No matter what I do I can't work up the nerve to make cold approaches, why?
I've been out several times now with the intent of approaching women and asking them out until one says yes but I just can't work up the nerve. In the past 2 months I've only made 7 approaches, 2 gave me their numbers but it never went anywhere, although I did get a few dates and make out sessions out of it.
That's an average of 0.116667 approaches a day, going out about 3 days a week to the mall. So 0.27222 approaches a day constrained to 3 days a week. What the fuck do I have to think in my mind to resist the anxiety? How is it possible for my mind to suppress so absolutely the ability to do the one thing I happen to be trying to do at that very moment?
>>27327919
>In the past 2 months I've only made 7 approaches, 2 gave me their numbers
I'll take shit that never happened for 500.
Don't do it anon. Not worth the trouble. If you really gonna do it, do it in clubs
>>27327919
Why not make cold approches more interesting by setting yourself on fire? Then you go to a girl and say "hi this is my ice breaker" and then you have to get her number before you suffer fatal burns.
Spice it up anon
>>27328242
The problem is that I can't even do it the normal way, fuck off with your spices.
That's because your subconscious knows cold approaching is a weird, autistic thing to do, even if you don't.
>>27328215
I don't go to clubs m8. Too many people, too loud, not really a suitable place to meet a girlfriend. More like a place where dudes go to get laid.
>>27328265
How else am I supposed to find a girlfriend then?