Anyone else going out every weekend yet still didn't manage to find a girlfriend?
How do you cope with being alone robots?
>>27333659
I prefer being alone.
Who the hell has the energy to go out every weekend anyway?
>>27333678
you are not going to fucking labor camp dude, it's having 3 or 4 beers while shooting the shit with your friends in a pub, watching some shitty cover band.
>>27333659
I almost killed myself one Saturday night a couple of years ago when trying to do this. Then I figured, fuck it, I am more important than pussy and gave up. I started doing other stuff. Now I am a regular shitposter here, never been happier.
>>27333740
But thats fucking pathetic, man.
I lived that life but I was young and stupid. I went to bars with friends or rather friends of friends and sat with them until I left.
Ofcourse I didn't meet a girl I never tried. I was just out so I wasn't at home feeling like I wasn't trying.
>>27333849
>Implying
Have tested personally. gf's and sex are, in fact, highly overrated
>>27333917
only overrated if you are shit at it
>>27334139
takes two to tango
>>27333659
>had some female friend drag me to a dance on a house party
>2 minutes in she is basically hanging on my neck
>whispers in my ear that I smell good
>awkwardly finish dance and fuck off to the kitchen to drink beer and calm nerves
>nearly pass out on a couch later, drank way too much
>notice that I actually planted my head on some girls tits
>I do not even know her name, see her for the first time
>5 minutes later I pass out completely and wake up to her eating my face
>unable to move, feel like I am just watching things unfold from above
>she grabs my dick
>get a sudden rush of energy and get up
>go upstairs without saying a word and crash in hosts bed
I basically do all of this to myself, I guess I am just extremely afraid of intimacy.
All I ever wanted is a good female friend to goof around with, but you never get what you wish for.
Fuck this gay earth man.
>>27333659
I decided girlfriends are not for me. I'm coping by setting a point and fixating on that. The point being finishing my PHD and spend the job money (I do physics, 100% chance of getting work) on my friends.
I went out many times to the student pub and such. I've probably went out about 100 times by now.
I have had fun since I get drunk and that's the only time I socialize since I am a friendless kv but not one of those times has any girl shown any interest in me. I went to have fun and not to waste my time going around hitting on girls.
And normalfags say "just go out and have fun and girls will come to you".
>>27333659
lol who writes this shit
this never happens in real life - life isn't like the movies anon
>>27333659
I've managed to be generally happy, to be honest.
Sure I get lonely sometimes but I have a couple good friends and we all do stuff regularly. I think if I keep this up I may be able to train myself to be completely okay with being single and enjoying life as best as possible.
>>27333659
loneliness sometimes feels unpleasant, but what hurts me the most is how disappointed my parents and grandparents are with me being worse than everybody else, for not having a girlfriend
>>27333659
Retro vidya and shitposting on the interwebs.
Girls don't show that kind of interest in me anyway, sober or drunk.
>A few years back
>Go out to an alternative club
>End up in the room playing the harder stuff
>Fixate on a girl owning the dance floor, she's just totally in the zone
>Can't take my eyes off her
>Know deep down I could never get with her
>Go home feeling depressed
>Also a few years ago
>Out with a friend, we're not exactly sober
>Drags me to a club, I wasn't up for it but figured we wouldn't stay long
>End up in the basement room which plays dance music nonstop
>My friend starts goofing around showing off for a group of girls
>One of the girls visibly recoils at the idea of getting to know me
>My friend agrees to buy them drinks. They disappear while he's at the bar
>My friend comes back, goes to the corner and starts crying, surrounded by multiple drinks
>Would have had some to make it less of a waste, but none of them are my choices of drink
>Some dude comes over and asks if he's OK
>Eventually manage to get him to leave and head across the street for a Subway
>Eat Subway and rant about shallow bitches
Heed these cautionary tales!
>>27337253
not having a gf shouldn't looked down upon I never got that. I am not ugly and I've had a handful of srs gfs and I've been single 90% of my time. I don't think its bad. Just haven't found a good women yet
>>27337549
why did your friend cry? Is he a beta bitch ?
I just have to accept it.
What choice do I have?
I cant force someone to like/love me.
>>27337596
Yes.
Although surprisingly he has a gf now.She's black and has a kid
I really don't enjoy going out either. It's why I feel so at home here. I always feel out of place and anxious in social settings. My friends basically force me to go to parties and get togethers, and even though I don't like going, I'm grateful that they push me to go. If it wasn't for them I would have never met my boyfriend, and I wouldn't have learned how to deal with countless social situations.
My advice to fellow bots is this: just suck it up and go! Have your friends force you if that's what it takes. You will learn a lot from going to parties and you might even meet someone special.
>>27333849
According to who? Who are you to judge?
