They're all judging you.
Not a single one thinks you're attractive.
Uh except Stacies do think I'm attractive, enough to approach me and try to start conversations. I'm just so autistic that I can't get them to stay.
I'm not even into girls but that would make me nervous.
Only the second girl on the left looks friendly and non-judgmental.
>>27526538
>tfw don't feel any desire or attraction to any of them
I guess porn really did fuck my brain up
>>27526550
I know that feel all too well, anon.
All too well.
Sometimes I can't get past the first word.
I pull out my dick and say "who's ready for the main course?". The police are called.
>>27526695
That might actually get you a few numbers.
Bravery counts with women.You'll still be arrested, of course.
>>27526538
>They're all judging you
Constantly.
How can normies find interacting with females enjoyable, or even tolerable?
Do they all have sky-high self esteem, or do they just play along for the pussy?
Don't give me any
>hurr other people's opinions don't matter
>just b urself
BS, unless you're just shitting on the street and masturbating in public wearing sweatpants, you care about other people's opinions of you at least a little.
I just feel so lost in the world
>>27527096
Just bee yourself, who cares what girls think anyways
>>27526592
Don't worry anon, it's because all of those are british trash sluts.
and I'm judging them....
>>27527467
Judge, jury AND executioner.
Can't dodge the Rodge baby.
>>27526538
dont give them that much credit. most of them would suck you off if you knew what to say and had enough cash, even if they wont admit it there. women are huge on fitting in with the group so they'll just do as the group does
>>27526538
not until i whip my cock out
this sluts will learn to think im attractive
RAPE TIME NIKKAS
>>27527096
>are they juet playing along for pussy
they are. there's no need to tell them any more than what they want to hear. save the details for questions after the fact, if they ask that is
>>27526538
It's only a split second judgement.
Once they have categorised you as unattractive they won't spend anymore time thinking about you. That kind of invisibility can be comforting.
>>27527547
I enjoy it, no pressure or anything.
What's the story with these pics anyways?
>OK, Alpha-Sigma-Sigmas, everyone make your best bitch faces!
I'm white, I'm fit, I have good bone structure.
Sure they wouldn't all want me, what with my greasy hair and the bit of acne I've got, and the fact that I'm a hikikomori NEET couldn't be too attractive unless they have some sort of fetish, but I'm confident at least 1 or 2 of those females would be willing to have sex with me, even without liquoring them up.
Not that I'd want to touch 3D, but I'm just saying I find it unlikely not a single one couldn't find me at least a little attractive.
>>27526538
No they are not judging me. In fact, im probably in top 10% in terms of looks and since I walked in with a hot girl who is actuall my friend they think Im the top dog. Happens to me every day at uni
Lifting, working on my social skills and anxiety is finally paying off
>>27526538
Well theres a lot more women. They did me a favor by getting out of my dating pool if they don't find me attractive lol
>>27527939
How did you work on your social skills/anxiety? What did you actually do?
>>27527961
>this is what ugly fags actually tell themselves to cope
>mfw it's the equivalent of parents telling their retarded children that everyone is "special"
>>27526538
>judging
These bitches don't give an ounce of a fuck about me.
>>27527927
nice bragpost dickface.
You might be /fit/ but you likely cant fight. I'd push your shit in irl if I heard you bragging like a little prick in my face
>>27526538
I doubt that fag
That's okay, the only reason I'd ever be in that situation would be to go with my gf because she always invites me to every social thing she does. Then I get drunk and say some dumb stuff and she gets kinda mad and then gets over it.
>>27527975
Im doing Good looking losers approach anxiety program
>>27528210
>I'm doing the normie approach for normies
>>27528217
Its literally made for autistic fucka such as yourself. I mean on the day 1 you have to ask 5 girls what time is it. Are you really too autistic to do that?
>>27528283
>JUST BE OUTGOING BRO!
>JUST STEP OUTSIDE YOUR COMFORT ZONE
>JUST BE YOURSELF!
>>27526538
Even though I managed to fix most of my discomfort when dealing with people and am actually quite sociable, I'd still have to struggle through that first moment if everyone is looking at me like that.
If this was some gathering I'm invited to I'd casually greet them, apologize for being late but work was hectic today, walk to the person(s) I know to greet properly with a hug and get a seat over there.
If some women end up laughing, I'll know they were or are gossiping and actively judging me, which makes me disregard their presence as a wholewhich funny enough can lead to them reconsider me as they expect me to be affected by such bitchy and childish attitudes. All other women I'd slowly get to know if they're open to chitchat, probably ending up with more acquaintances by the end of the evening as I normally do.
>tfw it's almost a guarantee that at least 1 woman will ask if she can touch your hair
I never knew how nice it was to have this curly hair until I started socializing.
If they're women I don't know and I'm just walking past them, I'd look behind me almost theatrically, look back to them, give them one of those small wave motions (pic related, minus the finger movement but instead hand moving) with a half-smile as I walk past them.
They'll judge me, they'll likely think I'm unattractive as I'm only average looking, and laughter will likely occur from at least some of them, but I don't care much really. Unless I end up stuck in that restaurant due to some inability to get out, their disposition towards me based solely on my looks is of no significance.
>>27527988
It's true though. I'd rather have it clear from the start someone isn't romantically interested in me than feign such interest only to later tell me "Oh but anon, I only see you as a friend even though I agreed to several dates, you spending all that time and money on me, and me actively flirting with you all the time while shutting down any of your moves on me!)
>>27528297
Lol ur so patethic
How the fuck do you think you are gonna get rid of your anxiety? Do you even want to get rid of anxiety? Why the fuck did you even ask me what I did to get rid of mine if you were just going to ignore it?
It isn't what I can do for them, it is what they can do for me which is moving on over 'cuz I'm gonna need room to eat.
>>27528297
what the fuck is doing that 45yo old woman on the left with the teens on the right?
>>27528356
I didn't ask you shit, nigger. And you can't get rid of genuine anxiety, you can only manage it.
Fuck off with your meme rhetoric.
>>27528390
I don't know, but she's the hottest one there.
>>27528393
Lel whatever
Have fun fapping to anime tonight while I'll be talking to girlls and doing my drills
>>27528393
Not him, but even when you're only able to manage or suppress anxiety rather than to get rid of it, the course of action for that is to slowly push yourself out of the comfort zone.
Meds that cause apathy could help I guess, but assuming you don't want to become dependent on that, pushing yourself a bit outside that comfort zone created by your anxieties is the way to go to make the relative severity of the anxieties seem less intense, allowing yourself to further push the boundaries as time passes and experience accumulates due to the extra fuel it can give to change your state of mind to a more manageable one.
Of fucking course it's fucking hard to overcome such boundaries you've set up for yourself, and of course you can't "just" do stuff like it - especially at first, but actually doing so is the way to go.
The main difference between robots and normies when it comes quite a lot of "Normie" advice, is that the advise tends to lack any perspectives or approaches on how to start doing those things, as well as details on what they mean with things like "just b urself". For normies it can often suffice reading about it and giving it a try, for robots there's this "for what purpose?" mentality or lack of idea on how to actually do it. I think for a lot of robots they would also want an example of how to do it, a social interaction template to mimic so to speak, which is rarely given with advises simply due to the fact that every interaction can be different in approach, response, etc.
That doesn't mean the advises are to be dismissed by default though, an error a lot of robots make - which strongly correlates with robots who aren't really looking for ways to improve through effort but instead want some magical method that will do the work for them. Correlation doesn't imply causation, but the correlation is there regardless; I wouldn't be surprised if the lack of genuine willingness often is a core reason for just dismissing advises.
>>27526538
Holy shit! that's a lot and Idk if I can do it lads.
>>27528393
just go through a life threatening experience and then you wont give a fuck anymore
the other day I answered the door naked by accident since I legitimately do not give a fuck what other people think of me anymore after almost dying
>>27527547
At least someone gets it. I've come to appreciate my invisibility to women.
>>27528573
What kind of advice would you give to someone that lacks will to do better? Nietzche has written that the human being needs to avoid at all costs ceding to the lack of will in order to avoid nihilism which is argued that its corrosive effects would eventually destroy all convictions and precipitate the greatest crisis in human history. Now I don't know what one can do to escape once he reaches this spiritual stagnation.
From my readings the only force capable of making a person change drastically is a great trauma; a shock in his day to day life, like being actually forced to fight for his life.
>>27526538
Suicide bomb.
>>27526538
Whatever, I got used tot hat and it doesn't affect my apathy in any way
If one of them DID think that I'm attractive and would try to talk to me or shit, now that would make me uncomfortable
That's not true at all I'm actually very handsome. The one closest to the camera is the best looking one too.
>>27529140
> I'm actually very handsome
That's what your mom told you? She's definitely right.
>>27529260
The truth is the truth doesn't matter where it comes from. I've heard it from several women.
>>27528876
Honestly I don't know.
I think the trauma approach is probably the way with the biggest success rate (but I doubt it's 90% or higher or something; different trauma's might have different effects per person, not all trauma has to be negative ones either). It's probably the only thing that can change someone drastically quickly, true.
By no means do I imply it'll work for everyone, but I personally ended up with a mix of noticing the stagnation/nihilism left me feel like crap and desire to change it, reading about someone's approach at life to avoid negative stimuli while embracing positive stimuli where possible to keep one's state of mind in a more positive setting most of the time (to manage/combat depression), reading about ways to actively combat overthinking, and a decision to try and actively put the latter two in practice with a "worst case scenario I'll just end up stagnant again as I am now, having wasted some time and energy which doesn't matter as I'm planning to off myself anyway if things continue this way; living a bit longer and experiencing crappy things if it fails doesn't matter in the long run anyway, might as well give it a go" approach to it.
Learning to recognize whenever I basically told myself not to take any risk or make an effort in betterment, overthought worst-case scenarios to demotivate myself or justify staying in my miserable comfort zone (however unlikely for it to happen), and distinguishing what were positive and negative things in my life, were very useful and needed to be able to change things.
In addition I berated myself whenever I scoffed at myself for enjoying simple things due to the insignificance in the grand scheme. I felt like some stupid fuck for occasionally enjoying the warmth of the sun for instance, as it has no use or meaning in the long term; now I can find enjoyment in that again. Same applies to appreciation for the smaller things in life; I take a lot less for granted nowadays.
>>27530076
cont.
It's probably a lot more gradual and slow process this way, probably taking a lot more internal effort as there's no outside force forcing you to change, but the upside is that there's also less likely to be backlash. The wrong trauma at the wrong time could worsen things for someone.
I've been lucky that the burst of genuine motivation to improve my situation happened at the right time, around the time I read those 2 things worth taking into consideration for me. Were I to tell myself 2 years ago I'd end up where I am now, I would've laughed at the ridiculous and seeming impossible statement, and I still have plenty of things I'd like to improve.
>avoid nihilism which is argued that its corrosive effects would eventually destroy all convictions and precipitate the greatest crisis in human history.
Nihilism and other variations of spiritual/mental stagnation can be quite dangerous indeed, I wouldn't be surprised if a mass occurrence could cause a serious crisis. Little or no real work ambition is not a big deal as there are plenty of jobs that would allow for such attitude, but having at least some desire to improve in some way or another is what (western) societies are built upon. I don't think a mass increase of stagnant people in all ways would work well living in said societies.
