What is an uncomfortable truth you hate to admit?
I know I'm only good for comfort and coin. But at least I know I'm good at it.
I know that I've never been told I was attractive by anyone I was in a relationship with.
I know that if I'm the male equivalent of a female prude (not willing to spend money on a woman, compare to a prude woman not wanting to spend her resource-pussy-on a man), I'll never find someone...except it's exponentially easier to get to a man's wallet than a woman's crotch. And the wallet is worth more.
There are few good reasons to believe in free will
Anyone else got any good bits of wisdom?
What's the most insightful thing you've read on 4chan?
>>27573048
This one hurts. Both because women are monsters and monster women would never exist.
Through dick, unity.
But people get too sidetracked.
>>27572907
>The foundations of reality are flimsy
Except the foundations can be directly observed
>See: Physics
No one will ever find me attractive and I will probably ruin the life of anyone I trick into being my partner.
There will come a day when the person I love will look at me and regret their choices.
>>27573118
Thanks for the insight m8
Just gotta watch out for winter lanterns
>>27572802
:stoptheme:
ignoring what I just typed above this shit is extremely sad. I feel like some of us here like to admit that they're bad and stuff when it's not THAT bad.
>>27573157
>what are metaphysics?
>>27573195
Same. Just gonna fly solo til I crash
Not sure how true pic related is. Fucked if so though
Anyone know who the qt is?
>>27573214
If you wanna tell me it's not as bad as you say, please do. I'm simply going off of my own experiences and opinions. A wallet to a woman is exactly like the vagina to a man.
There are women who don't need money and men who don't need sex but most want what they want.
Think about it. How does a woman get a lot of men to adore her? We call her a slut.
How does a man get plenty of female admirers? We call him rich.
It's both wisdom...and something to cheer me up.
This is another bit of wisdom I hate.
I'd rather be by myself and real than to attract some shallow slapper.
I don't doubt this. I can live comfy on relatively low pay, but a woman wouldn't want me unless she was stupid or too young to realize what she could get instead.
>>27573214
:stoptheme:
yeah same
>>27573513
I'd go apeshit tbfrank
>>27573600
Chimping out or losing it won't help. It doesn't even relieve stress.
All you can do is eat it up so it can eat you up from inside. And you will always be told "I didn't know what I wanted back then". Always.
Textless posts aren't original.
I kinda depressed myself hard by making the thread.
I don't know how to talk to a woman I'm attracted to. I don't know how to approach, I don't know how to create a situation where I can start a conversation with her.
I'm not attractive and I will never be, I'm short and not particularly good looking, which adding up the above means I will never be in a meaningful relationship.
I am good at academics, and will probably end up getting a good degree, which will mean I'll get a good job and get money.
If any woman shows interest in me from the second I get a good job and I reciprocate, I will never be able to shake off the feeling that she just likes me because I have money and I mean a stable life for her.
These are things I just know are true. I try to fight them, but every time I try and fail, they just become clearer and clearer.
In a typical r9k fashion, this thread already deluded into woman hate thread.
>>27573877
I don't hate women.
In fact I love women, but they don't love me.
I understand why they don't love me but I can't change that stuff, sadly.
>>27573674
Burn it as fuel when you work out. Leave women and humanity behind
Pic related us in response to a thread about Hemingway's quote that happiness in intelligent people is the rarest thing he has come across.
>>27573877
How is it a woman hate thread? The topic is uncomfortable truths.
>>27573904
Rest of screenshot
>>27573877
I'm just having trouble finding conc8we pics and some of them happen to be about grills. Calm your tits Susie
>>27573904
>>27573918
I'll never understand people who insist they're smart and tortured.
I'm stupid and tortured because if I was smarter, I wouldn't have left myself so open.
>>27573936
Concise*
Gonna try and keep it more relevant after this post if I can.
>>27573891How do you know it's love and not obsession?
Is this the polar opposite of "woman hating"?
It's wise either way.
I'll probably always be alone no matter what I do. Even the desprate 30 year olds aren't going to want me and I won't want them because I'll feel too bad for missing out on a the cute 14-25 year olds. I'll never get that time bad.
Pictured: anon has had it with this bullshit
>>27574002
I don't actually know.
I see a cute girl more than once or twice like, in class or something, and I just getshot through the heart.
I think it's starting to be a bit of an obsession but I'm too calm/not dumb to do something stupid.
It may also be the product of never having been with someone which means I "think" I fall in love, when in fact I'm just attracted.
>>27573944
The thinking I presume is that they realize life is shitty and are thus intelligent enough to see things realistically. If you see zero good reasons to be happy in a reality such as this than those who are will seem delusional and stupid. I can fall into this trap myself too easily at times. I can be very insufferable and angsty. They equate sadness with perception basically.
>>27574002
I'm not that anon but I know I'm not obsessed because I'm not changing myself to find a woman. I love them, I understand them well enough as a group, and I refuse to do whatever it takes to have one as a partner.
>>27572802
Fucking disgusting half-breed
>>27572802
One I am dealing with now is the fact that the only way I can achieve any sense of salvation, peace, and progress in my life is to move out.
Since my birth I have lived in a liberal society filled with people who abuse the the guilty liberal mindset to get away with crime and generally degenerate behavior. Trying to act or defend against it will put your social life and livelihood at risk because your are "close-minded" and racist. So injustice rules and the neighborhoods in which I live around are slowly decaying. So upsetting, considering my immigrant father left his country because he wanted to live in a better world he believed he could find here in the part of America I live in now.
Admitting I do not belong is not hard, it is a given for any robot. However the reality of my chances of succeeding in finding a better community and living a good life there being so weighed against me is an uncomfortable truth indeed. Unlike my father, I have no family or friends or friends who can help me relocate and get settled witha place to live and a job that can help pay for it all. At the moment I have not much money to my name. Plus my robotic nature is still crippling amongst any crowd. Moving out would be a completely lone endeavor.
It is something I still want to pursue, but the thought of failure sand the reality that at best it will take quite a bit of time before I can realistically puruse trying to find a better place to live scares me deeply. I already question if my mental health can stand this current state of necessary social isolation any longer.
>>27574007
Reminds me of this story on /tg/ where this guy chronicled living on a colony that had predators on it. There was a teenager predator who would try to capture and kill him everyday but he just brushed it off as if it was some kid pulling pranks just like, "silly predator, traps are for aliens." Somehow he gets caught and they end up having kids together. Shit was weird.
>>27574081
>using the word degenerate non-ironically
>>27572802
I actually dont have my shit together.
I have built my identity around the assumption that Im capable, yet my everyday reality is a proof Im anything but.
>>27574019
You're putting the pussy on a pedestal. Not in the normal sense either, it's a missed experience/nostalgia shitmix thing. There are greater things in life than PTP. It's just simple hedonism. Even relationships, you would have been young and stupid. There's a lot of retarded cheap that goes along with young relationships. I do empathize with you though. I always wanted that life of growing up with a childhood friend and calling deeper in love as we grew older. I didn't have that as a kid though and when middle school came around I became more withdrawn. Relationships aren't some be all end all goal. Just like sex they are incredibly overrated. Even if you don't get it, were you not worthy? Were you not a good person? Maybe those will comfort you. More importantly though, is that it isn't as good as you make it out to be. You only want it so bad because you haven't experienced anything like it, your stomach is empty. Eat a bit and you realize it isn't near as bad as you thought it was. Maybe that's a bad analogy. I don't know how to convey it properly, but you aren't missing out on much.
>>27574019
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=QYA9DaSIddo
Here's a good vid
>>27574236
>love is overrated
shut up
seriously, shut UP
i fucking hate people like you, jesus christ alfuckingmighty
i want to be loved so bad, don't tell me it's fucking "overrated" you shitbag
>>27574236
>trying to rationalize own inability to get the girl
>>27574236
This. Don't think sex is worth so much stress. My first time was with a random chick from Fetlife and it...wasn't bad. But now should it ever came up, I turn to a depressing sob story of how my first time was "some chick I didn't know".
Don't put anything on a pedestal, and don't think a fleshlight isn't just as serviceable.
>>27574261
Love is something valid.
For that...I don't know. If we knew we wouldn't be lonely. But don't equate love to sex. That doesn't work.
>>27574236
I know it's not very important, but it's the last pillar of my life that I haven't sorted out. It just sucks that in 25 years, nobody has given a shit about me. And all these women who I go out with always text me the next day saying they just want to be friends and they're sure I'll find a girl that is prettier than they are which I know is girl code for you're ugly.
I also have a very small dick and I've been having heart problems and no insurance so I don't have much confidence I'll be living much longer and I don't wanna miss out on anything,but I know with these problems I couldn't make a girl happy anyway.
I just wanted to share my interests with somebody that actually cares, but I can't so I kind of just have to hold everything inside.
I sort of feel like I'm just gliding along with no aim, not that that isn't unique on this board or anything.
>>27574296
you said relationships are incredibly overrated and I cannot disagree with you more
>Even if you don't get it, were you not worthy? Were you not a good person?
yes, this is how it feels and this is how everyone views it
if you are attempting to get into a relationship and cannot, it means you aren't worthy or good. and that fucking sucks to have reaffirmed.
>>27574265
I had a girl. That's how I know it's overrated, I've gotten the PTP so I can speak with experience.
>>27574261
>being this defensive
Then why did you come into a thread about uncomfortable truths?
>>27574135
Where I live that word is more than apt.
My mother's side of the family has lived around here for 4 generations.
My maternal granparents have easily noted how much has changed. The city was still a little trashy but was much better before the city became predominately black. Surrounding towns and neighborhoods that were once highly recommended places for families to live also became trash ridden minority hellholes filled with crime. The first high school attended had fights between niggers breakout in class constantly. I had to transfer to a high school in a white neighborhood.
I use it unironically because it is unironically, true blue degenerate. These are not just some surburban white people being club addicted alcoholics and sluts, which a lot of people here who rampantly use "degenerate" like to apply the word to. It is true blue degeneracy.
>>27574394
because it's not a truth. it's just some spoiled happy normalfag who doesn't know what it's like to be completely fucking unloved. love is literally the only thing that makes life worth living because it's the only thing that's unique to human interaction.
>>27574358
You don't have bros to hang out with? I know sharing your life with a girl is one thing but you don't need a girl to create meaningful relationships or experiences. No family you don't spend enough time with? Regardless I don't want to be too preachy or discredit you, just putting in my 2 cents. Good luck out there robot
If I'd focused up early on and put schoolwork before my fucking vidya gaems I probably wouldn't want to kill myself right now.
If I'd follow my own advice right this second then I'd almost certainly improve my future. But I don't want to.
Mental illness, abandonment, poor luck, all the little negatives that contribute to a general sadness have been excuses not to do what I'm fucking supposed to. The demon looms unnecessarily large and I refuse even to take a peak at it most days.
There's something to Freud's picture of anal-retentive psychology after all. I was loathe to 'give it up' as a young one, and I let that stubbornness ruin my only life for no logical reason.
>>27574368
I'm not that anon.
Relationships are nice to have, I just believe you need to be a slut (which means spending resources, money, for a man) to be attractive if you aren't normally attractive like a Chad.
>>27574418
There's a fuckton of shit unique to human interaction. You don't need someone to validate your existence. It sucks yeah I'm not going to doubt that. It's not some objective meaning of life though.
>>27574418
Animals love.
Love is important but that's something you just don't find out in the wild. It has to be grown to mean anything, else it might as well go back down to the level of highschool infatuation.
>>27574405
>my morality is the one true morality
>>27574526
>Animals love.
animals love anyone who gives them a bowl of food and a head scratch and doesn't pee in the spots where they pee
human love is more complex and intimate and you have to earn it by not being a fucking loser like me
>>27574530
Don't be such a fag dude, this guy's voicing legitimate worries here
>>27574543
How is it more complex and intimate? More so, what's more intimate than being complimented, physically loved, told so many encouraging and positive things and being given gifts of your favorite food?
I'm both posting an argument for you to prove your point and asking what makes the love between an owner and their pet different from two humans. Especially because petplay exists as a bdsm thing. You have to tell me how that's not genuine.
>>27574587
because any human can obtain an animal's love
it's a fucking animal
their intelligence is beneath us
>>27574579
Fine. Just get a bad /pol/ vibe from it.
Also to what degree hasn't it always been like this? We are more educated than we have ever been, I feel like part of it is glorifying the past a bit.
>>27574603
There are a lot of people who hate animals because they're hated by animals.
You're connecting intelligence with...the heart? Haven't you heard about how the heart and brain are always at odds; what makes you think they need to be unified for something to be validated?
I could never handle a normal life. More than that, I could never enjoy it. But not having the opiate of the masses takes a toll on me. My energy and motivation get so fucking low. Because it's hard to see the point of bothering with anything.
Also, I'm insecure as fuck about every little thing. I try to bury it under seven layers of not giving a fuck. Maybe I half-way convince myself for a moment or two, but underneath I can feel the fear and doubt. Goddamn, consciousness wasn't meant to be like this. Look at cats and dogs. They're not driving themselves mad over thoughts in their head. If they have the essentials, they're content. What twisted madness it is to be human. Especially if your flaws and your mind prevent you from truly being a man at all.
Girls adore me
as a friend
I have no trouble talking to girls and they like talking to me, but I'm stuck being the gay friend that's not gay.
>>27574654
>bad
>/pol/ vibe
>>>/co/mblr
>>27574418
I know what you mean dude.
I really do.
I'm good at a lot of stuff, university isn't that hard, am well off and stuff like that. And it all feels so fucking empty, because only my family who is biologically hardcoded to do so love me.
I feel useless and alone. I really crave love but it'll never come and it fucking hurts.
>>27574701
Sure. Whatever helps you sleep at night
I feel like this is related in some way
i'm a failure and will probably never amount to much. i'll never live out my dreams
>>27574685
>having the opiate of the masses
>driving themselves mad over thoughts in their head
congrats, you are both neckbeardy and edgy
most people will live shitty awful lives filled with regret and failure
and the only reason we fluff people with hope is so they don't kill themselves
and the only reason we don't want people to kill themselves is so we don't have to feel guilty
>>27574530
I am not perfect, but I do not fill citues with trash, cover them with graffiti, make people fear for their lives, drive sane citizens away, and break the law regularly while blaming other people for my being such a shithead. Nor do I try to inspire others do so, thereby increasing the crime rates.
The city has become notorious for how bad it has become, how it has affected the areas around it, and how now those areas are slowly getting to areas around themselves. It is derided many times by both people from unaffected surrounding areas and even a few within such as myself who want to escape.
Note that I myself am a minority. I am just not dumb to deny majority of citizens who share my enthinicity are easily inspired by bad ideas and dangerous behaviors along with the other minorities that has helped turn the city to the joke it is now. I refuse to stand with them simply because we share ethnicity. I refuse to stand with these people simply because they share my place of residence (shocking how many people are proud of this shithole). If you were thinking I was some bitter white skinhead then you are wrong.
So, all that being said, if you still truly believe this place provides a good living, then by all means take my place here. Let me be free.
>>27574654
Good and bad will always exist. However to deny better or worse is frsnkly defeatist and ignorant. I once had an opportunity to stay at a small town much further away from here. The difference between there and here was almost surreal.
>more educated than ever
Considering the clowns they pass through the educational system here, not really. People go to school, but many refuse to learn jack shit.
>>27575455
What city is this?
It's not Baltimore is it?
>>27572802
I'm ugly and fundamentally broken inside.
There is no fixing me.
No amount of exercise or meditation can fix me
for a long time I sincerely believed that happiness is something that doesn't exist.
that it is a fairy tale feeling from Disney cartoons.
I am starting to wonder if my life is far worse than my peers - that life isn't pointless and harsh - just mine.
I never had a reason to feel sorry for myself, since I don't have friends or parents who love me. I never cried because nobody would care.
Only now am I realizing that if a normie was placed in my shoes, he wouldn't last a few weeks before killing himself.
>>27572802
I'm extremely racist and afraid of other people. I want to kill blacks, Hispanics, Arabs, etc. I'm not smart. I'm a terrible person.
