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Have you tried addressing your own problems instead of blaming
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Have you tried addressing your own problems instead of blaming it on other people/things?
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>>27340098
shut up and post more
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>>27340098
People are scared to look in the mirror. Why not let them redirect their primal rage to other things?
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>>27340098
I've improved myself to my very peak performance and people still want nothing to do with me. I guess I just exhume failure.
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Of course. It means I am a loser and must die never to have had happiness because I deserve it. It is an interesting concept, not sure if it is what I feel like going for. What about you OP?
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>>27340142
1. It doesn't address the problem
2. Nobody likes a person who refuses to take personal responsibility
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literally all of my problems are caused by other people; girls don't like me and we're living in capitalism
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>>27340184

Same, in fact it has made people dislike me even more. At least I tried.
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I'm LITERALLY perfect and I still have problems, it's obviously not my fault
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>another thread where OP's pretends they are exempt from human failure

ahh, god-king OP, here to guide us with their infallible righteousness.
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I do address my own problems, but I'm incapable of fixing them. It also doesn't make my anger towards others illegitimate.
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>>27340098
>victim blaming
Shame on you, op. SHAME ON YOU.
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>>27340278
>It also doesn't make my anger towards others illegitimate.
Of course it does. Unless they're harming you, literally nothing justifies your anger.
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i know!!! ill just make my tourette's syndrome disappear. :)
who needs problems, amirite?? :D
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>>27340359
Not to be rude but tourettes really does seem like bullshit. Why are they never yelling nice things?
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>>27340098
I don't blame my problems on anyone but me. I also know I can not fix them.
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>>27340425

If you can't fix them, why are you blaming yourself?
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>>27340308
If making living less bearable constitutes as harm, then my anger is perfectly legitimate.
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>>27340098
how about

g o

f u c k

y o u r s e l f

f u c k i n g

n o r m i e s h i t

>>>/b/ >>>/out/ >>>/normie/
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>>27340098

Because most of my problems ARE due to other people. Not all of them, but a lot of them. I know this because if I simply had my way or things went according to my plan, I wouldn't be in the shitty position I'm in.

It's like I have a clear vision of the future but someone always comes in and fucks it up for their own sake. Primarily my parents and other anon's parents have fucked them up too. I was homeless multiple times because my step-mom wouldn't let me stay at home during my college breaks, so it came a fight to survive every summer and I ended up having to go to school during the summer, racking up more debt just because a dumb gold digger can't stand sharing a 4 bedroom house with another person they hardly ever see or interact with, she was more than likely cheating on my dad and didn't want anyone to find out, that's her own daughters theory.

That was something bad that happened to me and negatively effected me financially through literally no fault of my own. I didn't ask my parents to get a divorce. I didn't ask for my dad to be a thirsty cuck and invite this woman into our lives. I was nothing but nice and sweet to her too. My dad dumped her and let me move in here finally and help him pay the bills and hey look at that, no more-randomly-being-homeless-problem.

That's how I squarely place blame on other people, because their the variable in the equation causing the negative effect. Remove them and the negative effect is removed? Then they were the cause.

When I cut people out of my life, voila, look at how many of my problems simply fucking vanish.
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>>27340380
>tourettes
>yelling anything
>thinks it about the vocal tics
just fuck my shit up senpai.
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>>27340098

Yes, and self-perception is probably one of the most important attributes that most people never develop.

However, after you "fix" your problems, and become a successful, happy individual, you come full circle.

The immaturity and stupidity on an individual level manifests itself into a collective force of faggotry and self-entitlement.

Perfect example are liberals, particularly Berniecucks.

So in a way, other people are the true problem, but only if you yourself are not a part of the vapid ego-driven mob.
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>>27340473

That being said, problems with say, me not having the body I want? Yeah that's my fault for not putting effort into lifting yet. But again, too broke for the gym and I've had medical problems and looking back at my parents divorce their were whole weeks were we barely ate anything. Dad blew all his (small amounts he even had, military salary) of money on gold digger and mom spent hers on booze and trying to fuck young Chads in the bar.

But yeah I need to put more effort into it. It's just after years and years of having to deal with other people's bullshit, be blamed for THEIR problems, (ever notice how everyone always says what OP says and still won't apply to myself, according to everyone else I'm the cause of all their problems too) that just wear one down.

In your late twenties it becomes a mess figuring out if you fucked yourself up or if other people did and to what extent.
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>>27340473
They must let them use their shelter without rent.

You can help them pay the bills.

Choose ONE.
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I blame myself fr everything, that's why I fucking hate myself so much, and why it hurts.
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>>27340505
if a girl has physical tics it's really cute desu
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>>27340448
Because I fucked up multiple times, crashed my car drunk, wasted money that i should have saved for school, cucked myself with the only girl that ever liked me. Made every fucking major mistake and now am stuck in dead end job scraping by as a loner robot wageslave.
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>>27340822

>crashed my car drunk

Why did you drive drunk, man? That's bad.
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>>27340912
To be honest I wasnt really drunk, just made a dumb move. Tried to flip a uturn on the highway with all my friends in the car and the dude behind me tboned me. Two girls went to the hospital, one needed surgery but everyone ended up being ok. She had a dent neat her temple and the doc said she could either die or be fine but it looked bad. That moment fucked me for life, knowing i almost killed someone. She ended up being fine but I get a fucking panic attack every time i get in my car now. Anyway, I had like 2 beers before. Cop brethalyzed me and i blew under the limit so i didnt get a DUI.
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>>27340098
>Have you tried addressing your own problems

What problems?
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>>27340098
OP girl
http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph565d497927b37
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>>27340912
I think you realize everybody does if you drive. I mean I do not even drive, but people obviously do. Like they go out for dinner and have a drink, they drive. They go to a friends place and drink and they drive. There is no stopping it, everybody likes to pretend they do not but they do. However, that is why there is a legal limit of blood alcohol content so times like that will not lead to driving drunk. You must blow 0.08 which is 4 drinks within the hour of driving. Anything less is legal. A couple of beers, a couple of glasses of wine, you are legal. Most people who are caught blow over 0.20 with open liquor bottles in their car.
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>>27341086
What I am saying is true and legal, but it is taboo, and obviously the saying is, if you drink you should not drive, but reality does not work like that which is why those laws are in place. Everybody can react differently though, a good example if that midget on Little People Big World. The father, he followed the law and only had one beer. But being a midget he blew over the legal limit because he is so small it acts as 4 beers. He was charged, but it was a good episode.
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>>27341086
Yea I blew .023 so I was way under. I wasn't really drunk just made a bad fucking call trying to uturn on the highway near squamish. I was shocked I even blew that high after a single beer about 40 min before
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>>27341132
Holy shit I remember that show but I never saw that episode. That kid got a DUI?? You think that was legit or made up for the show?
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>>27341150
That is about right actually. 4 beers in one hour is 0.08 in a regular sized person, so 1 beer from 40 minutes ago is usually 0.020, you blew 0.023 which is totally legal.
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>>27341174
No the father did, not the kid. The father went to his buddies had beer and drove home but being a midget he was caught, I think they combined the fact his kid also did the same thing, the father was the one who had to go to court, and they had the court episode.
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>>27340184
Obviously not youre self defeating and hate yourself
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>>27341174
The father got the DUI, he used it as a lesson to his kid about how drinking effects midgets differently, and midgets should never even try to drive even after a sip of anything mildly alcoholic, or even menthol because they are midgets.
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>>27341201
>>27341228
Hah I'm the same dude replying to both btw. That is fucking wild though I gotta see that one! Also yea I got lucky I was in BC, because if I was in Alberta where I live I am on a GDL license which pretty much means I get zero tolerance DUI with any liquor in my system. I think having an alberta license should have meant the cop should have enforced that but I think he just didn't give a shit.
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>>27341264
That was like in 2008 when the DUI happened. I looked it up and lol apparently the parents divorced for regular sized lovers they met because of the show. That is gross.
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>>27341247
Well I always showed confidence and everything that is attractive to people. I never bothered to talk about myself. This is the only place I ever get to talk about myself. Do I care to much? Please enlighten me; I could use it.
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>>27341443
They divorced in 2014.
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>>27341459
Haha even literal manlets can get laid with enough money. I think I remember the episode where they got the gas and brake pedals extenended so they could even drive.
Looking back the weirdest part of that show was their good looking, regular sized chad son. How the fuck did that kid come out of those two hobbits??
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I split the difference
I recognize that I'm defective product, but feel too old and tired to change it
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>>27341515
>tfw make 100k per year

Do I not show off my wealth enough?
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>>27341459
You can always improve and idk maybe its your personality
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>>27341953
I'm a listener, as I've said before. I'm more about the other person than me. Is that the problem?
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