Femanons here me out.
Should I not give up on the girl I love? Is persistence the key to success?
I'm 26, I never had a gf. And I've been thinking. If I don't get a gf now, then what are the chances that I'll ever get married? What are the chance that I will literally end up alone? I've never developed a relationship with anyone because nobody has ever wanted me.
I'm at a point where I'm refusing to say no. Why? Whats the point of living if your alone? I don't want to be alone. I want to be wanted by the person I love.
>>27501379
I'm a lvl 27 khv. I had 2 oneitises for years. The 1st one seemed to love me, but I never let her know how I felt about her. 4 years after we last had contact, she had a baby with someone I never knew. The 2nd one was actually pursuing me for marriage, but I slipped away from her advances and pretended to be uninterested. 8 years after we first and last had meaningful contact, she had a baby with someone I never knew.
How do you love someone if you nevet had a gf? That's creepy
>>27502484
In what fucking delusional world is someone "pursuing you for marriage" and yet you clearly had no physical contact with them as kissless handholdless virgin?!
>>27502656
Her mom asked me to marry her several times and I actively avoided her. That's not even on the level of blind arranged marriage which has been a cultural norm for millennia.
>tfw girl I love is lying to me
>try to confront her and she just breaks down into hysterics
>don't confront her and I can see her feeling awful due to the pressure of maintaining a facade
>I just love her for who she is and wish she'd just be honest and comfortable
>>27501379
You should sort out your mental problems first.
>>27502941
What is she lying about?
>>27503055
I don't want to get into too much detail but basically aspects of her past.
None of it matters besides it clearly crippling her sense of self-worth, and as soon as I try to touch on the subject to dispel any fears she has it seems like she assumes the absolute worst like I'm going to hold it over her.
