>have bf
>sleep with him maybe three nights a week
>almost 100% of the nights that I sleep over, he does this:
>wait until I fall asleep
>rub my sensitive spots for until I wake up
>pleasure me without touching himself until I get off
>tell me to say something
>I say it
>he proceeds with dicking
>he finishes dramatically
>he goes to wash up
>he comes back
>I've usually recovered by then, at which point I go wash up
>we go back to bed
But I really don't know how I feel about every time he tells me to say something. Usually the things he tells me to say are along the lines of, "Yes, Anon," in response to him asking if I want him to continue. And he's really adamant about asking, too. Like yesterday,
>we're having fun
>it's getting good
>suddenly he stops
>"Do you want it?"
>I have an emotionally triggered stutter of moderate severity but kind of lose the ability to talk when having sex
>try to say yes
>fail for five minutes
>he keeps encouraging me to say, "Yes, Anon."
>I keep trying
>eventually call him an idiot
>"That doesn't sound like, 'Yes, Anon'."
>I reply sarcastically, "Okay, Anon".
>"Good enough," and he continues.
But what the fuck? I really don't understand why he would do that. Does he get off on it? Is he asking permission? We're literally in a committed relationship and I've not once EVER said no. Never. So all that's left is he's asking to derive some sexual pleasure out of it. But how is that even possible? He is literally blue-balling himself so that I can gather myself and answer a question. What the fuck?
>>27277968
>have bf
Stopped reading there
Fuck off normalfag you aren't welcome here
>>>/soc/
>>>/adv/
>>>/cgl/
ur bf is an autist
>>27277994
Usually when things are awkward I just assume it's just I'm inept. What makes you say it's him?
>>27277968
Just say yes don't be an autist.
He just wants to be sure hes not fucking you when you don't want it
>>27278103
Even when he's asked this question hundreds of times before and I've always said yes?
And besides, if the goal was to see if it was consensual, woudn't it make more sense to ask before eating me out?
>>27277968
maybe he likes to tease you I'm not him but I like asking my gf if she really wants me to lick her or put it in.
it's when my gf hesitates or stutters even though he knows what you want is what turns me on on my gf's case and it doesn't help that my gf has a really cute voice when she's turned on and really wants it.
i feel like a retard trying to explain this shit
he just likes to tease you in bed fampaitachi
>>27278155
Consensual penetration is far more important to him than consensual foreplay. Consent is the obvious answer, I've been in this situation before and I know what its like.
>>27277968
What the actual fuck are you complaining about in this thread?
>>27277968
why don't you fucking ask him than a bunch or hungarian basket weavers
hope he breaks up with you since you cant even communicate with him.
>>27278155
>>27277968
>asks for consent
>performs oral sex on a woman
looks like you got yourself a beta male
>>27277968
>>we're having fun
>>it's getting good
>>suddenly he stops
>>"Do you want it?"
>>I have an emotionally triggered stutter of moderate severity but kind of lose the ability to talk when having sex
>>try to say yes
>>fail for five minutes
>>he keeps encouraging me to say, "Yes, Anon."
>>I keep trying
>>eventually call him an idiot
>>"That doesn't sound like, 'Yes, Anon'."
>>I reply sarcastically, "Okay, Anon".
>>"Good enough," and he continues.
Please be B8
He's seeking affirmative consent as evidence in case you ever wrongly accuse him of rape.
Unfortunately your biased narrative of coercion combined with crocodile tears will ultimately render that ineffective as well.
>I only signed that sex contract because he verbally pressured me into doing it, clearly it's rape.
>>27277968
It's 2016 and if you don't ask for consent every couple of minutes it's literally rape.
The guy is just covering his ass.
>>27277968
he is asking for consent so you can't claim rape.
>>27277968
It's polite to get verbal, enthusiastic consent before you penetrate someone.
Haven't you read your feminist literature? If you don't want that, ask to like sign a consent contract and get it over with all at once.
>>27278339
>>27278330
>>27278322
If it's really that he still feels the need to ask consent every time, that makes me sad. Would he still really not trust me to be honest if he was scaring me?
>>27277968
>ask why he does that
>ask if it's necessary to do it because when you're in the moment you can't talk/don't want to talk
>if it's part of what turns him on, or there's some psychological thing, do it
>if he's like "nah it's just pretty cool" then don't bother
ITT: what is communication?
>>27278385
its not you whos the problem, its some other woman that hurt him most likely. Im scared of it too after almost going to prison
>>27278385
>trusting women
>2016
Have you been watching the news?
I want this thread to be bait so bad.
>>27278322
This guy is right.
he might of seen one of these dumb videos and doesnt want to be a accused of rape
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yuRPCc-C-uo
Not that I don't appreciate this insight into normie life, but why are you asking sex questions to a bunch of virgins?
>>27277968
He wants you to beg for it? Jesus Christ get a clue.
If you don't want to play along then fucking tell him, roastie. Because for the past dozens of times it looks like you're playing along and thus enjoy it (in his eyes).
>>27278385
I do this too, it's very important to ask EVERY time. More than having safe sex even since this can legit end your life. Even then it's prudent to record so the whole thing's on video. Herpes will make your dick itch but some deluded cunt can get you straight murdered.
Welcome to feminist hell where all men are rapists and all women are victims.
He gets off on making you beg for it. What you never watched a porn or read a hentai doujin?
>>27278506
seems like a pretty weak plan. Can't she just retroactively withdraw consent anyway?
>>27278569
I thought that was just one of those things that people get off on in porn but not in real life - kinda like pregnancy.
>>27278433
I kinda asked him earlier today what was up with that. He just changed the topic.
>>27277968
>I really don't understand why he would do that.
Because then you can't say he raped you, you idiot
>>27278385
>Would he still really not trust me to be honest if he was scaring me?
Trusting a woman with anything is just a bad idea
>>27277968
He probably was accused of rape in the past.
Also, he's probably secretly recording all your sex sessions with a bug so you can't vindictively get him sent to the slammer.
>>27277968
>try to say yes
>fail for five minutes
Are you retarded? Do you actually have down syndrome?
>>27277968
sounds like a nu-male fag who has to ask permission and doesn't just take what he wants
>waits till his gf is asleep and starts touching her
>is worried about getting affirmative consent
This is just dumb bait guys
