Should a girl give up on men and relationships, if, at the age of 22, she never met a guy who was truly attracted to her?
>>27465160
>truly
Oh boy. I can only imagine what this means.
>>27465178
Maybe she just wants to be something more than a oneitis.
>>27465178
That a guy willing to settle for one night and pump-and-dump you, doesnt count.
>>27465160
you're fucking ugly...how can you give up on men if they have given up on you first?
get plastic surgery
>>27465160
No. You just haven't met the guy who is attracted to your personality. I'm 22 and fell for a girl who had facial reconstruction surgery.
I'm not bad looking (6.5/10 to soc) and enjoying her company, all the inside jokes, and how laid back she was made me fall for her. Helps that we liked a lot of the same things.
Point being, you can still find this person. It's just a matter of luck and chance.
Just go after men who are looking to settle down and not men who are exploring options.
>>27465247
I never was anyone's oneitis.
>>27465265
But thats a false advertising and wrong on many different levels
>>27465268
I had guys who liked my personality and spending time with me- but not my looks, so they are my friends at best.
>>27465160
You're not likely to meet someone who takes one look at you and loves you for your soul. Relationships aren't actually supposed to be that spontaneous, you meet people, get to know each other, and sometimes you get close. if you're not allowing yourself to do that then there's your problem
All guys only care about one thing.
Your cunt.
It's just that chads are more honest and brazen about it...but make no mistake...that sweet introverted angsty guy with limp wrists cares only about your cunt as well.
You're just a cunt
>>27465415
I woudnt say so but they definately care a lot about outer beauty
>>27465415
That's stupid. All girls have a cunt, I need someone I enjoy being around. Sex is also way better when you're actually into the person, otherwise it's just a small step above a fleshlight.
>>27465510
Interior beauty and exterior beauty are the one and same thing.
Most ugly people are bitter, resentful and full of hatred.
You have been brainwashed by walt disney movies.
Beautiful people have to bear the brunt of all that envy and hatred on a daily basis...
Be happy you aren't attractive, it's a tough life sometimes.
>>27465560
"Sex is also way better when you're actually into the person"
Isn't that the whole point of sex? To be in the person?
Gees...did you guys learn about sex ed watching teletubbies ?
>>27465570
I can agree with you to some extent- i am getting bitter and resentful, which is hard to stop. Nevertheless, I wasnt always like that and it only started as I realized what kind of fate was given to me.
And I would take tough life of attractive people everyday.
>>27465371
Troll/10
If you expect someone to find beauty in objectively asymmetrical hideousness, you're greatly mistaken.
When that blind girl was feeling carrot tops face, she didn't say "how beautiful" she was mortified.
>>27465415
Except vaginas are fucking gross.
Any part of the woman looks better than that gross hole we need to touch to please you.
>>27465781
I didnt say it makes up for it, was just responding to anon who said about attracting with personality
>>27465415
The guys who don't care about your cunt but about the actual you are those "my best friend" type of guys.
The friendzone meme exists for a reason.
You're like /v/ who only likes to complain about shitty games but never bothers playing the good ones.
>>27465160
Definitely. WGTOW.
Start dressing like a guy and posting pics for other girls to schlick to.
>>27465899
I was thinking about wgtow.
Unfortunately dont look manly enough to cross-dress for other girls
>>27465160
please, I have surrounded at 17 as a man, 23 is quiet late for that shit even for a woman
>>27465247
There is nothing more than a oneitis.
>>27465923
A lack of makeup and bad lighting will help. Also, less squats and more overhead presses.
>>27465925
17 is young for a guy.
>>27466009
T-thanks, I guess... not really my thing
>>27466118
You'll never be free until you get over dick and start munching carpet.
>>27466200
But I am not attracted to women
>>27466046
when you live in loneliness and depression, you can be rational about your future
>>27466213
If you cannot get the bf then you must become the bf.
You can't tell me you don't like breasts.
>>27465899
>>27465923
>Women copy MGTOW
the fuck?
>>27466290
Only feeling I have when seeing a good pair or breasts is envy, not even a shred of arousal.
>>27466352
Hmm. Then you'll have to go for girls who look, and act, like boys. If you can't be the bf then you'll have to get a gf who became a bf.
Don't have any pics to advertise that, unfortunately.
>>27465160
>she never met a guy who was truly attracted to her?
>attracted to her?
Should it be the other way around? If you meet someone who YOU are truly attracted to wouldn't that be enough cause for giving relationships a try?
>>27466306
Political lesbiansm has been a thing for decades.
>>27466448
They still have vaginas and are female
>>27466457
I did but they werent attracted to me back?
>>27466464
Well, yes, but they'll act like men. And isn't that what you're after. Besides, it would be a masculine vagina.
>>27466577
I know a few butch lesbians and they really dont act like men. Tomboy is not manly.
>>27466480
Boohoo. Grow up.
I am attracted to you.
>>27465925
>>27465160
Should a man give up on women or relationships, if, at the age of 22, he never met a girl?
>>27465160
>Should a girl give up on men and relationships, if, at the age of 22, she never met a guy who was truly attracted to her?
Yeah, just take your pussy and shove it up your ass. Time for retirement!
This narcissistic bullshit is exactly why so many robots exist. No one can ever be good enough for you, what a pity!
>>27466619
Well, last time I checked you need a pair of interested people to form a relationship.
>>27466665
>1 person doesn't like me back
>give up on everyone
Your stupidity is why you didn't get quints.
>>27466664
But I never rejected anyone, so how "no one can be good enough for me"?
Post a pic reee
>>27466597
Not butch lesbians. They're basically the opposite of twinks.
No, barry. That's not what you're after. What you need is something almost like a trap, but not exactly a trap. Some might say, the reverse.
>>27466683
I never said it was one person.
>>27466625
Then how do I look like?
>>27465570
plain people are the master race imo
borderline cute plain girls are my fetish
I bet you've never approached a guy, you entitled, lazy cunt.
Im a 23 almost 24 year old virgin. I think I'm getting to the point where I've given up on guys and any potential relationship. I don't even get nervous around guys I find attractive anymore because what's the point? Nothing will ever happen and they'll never want me. I do believe that some people really are meant to be alone in life.
>>27466777
It sounds like you've ascended. And those dubtrips are well deserved.
>>27466754
I did, many times. I also tried to be social and go to parties but it only made it worse since it was painfully obvious who men were attracted to when I was out with my girlfriends.
>be gril
>sit around and wait for Chad to notice me
>Chad is too busy having a life
>it's been like 2 whole weeks!
>still no Chad bf
>give up on men
>shit up /r9k/
>>27466851
>I did, many times.
How?
>it was painfully obvious who men were attracted to
This makes me think that you are an imbecile. Examples of how to get a bf were right in your face but you choose to ignore them and complain. Kill yourself.
>>27466919
Pretty much this.
Girl's have it so easy. Just make aggressive eye contact with someone of your attractiveness level and they will immediately jump all over you.
>>27466919
You can't seriously expect them to go 2 weeks without sex, anon. That's just unreasonable.I was out once, a long time ago, with a social circle and a girl who had recently broken up with her bf actually seriously unironically complained that she hadn't had sex in 2 weeks. And another girl looked seriously unironically shocked.
I'll be ur ugly bf desu
>>27466975
Different ways: coming up to them and starting conversation, inviting them to dance with me, striking a conversation about something I noticed about them (like unique beer they are having), going up to few loners and wallflowers at parties, being more touchy, giving them compliments and trying to be flirty in general.
>>27467123
I can't see how that wouldn't work.
Also,
>loners
>wallflowers
>at parties
Wut.
>>27467161
There are always a few wallflowers at parties (thats where the name came from), especially on get-together ones (for new students, uni dorms etc). Basically people who want to meet somebody, turn they social life around, forced themsleves to at least "try" but dont feel confident enough to have fun.
It didnt work.
>>27467258
I don't think I've ever gone to a real party.
>>27467294
I was to many and most are quite similar in the way social groups form there.
>>27467123
You behaved like anyone does at a party. Why would that make a man think that he should pursue you? This is what frustrates me about girls. They (you) take a tiny step but expect men to run a fucking marathon to meet you.
>>27466777
Time to become a great witch anon.
>>27467313
I suppose that's uni life.
Well, you've always got /r9k/. No bf-gf guarantee but people can always try to form a bond.
>>27467332
Women here almost never make a first on men though, so it isnt really how anyone behaves at a party.
Also I dont really inderstand what you mean by "expect men to run a fuckinh marathon yo meet you". From which fragment of what I wrote in this thread you came up with this conclusion and decided to apply it to me?
>>27467441
You may have thought you were making the first move but that isn't necessarily how it is seen. Merely starting a conversation isn't making a move. People dance platonically all of the time. Women are touchy-feely in general. You were doing things that were completely repudiable, normal behaviour that didn't clearly imply interest but expected to receive explicit signs of interest from men.
>>27465160
> truly
And, I suppose, you decide what that means?
"I'm attracted to you."
"YERR BUT NOT TRUELEE"
"No, truly, I am attracted to you."
"HEY R9K NOBODEE TRULY ATRRACTD 2 ME WUT DO!?"
>>27465160
> truly
"He'll never love you like I do" -says all ugly people about girls dating worthwhile guys.
>>27467661
But this is how men show their interest too.
How do you think "showing interest" looks like when you are meeting somebody?
>>27467691
Thankfully, you are here to decide what it means instead
>>27467728
>this is how men show their interest too.
How would you know?
>>27467728
>this is how men show their interest too
I don't even know how I show interest in a girl. I suppose I just generally interact with them more than I would the next person.
>>27467902
I see what they do with my friends
>>27467942
And in many cases, thats what guys do (at least at the very beggining)
>>27468012
>at least at the very beggining
By now you should realise that you are missing the most important part, the confession. Just dancing and talking mean nothing.
We all know she's full of shit why the fuck are you giving her advice
Shell have a bf next fucking week
>>27468164
Yes but you have to get through that parts to move to others- if there is no interest from another person from the begginig, you wont get to "confession" part.
>>27468226
Thats not absolutely impossible but since I never had one it would be quite a surprise, that goes against all my life up to this point.
>>27468449
Maybe there's your problem. It's almost like you're expecting love at first sight.
There won't always be interest from the beginning. Often times it has to grow.
>>27468498
Shut the fuck up you cuck ass faggot
I want nu males off my fucking board
>>27468449
>if there is no interest from another person from the begginig, you wont get to "confession" part.
Wrong. You want the guy to take the next step when you haven't taken the first. All you have to do is invite the fucker somewhere or give him your number. That's it. But you give up and cry on /r9k/ about your self inflicted problems.
>>27468498
How it is supposed to grow if you are shunned down? Tie up a guy and force him to spend time with you? I think you really dont understand what "no interest from another person" means.
>>27468535
You what?
Elaborate.
>>27465160
the thing is, most males can't be really attracted to bond for life at that age or those who are are the robots and really can't offer anything to carry her through life.
>>27465160
yes, that means youre ugly as fucking fuck, horrendous-monstruosity tier of ugly, or that you have the personality of a legit retarded person.
maybe you're so manipulative and you have no friends aswell because everybody hates you because youre an autist: Just an assumption, though, but if by 22 you had no partners its time to call it and do an hero.
I had a sad dream about a girl I dated five years ago and never really got over.
Consider dating me.
