Question for people who have been in a relationship: do you have sex with your gf every night? Is that the normal frequency?
It varies. I've been in relationships where we'd fuck mutiple times a day and other where it was once or week, or even less often.
>>27327402
Usually twice a week. It's usually every other night when you first get involved with someone. I'm at the point in my current relationship where she lives with me so it's only on nights when we go out, which is usually twice a week. It can be a little more or a little less on weird weeks though.
We had sex less than once a week. At first she said it was because she had a low libido. Turns out she just wasn't attracted to me.
>>27327431
Also, it's not because we couldn't be having sex more often. She'd be more than willing to put out if I made a move. I'm happy with the frequency. I like jacking off so I do that pretty much daily, even days we have sex.
For the first few months we had sex every time we saw each other. After that we usually just did oral most nights due to us both working 50+ hours a week and being dead tired.
>>27327402
Depends on the amount of responsibilities both of you have.
Are you dead tired after working all day and taking care of two kids? Or are you carefree 19 year old NEETs?
I don't think most couples have sex every night. At the start you generally do but it cools down and you maybe have sex 3-4 times a week.
I have only been in two relationships though and I had a lot more sex in one of them so eh, dunno...
>>27327402
At first it can be multiple times a day. Me and my now wife used to do shit 2-3 times a day.
The longer you're together, the more it levels out in a way. That initial lust and obsession eventually wears.
I've been with my wife for over 4 years now. At this point, we have sex once a week. There are times when she wants to have sex and I'm disgusted by the idea and vice versa.
When you have a kid, financial responsibilities and a marriage to handle sex is the last thing on your mind sometimes.
>>27327402
Every night is too much.
I text my gf to come over every 4 or 5 days. We usually do 2-3 rounds at night and 3 rounds in the morning.
After you will be so satisfied that idea of having sex every night will disgust you lol
>>27327483
>here are times when she wants to have sex and I'm disgusted by the idea
Do you do something else like go to bed and cuddle or something? I often wish I could do this.
>>27327402
depends on how close you are to each other. If you live together my friends say it's like 3-5 times a week or more but it's more like on the weekends if you don't.
I'm genuinely surprised at these responses, because I assumed everyone in a relationship had sex every night before sleep.
>>27327402
I'm in a 5 year relationship and counting, its usually once a week, sometimes once a fortnight. Movies and shit will make you think its low but its literally the point we're happy at: we both work hard jobs and spend most of our free time doing exercise together and cooking complicated meals, so desu cant always be bothered to waste time having sex when its not the weekend.
> In b4 being cucked etc - we literally spend every waking moment outside of work together, we just personally dont rank sex that highly
>>27327573
I know I don't want to fap every single day.
>>27327573
If you did that it would just become mutual masturbation, thats not something sex should ever become - a race to get off so that you can get to sleep by 11.
Anyone else feels the whole sex thing is fake? I literally cannot comprehend it. 20yo virgin, i cant believe sex is completely normal to have, and abnormal to not have
My girlfriend and I have sex every day, and we have for the past year. It varies. My last girlfriend and I had sex maybe 2 or 3 times a week.
>>27327611
Before i had sex i used to wonder if there was some sort of change after sex that meant people who had it could tell who hadn't, maybe smell or some shit. Then you have it and realize the massive spiritual deal you have made it into was false, all animals have sex, its not really anything that notable - though the first few times are great.
>>27327611
If I'm not in a relationship, it's more like once every 1 to 2 months, depending on how often I go out and how lucky I get. It's only regular when I'm in a relationship.
>>27327611
Not exactly but I think the idea would take some getting used to. Just the idea of touching, being touched and being inside another person.
>>27327589
Im in the same boat - i kind of look down on my friends who say they have sex every day as just being uninteresting and stupid, its a rush with a job to then get to the gym, do something fun together then cook and sleep all before getting to sleep on time to work the next day. You must have little else going on to make fucking time every single night.
>>27327402
Usually, there is a phase early on in the relationship in which you try having sex with each other as much as you can. I still remember the first time I was in a real relationship with a girl at college. For the first couple of weeks, we'd fuck all night, so that staying awake in class was really difficult. Even when we went out, we'd sneak away just to get our thing on real quick. I actually lost quite some weight because we'd fuck so much that I wasn't eating or sleeping well.
The amount of normshits on this board is fucking disgusting.
>>27327709
We were here before this turned into the spergefest is is now and we'll be here long after you all kill yourselves. You'll never find your autistic safe space, not even on 4chan.
>>27327709
I'm kv as they come but its nice to dream.
>>27327709
OP asks a question aimed at people who have been in a relationship. Why would you even open the thread if you don't want to hear thing like that?
>>27327402
Multiple times a day for me. Max we've done was 7 separate sessions thanks to some wicked jetlag and inability to sleep.
>>27327818
Idk, senpai. I think my jack off record might only be 5 or 6 in one day. It's hard to believe you made it to 7 times fucking. Unless you didn't cum every time or you last like 5 minutes or less. 7 times would be a crazy workout. My abs and arms are sore if I have sex just twice a day.
>>27327402
Bout once a week, then once a month later on. I had a low libido, turned out I was pretty much Asexual, sex kinda became a chore, she wanted it daily and had a huge libido was one factor in us breaking up.
>>27327402
Definitely not, but it's the most serious relationship I've ever been in (over 1.5 years now). We live together and have sex every couple of days.
Makeup sex is real.
We were more passionate at the start, and had sex more often, but I'd say it's better quality fucking these days. As in stereotypical, roll-your-eyes, wanna put on Marvin Gaye shit.
Been living together for three years. Sex usually twice a week. I work evenings two days a week (choir), so we don't have as much time together as we'd like sometimes.
I'm struggling with a porn addiction that sometimes reduces my interest in sex with my partner.
As others pointed out, it's not common to have sex every day once you both have work and afterwork activities and come home late and tired.
Young, newly found lovers however? Like rabbits.
I see my bf every weekend or so and we'll have sex multiple times a day. Most I think we've had is like eight sessions. It's pretty fun.
>>27328435
Question: Does your boyfriend orgasm at the end of each session? If so, his recovery period is impressively short/non existent. Or maybe you just have that effect on guys.
>all these people claiming they fucked 8 times in a day
Wouldn't know, I'm not a one pump champ.
>>27327861
>>27327818
made it to eleven times in one day with my ex wife. fucking exhausting, never doing that again.
For those of you who fap a lot and then got a gf, is your sex drive still strong? I fap like 3-4 times a day, so if I had a gf, I could easily be fucking at least 5 times a week.
>>27328450
Yeah he does and his recovery is like 30 min to an hour in between I'd say. He's in refractory period for a while after he cums and every load gets smaller, obviously. The first one is always insane though
>>27328454
Nah, we fuck for like 15-20 min, sometime a bit longer. It's satisfying. Very sexually compatible.
>>27328548
>Nah, we fuck for like 15-20 min, sometime a bit longer. It's satisfying. Very sexually compatible.
Haha i can already tell you are literally blowing wind out of your gaping asshole.
>>27328585
Part of me wishes I was. Not sure how I could ever want to fuck anyone else after.
>>27328598
27 here, can jack off 8 times a day and my dick gets extremely painful, test was in the range of 1000 at 20 years old. Fucking a bitch 8 times a day at 15-20minutes a pop and i wouldn't be able to move my dick regardless if i get a half an hour break.
I think you're full of shit, and probably a man. Baby.
>>27327402
3-4 times a month
>>27327402
Yeah if she was staying over we'd bang before sleeping. Sometimes we'd bang in the morning if we were too tired before bed.
Sometimes both.
>>27327735
ur a faget
orignal comment XD
all I've gathered from this thread are the following
>Women are literal sex toys
>Women would be disowned if they weren't giving out sex on the tap
r9k was right... and women have the nerve to get upset when you call them urinals.
>>27328693
I suggest you take off your misogyny glasses and read the thread again. We're plenty of dudes in years-long relationships that are ok with having sex less than every day.
Depends. Usually in the first 6-12 months you will have the biggest amounts of sex. After that you will either seperate because your relationship is purely built on sex, or you will go into a short dry period, where you question and build up your relationship further. Then you end up in a somewhat of a "honeymoon" period, where you solidify your relationship. This ofcourse depends on how much time you spend together.
The normal frequency can vary depending on the sex drive. 3 times / week is a good number. But even once a week can work, depending on both of people.
Normal can also be daily, since some people deal with problems by having sex, where as others can't have sex if they have even the simplest of problems.
>>27328548
TFW Anon's bf will never heat you up with his insane loads
I've been in a relationship for about 1year 3months, and it honestly depends.
1. What's happening that day. Has it been a long busy day? Are you both exhausted after the day? Do you both want sex?
2. Where you guys stand. Fighting? Overly happy? Awkwardness? You get the point.
3. How it's going down there.
My girlfriend has had pain when we have sex for the past 6 months. A few doctors appointments later, we still don't know what's wrong. We still have sex often, it's often painful for her, and I just gotta do quickies.
In the beginning of the relationship: 2-3 times a day
Middle: 2 times.
Now: Depends on the pain. But 3-4 times a week.
>>27328693
Fucking idiot. You have no value and you will die alone
for me it was every other day at first, but then i eventually took it for granted because she was always around
maybe it would've stayed frequent if we were attractive
>>27327483
>When you have a kid, financial responsibilities and a marriage to handle sex is the last thing on your mind sometimes.
Apart from the financial responsibilities, you make it sound like a job, something that you hate. Why did you create a child if looking after it is a burden to you? Why did you get married if you need to "handle it"?
>>27327402
I'm a gay dude and I only have sex maybe once a month, once every two months with my partner. We're both low libido and not very into it. We cuddle a lot.
>>27327402
Relationship for eight years here.
We have sex every other day with some regularity. So 3-4 days a week. I'm actually tracking it on the calendar right now, since we're trying to conceive.
For the first few years, every night is normal as long as you live together. Multiple times a day for a while when it's still new.
It varies for me anywhere from 2-5 times per week with my girlfriend depending on how we're feeling in terms of energy and health, work schedules, and general horniness.
