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Who /schizoid/ here? What's even the point in socializing?
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Who /schizoid/ here?
What's even the point in socializing? It's mentally exhausting, a burden on resources, and a waste of time. What does loneliness even feel like? People describe it as some awful state of existence but I've yet to have even felt it. Why can't normies grasp that some people genuinely prefer solitude?
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I've been suspecting that I'm schizoaffective for roughly 6 months now. I'm afraid of getting it officially diagnosed because it would add to my cocktail of other mental issues.
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>>27300970
schizoaffective is vastly different from schizoid. Schizoid is essentially social withdrawal.
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>>27301047

I'm socially withdrawn and have been for years. Started around age 22.

>a personality disorder characterized by a lack of interest in social relationships, a tendency towards a solitary lifestyle, secretiveness, emotional coldness, and apathy. Affected individuals may simultaneously demonstrate a rich, elaborate and exclusively internal fantasy world.

Everything except the fantasy world would apply to me. Don't really see a point in getting diagnosed, though.
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>>27300970
what >>27301047 said... Schizoaffective is basically schizophrenia with chronic depression disorder, while schizoid is a personality disorder that consist in total lack of interest for getting into any kind on social interaction. Not phobia nor fear, just plain uninterest
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>>27300934
Because you don't prefer solitude. How would the world function if everyone behaved like you?
>https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=1aFlZUTiEDU
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>>27300934
AvPD with schizoid features here. I can socialize but part of me is elsewhere and it's a superficial exercise. Only get to reconnect with the rest of me when I don't have to worry about handling other people. The older I get the more adept I have to be at it to survive, though, and the further the part of me that feels deeply slips away from me.
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>>27300934
I don't really feel lonely, just really bored t b h
I don't have schizo tho, just tourette
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I don't know what the fuck I am, but I think I need to just go and see a doctor tomorrow. I'm withdrawing from benzo's, want to kill myself, and drugs only help in the short term.
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>>27301193
Where did I say that everyone needed to behave like me? I genuinely prefer being by myself. I don't have any interest in sharing my free time with other people. It's just burdening to me. I lose money, time, and focus that I could otherwise spend on my own hobbies and interests. I've had friends in the past with common interests and it was still exhausting to me. They talk on and on about pointless nonsense and ask me intrusive questions. It's just a waste of time to me.
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>>27301264
Why are you getting so defensive? This is a childish attitude. If everyone behaved like you, the world would fall apart. People recognize that and have justifiable contempt for you. Imagine if your way of life were to be a categorical imperative. Nothing good can come from you. You are selfish, like a baby.
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>>27301193
>How would the world function if everyone behaved like you?

Being schizoid isn't normal human behavior, so everyone acting like that wouldn't even be an issue. What point are you even trying to make here?
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>>27301367
Once again, where in the world did I say I think the entire world should behave like me. I'm getting defensive because you're ASSUMING that I'm a particular way based on evaluating your own self interests. You can't fathom that some people have different likes/dislikes, and that to me is the sign of a shit person(normie). Just fuck off.
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>>27301367

The point you're tying to make here is idiotic.

Just stop to think about what you're saying for a minute.
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>>27301409
>>27301468

You 2 are total fucking morons. First anon, he's getting defensive because you got into offensive. Second anon, he's fucking schizoid, he CAN'T think the way you would.

He's not a baby, he has a personality disorder and is neither complaining, nor pretending people should be more like him, he's genuinely asking what's the deal with desiring social interactions, because he legitimacy cannot understand it. The only babies here are you two
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>>27301388
If everyone chose to be as selfish as you, the civilization would collapse. Every time you do anything, you need to think about what would happen if everyone did the same thing. That's how you can decide whether it's a wise thing to do. I know it's not normal and it's a good thing it isn't. There's a good reason it isn't normal. You can't hide behind the excuse that it's harmless as long as not too many people are doing it. You're still scum and a coward.
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>>27301546
i meant "legitimately", not "legitimacy"
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>>27301468
What point is it that I was trying to make? And how is it idiotic? Two questions there for you.
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>>27301564
>If everyone chose to be as selfish as you, the civilization would collapse. Every time you do anything, you need to think about what would happen if everyone did the same thing.
Explain the logic behind this from point A to B. This is extremely stupid. The method of deciding what's wise to do is based on your own self interest. If social interaction is within the your self interest, then you should make choices according to that. But hold on, let's hear why it's wise to
>If everyone chose to be as selfish as you, the civilization would collapse. Every time you do anything, you need to think about what would happen if everyone did the same thing.
kek
fucking normies
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>>27301564
>NOOOO STOP BEING DIFFERENT
Why are you even here?
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>>27301633
>The method of deciding what's wise to do is based on your own self interest.
For a baby. This is how babies behave. You have a lot of maturing to do.
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>>27301705
Explain it from point A to B, retard. People always do what's in their best interest. You're living in a fantasy world where there is no supposed distinction among personalities. If I don't get anything out of social interaction, if I only LOSE in the process of it. Then what good is it? Have you ever studied any psychology in your life? Christ.
Go ahead and give me the breakdown as to why you think your viewpoint is logical and not just you trying to show moral superiority.
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>>27301564

You really need to get your normie ass out of here. You can fuck off with your high school opinion on how life should work. When you grow up, you might realize that you don't need to do everything for the sole purpose of being normal.
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>>27301801

Also to add to this, just because you prefer to live a solitary life with little interaction with people, doesn't mean you're incapable of deciphering the difference between right and wrong, or are incapable of interacing with humans on a basic level to fulfill your basic needs. It's not like schizoids are out being cunts to everyone.
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>>27301047
>>27301175

I was completely unaware of that.

It's amazing how little they teach us about mental illness in schools.

What else can you tell me about schizoid personality disorders (schizotypal in particular)? I'd >google it but the symptoms are always too general.
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>>27301932
>schizoid personality disorders (schizotypal in particular)
gr8 b8 m8
If you're serious: wikipedia.
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>>27301705
This man is basically living proof that you don't need social interaction to accomplish great things. You're living under the pretense that it's even possible for everyone to act alike. It's not going to happen, people have different interests, goals, viewpoints, lifestyles etc.
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>>27301962

I'm failing to see how that's bait.
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>>27301564
>>27301705
>sone random niche bullshit could potentially stifle society if aggregated across 7 billion people

hows middle school going bud?
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Not sure if Schizoid

>Dropped out of school because of the anxiety of social interaction
>Converse with few people
>Spend 99% of my time indoors
>Entertain a fantasy world
>Emotional/Sexual intimacy makes me extremely uncomfortable
>Apathetic toward my life and future

But!!

>Have 1 friend who I enjoy spending time with sometimes
>Get lonely some times
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>>27301932
Schizotypal is a mixture of schizophrenia and a mood disorder. Pretty much you're completely mad and uncontrollable.
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>>27302005
>tfw when 5/6 on schizoid list
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>Desperately want to become financially stable and get an education
>All I do is worry about it but ultimately don't really give a shit

What do I do, heroin? I need to care about something at least temporarily so I don't end up starving to death or dying of exposure or something.
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>>27302627
Heroin will end up doing just that, I know from experience. Can't really help you because I'm in a similar position. I do have my passions but they're not financially stable. If I have any advice- do what you can tolerate.
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I've got no idea what I am. The thought of socialising makes me very anxious, but on the other hand I don't have a strong desire to socialise anyway. I'd like some close friends but the most communication is simultaneously and unintersting and stressful, so it's hard to break through the initial barriers.
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>>27301173
Is that a description of schizoid? Because that sounds a lot like me, except I do have an interest in social relationships in that I'm sad that I don't have any. Would there be any use in getting myself diagnosed?
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does schizotypal count?

because I suspect I might have a little of that in me. though desu I really hope not.
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>>27302776

It's from the wikipedia page. There's a lot more information there. If you think you might have it, you might want to read the whole thing.

Not sure if getting diagnosed would do you much good.
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>>27302627
>Desperately want to become financially stable and get an education
>All I do is worry about it but ultimately don't really give a shit

This this this, every day, every week
If I really wanted to I could teach myself programming or some shit
This life has to be disorder
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God diagnosed with schizoid traits, but that was like 4 months ago, and I've been waiting for them to contact with me for a referral since.
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>>27303492
>God
I think that might just be plain 'ol schizophrenia m80
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You know, socializing can be fun if you're in the mood and with the right people. I've never met an schizoid before but they sound like interesting persons to meet
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How can I induce schizophrenia
Tell me bots
I need this.. My mums brother has it, dads uncle has it
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Ive read about Schizotypal personality disorder(different than schizoid I think) and it sounds alot like me.
But I would be cautious about diagnosing yourself based on a short wikipedia article.
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How do I maintain a gf when I literally dislike socializing and going out?

Everyone else seems to enjoy socializing and are drawn to it, while I am the opposite. All girls seem to NEED socializing while I honestly couldn't stand being around another person that long or talking to them.

I don't even want a gf, I kinda just want to have kids one day out of respect for my family.
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>>27304295
Weed/psychedelics won't cause schizophrenia, but they WILL induce it if you are already genetically predisposed to the condition.

So just do a bunch of drugs. Also sleep less and with an irregular schedule.
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