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2016-03-22 00:32:40 Post No. 27317238
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2016-03-22 00:32:40
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My girlfriend [F/18] have been dating for almost 4 months, we started dating around January 8th. Anyway I have been mostly happy with her despite us having a rough patch after I found out she had (what she told me) slept with around 26 guys in the 3 months before she met me. I somehow managed to get past this because after all she was a pretty good girlfriend.
Now here's the fuck up. Last night I was staying at hers and had to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night, I took her phone to use her flashlight. While in the bathroom I got too curious and made a bad after-1pm decision; I went through her phone. I saw she still had contacts and convos of people she fucked, about 6 in total in her messages tab with nothing before November. The sexual parts of the convos (asking each other to come over) were mostly around december, but a couple were smack bang right around January 8th, when we started dating. Even more disturbing was this one message from her;
Her: Sorry I was late I couldn't find the place
This was on January 27th.
I should have stopped here but I kept on going, I re-downloaded tinder which she said she deleted about 2 weeks after we started dating. She had about 109 matches in a 3 month period, I started going through each convo and saw her organizing fucks, dates and dirty talk. What really stood out was the fact there were 10 convos after mine, and all were around the same november/decebember/early january dates. I counted up all of them and it was way more than 26 guys, at least 40, all within a 3 month period.
I put the phone down and left.
I really really regret this, I know I shouldn't have.
I just feel sick, I don't feel special or like she really values me. What should I do? I don't think I can even look at her right now.