What do you think causes fetishes?
>>27330846
The repressed wishes of being part of that situation.
ex:
>faps to trannies = wants to be tranny.
>is a cuck, wants to be a woman and have sex with many.
etc
>>27330870
So explain the farting fetish then. I don't think it's about wanting to fart.
>>27330899
I know why I have a fart fetish but that's not why most enjoy it.
It's a branch of humiliation for most, or it being "taboo", which isn't complicated to understand.
>>27330846
The Internet
Original
>>27330846
Fixation on something at young age.
>>27330944
That's where some of my fetishes stemmed from, but not all.
Why does this fixation become sexual?
>>27330962
>Why does this fixation become sexual?
That's something i dont know. It's like seeing your mother naked - either you'll have incest fetish, sexual aversion or ignore this memory.
>>27330927
Well why do you have it?
Not sure where I got a foodbaby fetish but if someone has an idea...
>>27330846
Boredom. Excessive free time.
>>27331007
The reason -why- I have it is so stupid it's not even worth mentioning.
The reason why I like it is different from why most like it.
>>27330846
nice pictures liek that one
saved!
Making children develop these fetishes at a young age
It literally has been proven that children are more likely to learn shit at a young age, so if you had 2 children, you could 'teach' one to be into bdsm and the other to be into sissifying faggots and it'd probably work
Freud had an interesting theory on the origin of fetishes.
He linked it to the fear of castration. Basically as a male child you develop a fascination with your penis, and you also assume that women have penises as well. Eventually you are confronted with knowledge that women don't have them (but rather than realizing they are born without them, you assume they've been lost) which causes immense distress (if they can lose their penis, so can I) so you deal with this by becoming fixated on something prior to the exposure of the castration. This is why Freud thought so many men were interested in feet, and leggings/garters. It'd be pretty normal for a young boys' gaze to have been traveling "upwards" to a womans' genetalia the first time they see it.
>>27330846
desensitization from every day sex
>>27330846
I've always been acutely aware of what causes my own fetishes.
>Femdom
>Tomboys
>Muscle Girls
>Giantesses
>Masochism
>Tsunderes
Deep-seated self-loathing and feelings of racial and genetic inferiority coupled with a nurtured fear of femininity caused by my interactions with women and any intimacy with it. Probably also fuelled by my negative perceptions of my own masculinity and my desire to find a woman who compensates for my lack thereof by being more masculine.
>MILFs
>Matures
Only ever receiving anything close to genuine affection from older women. Probably a Freudian thing too, since the only women I'm okay with expressing any intimacy towards are my mum and mother figures.
>Succubi
>Yanderes
Probably a secret yearning for death that fits in nicely with a not so secret yearning for intimacy.
The fact that the first time i saw a vagina/naked girl was when a girl started peeing in the woods right in front of me is almost certainly responsible for my pee fetish.
Fuck knows where the rest of them came from though.
>>27330870
Why do I have a pregnant belly festish then?
>>27331132
You're most likely jealous of your mother and wants to become her instead.
Shit sounds fucked up but it's how fetishes are born, basically what >>27331059 said.
I've read that foot fetishes exist because the wiring in the brain for the nerves of the feet are very close to the wiring for the sexual organs and they can get crossed up. I've also read that as a toddler you spend a lot of time around your mother's feet and most fetishes actually begin long before any sexuality begins to form, so they occur during toddlerhood a lot.
Why do I always imagine the girl from Mythbusters getting gangbanged in between experiments?
>>27331021
I'm so curious though. I have the same fetish and I think it might have something to do with having women and girls fart in front of me when I was a kid and it annoyed me so much that my brain flipped the switch to make me like it so I wouldn't get upset.
>>27331110
tomboy has nothing to do with masculinity t b h
>>27331010
>foodbaby fetish
a what?
>>27331190
>Parents hated all forms of vulgarity
>Not even allowed to say the word "fart" at home
>Probably became infatuated with them because they were taboo to even mention
>>27331153
I actually used to fear pregnant women but as I grew up it turned more into a festish I still don't know how I got it when I was little I didn't have any pregnant family members or anything I just got attracted to it one day.
>>27331010
That looks like a real baby.
>>27331206
It's when you eat so much your stomach expands so much that it looks like their pregnant that's what I remember reading about.
>>27331059
Yeah like that experiment where that guy had his dick removed and taught to be a girl ended up hating it and killing himself.
Anyone remember his name? Think he had "bell" in his last name or something
>>27331205
Maybe not for you.
For me it's definitely because I'm more comfortable around a girl who acts/looks like a boy than I am around a girl who acts/looks like a girl.
My whole life has been coloured by girly girls treating me like garbage, looking down on me, teasing me and laughing at me behind my back. These days I think it's gotten to the point where I just associate feminine traits with unpleasantness and start to feel a distaste towards girls who solely exhibit them. On the other hand, I'm able to get on extremely well with tomboys and butch lesbians.
>>27331256
lol something you could literally fix by not caring about them and you had to warp your desires to feel comfortable
>>27331207
I don't think that's a stupid reason to have the fetish desu. Perfectly understandable.
>>27331256
Tomboys are cute!
>>27331280
Well obviously I don't care now that I'm a fucking adult, I'm just pointing out that that's almost certainly what shaped my fetishes and my social predilections.
>>27331294
Hell yeah, nigga.
>>27331280
Man can do as he wills but he can not will what he wills.
Not caring or caring is either guaranteed or impossible.
>>27331253
David Reimer.
His penis was destroyed in a botched circumcision because he had "phimosis".
His twin brother also did but it resolved in time--because babies pretty much all have a form of phimosis due to the presence of the balanopreputial lamina, which adheres the foreskin to the head of the penis until the boy gets older. But after David's penis was destroyed his parents didn't have his brother cut and as expected, the brother's condition resolved with time.
David and his brother were forced to pretend to fuck each other by Dr. John Money, a psychologist who was trying to make David comfortable in his new role as a "girl". Incidentally, Dr. Money was the man who coined (or at least popularized) the distinction between "sex" and "gender".
Eventually both David and his brother killed themselves as adults.
>>27331330
Not caring is one of the few things that "fake it till you make it" works
First you act like you don't care and them you don't care
The human desire for novelty
That being said it's worse for women
>>27330846
Disney. They're responsible for around 80% of all furies, and probably other stuff too.
>>27331336
leftists shouldn't be allowed near children desu
It's the acceptance of an idea that's been purposely repressed for no other reason than the individuals personal impression that it is wrong and shameful. And much like a dam holding back a river once those gates bust its over.
>>27331208
>I actually used to fear pregnant women but as I grew up it turned more into a festish
That's why I said that anon was right, it's all about what happened when you were a kid, you were scared of it and had some kind of trauma, and you became obsessed with it while growing up.
That's why cucks usually have some kind of fucked up infancy like their mothers being literal whores / sluts, etc.
Trannies being abused as kids and wanting to sort themselves by becoming something else and so on,
>>27331099
>find out women don't have penises
>this means you become scared of losing your own penis
>therefore you ended up with a foot fetish
great shit Freud
>>27330870
Fapping to trannies doesn't make you want to become a tranny that's ridiculous. Most tranny porn watchers are just fem leaning bi guys who like to see dicks in action.
Being a cuck (similarly to most submissive fetishes) is due to emasculation anxiety. Things which normally cause anxiety and stress are instead sexualized which causes them to be much more palatable. It's basically a stress relief mechanism.
>>27331294
They're my favorite. I love love love that they don't wear pounds of make-up. I hate make up with a passion. I think I like them so much because of my super white trash Stacy step-mother. She ruined ultra-stacy's for me. And good riddance.
Most of my fetishes are a result of abuse.
>>27331330
>Man can do as he wills but he can not will what he wills.
my boy Schopenhauer's words are always relevant
>>27331485
Tomboys get my DICK HARD. They're one of the few things I still like in this world. Too bad they're all dykes
>>27331010
Dong obliterated.
>>27331531
They're not ALL dykes. Just most of them.
>>27331531
You can blame that on the blurring of gender roles, my man. These days the same things that would have defined a tomboy or made a woman identify as a tomboy 10-20 years ago are just seen as perfectly normal things for a woman to do so no one notices them and they never feel a need to divorce themselves from femininity.
Literally every fetish I have can be faulted on my hypersexuality that turns me into a masturbation addict (I get insomnia if I go through one day without fapping)
I would fuck traps, but I'm not necessarily attracted to them t b h
Circumcision, reduced sexual pleasure and constant 'extremeness' seeking as a result.
>>27331541
>>27331558
Ok I'll take your word for it I hope I can find a tomboy one day and pat her on the head.
My top 3 are feet, lactation and tanlines.
I always liked the last two, but I used to hate feet 5 something years ago, so I don't know where that came from.
The cult of childhood and making sure everything kids learn before a certain age is magical nonsense nothing to do with reality.
I had to figure sex out for myself on fucking youtube. So I'm a fuck up. I was talking to my parents about sex the other day and my mother was still saying shit like 'you have to treat a girl right and never do the other thing! Especially not before marriage'.'.
>>27331611
My mom has similar values.
Feels bad that we live in age of sluttery when just one generation prior we could have had pure waifus.
>>27331609
seriously, I was uncomfortable around feet in high school and did not want to fap to them at all. then I noticed myself looking at them more and more, and bam, here I am, fapping to soles
>>27331611
Same my dad just gave me a fucking book and said figure it out. I'm sure that didn't fuck me up at all.
>>27331633
I know that fucking feel anon. Word for word.
Maybe it was always there and we were just fighting it.
My fetishes are a result of my upbringing and what I lacked. Alcoholic abusive mom who I rarely saw turned into an incest fetish, because incestuous relationships would be unconditionally loving and familial. I don't know where my armpit fetish comes from though.
I do mean fetish though. Most of you are just referring to "kinks". Fetish technically means you can't get off without it, and that's true for me.
>>27331591
This plus porn addiction and the suppression of young marriage by public school
>>27331648
Yea my pregnant belly fetish is real I can't get my dick up at all unless she is pregnant or hinted at being pregnant.
I know I definitely wouldn't have a tickling fetish if it weren't for constantly having been tied up and tickle tortured by a boy
>>27331643
yep, I think I knew what a foot fetish was from a relatively young age due to this site mostly and I actively tried to avoid it I guess. oh how wrong I was
>>27331253
Check this out. Episode 7 talks about the same kind of thing.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hjernevask
Has anyone ever grown out of a fetish? I used to be into BBW stuff but now I think it's gross.
>>27331771
I think I'm getting there with my age regression fetish I get very little mental stimulation from it anymore it's just a means to guarantee erection just as a product of conditioning.
That said I'm fully aware it's stress enduced and an escapist coping mechanism so I'll probably never be free.
>>27331771
Lot of my fetishes was just a product of what I was around a lot, used to have a thing for teachers when I was in school and a thing for swimsuits when I was a swimmer.
So tell me where my boot / converse fetish comes from senpai
>>27332079
Wat? Did you say converse shoes?
>>27332110
Yes I did senpai
>>27332125
Do you like feet? It could stem from a foot fetish.
>>27332166
Yes I do
This comment was highly unorganized
A bizarre fixation, born of a repressed memory, that manifests itself in some way shape or form as a sexual desire.
Take for example, a boy that was raped by their father at a young age. They are obviously traumatized by this event, and it eventually sinks into their subconscious. Later on in their life, they develop a sort of desire to be brutally raped by someone, as a way to maybe get closer to their father.
I honestly have no clue how this shit works, but there's my opinion.
For as long as I can remember I've had masochistic tendencies. Even in my earliest memories, before starting school, I liked being tied up. I always fantasized about being a servant in some way. I'd especially get excited by pictures of princesses. I'd imagine being tied up by Disney princesses all the time.
I don't know why I became this way. I can't remember a point where it started, I just remember always being like this.
>>27331162
Because you're a fucking fruitcake
Saw SWROTJ on my 6th birthday. After that I developed a slave girl/bdsm fetish.
>>27330870
You are retarded
>>27330846
Exposition to it.
>>27331771
I used to be really into incest but now I'm not that obsessed with it
Totally Spies
>>27333497
My niggaMook, you are a beggarly whoreson knave
>>27333733
Those digits
>>27330846
Fetishisms have two root sources
1. Fertility and biology
2. The Taboo
Fertility fetishes are universal, these are things like breasts, pregnancy, butts, lactation, and even things like feet, hair, ect. can be traced back to this since these are all biological indicators of fertility. This isn't to say that all people like these fetishes, but that they can be found in every culture. Homosexual behaviors generally fall into this category as well.
The taboo is where we see really diverse fetishizations. This is basically the forbidden fruit, doing what you can't do, the very reality that you can't do it within the proper bounds of society is what makes it appealing. Everything that's not a fertility fetish ultimately falls under here. BDSM, incest, exhibitionism, humiliation, ect. Some of these also have biological factors but are expressed differently across human societies.
>>27330870
>faps to femdom = wants to be dominated by female.
Yeah this does make sense for me
I am into loli because little girls are cute.
>be abused and in desperate need of love, affection, acceptance, physical contact
>find something that completely satisfies all of my needs
>develop a romantic infatuation with it
>that developed into a sexual obsession
It seems pretty straightforward to me.
>>27331745
Looks pretty interesting anon, is it accurate?
>>27330846
Shit you experienced when you were a child.
>>27330846
feet fetish comes for crosswiring in your brain. :^)
>>27334389
The whole series is pretty neat. Made me think a lot about things in the world, as abstract as that sounds.
>>27330870
Fucking Freud, get out.
My theory is that fetishes are typically a way for sexuality to stay engaged. When you bore your tastes by fapping to the same old thing, you'll delve into more obscure areas and sexualize other things that aren't typically sexually arousing. I also think fetishes manifest as a way to make up for insecurities or they're another manifestation of preesxisting pathologies, which is what I regard BDSM enthusiasts as.
>>27330846
Mental illness and childhood experiences. However, I believe some modern fetishes have developed due to an MKULTRA-style psyop via the Internet.
I think it's from when I was a kid at kindergarden, being dressed up in rainwear so we could play outside. I remember enjoying the sensation of rubber brushing against my dick. The idea of being "forced" into tight and restrictive clothing and fabrics gave me a weird sensation. At an older age I discovered BDSM-porn and explored all other fetishes related to this fabric. It's a pretty weird ass fetish, but luckily there's a lot of content out there to enjoy.
I have wondered this for a while. Where exactly does the link between social cues and sexuality arise?
For example in myself, I was interested in crossdressing and forced fem and submission because on a deep level I craved validation. The feminine path towards this was more direct - having someone tell you you're pretty and delicate and that they want to covet you and control you is very validating. I also enjoyed feeling like I could be flirtatious, coquettish and attractive, because I didn't feel that while expressing male. Where, though, does this morph into sexual arousal? It seems like the connection is made via the distinction between dominance and submission. In most sexual fetishes there is a dominant acting on a submissive. So something, probably my interest in being cared for and loved, keyed into that "submission" circuit and it all clicked together.
I'm still unsure though. It just begs the question, why are humans keyed into these dominance and submission circuits at all? Is it something primal? Or is it just a reflection of our society, something we all learn from a young age and internalize? This is a very shaky hypothesis and I really wish there was more study done into how fetishes develop.
>>27331099
This is interesting but I don't really feel that the fear of losing one's penis is the core of it. The bit about children developing an interest in legs, stockings and garters is extremely compelling though. That may actually be the truth for that fetish.
