How the hell do I meet a friend who isn't a boring retard and actually has an interest beyond smoking pot, watching shitty anime, playing video games and listening to music (that's not a fucking hobby, dipshits)?
wow wow wow wow wow Who are you calling a dipshit you fucking frog poster? Browsing R9K and shitposting and fapping to futa porn isn't a hobby either
Join a club based around real hobbies.
>>27351662
>Thinks that whoa is spelled wow
wew lad
>>27351679
Most of my hobbies aren't social in nature unfortunately or too few people are actually interested in them or I like them but they tend to attract the way wrong sort of people.
What do you like to do then?
>>27351699
it's not? My honest mistake thanks for correcting me <333 XOXOXOXOXOXOXOX
>>27351636
Do you have anything in particular or are you just looking for someone who will drag you to a world of new things?
Most people are lazy and don't do anything interesting. You must first find something you like to do, trough that you might meen new friends with similar interests.
WELL WE'RE WAITING OP. ENLIGHTEN US WHAT HOBBIES DO YOU PARTAKE IN ? ?? ??? ? ?HUUUUUUUUUUUHHH!!?!?!?
>>27351730
Well I like gardening but with a stronger emphasis on wild area restoration, I like MTG, but I tend to not like the players, I like stuff that has to do with building civilizations like city planning and technology, but I don't want to just find a group that does one thing like tinkering, but has an interdisciplinary approach, but I can't even find much in the way of basic environmental organizations in my state. I like aquarium keeping, but it's sort of hard to find groups for that except online.
>>27351790
I don't know. Honestly I want a bf, but also friends with similar interests who aren't all libertine drug addict sluts and at least have something interesting to talk about part of the time if we don't share hobbies.
>Most people are lazy and don't do anything interesting.
Preaching to the choir, buddy.
>You must first find something you like to do
There are tons of things I like to do, just no groups that participate in them. It's always like "Moms with tots" or "X type of singles (all fat and ugly and old)" or "People who hike" or stupid boring shit like that.
>>27351822
/r9k/ needs IDs so I filter people.
>>27351636
Music is muh life OP.....isn't music life?
Dude weed
>>27351844
Hi, /soc/! Shown your cock to any fetishistic strangers and begged for approval in the past 10 seconds or are you going through withdrawals?
>>27351840
Whoa, in summary, your problems are exactly the same kind of problems as mine. Finding interesting people really is a bitch.
I'll come and notify you when I find a solution to this myself. Best bet is probably keep trying new things and doing what you like, and hopefully you will at some point run into someone.
>>27351714
Solutions simple, find new hobbies that area social in natural and get out of your comfort zone. I picked up D&D and other card games in part to try something new and to meet people and I've made friends through that. I've made friends through skateboarding, wrestling, and other sports. I've met people through playing music in bands and jam sessions, and met people through juggling and flow arts. You are just afraid to try new things and fail.
>>27352078
This is some normie bullshit advice right here. Literally what you're saying is "Change your interests and behaviors to be more like other people to fit in." and my answer is fuck yourself to death with a rusty screwdriver.
>I've made friends through skateboarding, wrestling, and other sports.
Of course you have because that's ubernormie shit. Literally everything you named would only introduce me to people I wouldn't want anything to do with in the first place.
>You are just afraid to try new things and fail.
No, I simply have no interest in or tolerance for stupid, cancerous subhumans.
>>27351840
How old are you?
I remember doing most of these things in middle school. If you are older, become a teacher or camp counseled And make friends with your charges.
And none of these require very much brain power, I would suggest reading more, you might develop more interests that you can share with others.
>>27351861
Whatever noone gives a fuck what is said on thid board. Its worse than b
>>27351840
You could go to college and do civil engineering or architecture.
Does your city have an aquarium or a zoo? There might be ways to get involved.
>>27352078
This guy is spot on. I didn't know how much I liked running until I tried it, and now I have lots of normie running friends.
>>27351636
I met mine in graduate school.
>>27352579
>Its worse than b
Literally not possible unless it's /lgbt/.
>>27352944
>Does your city have an aquarium or a zoo?
No, and most in my state are shit. My favorite zoo in my state changed everything and now I hate it.
>This guy is spot on.
Yeah, sure if you want more than anything to fit in with normalcunts. I don't. Not even a little. People like he describes make ill and I'm sure as fuck not going to change my personality and pretend to like shit I don't to impress people I loathe. What the fuck is wrong with morons like you? How can you see horrid advice like this and think "Oh yeah, that seems like a good idea!" You know why? Because you're exactly the sort of boring shit I'm talking about. You already lack any interests so you mold to anything.
>normie running friends.
There it is.
>>27353136
The key isn't to pretend to like something you don't, but to find something that you enjoy that you didn't know about before.
Maybe the reason you can't find friends who aren't boring retards is because you act like one yourself. People make friends over shared interests, and if you have no interests past /r9k/ then I'm not surprised you only find people who smoke pot, watch shitty anime, and play video games.
> You already lack any interests so you mold to anything.
Nah honey. I have tons of friends through my major, the sports I do, and foreign language interests. But I have never stuck with something I didn't enjoy and have never sucked up to anyone for the sake of having friends.
You seem to have some kind of cognitive dissonance going on. You're complaining about normies and boring retards.
> no normalcunts
> no boring retards
> pick one
>>27353467
>all your posts
>>27351636
Pursue your own hobbies and meet people that do those hobbies also.
>>27353622
> Grow up in shittiest place known to America
> Be regularly abused by teachers in elementary school
> Slav, barely speak English, get bullied for years
> Family overseas getting killed by Russian scum
> Lose it and drop out of high school
> Almost shoot myself but pussy out, end up in psych ward
> Get out and turn my life around
> Get off medication
> Go back to high school, study hard as fuck
> Start running and get into great shape
> Still live in shithole, get shot at and illegally carry a 9mm out of necessity
> Have to use it more than once
> Almost join the Army, anything to get out
> Study harder
> Get 99th percentile test scores, good grades file a patent and start a medical device company out of sheer desperation
> Get over $100k in merit scholarships to study at my dream college
> Finally get out of the fucking shithole I'm in
> Finally living a life I'm happy with
> Abusers not locked up but at least I'm not shot at anymore
> Visit /r9k/ for no reason
> Some depressed soul wants friends
> Give advice out of compassion
> Accused of being a normie who doesn't know hardship
> mfw
>>27351636
>liking to do things
I want a friend who isn't caught in that twilight zone between being interested in things and not being interested in things
>>27352350
>>27352944
You are cherry picking. I also mentioned D&D and juggling, neither of which have any normies. Juggling and the circus arts in general typically attract some of the weirdest people I've ever met, so did playing in folk and punk bands. And there is a million other things you can try. My list didn't even scratch the surface. You are literally just being a pussy and making excuses for the self imposed loneliness and woe is me whining your addicted to. Face it, you like feeling sorry for yourself, you like being a loser shut in and then blaming others while pretending your somehow superior to them. Just go a head and keep being a miserable lonely faggot, ain't no one going to be sad they missed out on your pity party.
What would you class as suitable interesting hobbies OP?
I'll list a few of mine, even a few you said were 'boring'
>Music
>Guitar / Singing / Writing music
>Homemade instruments (Cigar box guitars / organ)
>Pot, acid and alcohol
>Vaping (I know right, I vape bro)
>Sports (Football / soccer, pool, chess)
>>27354046
im bathing in your tears, hohol. even if you die, we will follow you to hell so we can kick you stupid cucks in the nuts til eternity. your suffering made my day.
>>27354491
Well, you got the country right. And I'm not crying -- I have many friends and great career prospects, as well as a deep sense of satisfaction with the path my life is on.
You clearly don't have any friends or future, and I hope you die that way.
You should come visit my motherland. We can put you in the cold dirt where you belong. However, judging by your delusional state and begging for help on 4chan, it seems you might beat us to that.
:)
>>27351636
If you want to make friends that like things you like, then you need to reach out to people that share your interests.
Join a fucking club or something.
>>27354755
Glory to Ukraine, my friend. Career prospects, dreams, life goals etc. yeah sure, now you are in the USA and you are still lifes bitch, no need to mention 300k salary and your 20 porshes, you were butthurt crying about being a bitch in the previous post, while you are at it, might as well become a gay prostitute in the Land of the Free, i heard hohol twinks are highly valued there (much like your women).
Peace out.
Ps: Krim = Russia
Hey OP
Did you know that people who socialize tend to follow the norms of socialization that are prescribed through culture?
Sounds like R9K isn't your type of place
>tfw no friend to speedrun pokemon with
>>27351636
>better ask /r9k/
>>27351636
if you play mtg do you play magic online?
