ITT: We explain how our parents fucked up with us.
>Mom never let me go outside to play, ever.
>Curfew was 6pm until I was 20
>Didn't allow me to be alone with girls that knew me like our next door neighbor
Inb4 retards posting
U WERE SUPOSED 2 BREKA DA RULES
>>27373704
With rules like that, you definitely were. There is no debate here
>>27373673
> be an adult
> blame your parents for how you are
Pick one
She didn't say anything when her boyfriend beat me up and humiliated me.
>>27373673
>get told I'm worthless shit everyday
>start to believe them
>turn out to be worthless shit
>>27373737
Suck it up sissy boy, some people had shit parents, can't do anything about it
>>27373804
They can become adults and not be little whiners.
>>27373673
>got divorced when I was 6
>mom dated exclusively emotionally abusive men
>trapped in my room every night while they screamed at each other
>parents were always cool with me going out with friends
>never had curfews or other white people shit
>could have a gf at any time
>mom explicitly told me I can do whatever I want to do as long as I'm safe
>mfw never did any of these things and missed out on a good chunk of a normal human's childhood playing videogames all the time
>>27373836
Do you know what thread you're in?
>>27373673
Mother was a herion addict, dad was a dealer,devorced-i left town at 14 never went back,im 29 now successful
>>27373900
Oh shit man what did you do when you left
>>27373867
Are you me?
All that freedom is great but you grow up to be very sensitive to even a little amount of restrictions.
>>27373673
>not allowed to have cell phone till u was 17
>never learned how to text or communicate with my peers
thanks mom and dad
>>27373919
I hit the road with 3000 bucks i had robbed and started a life
Work ruiened me. I worked all night as a late teen.
At least I had 10 grand when I left.
>>27373950
Did you find work immediately or wait till cash was almost out?
My parents sent me to boarding school from 6th grade on. Don't get me wrong, the actual experience at the boarding schools was really fun. I actually had a lot of friends and was fairly popular. The entire male to male dynamic changes when females are not present. There were jocks but they weren't dickheads because there weren't any girls to impress so they were just athletic cool guys. We were bros and we were in it together, even the really beta guys were part of the team. There wasn't really a hierarchy and that was great.
On the other hand. Going from that to college where you're just kind of expected to interact with girls, it doesn't really work too well. Some guys are just naturally sociable. I'm not, I'm okay with other guys but I freeze up with girls. When you grow up around only guys for the entirety of puberty and preteen years, it's not an easy transition. Plus when you introduce girls, that's when Chad feels the need to put on a show and be a dick to impress her. That just didn't happen at the boarding school with the Chads there, they were team players.
I think my parents kind of set me up to fail socially, at least with girls. Also I felt really neglected and abandoned a lot. I was never a troubled kid or anything but my parents sent me off to this place far away and just washed their hands of parenting. What the fuck is that about? They can kiss my ass with the higher learning garbage, they just didn't want to raise me. They weren't there for me in the most important parts of my life.
That impacted me pretty heavily. To this day I do not get along with my parents. I've always felt unloved and unwanted because of them.
>>27373673
That's retarded for you. My parents were kind of the same way with curfews back when I lived in a shitty neighborhood, but we moved to a better one in another town when I was 14, where they let me stay out as long as I wanted as long as I called them every 30 minutes.
>Over protective parents
>Don't allow me to sleep over at friends
>"Oh don't hang out with this kid, I don't like his mother."
>You're not allowed to hang out with that crowd, they might be bad kids!
>You're not allowed to go to that party, it's too far away, not unless I'm going
>No you can't go to the cinemas, you'll have to walk there by yourself! I'm not letting you go out alone
>Years later
>ANON, WHY DON'T YOU HAVE ANY FRIENDS?
>You just stay in your room all day!
Yeah, if only my potential friends didn't give up in the end, huh mom?
>>27373983
Wasnt old enough to work proper,i stayed with a freind and worked selling weed for a year then grew our own and done good till he got busted,met a girl wen i was 16 and hit the road with her i had about 2 g from the weed
>>27373931
pretty much this, i got my cellphone when i got to college lost track of friends i had. no friends why have facebook just full of relatives.
>>27374006
>as long as I called them every 30 minutes.
jesus christ those are some clingy-ass parents
>>27373836
>Says the person who had a good upbringing
>>27373998
Is boarding school really strict?
>didn't get to play with other kids most of the time and had to ask for permission
>openly berated the activities that were popular among my peers since I was born
>gave me literature that was way beyond my scope such as a visual basic programming book meant for people familiar with basic (inb4 hurr basic)
>teachers were treating me like crap and told me not to keep going in math because it'd make the class more spread so they couldn't teach as well (please, if you ever hear this from a anyone don't question it just hire a professional killer and be done with it)
>was bullied physically and emotionally bullied for 2 years and told teachers and parents
>neither did anything about any of those 3 things
>was having trouble with writing because of dyslexia so parents hit me for a few months before they got me checked
>were 'sorry'
>couldn't leave the neighborhood unless it was school until I was 16 and openly defied their rule which I presumed was until further notice (due to the abuse you see above it wasn't unreasonable)
>apparently I was supposed to know that there were completely different rules at some point, all the old rules about safety were just gone
>got blamed for watching pregnant porn on the laptop at age 8
>they made me watch it to be ashamed. Obviously dad was watching that but he denied it and mom trusted him more than that an 8 year old wouldn't like that stuff
>forced me to play an instrument for 4 years knowing I disapproved greatly
>forced me to try and befriend an extremely annoying guy from trombone class so they'd have leverage on me
>eventually when I talked my way into quitting they got my grandpa to buy me a trombone to try and guilt me back into it
>encouraged me to go back and play to not disappoint grandpa
>refused to return it when I refused to touch it
>still untouched at home I presume
>had me on a 1 dollar a week allowance despite them both being well off engineers
Well most of this stuff is just normal abuse. But its a factor.
It's not like they did specific things that changed my life. They just raised me to be dysfunctional and antisocial because that's what they are.
>>27374195
Yes, very much so. It's kind of like jail but it's a school. There's a strict schedule and very strict rules you have to follow. It's meant to teach you discipline and all that shit but it's a load. We would always sneak out at night to each other's dorms or whatever. Some of the kids would sneak in cigarettes and drugs and junk food. There was a whole underground business going on there. But yeah it's serious business, they don't fuck around. You will get in trouble for the smallest digressions.
My mother never let me play with toy weapons.
Dad never taught me to be alpha
Mom cheated on him and always did shit like bringing dogs into the house after he said she couldn't because we already had 3. I think she's why I have weird trust issues with girlfriends.
>Younger me
>Mother: Why are you never out? Do you not have any friends? You always stay inside on your computer, why don't you go out more? Why don't you find some more friends or invite them over? Why can't you be like the other kids
>Get older
>Actually get some friends and go out
>Mother: You're never around anymore! Why aren't you here to keep me company? I feel so lonely in this house sometimes. You're always out with friends. Do you care more about your friends than me!?
They never know what they have until it's gone.
>>27374058
Have you told her? I'm >>27374196
And I told mine about everything they did little by little and they started denying it. Like the pregnant porn, they 'don't remember' that. But the imagery is burned into my retina. They 'never heard me say I was bullied' but I came home multiple times and they asked me about the bruises, at which point I plainly told them. I wasn't allowed to lie so I didn't.
It's the most frustrating shit. Now I'm a NEET and they're surprised I've got (diagnosed) problems. They tell me I'm smart and should be able to get a job. They even suggested I should start my own company, they'd fund. It's their idea, they don't have time they say. I couldn't possibly deal with business interactions now. It's just crazy and it's getting harder to believe they're not just sadists. They're treating me 'kindly' now but they have a few demands that are really problematic for me.
>any time I walk by the door they ask me where I'm going, who I'll be with, when I'll be back, if adults will be there
>if they dislike any answer it's a no go
>got invited to a Korean church once by a girl from my school and my parents wouldnt let me go worship with her
there are many other examples but that one confused me the most.
>>27373737
>>27373836
>>>I TOTALLY DIND'T HAVE A PERFECT UPBRINGING GUYSSSSS
FUCK OFF YOUF FUCKING NORMIE
my mom made sex with my stepfather in the same room I was when I was like 15
we were spending the night in my grandma
how fucked up is this pls relieve me of any disturbance I might have in the future
>>27374060
God dammit I wanna hear your whole story now man.
How old was the friend and we're you guys effectively live off just the weed money? Also how much were you flipping weekly?
>>27374596
Dunno if it'd hurt you at that point. Sure it's not nice but you should be well over your oidipus complex. But some don't get over that as quick.
>>27373673
>obsessive about homework in the early years of highschool, even if I made a single mistake I couldnt just cross it out and continue writing on the page, my mom would rip out the whole page and make me start again from the beginning
>this behavior would eventually lead to me developing OCD but ive grown out of it thank god
>pre-teen I had a huge love for those oldschool choose your own adventure books, would read them zealously and they were pretty cheap so it didnt even cost that much, my parents however of course disapproved of them because in their eyes it wasnt real literature. The fuck was I supposed to read at age 10, Tolstoy?
>thankfully I kept reading them and I think they developed my imagination a lot
>as a teen would basically shit on everything I loved - music, clothing, they were super-paranoid about me using IRC because they didnt know who I was talking to, mom made me feel guilty about seeing porn in my browser history, it wasnt even anything gross, it was vanilla porn
>the fact that they were and are still really poor
>my mother lying her ass off about everything and never ever apologizing for anything
>constant fights between my mom and dad, they only reason they were together was because of the relative financial stability. My mom has never slept in the same bed as my dad pretty much for as long as I can remember
>in my late teens and early 20s when I began developing health problems they would always, ALWAYS blame it on me, for example I have blood-related issues and their explanation was that it was because I didnt like eating tomatoes (get it because they are red?)
>my biggest issue with them was that they never saw worth in my personality and character, they didnt think it was special, they wanted me to be dull and samey just like everyone else, this is the one that hurt the most
I have forgiven them for everything, but I have not forgotten
>>27373867
lol same
Parents sent me off to college with a bunch of sixpacks and handles of vodka
>"Have fun at college and don't party too hard ;)"
>mfw I drink it all myself
>spoiled rotten
>had no responsibilities
>never forced to get a job
>didn't get a job until I was 22
>never forced to get a driver's license
>still don't have it
>never ever had to make my own food
>never ever had to help around the house
>never ever had to pay for anything
If I didn't leave home for college I would still be living in my room doing nothing with myself
>>27374683
Just to clarify, I dont think they really 'fucked me up', I dont think of myself as a victim, or somehow being sat back by them, I am what I have always been, but their behaviour was really incorrect. And they did do some things right.. I was never really grounded once in my entire life with them, and I think ive only been slapped once or twice, so I had a lot of freedom in that sense
>>27373673
I was raised by a single mother, I was almost never allowed to go out because she always made stay for "helping" around the house on weekends.
Because of that my all of my social circles stopped inviting me to do stuff because they knew I was never allowed to go.
I'm glad I actually live alone now and don't have to deal with that shit anymore.
>>27374196
hahaha holy shit
your dad watching preggo porn to fantasize he would have a real son
>>27374786
I WAS FUCKING 8. How was I supposed to even show myself as a son by that point.
Come on anon. The clear analysis of this is that they agreed on one child and he wanted another.
From what I've learned about others, friends and threads like this, it always seems like the strict parents end up mentally fucking their child and they're the ones that get into drinking and drugs and crime, while the more open parents who allow their kids to do anything they want generally end up staying inside, because there's no temptation, or they do it once and get over it pretty quickly.
I feel like my Mum gave me too much freedom with computer usage and stuff, so now I have no self-discipline, and often end up spending entire days and nights on 4chan.
I won't blame them ultimately for what I am, but my father did ruin a childhood friendship
went from being friends with a girl to (at his active urging) being platonic dating friends that went to fairs and drive in movies to hating each other's guts, and he had me call her mother to tell her she broke up with me when I was crying and in hindsight he was a fucking bastard to have encouraged such vindictive behavior and I was an idiot for following his sage advice when he was, by his own bragging, a prolific dater who either is a lying sack of self glorifying shit or a fucking trashcan stoner that went around fucking sluts and... fuck I can see him being one of those assholes that is graced with nudes and sends them out to everyone the moment a falling out happens
I fucking hate my father but he has not molded me into a clone of himself, I will never be like that fucking bastard and I'll make him know it every day of his damnable life just by existing and being happy and successful by my own devices.
>>27374752
I felt the same. Almost like you parents wanted you to drink underage and get in trouble and shit because it'd make you a 'normal teen', that sort of stuff? They didn't want a quiet, well behaved child.
They didn't mind if their child was troublesome as long as they were normie and popular. They made me drop a lot of hobbies and pursuits I had at a younger age.
>wasn't allowed to play outside for longer than an hour or two despite living in a safe rural/suburban neighborhood
>dressed me as cheaply as possible so I got picked on and laughed at at school
>no friends
>forcefed me occasionally, like if I said I was full. vomited at the table once and got punished severely for vomiting, learned to control my nausea until I could puke somewhere they wouldn't know about like innawoods or restaurant bathrooms
>trapped me in the car with my siblings & started berating me and if I didn't agree with everything they said they would scream and make my siblings cry, basically held them hostage to force me to act submissive
>would confine me to my room and block the doorway and scream at me until I was crying too hard to talk
>went through all my possessions and gave them away at random, punish me for writing about them in my "diary", punish me for drawing things that weren't "happy", mock my interests for hours
>called me stupid but also reacted with extreme rage if I didn't get perfect grades at school
>often accused me of drug use, prostitution, other insane shit
>not allowed to go to friends' houses or go to sleepovers
>screamed at me and punished me for not making the "right" facial expressions towards them at all times
>had me put on tranquilizers for 4+ years because I was in a bad mood after a six hour car trip
>yelled at me for talking to other children on plaugrounds and forbid it
>etc
I survived the first part of my teen years by dissociating and planning to escape in college. Then father died at 16 and mom became much worse, and the dream died because I had to protect and feed my little siblings, take them to doctor's appointments, work because mom refused to get a job, et cetera.
So I survived by accepting that my mother was The Enemy and devoted myself to making sure my mother didn't hurt my siblings, raising them with a chance to escape.
Now they're functional adults and I'm a 26yo shell of a human. But I won.
>>27373673
Mom used to cuff my ears.
>it was "spanking"
Now not so great at hearing out of my left ear
Why are there never fembots in these threads. I wonder if perhaps we live in a sexist society.
Pic related, greentext about my mom.
I literally wasn't allowed to hang out with anyone if I didn't give her a weeks notice, she hadn't met the parents before, didn't know what they parents did for a living, and if she had to drive me.
She would use any excuse to not let me do something with a friend. It got to a point where it was like gee, people don't want to hang out with me when my mom treats them like a criminal before letting me do anything. One time, she even threw away a sketch pad because I'd been doing figure drawing. Which apparently was too risque.
I subsequently never went to a single party in high school. Not even a birthday party. Being a helicopter parent just makes your child leave as soon as they can. It took me years to learn how to interact with people.
>>27374196
>>got blamed for watching pregnant porn on the laptop at age 8
>>they made me watch it to be ashamed. Obviously dad was watching that but he denied it and mom trusted him more than that an 8 year old wouldn't like that stuff
Fucking kek, your parents are insane
Distant, passive father and overly-emotional overprotective mother.
My father worked abroad so rarely was he with me which led me to upbringing without a masculine figure. Also both parents had marital problems which caused my mother to use me as a substitute husband (emotional enmeshment/covert incest) making me extremely codependent for every need of hers.
I don't blame my parents tho.
>>27374956 contd
I'm glad OP made this thread, it reminded me of how energetic and motivated I was when I was younger. I don't have a lot of hope that I'll ever escape now. But it's nice to remember a time when "freedom" was a real possibility.
>>27374994
>female
>10 years old
>mom saw my roastie while I was in the bath
>freaked out
> told me it wasn't normal
>took me to the gyno
>he said it was normal, just that I had long labia
>mom keeps pressuring me into getting cosmetic surgery on my pussy
>now terrified of doctors and intimacy
>>27374931
>Almost like you parents wanted you to drink underage and get in trouble and shit because it'd make you a 'normal teen', that sort of stuff?
Yeah pretty much. In my high school years I would always go straight home from school, I absolutely hated doing homework and always had bad grades, but I loved English (im Eastern European so not my native language) and I loved reading about whatever I could find on the internet - history, politics, philosophy and art. I loved Wikipedia. So that would be how id spend my day and when my parents got back from work id have to lie to them that I was out with friends doing normal stuff
>Mother used to constantly drive away any female friend I have, not just girlfriends, in some crazy possessive kind of way as if this girl was gonna take me from her.
>Years later ask why I don't have a girlfriend
>As if I'm bringing another girl home ever again after that shit. It was probably her checking on me.
>Father berated me for not liking 'masculine' stuff, wanted a real guyish son he could play football with and shit.
>Doesn't do it anymore in some kind of accepted defeat, but is obvious he's disappointed that his son doesn't have the same interest in him.
>Is stuck in the old times of hyper masculinity.
>>27374994
please don't try to turn this thread into shit. nobody is explicitly mentioning their gender unless it's on topic so let's keep it that way, ok?
>>27373673
Mom mutilated my benus
I was poor but my upbringing was fine. I was raised on a farm and got to run around and play as much as I wanted. Food was great, family was fun, I really have no complaints.
>had me in their 40s/50s
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>>27375042
>mom offers free surgery to fix roastie
>complain about it
>>27374994
See
>>27375008
Girls are SOL when we have horrible overbearing parents, because every excuse is "you can get pregnant!" so therefore we are often monitored very closely.
>>27375088
No fuck that. I'm sick of this thread. You all have far too happy upbringings. Half of you are practically failed normies.
>>27375042
>got an irrational fear
Wow well done. Sure must have changed your life around completely. Yet you come to a place where you have that fear reinforced all the time. Practically the only place where that would happen.fake as shit. You're just memeing
>>27374551
>using the church as a dating site
have a little respect
>>27375115
Did I say she offered it?
>thinks I should "invest" in it
I make min wage
>>27373737
why is there always a retard like this in every thread
I'm sure if you were raped by your father as a kid you would turn out just fine, according to you stupid retard logic
>single mother
>never met my father because my mother was just a pump and dump slut
>she was a very heavy drinker and a mean one at that
>don't remember her ever driving anywhere without making a drink first
>in and out of jail several times
>got evicted all the time because she wouldn't pay the rent, frequently changed schools
>when I was still young and cute if any teacher or social worker reached out to me she would chase them away, ensuring that she was the only adult figure in my life
>saw her slumped over passed out after a coke binge occasionally
>she rarely ever worked, instead we lived off of government assistance and whatever she could get off of her boyfriends
>threatened to kill herself all the time
>she would go out drunk and come back with men she had never met and fuck them in her room down the hall
I wonder how much better my life would be now if she really did kill herself back then.
>>27375139
>come to a place where it's reinforced all the time
What? Is 4chan full of doctors and real life people?
Who here doesn't know their father?
I don't, and I'm too scared to ask about him.
>want to go to halloween party in another town
>NO ITS TOO FAR AWAY
>go to grand canyon
>DONT GET TOO CLOSE TO THE EDGE! STAY BACK!
>want to do sports
>NO YOU'LL GET HURT
>want to do art
>NO YOUR GRADES ARENT GOOD ENOUGH
>have literally one friend going all the way back to first grade, any other "friends" I have are only because they're his friends
>I DONT LIKE HIS MOTHER SO YOU CANT HANG OUT WITH HIM ANYMORE
>stomp out a fire after school because some morons were messing around
>SOMETHING SMELLS LIKE SMOKE WHAT DID YOU DO
>writing college application essay about "life experiences"
>cant think of a goddamn thing
>mention I have no life experiences because mom wont let me go anywhere or do anything with anyone
>OH SO IT'S MY FAULT NOW?!
>didn't put me in school
>didn't teach me at home
>didn't put me in classes
I'm lucky I even know how to read
I had few friends growing up, but at least I have a large family so I wasn't lonely
>>27374994
There are a few reasons
One being that girls are considered precious in society, so if one has a problem everyone drops their shit to white knight and save the day. Another is the fact that even a teenage girl can find a man to take them in and care for them, how do you think most college girls support themselves? Boyfriend is paying the rent.
And you also have the fact that many single mothers take out their frustrations over failed relationships on their kids. Every time they look at their boy they're reminded of the man that fathered him and they begin to abuse or neglect the boy even if it isn't consciously.
>>27373841
I know this feel, familia.
>you have been muted for 69 gorillion years because your comment was unoriginal.
>>27373673
>Curfew was 6pm until I was 20
>Curfew was 6pm until I was 20
>Curfew was 6pm until I was 20
>be older than 18
>curfew
>6pm
This fucked up my evening, how even
Why is it always single mothers?
Somebody should compile threads like these and sell them as parenting books
>>27375746
There's tons of other things to avoid. And this is just advice on how to avoid the worst. Not how to make a kid a successful person.anon nobody owns these posts, do a search on these threads. Format each post consistently and release it yourself. It's very cheap to do and can bring home a lot of bucks for fairly little work
>>27375642
Look up Stefan Molyneux...
>>27375746
There's only two tips coming from this thread:
1) Berating your child isn't disciplining them.
2) Don't be overprotective.
>>27375796
How To Not Fuck Up Your Kids And Turn Them Into Frogposters
by /r9k/
All proceeds donated to the Tendie Relief Fund, dedicated to providing struggling robots with tendies
>older brother got a girlfriend around the age of 14
>parents mocked him relentlesly for it
>felt terrible for him
>ignored girls because I didn't want to be humiliated at home
>by the time I realised that was a retarded thing to think it was too late
I can't even hate them since they grew up in much worse, more volatile conditions than I did. at the very least, my brother's kids won't be as fucked up as us since we've been able to learn from the mistakes of all the generations prior to ours
She got pregnant at 16 and in her arrogance thought she could raise a child without a father.
What most women don't understand is while yes, you can probably get us to adulthood as in prevent us killing ourselves or doing something stupid but that's not what raising a child is about. You're not a babysitter, you're cultivating a human being to survive and be independent in this world. You're meant to teach him everything he needs to maximize his success in this world socially and financially. That's the problem with most single mothers, they treat being a mother as being a babysitter and not what it is, being a mother.
You're not a replacement for a father and you never will be. Children on an instinctual level view their mothers and fathers differently. While they will respect their mother, they will never respect her in the same way they do as a father. They don't respect their father more, it's just a different sort of respect. They see you as the nurturer and the father is usually who teaches the kids skills, respect, the way of the world and what to expect from them. He's the one that they will look up to as a role model. For boys, he's the one they will usually take after. For girls, he sets the standard for most mates in her life. Single mothers often fail to deliver on this and coddle their children until adulthood leading to horrible results.
The majority of mothers coddle their children to an extent, that's part of being a mother. The difference between a single mother and a regular mother is regular mothers have the father around to be a counter point to their mother's coddling. If you don't have that then you end up with boys like the ones that inhabit this board.
That said there are also bad fathers. If by chance boys like us make it to fatherhood, we will often fail as fathers as we have been babied by mommy for so long that we don't know what to do. There are also lazy/cruel men but most of the damage in society is arrogant selfish mothers.
>>27373725
>you were supposed to break the rules
>do so
>get ass beat and lectured and shit taken away
DUMB ass
>>27374196
>told me not to keep going in math because it'd make the class more spread
what does 'more spread' mean?
>>27376497
As in larger gap between the best (presumably me) and the worst (someone else).
No child left behind philosophy. Bring everyone down to their level. And obviously that attitude killed all my interest in any subject up until college where I got to study what I enjoyed. And by then I didn't even know how to study well.
>>27376602
More specifically I was done with all the low number subtraction and addition exercises and was about 10 into multiplication when I was stopped. It's the most surprising thing to me that they wouldn't object to that. They've been very adamant about making sure I did well in school.
Also wasn't allowed to do my homework at school because it was homework, but that wasn't just me. What a message to teach kids. Put off work and go do fun things instead.
>>27376602
I feel you man
my school had an "honors" program so you could take accelerated math
>>27376670
Yeah later grades have that too here. But not that early.
>>27373737
>implying free will and choice exist
>implying you are not a product of your environment
>>27373673
why do you not sneak out? been to the strip club 4 times and parents dont even know
>>27376370
>tfw had a good upbringing with good parents
>still ended up a failure
Bump for more stories. It's really interesting to learn about the upbringing of other robots.
>>27373673
My situation was pretty much the opposite. Single mother tried to tell us what to do and we'd say fuck you you dumb bitch and did what we wanted (not a good thing). Besides that she just made me very self conscious by putting me down for being a weird looking kid.
>>27376370
I think thats why most parents known to coddle are single mothers. They want to baby the only male in their life, To make sure he never leaves. My mother is a single mother and she practically begged me not to move out for university.
It's why most people here say that their threats of throwing you out is a lie. It's very unlikely a single mother will throw you out. She needs you too much. In fact, she needs you more than you need her. She may have babied the robot to the point he has little skills in terms of living on their own, but that stuff can be learned. With the mother, once her son is gone, he's gone. She needs him more than he needs her, but he doesn't know that, so she'll use threats of throwing out that she'll never act upon. What she really wants is for you to find a job as soon as possible, so that she can start taking your money.
You'll notice that she only starts the whole "Find a job" thing when she wants money, when she's low on funds, or when she has no job herself. Other than that, it only starts once a step dad enters into their life. Now she has another man, and so she's less lenient on her son.
>>27373804
I find it funny that you call him a "sissy boy" when he's the one willing to admit he's the reason for his own problems while you are the one shifting blame and being a coward.
>>27374196
Pretty much
>Never allowed to go to a friends house or step foot out of the house alone
>They can only come to my house where my mother would listen to everything we say
>could only go to a friend's place if she knew the parents well and i gave her months advance notice
>Constantly moving houses, schools, and countries
>Mother uses that as an excuse to keep me at home 24/7 by saying she isn't used to the area +she doesnt know anyone
>it was reasonable until we were in the same place for a couple years and she kept using the excuse
>everytime i moved grades dropped cuz the teaching system/ curriculum was completely different, and sometimes in different languages
>I get blamed for it as usual
>Assburgers older brother and very young sister so I am relied upon for every chore
>Tfw they tell me they trust me that's why they need me to do things, but when it comes to friends the trust evaporates
>Tell me to improve my grades and they'll let me leave the house
>tfw I do it
>mfw they tell me 5 A's and 2 B's aren't good enough
>they let me out cuz i got super pissed
>followed all their rules, Sent texts every hour, told them where I was and when I would be back, sent them the bus number and bus drivers registration number, came back before 10pm everytime, didn't ask for any money, did all my homework first, etc
>everytime my friends come round to meet before we leave she makes them wait outside because she makes me do chores she "forgot" about, and lectures me on the same shit everytime
>Mom ends up changing her mind about everything a week in when my dad leaves (he's an airline pilot) and she tells me that his rules apply when he's home, not when he's away
>slowly begin to hate my dad for leaving and hate my mom for being a liar
>years pass
>end up guilting me into letting me leave the house around senior year because complained to grandpa (chillest nigga on earth)
>They let me have a fun summer
>Back on lockdown the moment i start college
Tryna leave ASAP
