter. i apologize if you cant understand my point im not very good at explaining things but i do hope in someway it helps you see things differently
>>27576635
>Women will appreciate you treating them like human beings,
>Nope.
>which they are
>Nope.
WHY WONT THEY FUCK ME
it's a fantasy because of how they fuck. even guys with big dicks don't fuck girls for 20 minutes in 10 different positions and then move on to anal.
it's also fantasy because they use camera trickery and height disparity, as well as editing and boner pills, lighting, all kind of things to make both partners look good.
>not jerking it to videos of other people fucking and conditioning yourself for cuckoldry is a fantasy
wutthefuckamireading
>>27575055
>Who can make girls cum 3 times
pornstars dont cum, its literally acting, in the same way as acting in other movies
>>27576490
>Sure, but those guys are incredibly rare
That what makes 20/80 percent rule. It takes one time to her to feel incredible cock and she will be broken for the rest of her life. Nothing will be able to satisfy her.
If women enjoyed the sex acts in porn, more women would watch porn than men. Porn is made to make men feel good. Women get off elsewhere usually. Harlequin novels, yaoi, etc.
Most women can't get off by penetration alone anyway, meaning huge cocks don't really mean much if they guy doesn't know how to use his fingers or tongue. But that's the male fantasy: to be able to make any woman cum with his his holy blessed dick. Which results in many men getting butthurt that most women have faked orgasms.
>>27576761
Yep. Most porn stars will say they cum for the fantasy of men watching. But they don't. In fact, many women leave the industry with broken lady parts because it turns out taking three dicks at once for hours doesn't feel great and actually can cause prolapse and other issues.
>>27576777
trips of truth. Every woman gets off by different shit
>>27576810
>Every woman gets off by different shit
It's just Chad thing.
>tfw some verified slut on pornhub chats me up because i have a big dick and is always telling me she wants to fuck
I am. Addicted to her
>>27576261
fix your ps2 controller and play ps2 games, not xbone games
>>27576343
>women will have to compete for you
will never happen
>>27576821
>still saying chat is at fault
if your 80-20 bullshit is truth that means that there's still 20% of girls not giving anything to chads. So go get some of them.
>>27575055
Making a girl cum 3 times isn't very much.
>>27576852
Man stop, i would have probably killed myself if i didnt have a 7.8inch cock. I am gonna jelq to make it 9 inches and then ill dump my gf and just fuck random sluts so i can make myself a huge dick rep
>>27576768
>That what makes 20/80 percent rule. It takes one time to her to feel incredible cock and she will be broken for the rest of her life. Nothing will be able to satisfy her.
This is idiotic. Guys like that make up far less than 20% of men. And it's stupid to say nothing else will be able to satisfy her even if she does fuck one of those rare guys. It's like saying that eating a steak once will mean you'll never like a hamburger again.
that massive slut pornstar riley reid said in an interview that when she goes out partying and dating off camera she's dissapointed that guys feel the need to fuck her like a jackhammer to live up to the porno. most girls in porn are just moaning like retards for the camera and don't actually prefer that. at least not always.
but yeah better kill myself I guess. another great thread.
>>27576852
>there's still 20% of girls not giving anything to chads
These are abominations. 2/10-3/10 tops. I'm not blaming Chad for their nature but knowing about it doesnt make it disappear. Once women tasted Chad nothing can make them forget. That's why women divorce, that's why they cheat so casually - they cannot forget what it means to be handled by Chad. Sure you can be loving boyfriend/husband but remember that you dont know her past and if guy resembling Chad comes along, she will betray you.
>>27575055
>not watching amateur porn
kys fagets
>>27575055
No shit it ins't a fantasy, but how many people do you think are this gifted and how many of those men do you think will wind up fucking the girls you have a chance with? I'm willing to wager the number is small, so who give a fuck you fucking cuck?
>>27576903
>we, she, they, you, her past
you should probably get to stage 1 first before introducing all these hypotheticals mr expert of sex and relationships
>>27576923
>hypotheticals
Feel free to suffer consequences first hand. Maybe you're one of the lucky guys who will make wife out of pornstar?
>>27576955
>I post expertly crafted and realistic hypothetical situations about relationships formed by spending years of posting on an anime inspired internet echo chamber inhabited by autistic people
All you faggots should watch "hot girls wanted" if you are still living under the delusion that porn is anything like real life. Its not. for (presumably most) women, sex isnt about size, its almost entirely about technique and mood/atmosphere. I have a pretty big dick, but absaloutly suck at using it, so ive never been able to pleasure a girl with it. However, im pretty good with fingering, and ive managed to make a girl squirt with them, despite the fact that they are much smaller than my dick.
Also, social skills needed to pick up girls are something that is learnt, you dont get them by winning some genetic lottery. I know this dude who could be a fucking model, but he has terrible social skills so he never scores. And i know this weird semifat stoner type who always gets girls at parties just because he has great social skills despite not being much of a looker.
If you fuckwits put in the effort, you can get a girl. you need to learn those social skills, you dont need to look like a chad, just make yourself look presentable, and get an education. also, if you dont look great, you can make up for it in other areas. girls love guys who know how to cook. Also just generally trying to be a decent human being and not a desperate pussy hunter really fucking helps.
>>27576920
amature porn is just as fake.
>>27577053
sounds like bullshit
>Wait she didn't fucking gag right dude.
*cuts camera*
>Her hair got messed up
*cuts camera*
>Tyrone, You missed the cumshot.
*retake*
>>27575055
I found out the hard way.
My ex (inb4 chad ree) literally shattered the last trace of confidence i had when she told me i have a small dick and she never had an orgasm in 2 years of relationship.
She wasnt a slut i was literally the one that took her virginity. I couldnt get even the tightest brand new pussy off just try to imagine how i feel.
>>27575055
OP is the cancer this board needs
>>27578147
How small is small anon?
>>27578147
She was prolly just trying to get to you and cut you hard emotionally, sounds like a low blow to be honest familia
>>27575055
Most of us know this, we just want to forget it.
>>27575055
>is real
>you get to pretend
Go home autismo
I can't even imagine how naive you would have to be to believe that that girls with fake nails, fake tits and fake lips are giving real performances.
>male porn actors are superstuds!
I've always thought it was ridiculous how unremarkable the male "talent" was in porn. I feel like they could do way better without any real effort. Like I pass by dozens of college-aged men every day who are objectively way more attractive than most popular male porn actors. The first couple I think of:
>Johnny Sins
Looks like a slightly younger En Esch. Nothing more needs to be said.
>Danny D
Pizza-faced lanklet with a big dick.
>James Deen
Pasty, underweight manlet. Never shuts his faggot mouth.
>Rocco Siffredi
Looks exactly like my old boss.
>Mandingo
Ugly fatass with a big dick.
The last popular male porn actor I can think of who genuinely "had it all" was Peter North back when he wasn't like 110.
>>27576340
>Vagina's were meant to be fucked by cock. Not licked by tongues
A lot of species engage in oral sex, even ones that can't engage in attempts to psychoanalyze their own behavior.
>have a fairly girthy and long dick
>about 8'' in length
>can pound cervixes easily
>pic related, closest thing to it when fully erect
>gf is a bit of a roastie
>If i get her off with oral or fingers beforehand I can just slip in and not stop on the way to her cervix
>havent made her cum vaginally yet in a 5 month relationshit
>closest I can get is rocking up and down pressing against her cervix while grinding her clit with my pubis
>she gets close but can never get off on it
>mfw
I wish she wasn't so cavernous
>>27576866
>I am gonna jelq
no wonder you are a delusional fuck
>>27578405
Male talent in 90% of porn (since the vast majority is for guys) just needs a big dick (makes filming and seeing stuff much easier) and not be fat (preferably in good /fit/ shape due to often having to manhandle the female talent or whatever).
Ffs, there is that one guy that has beard braids that looks like he barely lifts, yet i see him a ton.
James Deen is the exception because he looks reasonably normal, and has excellent PR skills/managers.
You do realize that the women in porn aren't actually having an orgasm, right? Chad's cock isn't making them cum, and a cock alone isn't going to do it. You don't realize how hard is to make a women actually orgasm.
>>27576458
>muh mortality
Yes anon, everyone is going to die. Our issue is that not everyone is going to LIVE.
>giving a damn how a girl likes your fucking skills
Sex is for you to get off.
>>27575055
My dick doesn't work properly when around women
It does however get solid in seconds when I pull up some porn.
It probably too late for me.
Surprised at the amount of reasonable posts. Maybe there is hope for this board yet.
>>27575055
>There really are guys out there (..) who can make girls cum 3 times and fuck for half an hour before they cum.
newsflash: people out there have normal enjoyable sexlives
>>27579169
Well, I mean it's not hard but it takes different things for different women.
But yeah, Porn is all acting with the exception of SOME amateur shit.
> caring about if your equipment gets a bitch off
If you've managed to not be so much of a aspie that a cunt wants to have you inside her you've already won the game - you could give the performance of a lifetime or a total sham but what matters is that you came and she's now on your conquered list. Unless you're looking for a repeat performance, don't be concerned what a cumdumpster thinks about your dick or skills - if you are you have to be hilarously bad to not get a second ride.
>>27575622
Same here. A pussy is an allieway compared to my deathgrip. Ot feels great and all but not enough to cum. I can cum while fapping in less than 30 seconds but I can't cum while fucking for 2 hours. It's all in your head and these beta cucks will never unterstand it.
Normies don't know deathgrip because they have real sex (fpr 7 minutes lol).
>>27578537
Probably because you're smashing her fucking cervix when you have sex?
>>27580292
>cervix smashing
That is my fetish.
>>27575377
Sex is the reason we are here as far as nature is concerned. If there is a "purpose" to life, all available evidence says that sex and reproduction are it. It is a primal need, save for very few outliers who are legit asexual.
>When you factor sex out of a relationship, all you have is talking and sharing your interests, which is something that is INFINITELY more satisfying than having sex.
Stop lying. An emotional bond is necessary for an interpersonal romantic relationship, but sex must also form part of the basis for it as well. You are willfully ignorant if you deny that sex itself can and should be a bonding experience.
>Women will appreciate you treating them like human beings, which they are
No one said otherwise. Wanting to have sex with a women does not preclude considering her a person. Being attracted to a woman is not to dehumanize her. Stop saying otherwise.
>will be more interested in you when you're not just stringing them along until they "open their hole" for you.
Again, you project contexts which no one has set; no one said they want to "string women along" until they fuck, and then discard them. This is what pump-and-dump players do, and you won't find any of them here, I can tell you that for sure.
Furthermore, women themselves admit being attracted to exactly that kind of man, , the Player, the kind of man who hurts them most.
>>27575576
>You can only "win" if you play by the "games" rules.
The rules are set mostly, maybe entirely, by women in our society, and those rules exclude an increasing number of men from even qualifying to play. The Sexual Revolution started a ball rolling that is now restoring the primal Tournament system of mating we see in our distant past, only now it's being subsidized by modern conventions like welfare states.
Women now have the best of primal model (freely fucking and securing Alpha genes) with the best of the modern societal model (Beta provisioning).
>>27580325
Enjoy putting up with a girl that resents you on some level for not making her cum when you fuck her
>>27576777
>Most women can't get off by penetration alone anyway, meaning huge cocks don't really mean much if they guy doesn't know how to use his fingers or tongue.
I hear that shit all the time, its just a myth though. its true that a lot of woman have problems cumming from penetration alone but 'most' is an exaggeration thats probably supposed to protect the self-esteem of beta cucks. its perfectly possible to make most woman cum with your cock. it is true though that it doesnt have a lot to do with length, its just that most people have no idea what the fuck they are doing. i've had several girls now who told me that the seldomly cum or flat out declared that they cant have a orgasm at all. I made them all cum, every single on of them.
basically what I'm saying is: git gud
>>27580443
>the best primal model is literally hitting on random drunk girls that give zero fucks
Ebin, do you have a blog i could subscribe to as well?
>>27580495
So what's your secret? Because there's nothing sadder than lying about sexual prowess on this board on this website really.
>>27580521
The trick is to go in AND out.
>>27580555ak$!i!#01+62$7
>>27580521
i dont have a secret or at least not a special technique I am aware of. only thing i can tell you is that I always slept with girls I felt really comfortable with all of the girls, that I really take a lot of time and just enjoy what I am doing, how I touch her body, how the subtle clues how she reacts to the things I do to her body. I am sensitive and easy going and sex just becomes a very enjoyable pleasureable experience.
i think its really more about mood and atmosphere than actual technique, my dick is just an average Joe.
>>27580497
The primal model: many women mating with few men. Geneticists have found we have twice as many female ancestors as male, and at one point apparently 17 women were reproducing for every one man. We also know that most women today find most men "below average" in attractiveness.
In this model, the few successful males fucked and impregnated females as often as possible. This model does not provide for women's long term security or provisioning. Older women past fertility phase are unwanted and discarded.
Most males die without reproducing.
Modern model, pre Sexual Revolution:
Monogamous marriage. Not all men can be guaranteed to be mated, however most men can be given a good chance at finding a mate and furthering their genetic line with monogamous marriage, which distributes sex more evenly than in the primal polygynous model. This gives men a stake in society and an incentive to work which they would not have otherwise under the primal Tournament model, and gives women a long term provider and security which they would not have otherwise under the primal Tournament model.
Our current paradigm is a bizarre blend of both; between their own mostly make-work jobs and the Husband/Daddy welfare state funded mostly by the taxes of men (men pay the majority of taxes) , women can now secure the Alpha seed and ignore most men as it was in the primal Tournament model, while still being provided for by those men as in the Monogamy model, but now via their taxes instead of a mutually reciprocal relationship.
>>27580921
Or the visibility and viability of the always present massive whores has increased thanks to the Internet, and that fueled with the feedback loop effect of this place has literally warped the mind of most of the regular posters?
>>27575055
I assume you are a virgin so its fine if you dont know.
There really isnt THAT MUCH to sex.
So many people talk like sex is some sort of specially honed skill.
it isnt, its extremely straight forward and takes about 20 minutes to get good at.
and yes technically there are guys out there that have huge dongs but statistically they are very very few and most women cant handle anything more than 7 or 8 inches.
stop psyching yourself out.
t. former cyborg turned chad.
>>27580921
Well it has always been that way, some studies point out that up to 20% of children are bastards and not fathered by their presumed father.
So even in monogamy days 1/5 kids was a guy literally being cucked because wifey went and got fucked by the neighbor boy, the guy down the straight or their hot uncle.
its just the reality of human sexuality and civilization has done its best to curtail the worst parts of both female and male sexuality.
we threw that all away 50 years ago and in just that short time it is bringing our society to the brink of collapse.
>>27576261
Well then you're a retard for trying to use a ps2 controller on an xbox one
>>27575055
if you want to be able to pound hard for 40 min, you just have to masturbate with a deathgrip.
(tested on 3 different escorts btw)
>>27581083
>Or the visibility and viability of the always present massive whores has increased thanks to the Internet
Women have generally always been whores when the social mores let them. internet or not, as per their instincts, and men of "high genetic quality" have always been cads as per their instincts. The current politi-socio-techno-sexual paradigm caters to each set and incentivizes the indulgence of these instincts. Therefore we see the rise of hookup culture, State funded single motherhood, decline in marriage rates, etc.
>and that fueled with the feedback loop effect of this place has literally warped the mind of most of the regular posters?
There is probably a self-reinforcing confirmation bias about any online community, however this is immaterial to this topic, because this really is the nature of human sexuality. It's not that these are exceptions and these exceptions are what these people have seen the most of, it's that the truth of human sexuality is not comfortable or pretty, and is certainly not egalitarian.
I know it's comforting and self-assuaging to pretend otherwise and come up with any and all reason that these guys are wrong on this, but the available data says they're far closer to right than wrong.
On average, without the *need* for a direct interpersonal relationship with a Beta (which is most men) to secure his support, most women will disregard him in favor of their short-term mating preference for the hot cad.
This is simply the truth of what happens when our Caveman software is incentivized and parasitized by our current social, political and technological circumstances.
No logical fallacies or cognitive biases required.
>>27575055
>fuck for half an hour
yeah anybody 14-25 can do this. if you get used to fucking it just isn't worth it anymore.
if you're talking about sex addicts that's not exactly a fun time. whether or not i'm top dog always on edge i have a great sex life and it's not a big deal. porn isn't really ruining people, it's the fact that life is too easy and convenient in general and people think they shouldn't have to work for anything, including relationships.
>>27581770
You know, you could actually make something really good if you invested your time away from yelling about how it's beta's vs Chad's and how modern society will collapse on this stupid board.
Take my leaving as a victory or whatever, but going out and pounding "feminists" at clubs/through whatever social media platform just because you put a bit of effort in, and avoiding the same girls when looking for an actual partner might be the best thing for you/for people in general.
>>27581846
Sure I can fuck for 30 minutes with no trouble.
But I do it with a normal sized dick. If I did that with a huge dick that might twice as big as a normal dick the girl would feel A LOT more and orgasm more.
>>27581954
my dicks only an inch above average and my wife bleeds if i go too hard. i can't even really start fucking until 20 minutes of foreplay and slow insertion. she doesn't cum from sex. you have no clue what you're talking about. if you need to have a big cock for a good time (who gives a shit about her pleasure, that's her problem) then i'm guessing you pay by the hour.
more often than not a huge cock is detrimental to good sex. it may look impressive but its not fun if it hurts
>>27582081
Maybe not for the girl
>>27575055
Wow, these crab bucket mentality posters are getting really intense.
Speaking of which, where's "You hit the gym HARD while chad eats pizza" guy? Havent seen him in a while
>>27581940
I see no rebuttal or argument here, son. No data, nothing but convenient assumptions about what I am, so that you can keep pretending you're right and maintain your incorrect but comfy, self-assuaging narrative.
I have a fulfilling life and career, with good friends and family. I'm discerning regarding the company I keep. However, I won't lie about our ancient biological firmware and how our modern technology and culture hijack it to our detriment as a sustainable long term society.
I'm here because why the fuck not? It's April and there's a god damn blizzard outside for fucks sake.
>>27582012
Oh please.
We all know that the bigger the better because the bigger it is the more they feel it.
>>27582230
they can feel a finger, they can also feel your 4 inch dick.
once a dick is over 7 or 8 inches it is usually too much for a girl anyway 6-7 inches is prime size.
>>27582259
If that's true then why is that dudes with big dicks can just show them off and get laid?
could it be that women are liars? nooo
>>27582230
yeah dude tear that pussy up. i don't think you can make anyone feel bad about their sex life if they have a 6-7 inch penis and it's working out well. why don't you go back to teasing manlets? or even wagecucks?
>>27582305
>women have no idea what they are doing or how to judge size.
The visual of a big dick is arousing for women but thats because in real life huge dicks are very uncommon, so seeing one is exciting to them.
Not to mention "big" is like anything over 6.5 inches. Women dont no the difference between 5 and 8 and most over estimate size
a girl has had a 7 inch dick she thinks its some porno level 9.5 monster. if they actually saw a 9 inch dick they wouldn't even know what to do with it.
What is this meme about "not lasting in bed"?
For me it's the opposite. I actually have to struggle before I can cum. For me a sex session lasts at least 30mins.
Maybe I should become a pornstar.
>>27582307
since i am tall i feel it would be rude of me to tease manlets. i dont have a big dick though so am i perfectly ok with hating on everyone that doesnt
>>27575055
Pornstars are really having time of their life and it involves no acting whatsoever!
>>27575055
>There really are people out there who are sexually gifted.
Just like there's people out there that can do a 4 minute mile, kill a guy with a punch, win the Fields medal in mathematics, write a best-selling novel at 19, become a Chess grandmaster at 13, free dive to 830 feet, or create a symphony at 4.
And even if you're the very best, it's not going to last. Someone is always waiting in the wings with a bigger dick, a longer tongue, a faster mile, a stronger punch, a more elegant proof, a better novel, symphony, stronger lungs, or a higher score.
Should we give up because we can't be the best? Should we not even make the attempt because someone else has done it better?
Why run a race you can't win?
>>27575055
>THIS IS A SHITPOST DO NOT REPLY
YEAH YOU GOT IT RIGHT THIS GUY IS THE AVERAGE MANLET BETA FAG
>>27582492
>Should we give up because we can't be the best? Should we not even make the attempt because someone else has done it better?
Yes. Give up.
>>27581940
It's not just r9k saying this, it's legit educated, intelligent people who see our sociosexual climate and trajectory for what it is.
Like Dr. Jordan Peterson, tenured professor at the University of Toronto
>Remember those 50s hat-sporting fathers who stayed married, supported their families and repressed women? Well, theyre headed for extinction. In the majority of US cities, young woman are now higher-paid and more educated than their male counterpart.
>This has not stopped the Globe and Mails Margaret Wente from recently warning us about the dangerous male energy still remaining. Men with less testosterone "are nicer, more social and less aggressive," she says. Such men wont, quote unquote, "wreck the world."
>At this point, Wente should know that its the testosterone-laden man who is most attractive when women are fertile. When it comes to the serious business of sex, women will choose a testosterone-charged world-wrecker most of the time.
>What, then, is a sensible girl to do? Ms. Kate Bolick provides some answers, in the cover story of Novembers The Atlantic. Bolick, with "too many ex-boyfriends to count," is still unmarried at 39. 11 years ago, however, she ended a long-term relationship with Allan, who was "exceptional, intelligent, good-looking, loyal and kind." "Something was missing," Bolick says. Had she asked me, I would have said not enough testosterone.
>Perhaps its time for her to find a tame, lower-status boy, and make an honest man out of him. Some of Bolicks more savvy friends have done just that, establishing relationships, for example, with salary-challenged men. Some even stooped low enough to date men who are short!
>This level of compromise is not for Bolick, who flirts with life in an all-female Dutch community, instead of settling for a less-than-perfect mate. She concludes that Western culture itself is at fault for making her desire a conventional relationship, in the first place.
continued
>>27582546
>Just what kind of man is emerging to replace the chauvinists of yesterday? Type 1, lets call him very popular in Japan is shiftless, dependent, and low in status. He poses no threat to women, however, displaying little interest in them altogether, except when animated, infantilized, and available for kissing practice, on a portable Nintendo.
>Type 2 man is the archetypal bad boy: impulsive and exploitative but willing to bed anyone he doesnt have to take responsibility for. He's the perfect mate for the modern single mother if she wants a different father for every child. Type 2 man makes 50s Dad positively look Christ- like.
>Here's a thought: What if, two decades down the road, women do all the work: all the engineering, all the ditch-digging and fire-fighting and raise the children, too? It's not impossible. Such a state is already normal in several American sub-communities, hard hit by the economic demise of modern man.
>What if it took centuries of cultural discipline to produce 50s Dad? What if the husband willing to stick around and share his income was the historical exception? It's a demanding job to support a family, after all, and it's not necessary to stay with one woman. Maybe men just wont do it unless they are provided with status to bolster their fragile male egos or to encourage desirable behaviour.
>Without respect, why would they try, when the alternative is so much easier, and subtly promoted?
>>27575055
>Porn isn't real, its a fantasy
>implying you can satisfy girl with 6 inch benis
>>27582624
>Increasingly, among my students, I see young men who dont know how to be good men. My son wasnt allowed to throw a snowball, for example, in elementary school. It was against the rules for him to even pick up snow off the ground. It is in that manner that decent boys are made to feel guilty about their masculine impulses. So, they withdraw, confused.
>The more aggressive, psychopathic boys? They simply dont care. So theyll be the ones fathering your grandchildren, in the future if tomorrows woman can find a man to sleep with at all. That'll keep the testosterone flowing.
>For the Agenda, with Steve Paiken, Im Jordan Peterson.
This really is the course we're taking. This guy, Gad Saad and others see it, not just some malcontents on an image board.
>>27582492
because you can enjoy the racey part?
>>27578273
5.9-6 inches depends on the mood
>>27578147
>small dick
>never had an orgasm in 2 years of relationship
you should really get your head out of your ass and get good at sex
also ex-gf's probably black fuck meat so no hard feelings
>>27582710
>because you can enjoy the racey part?
That's fucking pathetic. Ever hear the American expression, "winning isn't everything, it's the only thing"? Or after the British lost the America's Cup and sent that telegram that said "America first. There is no second."
If you can't be the best, you're a failure, a loser, one of those stupid fucks that say shit like, "it's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean, ha ha" while girls sneer at their cocktail weenies.
There's nothing to enjoy in that "racey part"
>>27582812
lol.
>6.25"
>had a girl go back to her old bf and tell me part of it was that i was "too big"
>also had a girl tell me I was too small, ew, put it away
No winning.
>>27575055
>"Movies aren't real, its a fantasy. It will ruin your expectations of sex and its all fake."
>This is literally just coping.
This is how stupid you sound.
>>27583161
that's a very interesting opinion anon, but it doesn't speak to me.
If you are an overachiever, by all mean, roam wild and win all those wins. I'd be content with just roaming wild.
>>27583245
You missed his point.
He's saying the people who dismiss porn as being all fantasy and fakery are lying to themselves, that porn is indeed rooted in real life, that not only do people with extraordinary sexual gifts exist outside of porn, but that women also have these expectations...and denying this is foolhardy, a delusion that will cost you relationships as tell yourself feel-good lies.
>>27583161
>implying one can win at life when we all get the same trophy at the end
>>27583371
But anon porn is 99% fantasy, watch some porno behind the scenes and what not. It is not nearly as hot as you'd like to think.
Plus, I have rarely witnessed any expectation on others based on fantasy leading to anything sustainable and productive. You have to stay real.
>>27583501
Porn is porn and you shouldn't compare yourself to it.
But Chad is real and every girl that you will ever like knows that Chad is real.
In every single situation you are ever in, there are people in the world who could do it better.
That is a fact. It doesn't matter who you are or what you do, there is someone out there who is better.
Normal people don't go for a bike ride and then go home and feel guilty because some pro is better than them. Comparing yourself to literal professionals in normal every day things like sex is retarded.
>>27583665
OP is basically encouraging people to compare themselves to porn.
And Bill Gates is real and everybody regardless of gender knows that Bill Gates is real, huh?
>>27583763
I have been practicing holding golf ball in a state where it doesn't make into my rectum but doesn't fall out either for a long time.
I doubt anybody can do it better than me unless he/she's a ass ball holder genius.
>>27583840
lmao there are no name strippers who can do that
>>27583501
>But anon porn is 99% fantasy
Fantasy rooted in real-life (barring the occasional appearance of interstellar tentacles). These fantasies are an extension of real-life experiences and observations, and they also represent real-world expectations to a certain degree.
Porn shows us female expectations in an exaggerated form. Men will get hard and stay hard, they will have large penises, and they make their partners feel tremendous ecstasy.
With only a few subgenre exceptions, porn focuses on female pleasure with the one exception of female-on-male oral (it's interesting to note the premise of Deep Throat, arguably one of the most famous porn movies ever, was that Linda Lovelace's character had a clitoris in her throat, thus the act of oral provided her sexual satisfaction).
Even though porn is primarily produced and consumed by men, a core component of the pornographic fantasy is the sexual satisfaction of women. In general, porn shows a feminine ideal of men even in those subgenres specifically geared towards fetishes (well-muscled, tall men with large genitals whether the women are 100 lbs or 400 lb, free of body hair or one of ATK's Scary Hairy series, beautiful or with specific traits that would make them ugly by societal standards, etc.)
Certainly, there are exceptions, but these tend to be very specific niches (hentai focusing on older, ugly man with young women...although even there, the women usually find themselves drawn to repeat the sex because they felt arousal and pleasure because the character had a large penis).
Arguably, only a very small subset of porn (and with few exceptions, this is h-manga, not video) has average or below-average males with small penises having sex with women who don't feel enjoyment from the act. Not rape, just...bad sex.* Even straight shota h-manga often feature young boys with unrealistically large penises to pleasure their partners.
>*Admittedly, I don't find it unsurprising that bad sex isn't a big fantasy
Incant respect woman because all of the pen I watch. It's taught me more about them than personal interaction ever could.
>>27575055
>Who can make girls cum 3 times and fuck for half an hour before they cum.
>half an hour before they cum
>half an hour
Downright plebian. Exercise your PC muscle, last forever. And if your dick is too small to get the girl off with, use your fingers and tounge. Is it deal? No. Tough titty. You gonna cry?
>>27584109
Anon, you can fantasize about hot female doctors pegging you all you want. But the feeling doesn't reciprocate and her stop seeing you if you try to make your fantasy true will be the least of your problems.
You get what I'm saying? Fantasy and reality hardly ever overlap. It is just fantasy for the most part.
>>27583808
>OP is basically encouraging people to compare themselves to porn.
In OP's case, yes, and it's probably intended to make you feel badly about the comparison.
But think of it like this: without porn, or some knowledge of how other people practice sex, a number of people would never realize sex can be pleasurable for both partners, discover oral or anal sex, discover sex toys, or just understand there was more to the act than 10 seconds of thrusting.
Sure, there's comparisons to porn we're going to find depressing. Barring some kind of medical advancement, most of us aren't going to have a porn-star penis, and while we might enjoy seeing a prim and proper woman dropping her guard and giving into sexual pleasure as a fantasy, the thought that it could be our oneitis in that circle of cocks is a bit disconcerting post-orgasm.
Overall, however, pornography can be...and is intended to be...instructive as well as enjoyable. If we understand this, then we can compare our skills and learn where we can improve.
>>27584288
But think of it like this: without porn, or some knowledge of how other people practice sex, a number of people would never realize sex can be pleasurable for both partners, discover oral or anal sex, discover sex toys, or just understand there was more to the act than 10 seconds of thrusting.
like if you don't make her scream you are doing it wrong?
or never wear a condom?
or if you don't make her screaming while splitting her sphincter, you are doing it wrong?
lol
>>27584252
I'm arguing porn represents the fantasies of men and women alike.
A key characteristic of porn is bringing pleasure to females, perhaps because we subconsciously see a male capable of bringing more sexual pleasure to a woman as being more reproductively fit, I don't know.
Regardless, the representation of men within most porn is driven by those characteristics we believe are desirable to women. For example, penis size and a fit body, as well as more ancillary aspects such as young adulthood, height, physically fit, dominance, and confidence.
These characteristics are common in forms of pornography and the thinly-disguised erotic writing of "romance novels" going back centuries.
We mustn't discount these representations as mere fantasy. We can see in them clues to female desire and sexual satisfaction.
Understanding this reveals a fundamental disconnect with the anti-porn feminist theorists who believe porn to be strictly male-driven fantasies objectifying women, as if women are mere passive semen receptacles.
Rather, almost all pornography has a core fantasy of providing sexual pleasure to the women involved therein.
Certainly, there are exceptions, but even in those niches, we find that core fantasy still emerges...the woman who discovers sexual pleasure after humiliation and forced sexual acts, etc.
Even within subgenres like bukkake, some dynamics contradict objectification.
For example, some see this as a form of female worship. In this variation, usually 'pussy bukkake', the women involved exhibit physical pleasure with each ejaculation.
Another variation suggests bukkake shows women accepting...and even enjoying...what society has taught us is the very worst of men: the physical manifestation of the male essence.
In a culture where male sexuality is disparaged, bukkake shows an female acceptance of men in all shapes, sizes, and ages. To me, it's interesting that *acceptance* would be the most male-driven sexual fantasy of all.
>>27584453
And this is why porn is bad anons. Kids are growing up on this and learning this is what sex is supposed to be and this is destroying civilization L I T E R A L L Y.
>learning about sex from porn
>lmao
>what a dumbass
>>27575055
>half an hour before they cum
lmao you know they cut out the parts where the guy cums prematurely, right?
They edit it to make it look like one long fuck session without cumming but the guy has actually cum a bunch of times already
Nerds who believe porn bitches actually have orgasms from getting fucked. Lol.
>>27584944
I watch porn but I know it's bad and I feel guilty about it like every other guy here except for you you fucking autist.
Get this through you fucking retard skull:
>Porn is bad
>Porn is degrading to women
>Porn is the one thing that is legit misogynistic
Porn is bad. By defending porn, you are bad. Your arguments are bad. Your BTFO.
>GTFO.
>>27583763
I don't compare myself to a pro and feel bad. I compare myself to average people and still come up short.
>>27575084
>You get to pretend your 6 inch penis and 7 minute sex sessions (including foreplay) are good enough.
lol, try 5 inch penis, 2 min sex sessions without foreplay
>>27585252
>Porn is bad, m'kay
>It just is
>And if you like it you're bad
>So there
>HAHA, YOUR BTFO BY MUH LOGIC!!!
No.
>>27575055
real people PAID TO PERFORM ON CAMERA lmao
watch any porn documentary, all the girls need muscle relaxants and lube and all the guys need viagra and fluffers because they aren't even aroused, its pathetic
>>27578147
You probably shouldn't think about what she said too much.
Her words were meant to wound.
Just pick yourself back up f.a.m.
Can someone explain to me why women want longer sex sessions? Like what is the point of fucking for 30 minutes or even 2 hours? That seems like it would hurt after awhile.
>>27575055
You could say the same thing about most aspects of life worth pursuing.
Wealth, health, and education could be substituted in that paragraph and nearly everybody here wouldn't stack up.
What's your point? Most people are average by choice.
>>27575055
>NOT watching porn is actually the fantasy
This means, people who were born before the internet lived in a fantasy world and thought that their 6 inch penises were good enough.
Don't forget that the women lived in the same world.
Sounds like wonderful bliss.
>>27587217
>This means, people who were born before the internet lived in a fantasy world and thought that their 6 inch penises were good enough.
>Don't forget that the women lived in the same world.
>Sounds like wonderful bliss.
>be 12yo
>read "pissing in the snow and other ozark folktales"
>full of all these stories about hillbilly women in the 1800 and early 1900s screwing around their husbands because they have tiny dicks
>realize even then there's no hope
>>27575091
this. also, the males often take supplements to "enhance" their cumshots. ALSO, money is often exchanged for the services rendered. pornography is simplified "legal" prostitution. simply for the reason that it's being recorded
>>27575055
you aren't real.
Ya, deal with that, faggot.
>>27580610
Wow, the level of denial is so strong.
Most women can't get off with only penetration and need clitoral stimulation. The only reason why some women get off with penetration alone is the ratio of her clitoral tissue that is inside.
God, you sound terrible in bed, I bet you ignore the clit. Thanks for reminding me that I'm not missing anything by not sleeping with 3D men.
It's fully sad that men literally don't listen to women when it comes to what gets them off just because they believe their dick or sexual prowess is so magical.
>>27582492
>Should we give up because we can't be the best?
Yes, since women are able to share "the best" for sex. There's nothing to limit "the best" from fucking any semi-attractive woman in your area.
>>27586146
They don't need muscle relaxants and lube if they're fucking a megachad like James Deen. Normal non-porn women go to his house to get fucked by him.
>>27587534
Exactly. Chad fucks hundreds of women.
Doesn't matter to him if they are married or not.
>>27582546
>>27582624
>>27582686
But who is responsible for this cultural change? The jews.
Read: 'the Culture of Critique' from Dr. Kevin MacDonald
>>27587540
james deen detected
how does it feel having an average sized penis fag
>>27582502
>actually thinking this is every shitposter
no, not every shiposter links their shitpost on another forum. he only got btfo cuz some guy on the forum posted his profile in the thread
>>27586111
you literraly btfo'd him
Women are garbage
Why do you care about how they feel?
>>27587615
>But who is responsible for this cultural change? The jews.
>Read: 'the Culture of Critique' from Dr. Kevin MacDonald
You're being terribly reductionist. The real answer is far more complex than anything MacDonald could up with.
Also, the Frankfurt School are a red herring.
>>27588131
This. Just fuck them and leave. Don't even kiss them, because they've swallowed tons of cums
>>27588131
>>27588160
Seriously, is /r9k/ so full of cucks that base their entire self worth on making women feel good? Get the fuck outta here. A woman can't make you happy, only you can. Just fuck them and move on because that's all they're good for
>>27586973
They need time to achieve orgasm. Plus they can cum 20 times and still going. That's how good sex is for them
>>27575537
Dude just pay for sex, it's not that difficult.
>>27588156
You obviously don't know what you're talking about. Chapter 4 of CofC talks about how Jewish psychologists (Freud) opted for sexual liberation, which results (unsurprisingly) in bad pair-bonding.
All this with the purpose of destroying christian-monogamous marriage.
>>27588387
>Chapter 4 of CofC talks about how Jewish psychologists (Freud) opted for sexual liberation
Jesus Christ, that's worse than I could have ever imagined.
>>27588550
> baitudesu.jpg
