>finally meet a girl
>also a virgin
>have the literal time of my life dating over the last two month and a half months
>"anon i want you to come over my house"
>later when we're naked in bed i decide to an apparent STUPID fucking question
>'hey, so i really like you and i want you to be my girlfriend"
>met with brief silence and then an answer i don't really want
>decided at that point to drop it
>we have sex later
>she still doesn't want to be my girlfriend
why is this bothering the fuck outta me
i wanted so bad to be with her and she just doesn't want that, i just don't understand
someone help me to understand
i don't want any part of this hookup culture shit
i don't want to play games in an attempt to manipulate her into wanting me
i don't want anyone else i want her and she doesn't want me and it's fucking killing me
>>27433947
Just get over it. If she gave it up that easy she'll give it to someone else
first love hurts senpai
just keep hanging out with her and you will eventually be gf and bf by default which is how all my relationships went kek
>>27433996
>>27434018
thing is i kinda feel like i am being used
this girl is a pretty smart and independent person, she's still in college and i often feel inadequate in comparison to her
i honestly feel like i'm just a stepping stone in her life when i feel like she's really perfect and i don't want to lose her
Damn why would she throw away her worth as a girl like that?
>>27434086
do you think maybe she lied to you about being a virgin?
usually girls get all clingy if you are their first
>>27434201
Media brainwashes them into thinking virgin girls are worth _less_. We are living in totally crazy times where everything good and righteous is upside down.
>>27434237
no there was blood, she was a virgin
it's not like we're very young either both of us are 23. it's funny i feel like the clingy one
ugh, i feel so stupid and worthless
>>27434279
the hymen can stay intact after having sex or bleeding can just come from inside the vagina if there's tearing
being a "virgin" at 23 and fucking some guy you dont want to date sets off my lying roaste detecter
>>27433947
Women today want emotionless fucking. Not """"love"""", at least not until they're tired of the Tinder scene and looking for the nearest dipshit willing to put a carbon pebble on her finger and subsidize her life while she fucks hot losers on the side.
Treat her like the soulless jizz jar she wants to be, or leave and be alone. I honestly believe the latter would be better.
Men are the "romantics pretending to be realists", and women vice versa. Men are the idealists, women are cold pragmatists.
>>27434279
>"I'm a virgin, Anon."
Translation: I only deepthroat cocks and take them in my shitter.
This is the United States in 2016, kid. When a 23 year old woman says "I'm a virgin", that's all it means is her hymen is intact.
>>27434244
That's wrong. Virgin men ARE worthless.
>>27434505
i didn't want a jizz jar and i never will
if that was the case i could have had a prostitute a long time ago
i wanted someone kinda socially awkward like me who i could relate to
i assumed she wanted all the things i did
i'm not saying i loved her or wanted to marry her or anything but i wanted to be with her instead i got
>you're really such a great guy and i just don't want to hurt you at all
like do you think she understands that emotionally that just fucking destroyed the fuck outta me?
after that i quickly realized that any naive thoughts i had of this potentially being more than a date and bang went out the window. she'll never want anything more from me than that. and it fucking hurts.
i didn't want this. i don't want this. i want to be able to flip a switch and not have this stupid fucking feelings but i can't.
>>27434623
>like do you think she understands that emotionally that just fucking destroyed the fuck outta me?
Probably not, but I'll do you one better: even if she does understand, she still doesn't care.
Let that sink in.
The time for long term pair bonding is long gone. Casual sex, i.e glorified psychopathic masturbation, mate poaching (cheating) and marriages of bitter sluts to desperate beta males until they divorce rape them and steal all their shit are the order of the day.
Get used to it.
>>27434505
Well yeah virgin doesn't mean ignorant. I'm a female virgin but I use porn and masturbate and use clitoral vibrators. I'm still a virgin because the hymen is still there.
>>27434086
>she's really perfect and i don't want to lose her
Perfect. Except for the fact she doesn't want to be your girlfriend. Move on, orbiting won't win her. If you go crazy and kill her, you'll just wind up in prison or dead.
Move on. Everything that happened once is possible. Anything that's possible can be achieved with time and effort. You found a girl like her once. You'll find another.
>>27434881
> I'm still a virgin because the hymen is still there.
No, you're a virgin because you haven't fucked yet. The hymen really has nothing to do with virginity.
>>27434881
>I'm a female virgin
Wanna be my gf?
>>27434881
I'm still a virgin because I've never been with a 3DPD man but I've been with plenty 2D men while masturbating with and without my sex toy. They've made me happy.
>>27435046
No. Original comment bloxblocblox.
I'm taking bets on this girl having some shit going down that you don't know about. 23 year old virgin who turns down a relationship with a guy they have been dating for months just doesn't add up.
>>27434086
that's your problem
you think she's better than you
no, women are dirt and you hold the shovel lad
start digging them or dig your own grave
