Who here /passive aggresive mother/father/ ?
It kills ability to make independent decisions and confidence.
My mother best way to raise a child is to guilting into not doing/doing certain things.
Doing something like that while raising a kid should be a illegal.
Kid/child is not able to recognize that and is doing everything to make parent happy.
If you take different decision, then your mother act like a dumb gf on period, she is not talking with you etc.
I was raised by a single mother with mental health issues and I'd say I turned out fine but then I wouldn't be on r9k would I
>>27350225
>wah wah I'm a baby
Yes, yes you are.
father did that and is growing out of it slowly. mother does that with the idea of me gaining independence. it's a real pain. makes you feel pretty powerless.
>>27350225
I am
and the worst thing is that my father is alpha as fuck, like overflowing with attitude
he won't think twice about offending you if you mess up while driving
Passive aggressive people are some of the worst everything. Just bring up your problems like a fucking adult. My boss leaves notes everywhere because he's very aggressive and angry, but he's too much of a pussy to actually bring it out on anyone directly.
I guess the worst are parents who act like a complete cunt to everyone and then complain constantly that everyone treats them like a cunt.
How hard is it to treat people the way you want to be treated. Shit.
>>27350325
Yeah, because you know what it mean to be raised by borderline parent
>>27350225
My father is like that. On top of that he used to yell at me and beat me for the most trivial shit when i was a kid.
I'm incapable of asuming any responsability and i cant do anything on my own. I even think of his approval when im out shoping clothes for example.
This pretty much fucked up my chances of socialising and fitting in the society. The fact that im ugly as hell doesnt really help either.
>>27351935
>I'm incapable of asuming any responsability and i cant do anything on my own.
>passive-aggressive single mother
You know, mom, maybe you wouldn't have to complain about doing everything around the house yourself if you had found one of the many, many decent men to marry and have a child with, instead of fucking the first asshole who laid eyes on you out of wedlock and having him scram. Just a thought.
