I was in with the Normies but I caught feelings for a Stacy got drunk and texted her.
The Normies who I knew longer than they knew the Stacies out casted me.
Literally spent 3 hours crying because I'm so fucking stupid to think they'd be my friends.
damn dude that sucks your life sounds like a real bummer
>>27366136
Wuah happun?
>>27366154
These guys said shit like "we're brothers" and "I got you buddy you're with us now" but the moment that happened I was alone. Nobody even came to check on me.
>>27366212
I'm having trouble understanding
>The Normies who I knew longer than they knew the Stacies out casted me.
Work through the cringe and explain.
>>27366156
>Two months ago
>Friend of a year+ starts hanging out with a Stacy who he's connecting with
>She has a friend who's also a Stacy and he decides to bring me along
>Turns out they're cool as fuck and are into a lot of shit that not many Normies like
>Hang out a lot and start catching feelings
>Friend starts dating one of them
>Other turns out to be my "ideal girl"
>Spend days with her even staying up 24+ hrs
Today
>Go to friend's house for a party
>Other friends go along
>Stacies are as usual there
>Start drinking
>Can't hold in feels anymore
>Decide to leave with designated driver to get more beer
>Text her "I need to kiss you later"
>"I mean talk to you later"
>friend immediately texts me after "You're cut off you're going straight to bed
>Immediately get dragged off to his basement where I have a complete breakdown
>Nobody checks in on me
>They all get hammered and go to sleep
>I can't sleep all I can do is cry
>>27366316
>>friend immediately texts me after "You're cut off you're going straight to bed
>>Immediately get dragged off to his basement where I have a complete breakdown
>>Nobody checks in on me
>>They all get hammered and go to sleep
I'm not getting this.
What? Cut off from what?
How many stacies are there? two?
One>friend
Two> you like?
>>27366286
Everything is explained here this is really fucking with me>>27366316
I'm not sure what to do now nice I'm spending my week at his place with no way to go home
>>27366136
you not stupid op.
you took a shot at something you wanted. you risked your reputation for hte stacey. it didn't pan out but that not stupid.
>>27366136
Cheer up Anon losing friends only means you can join the slippery slope that we have all been sucked down.
Just wait things get worse and then better and then worse than before repeat, etc. That's just life nigga.
>>27366340
Cut off from drinking. There's two Stacies my friend is dating one, I have feels for the other. I was crying in his basement while they were partying and by they I mean friends plus Stacies
>>27366380
Shouldn't had a robot core meltdown.
Spilling your inner REEEEE is what made them leave you there
>>27366375
well they weren't good friends if they ditched op just because he tried flirting with one of the stacies. they clearly liked her just as much as he did.
as always has been said the best way to ruin a friendship between guys/girls is to put a girl/boy between them. i've witnessed girls who were 'best' friends literally hate eachother over a guy and i've seen the same thing with guys hating eachother over a girl.
>>27366362
I just can't believe that just that easily they outcast me especially because of how long I know these guys compared to how long they know the Stacies. I feel so stupid because of how close I thought we were >>27366375
I'm going to see them very often until May. I took a shot stupidly I knew it would end badly but I still did it
>>27366421
I didn't even REEE or anything around those lines . I legit just cried because of how stupid I felt though that doesn't matter anyway because none of them checked on me. They just put me in the basement and left
>>27366380
Ahh, so you got a little tipsy in the setting and were comfortable.
Does this stacy actually like you back? To any degree of certainty? Be honest.
It's important that you roll with the punch at this point, instead of trying to save face.
being drunk is a pass on doing something embarassing, this situation sounds salvageable.
>>27366429
True bros and real friends wouldn't dump his puckered arse in a fucking basement though!
>>27366433
Shouldn't have cried.
>>27366471
>cried
> showed signs of weakness
> in front of the alphas
> alphas invited girls not OP.
Hmmmm...
>>27366136
>thread is titled I'm so stupid
Hmmmmmmm... I think I'm on to something here.
>>27366380
>mfw.
I rest my case that OP is in fact an idiot and Autist.
>>27366380
you shouldve said "im fine, im fine. might be a little tipsy tho" and ur a grown man u dont have to do what they say, u didnt have to go to the basement.
and chances are that they were drunk as fuck as well and not thinking at all, and if they werent too drunk, they thought you were passed out.
u overreacted
>>27366478
She doesn't like me that way...well she doesn't like me at all now. The whole thing is that me saying what I said apparently freaked her out. In the span of 30 seconds it went from her getting the text to them deciding to put me in the basement. As a whole I don't think that it's that salvageable.
>>27366538
Truth, OP needed to man up from the get go!
>>27366528
I didn't cry in front of them, I just buried my head in the couch that was there and waited until they left
>>27366538
I was a little more than tipsy because I resisted a long time from doing something stupid. They weren't having any of me being up and about after that text
>>27366539
Post throwaway.
Let me see your face.
>>27366539
Baaaaakaaaaa~!
>I bet your the type who thinks cheese nips and Cheez-itz are the same.
>>27366590
I'll save you time...I'm posting on r9k about this. You don't need to see my face
>>27366579
Hahahah thats worse. That's what children and bratty girls do.
>>27366618
Let us see upon your flesh.
Orange anal comet mint
>>27366603
They're completely different. Cheese nips have more body while Cheese-itz are a little more solid and square. The cheese itself tastes different with each one
>>27366633
Nah man it's all in the texture and salt added on top.
I want pretzel Cheez-itz.
>>27366528
This thread is kek worthy.
>>27366579
still, you shouldve said you were. and took a sit somewhere to let the alcohol in ur system wine down.
ur not entirely sure why they sent you to that basement. it's just easier to say they were outcasting because in your mind, since she didnt respond to your text positivly, you fucked up. no dude ur overreacting.
you said something a drunk perosn would say so they thought u needed to sleep and not be disturbed. it wouldve been even moreso fucked up if u passed out on a couch up stairs while all of the noise is going on and everyone disturbing ur rest.
also if they really do seem like assholes to purposely shit on a friend like, why do u care? theyre the fucking idiots, not you.
>>27366618
Yes I do.
I'd be speaking lipservice if I didn't.
Crying in a basement because of a slip up doesn't seem gangsta and you speak like you want a do over.
I'd be happy to oblige.
>>27366654
PA PA PA PEEEEEEEEENTAAAAAAAAAAA
Whoooo
>>27366666
Fuuuuuuckin hard FUUUUCK FUCKER FUCKING FUCK
>>27366667
I tried.
I will give up my wish for great love in the future.
>>27366528
>>27366562
>>27366667
>>27366693
yo why are u behaving like this?
>>27366620
I was really embarrassed about it, I kept it cool for two solid months about it and with my friend for over a year.
>>27366632
I really won't do that I'm going to stay out of having my face on r9k
>>27366663
I wasn't sober enough to think about that and they actually sent me to the basement so that I'm not near the Stacy so that the party isn't ruined
>>27366666
Nice quints
Also I want a full life do over if anything
>>27366704
>they actually sent me to the basement so that I'm not near the Stacy so that the party isn't ruined
did they say so or are you rationalizing that way?
>>27366693
>>27366704
I got the digits, trust me. I am satan of power you know little of.
>>27366729
"Just because that happened with him doesn't mean we have to lose out on having a good night"
That really sums it all up
>>27366704
Damn dude, I'm sorry. Did you and Stacy #2 go out at all during those two months?
Why did you let it build up to this point then before talking to her about how you felt?
>>27366757
What's the buy in?
>>27366762
We didn't go out at all. I basically got stronger feels the more I found out. Since I'm not super retarded I saw signs of her not exactly wanting to. The two Stacies were fun and I liked the change of pace from the usual life I live. My friend started dating one and eventually I realized that if I do anything to fuck up I'll lose this time that made me feel alive. It just got too hard to hold back these feelings and alcohol got me.
>>27366778
The buy in is your peace of mind.
>>27366805
You should make a point to apologize in the morning. Man up admit your feelings and apologize for being weird/ too drunk the other night.
That's your best bet at salvation with the girls as well as your friends. Hopefully they will blow it off as steam.
>>27366760
because what happened to you?
you got drunk?
contrary to popular belief, no one likes being a round a sloppy drunk. you can keep pushing selfpity game all u want but im not buying none of it.
u overreacted and chances are that they dont care about this as much as u do. however u will be flagged as the sloppy drunk if u dont calm their worries.
next time there's a party say "ill take it easy on the alcohol, dont want to look like a mess again" or something
>>27366839
What would I be allowed to know before I make a decision?
>>27366859
allowed to know?
What are you playing at?
You think you lost your friends because you got drunk and did stupid shit one time?
Have you not considered the fact that you are overreacting at the moment?
>>27366843
I already talked to Stacy 1 she said not to bring it up in the morning.
>>27366847
I think that you and>>27366843
Are misunderstanding
This is the chain of events
>Drink and be fun
>Feel it hard when getting more beer
>Just before I got dropped off I text Stacy 2
"I need to kiss you later
I mean talk to you"
>Friend that's dating Stacy 1 texts me that I'm cut off and I need to go straight to bed
>As soon as I get to his house he and one other friend bring me to the basement where I buried my head in the couch but didn't cry yet
>Hear friend say "Just because that happened to him doesn't mean we can't have a good night"
>Cry and all when they leave
>>27366888
>Trips
I don't think I lost them just it hurts that
>Fell hard for a girl and the reaction to drunk text that got me put in the basement
>Friends put me in the basement
>Nobody checked on me once
>>27366921
How drunk were your friends?
Do you value the friendship you have with these people?
>>27366958
Some were kinda drunk some were sober because they had to leave.
One I know for over a year others I know for the better half or 7 months. We were supposed to be "brothers"
>>27366983
I think you should avoid getting in such a position again, but keep being friends.
You are right. It's a dick move that they didn't check on you.
If were you I'd see if there's a good oppertunity to tell them how you feel about the way they ditched you. However, be aware that the confrontation might set them on the defensive and they might self-rationalize that you deserved it or some shit.
Your best bet might be to remember well how they treated you when you got in this position, keep being friends with these people and try to let the whole thing fly over.
>>27367068
Yeah I'll just let that fly over though it hurts now. I find myself getting into something like that once a year. I need to just find a way to never get into that shit again. I'll try not to drink as much or even put my phone away somewhere when I do
