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Can we talk about something honestly?

How is it possible to love a girl who has had another man's cum on her face?

How can you look at her face and say that you love her, when you know that Chad used her like a cum rag then tossed her aside?

How can you have dignity knowing that you are settling for Chad's table scraps?
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Chads cum only enhances her value, ya doofus.
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>>27489698
I love pizza when I'm eating it. I love my favourite tv shows when I'm watching them. I love women when I'm fucking them. You just have a childish fairytale view of love and relationships. Grow up.
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Beats me, I've never loved anybody in my life.

How is it posible to love a filthy sack of flesh and organs that's only attracted to you because of the weird electrochemical signals in it's brain are trying to get it to propagate?
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>>27489698
>all these retarded questions
>using them as a excuses as to why you don't have girlfriend
Whatever gets you by, loser.
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>>27489742
I dunno. I kinda guess it has to do with other filthy sacks reciprocating with their own electrochemical signals. Maybe some of us don't have such signals
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>>27489742
Kekekekkek well memed

never change anon
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>been with my bf for four months
>have done lots of different sex stuff, including anal
>still hasn't cum on my face
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virgins will never get laid.
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You can drive yourself crazy thinking about any manner of things like this only to hopefully realize how fruitless it is.
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>>27489698
I've used a lot of whores before. I think most girls are psychologically damaged in today's society. I can't date a girl who has fucked more guys than I have girls but if it's under 30 it doesn't bother me as I've don't wayyyyy too much fucked up shit to care.
I still fantasize about a virgin qt saving me from my degeneracy
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get a load (no pun intended) of these fucking cucks holy shit
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>>27489698
why do you want to love her?

she can't love you back the way you want it. women "love" in a different way than men.
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>>27489698
Because I'm horny and wanna fuck
Love is dead
Embrace hedonism
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>>27489844
>When people say no pun intended
>they make pun
Fuck you, you autist fag.
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If she's had sex with other men, she's probably a better lover. What you cucks don't understand is that virgins are extremely awkward. Considering that you're all virgins, it's understandable that you don't really get this, and I actually hope that you all find virgins to mate with just so you can experience how fucking awkward and embarrassing first-time sex really is. It's a nightmare.
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>>27489698
You know women wash their faces right?
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Why would you want a virgin?

She can't appreciate you until she's been properly disappointed by Chad
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>>27491105
They only know of magical special virgin sex from movies. They don't realize its weird and clumsy and over fast.
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>>27491150
It still is a disgusting thought. Unless you're into another mans cum.
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Nothing wrong with using her and throwing her whore ass away when you're done.

Now, that chump who actually gfs her, introduces her to his parents, takes her to dinner and other couple things...seriously, just don't be that dumb bastard.

You'd be accepting that you're a lesser man; the woman no one else wanted for a serious relationship is good enough for you.
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>craig threads are a thing again

This makes me happy
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>>27489698
grow up faggot. waaah muh gurl muh chad waaaaah
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>>27491177
Women wash themselves.
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>>27491198
This is cringey virgin shit.
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>>27489698

>he's so omega and asexually inexperienced he thinks normal people think of each other as discarded when they have sex and don't commit to a life long relationship - the thread
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>>27491208
It is not about the cum actually being on her face you idiot, nobody thinks they let it rot there.

It is about the fact that she allowed another dude to degrade her and then tells you she loves you when you know she was perfectly fine to do this for someone before.
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>>27491219
Your gf (who am I kidding, oneitis/crush) is one of those bitches Chad didn't want, right?
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>>27491177

It's only disgusting because you're disgusted in yourself for being a cum obsessed omega virgin
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>>27491222
This desu

OP you were a genetic mistake to this world
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>>27489751
Thats not really that
Sure, thats something you can overlook, and since i'm guessing you are a girl, i think you would strongly advocate that.
But thats an issue for any guy. Most cases yoy will just not think about it.
But lets say a girl made a porn where she is pinned down fucked in the ass and have the guy cum in her mouth. How many boyfriends would stick around after watching that?
I certainly wouldn't.
Now, its not much of a stretch from that to just creating a mental image of her sex history and loosing interest.
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>>27491233
>It is about the fact that she allowed another dude to degrade her

But you're the only person who sees it as degrading. All of this only works because you are pathetic enough to believe that the value you place on other peoples sexuality has any value at all.
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>all these newfags not recognizing craig
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CRAIG! I THOUGHT YOU LEFT! HOW HAVE YOU BEEN?
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>>27491276
If you believe intimacy and how you are spending it has no value then I don't know what to tell you.
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>>27489698
well it doesnt bother me because i likely have had 3-4 times as many pussies on my face or mouths around my dick than her. hell chances are i put my cum in more pussies than shes had dicks with or without condoms.
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>>27491271
>But lets say a girl made a porn where she is pinned down fucked in the ass and have the guy cum in her mouth. How many boyfriends would stick around after watching that?
>I certainly wouldn't.

>getting so ahead of yourself you think you'd have options even in a fantasy scenario
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>>27489698

I would be okay with it as long as I can do it with her.

If she doesn't allow me to do shit she did with her exs then she can fuck right off.
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>Fuck some fwb and cum on her lips and tongue cus fetish of mine
>She now has a bf
>She keeps uploading pics of her french-kissing her bf
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Where's the yoga pants thread, Craig?
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>>27491314
I just lurk here
Projecting won't do much
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>>27491308

>likely
>chances

You have no idea cuck.
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>>27491300

You're like a man with no money criticising people for how they spend theirs, especially when they have it in abundance.
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>>27491342

>using words you don't understand as part of a hilariously ineffectual reply
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>>27491105
That is perfect just like chinese cartoons.i want that innocent sex.
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>>27491292
People need dramatic examples to shake them out of apathy. As a man, I'm flesh and blood, I can be ignored, I can be destroyed; but as a symbol... as a symbol I can be incorruptible, I can be everlasting. Something elemental, something terrifying. I'm Craigman.
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>>27489742
Tips fedora ecsde
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Actual chad here. The rowboats in this thread got the right: sex is all about power and taking something away from somebody. In this case, them withholding their body.

The only ones waving this away as something that isn't important are the weakass beta fuckers taking the literally sloppy seconds.

Enjoy the smell of my aftermath fuckos.
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>>27491399
Drifting from the argument for lack of a proper reply
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>>27489698
FFS
you fat bastards love girls *you have never spoken to*!
>How can you have dignity...
THEY
ARE
ROBOTS!
The habitual posters here piss in jugs and jerk it to pretend horses!
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>>27489698
You don't.
You use her for sex.
The only thing she had ever been good for desu.
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Op is just salty because he wants to be irresistible to women but isn't.
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>>27491922
this so much
if she wants to be a slut treat her like one , if she wants love , love her to the fullest.
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>>27489742
you nihilistic bastard :^)
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>>27489698
My oneitis made out with a chad when we were 15, I still want to fucking kill when i see him and I imagine how he cuddled with her and sticked a tongue in her mouth and touched her. I get so jealous I want to fucking kill someone.
If I knew she fucked somebody I would kill myself and it's only a maater of time now. She may have even fucked someone and I just dont know about it. It drives me crazy but I would still love her if she wanted to be with me after that
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>>27492030
>love her to the fullest
and then she'll leave you.

sorry senpai, I wish I wasn't this jaded.
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OP you're a completely retarded faggot. You do realize we all plop out of a blood vagina next to a butthole and we are made from sperm. Get this unsullied fantasy out of your head before you become a KV @ age 40 warlock status.
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What's with this board obsession with 'purity'? I sucked my first gf's pussy juices to oblivion, even when she was bleeding.
After months, I decided it was better to part ways. Does that mean that no girl ever should ever love me again?

I refuse to believe a sapiens holds this as true.
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>>27492948
not that complex. most of them are man-children or actual children with a primitive grasp of their emotions. since they are virgins, and also misogynists, they feel insecure when women have more sexual experience than them. these are the types of morons who end up beating their spouse. really just boils down to insecurity
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>>27492948
You're but a base beast, less than an animal as you are capable of thought and reflection.

You obviously wouldn't understand.
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"women are worthless whores because they have sex with everyone who isnt me"

hi, elliot roger here
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I honestly lose all respect for a woman if I know she's had premarital sex
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>>27493262
During todays lunch break I wasn't saying a whole lot but instead looked very carefully at my female coworkers faces.
The thought that every single one of them has had sex within the last 48 hours is completely alien and bizarre to me.

They look like people when clearly they are not.
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>shit flinging this much over a craig post
lmao
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>>27493363

>not having had sex in the last 48hrs
>trying to claim you're a human
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>>27489723
That's the only view worth having.
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>>27491105
That actually sounds appealing.
Just two virgins awkwardly and desperately thrusting without any clue what they're doing. Sounds cute as fuck honestly.
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>>27493037
I don't want a girl who's been showered in cum and rammed by 18 niggers at the same time so I'll defintely go beat up my kids. How's the psych mayor coming along?
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You're all a bunch of insecure cucks.
Why does it matter whatever past experiences she's had? what matters is that she only loves you now.
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>>27493037
>most of them are man-children or actual children with a primitive grasp of their emotions
>primitive grasp of their emotions
What? Is this a thing?

>>27493101
Thank you "snarky redditor"-Man you hafe saved the world again
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>>27493630
thanks for responding. im actually a chemist, no affiliation with psychology as a field of study. i didnt say child abuse, i said spousal abuse. the key idea here is that you are extremely insecure and lack the ability to self reflect.
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>>27489698
Can we talk about something honestly?
How is it possible to keep posting this shit when you never lived a life worth living?
How can you look in the mirror and say that you love shitposting? When you know that no one cares about you and you get tossed aside in a day when newer better shitposters happen?
How can you have dignity knowing that you are settling for shitposting on r9k?
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>>27493708
The only cucks are the ones who are okay with Chad's used goods.

You are literally putting your mouth in the same hole that was grinding against a man's penis countless times.
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>>27493724
>proving my point so thoroughly

appreciate that m8
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>>27493708
>calls us cucks
>okay with the fact that the woman you're with has been jizzed on by another dude
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She looks so happy, this is truly a great time we're living in. Let's all just fuck each other and cum on everyones face :)
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>>27492948
>What's with this board obsession with 'purity'?
When you can't have anything you tend to self destructively want the best of the best.
They know they can't a girl happy. That they have no qualities that make them lovable. But they get that much more thirsty and angry because again, they want what they can't have So they want the most shut in, homely yet somehow qt virgin out there so the bar is so low they might have a chance to achieve that feeling of making a girl happy.
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>>27493752
So? have you ever handshaked anyone or hell, had food passed to you by another man's hand? because if you did you've literally had contact with something that has grinded against a man's penis

what should matter here is love.
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>>27493789
>six of those photo have the same face
>find a another 4 alike
>reverse search
>it's some retarded art project
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>>27493806
Would you ever wear the same underwear that another man cummed, pissed in, and left shit streak marks on?

After time passes, it's the same thing as new, right? You can just wash it off!
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>>27493787
You better start explaininig what's considered a "primitive grip" on emotions or else your point will lose all kind of credibility.
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>>27493859
Considering I would wear my friend's boxers back when I was a teenager sleeping over I probably have.
No skidmarks though.
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>>27489698
You are right. You can't.

Porn is empty and dead.
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>>27493806
This is the true funny narrative here when you think about it
When you waste this much energy over what has been in or on something the basic conclusion becomes that every human has been in contact with everyone's genitalia.
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>>27489769
>>27491463
>>27492520
He was making fun of OP. Ever heard of satire?
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>>27493884
You're the cuck, then.
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>>27489712
made me lol
i'm glad that anon is gone tho
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>>27493725
Oh my bad on that one, english isn't my first language. But I know I'm a piece of shit and I'll admit I'm very insecure.
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>>27493914
>cuck because i let love flow into my life

if it helps you sleep at night
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>>27493708
>what matters is that she only loves you now.
We both now that "love" it's just a prolonged state of lust, don't act like there's some metaphysical shit going on.

>>27493731
>>27493804
Is "le fighting against mysogny" the new "cool" thing for kids?
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>>27491334
devilish

jlvjlk
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>>27493956
>cuck because i let Chad's cum flow into my life
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>>27493961
I don't refer to love in that matter.

What "prolonged state of lust" could a woman possibly have for me if she's had experiences with other people? I'm not sex god so I know that she must have had better. When I speak of love I mean that there is a mutual basic, platonic sense of care and duty we have for one another. Loyalty for the other partner so to speak, not out of "lust" but out of something else, namely friendship.
Besides, if either of us are sexually unsatisfied we can always just swing.
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>>27491334
This is precisely why anyone who settles for another man's leftovers is a cuck, whether he realizes or not. Fucking sad that normies have normalized cuckoldry and are now the majority of this board.
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>>27492948
nothing wrong with a guy being promiscuous. it's only wrong when women do it IMO
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>>27493725
>>primitive grasp of their emotions
What the fuck do you mean by "primitive"?
Don't run away now
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>>27489698
>love
>a girl/woman

There is your problem. You don't love a girl or a woman. You use them for whatever you want. I use them to get my knocks off, and that is that.

I love my bike, my house and my money that I am making. Chad didn't love the girl you wanted, he just wanted to fuck and be done with it. Why can't you be more like Chad?
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>>27493961
>fighting against mysogny
Who said I was fighting anything? I'm just stating how it goes people that have better freedoms of mates and lovers tend to not get hang up on things like purity or what you want to call it.
However you doubt you could ever get a girl and you finally get one with no real hope of another showing up? Suddenly everything from their height, weight and past is gonna really matter because the back of your head is screaming "don't settle and look like the loser you are"

That's not to say wanting a virgin makes you a loser, it's to say you worry way more about it than a person who has the confidence of knowing they could get and bang that Vcard qt so they start looking at values differently aimed more on what they bring in other departments
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>>27494044
Swing?
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>>27494101
hi, sorry im at work. calm down. by primitive i mean not far-reaching, basic, immature etc.
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>>27492639
if you act like a sperg , she sure will , love her to the fullest doesnt mean that you should act like a little bitch
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>>27489742
edgelord fedora maximus!
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>>27492639
Then I enjoy the memories of that love.
You act like loneliness with no life experiences is better than losing love but at least having those joys.
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>>27494172
Fuck other people outside of the relationship.
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most people love their mothers and kiss on their cheeks for birthdays /on mothers day. Yet the very same 'angels' probably took more than 20 dicks probably.

this thread is bait, who gives a shit as long as no STDs
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>>27494265
>who gives a shit
cuck
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>>27494164
Lol so you're making assumptions about me and my values based on collective shitposting?
As for the last paragraph it's pretty obvious that you do consider me a loser you already judged me before you knew anything about me.
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>>27494352
>Lol so you're making assumptions about me and my values based on collective shitposting?
No you are.
I never aimed it at anyone person or group. You have projected that I was aiming at you when I was talking about a general idea of people.
>As for the last paragraph it's pretty obvious that you do consider me a loser
Again not aimed at anyone person I feel you are creating your own problems here
>you already judged me before you knew anything about me.
You have judge yourself without knowing anything about anyone yourself.
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Okay all of you will receive pics of your gf with all her ex-bf cumming on/in her, then tell me that "purity" is a meme.
Stupid cucks
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>>27494681
>then tell me that "purity" is a meme.
who has even said that here?
for fucksakes work on your bait
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>>27489698
because she is still a goddamn human being at end's day?
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>>27494164
>That's not to say wanting a virgin makes you a loser, it's to say you worry way more about it than a person who has the confidence of knowing they could get and bang that Vcard qt so they start looking at values differently aimed more on what they bring in other departments
Of course everything that normal people do is good and everything we do is wrong, just kill me already i know you normos want it
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>>27494720
See
>>27492948
>>27493708
>>27493037

Originalysy
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>>27489742
Maximum autism status holy shit
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>>27494760
No, a person with more options will value things differently than one with few or none.
If I can buy anything I want at any time I wager a lot of shit would lose it's value and I care less about something being mint or perfect because I have choices where as If I'm very poor I could have the urge to want to buy very expensive brand new things beyond my paid grade so I could feel I wasn't denied them, that my poor means didn't mean I couldn't have.

That's where the sex rollacoster happens as well.
Guy can get any qt, Vcard because a quirk not a necessity
Guy can't even get the ugs to give him the time of day? Suddenly the thought of being 2nd,3rd,4th etc stings a lot more because you'll be lucky to find a #1 or #2
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>>27494681

If she fucked someone else while we were dating then of course I'd dump her but I'm 20 years old, there's no reason to expect someone my age to be a virgin unless they're A) very religious or B) very ugly, both of which are dealbreakers for me.
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>>27493568
>this anon exists
>you will never meet him or talk to him
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cucks the lot of you
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>>27494988
>but I'm 20 years old, there's no reason to expect someone my age to be a virgin
This made my stomach churn.
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>>27494884
Yeah that's why i said that i'm inherently wrong and normalfags will always be right, it doesn't matter i'm wrong in the end so why shouldn't i believe these things?
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>>27491105
>>27491150
>OP talks about love
>just assume he means sex
Kill yourselves normalfags.
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Because you're sprinkling them with your cum at the moment and chad's cum is long washed off?
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>>27495233
Your still not getting it.
You could be right. They could be right.
The flaw is you are both coming from different perspectives
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>>27489698
love doesn't exist, it is a made up phenomenon by romanticists. you are best off relying on your natural instinct to fuck and move on with worry. and this is the best time in civilization to do it.
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>>27495414
without worry I mean
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>>27489698
By being better than everyone she's ever been with. I was a robot until about three months ago when I decided I wanted to make a change. Now I don't care how many guys she's been with as long as I know that I'm the best she's ever had.
Tldr; Become Chad
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>>27491201
This haven't seen a cum on her face thread. These threads are good and uncomfortable for normies to face.
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>>27495814
Women ALWAYS tell their current partner that they are the best they've ever had. You are a fucking retard if you actually believe that shit.

You are also utterly delusional if you think she doesn't actually think that the thickest dicked and most muscular man aka CHAD was not the best by far. Everything else is a distant second in her mind. She is just saving face to not embarrass you, fuckwit.
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>>27489698
Because I literally love her as a person, and not who's dick's been in her.
To be fair I've also had sex with women I didn't care about, so it's even. Just stop viewing sex as something so personal, and you'll be okay.
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half a steak is still pretty good even if i must beg for it. enjo- wait u dont get any steak. which is obviously meaning to replace poon. in case my veil of insightfulness clouded minds in temperence
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>>27496186
>sex is not personal
Do normie cucks actually believe this?
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Story for you guys to show how normies or chads think of sex and women.

Im a robot but best friends with a chad. We've got along since we were kids. He has fucked 100+ girls.
He dated this one girl for a while and they ended up breaking up. They both fucked other people. Eventually they start fucking again so she is hanging around us all the time. One night we are all drinking and he offers me to fuck her. Shes down for it. I say no because its fucked up, they both have feelings for each other. They both insist and she is all over me. but I keep declining. I'm not a virgin, so im not overly desperate to fuck this girl.
Literally within a week they are dating again and posting on facebook how much they love each other and shit.

Most of you dont hang out in normie circles, but trust me everyone is fucking everyone. You would literally never have a relationship if you got hung up on this stuff. You just accept that multiple chads you know have creampied your girl, but its ok because chad has to accept the same thing. Literally no one can escape.
In fact the chad from this story has been cucked several times, but he just accepts it as part of the game, as he has cucked others as well.
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>>27491413
>>27493619
>sex is hard
Really? You think sex I more than thrusting and massaging genitals while having an emotional connection?

If you have masturbated you have an idea of how to get off. If sex was so hard then people would rarely be having it.
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>>27496517
I disagree with that anon, is it always personal. But it doesn't always have to be romantic or in the context of a relationship

Casual sex happens all the time and people are fine
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>How can you have dignity knowing that you are settling for Chad's table scraps?

But Chad also settles for table scraps. Chad over-confidence makes him dumb and blind to the turd of person he's probably settling with.
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>caring about someone's sexual history
>assuming it negatively impacts who they are as a person
>shaming people for having sex when you would be getting as much of it ad you possibly can if the option was available to you

Sure is toxic masculinity in here. It's really sad to see you guys put the patriarchy on a pedestal when it's done nothing but fuck you over and benefit the guys you hate the most.
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I don't mind that. I do mind if she dated guys that are shit though. If she has been abused then that's pretty much just disqualifying.
Single moms really don't have an excuse either.
>>27496881
>Sure is toxic masculinity in here
Looks like bait but I'm hungry
>assuming it negatively impacts who they are as a person
People here share statistics. Divorce rates are higher the more partners you've had. So while it may not change them as a person directly it's an indicator. Also people here are often lied to so distrust is rather high.
>shaming people for having sex when you would be getting as much of it ad you possibly can if the option was available to you
Now who's assuming.
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>>27497022
Divorce rates are not an indicator of whether or not relationships are "successful". These studies are done with the cultural assumption that monogamous marriage is the only possible model of a relationship that could be considered valid.
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>>27496564
this is the only right answer

all normies are settling for other peoples scraps
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>>27489742
gr8 post m80'
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>>27497223
thats literally what a relationship is: sexual exclusivity

if you are in a "relationship but you have sex with other people" you are actually in a friendship that has casual sex

the defining characteristic of a relationship is monogamy.
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>>27497223
Ok so you're saying the proportion of marriages where a polygamous person decided to enter a monogamous marriage without saying that them being able to have an open relationship is a dealbreaker is what accounts for this massive massive factor. No. There's stats that only count "married people over X age" and sure, polygamy doesn't exactly equate marriage. But if you actually look up the stats for divorce (i'm a strong believer in letting other people source their shit now because it's so easy and I can have selection bias, you can't) they show you that the difference is rather huge. Enough that it's worth considering the causes for this. With the main divorce reason being factors that can be classified as "dissatisfaction". Lack of sex, boredom and 'incompatibility' etc. The portion of dissatisfied partners is higher among women than men. Men divorce for abuse and infidelity more than anything else.

So with /r9k/ being what it is (male dominated). The perception that women who are promiscuous aren't reliable is quite well reasoned.

I find it unreasonable for you to even claim that polygamy is a big enough factor to even explain the married after X stats. How many people do you think prefer polygamy past the age of 35? 20%?

Either way it's robots choice to not accept polygamous people. You make your choices and take the consequences. Polygamous people can do the same with monogamous people if they like.
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>>27497414
You're assuming that what you consider a proper relationship is the only option. A relationship is defined by the people involved in it and what they want out of it, as well as whatever rules and boundaries they might lay down. A relationship in no way means "sexual exclusivity" by definition. You're wholeheartedly buying into what I said earlier about cultural assumptions of what dictates a "real" relationship.
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>>27497551
I never said anything about polygamy specifically. What about the large number of people who don't divorce for religious reasons? What about arranged marriages? The point here is that marriage is not an adequate benchmark by which to judge how satisfying a relationship is to the people involved because marriage as an institution is outdated and flawed.
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>>27489742
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>>27497586
I'm not referring to a relationship, I'm referring to being "in a relationship". They have different meanings in our culture.

>You're wholeheartedly buying into what I said earlier about cultural assumptions

Yes... these terms meaning our defined by culture.

I never said something other than monogamy was invalid or wrong.

I'm literally just explaining to you that in western society being "in a relationship" with somebody means sexual exclusivity whether you want it to or not.

It is a definition, not a moral judgement.
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>>27497731
And I am saying a very large group of people reject that ideology and do what works for them. How you define being in a relationship means nothing to anyone except you and whoever you may be in said relationship with.
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I'm not a virgin or a hypocrite.
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>>27497780
>a large group of people

I wouldn't say that. I would say that vast majority of the population agrees with the definition I gave. When that ceases to be the case a new definition will be correct, but for now you are wrong.
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>>27496564
Sounds like hell desu.
I'm starting to understand hermits now.
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you guys know every girl you go after doesn't have to be a potential wife right? Just find a girl that looks good, go for her, have your fun and if it still bothers you don't make the relationship that serious.
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>>27497691
>marriage is not an adequate benchmark
For people who want a life long monogamous relationship it's a very good benchmark. We (swedes) have legal statuses that are about the same that follow marriage closely in just about every category I've found.

Also if you look at the stats of older people compared to the population size of that age group you will find that they're a significant portion.

Please start being a little bit more intellectually honest because this is stuff that should have ran through your head before you responded. I close out a lot of things.
>I never said anything about polygamy specifically.
Actually misread and thought you did. Regardless point stands.
>What about arranged marriages?
Very uncommon for Indians (for example) to leave Sweden and go back here after marriage.
>What about the large number of people who don't divorce for religious reasons?
These are generally the people who are extremely serious about having their relationships work. It's the least dysfunctional form really. Assuming they're marrying people with similar values.
>My thought:People who marry but are afraid to be alone so they don't break up, people who don't break up because of kids
This is probably the most relevant group you can think of. People frequently stay in relationships for this reason even abusive relationships. But this group is very small in marriage and far larger in non legally committed relationships. Even adjusting for divorce stats.
>marriage as an institution is outdated and flawed
It's certainly not a good idea anymore, not right now anyway. It's an increase in the breakup-threshold that grants people a sense of security. Which can be very healthy for a relationship.

Arguing that it shouldn't exist in some form is like arguing that religion shouldn't exist if all it does is grant comfort. But that's not what you said (see, being attentive). I don't know what concerns you have but I primarily have economic concerns.
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>>27497909
There are three problems:

1. Falling inlove is out of your control
2. In the long run, if you stay with her, she might either a) get pregnant or b) bring up common law marriage or something dumb like that, in which case, leaving her just to make sure your time doesn't run out might be a bad idea AT THE MOMENT because you'll feel like you're throwing away too much (look at people's compromise with investing too much time into something)
3. Promote degeneracy.
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>>27497780
>And I am saying a very large group of people reject that ideology
Ok so you ARE arguing that polygamy is widespread and affecting the stats.

And you read my post yet respond like this. So you didn't accept the argument and didn't respond to it. That's bigotry essentially. Nice talking to you but I have little interest in arguing with bigots. It's a principle of mine. I don't have bigot friends either.
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>mfw humans aren't monogamous
>mfw we shun humans for cheating and going through multiple partners even though it's obviously hard to spend 5, 10, 20 years with the same person and still be happy
>fucking 1 in 2 marriages end in divorce

Can we as a society accept that love is just an afrodisiac and stop expecting people to want to remain loyal after so much time? It only leads to crushed hearts and enraged robots.
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>>27489698
How about by not determining a woman's value purely through her past sexual experiences? Grow the fuck up and just be glad that a woman wants to have sex with you in the first place
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Natural selection is one hell of a drug, OP. That's how.

With the waifu age incoming you need not worry about such things. Chad can keep harems of roasties while the robots can have their idealized woman in virtual form.
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>>27498152
Well, the used-up whores are here already. Pack it up boys, the thread is ruined once again by these sluts who can't stop getting dicks caught up their huge vaginas.

Do the world a favor and kill yourself, you're literally useless. You're rotted meat. You aren't good for reproducing anymore. You aren't good for loving anymore. You're just a fuck-hole for Chad's.

Fucking whore. Why do you even come here? Do you enjoy taunting us? With your fat pussy lips? We don't want them. We're smarter than the average male. We don't think with our penises, but with our brains. You'll be better off trying to charm and taint the manchildren over at reddit.
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>>27489742
Alex, is that you?
Toppus kekus
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>>27493708
It matters because she will reject me based on my past experiences, girls don't lile friendless men with a suicidal past.
All pasts matter to women don't allow yourself to be fooled by them
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>>27496564
Can confirm, I worked with some chads and stacies in a retail store for a few years and they all had stories of them being cucked or them cucking. They even had sex with the stacies I worked with, multiple times, nobody made a big deal about it. It was a love octagon.

I still can't handle the image of a girl I like having chad cum on her face.
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>>27489698
I literally never think about it. The thought wouldn't have ever come up if it weren't for people asking questions like this online. You people fascinate me, are these considered normal thoughts to you? What does it matter? I've fucked other women before them and they've fucked other guys before you, I don't understand the fascination with the people before unless it was an eye raising amount.

She has done lots of other things with people before too, sex is just a normal part of life. There are people who make it weird and have it in weird, sometimes harmful ways, but people turn a lot of human activities into weird versions of that activity.
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>>27491198
>she couldn't have left the man
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I've stuck to the idea of saving sex for the right person and so far no luck. I'm starting to just give up. I'm good looking and can get girls to like me but meeting decent ones is hard. And then there is a good chance they aren't virgins. It's been driving me insane because I want someone to be close to, but at the same time I just can't accept a girl who's been with others. I'd feel like shit if I fucked a girl and then ended up with another who waited.
I know a lot of people think I'm just a tight ass but it's something I've spent a long time thinking about and have talked to psychiatrists. I'm really starting to think I'll just have to live alone the rest of my life because the thought of a girl being sexual with other men makes attraction completely impossible for me.
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The more experienced the better, anon... as long as she is clean, this is good for you... trust me.
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>>27491150
>They don't realize its weird and clumsy and over fast
not gonna lie I didnt know that
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