What's stopping you from walking up to the girl of your dreams and asking for a date?
well for one of thing I haven't had a dream about a girl in over 5 years, so technically I don't have a girl of my dreams
>>27231428
She's from a strict religious famiily
I'm a different race (im white)
She's my oneitis though and we have amazing conversations and were meant to be...maybe in another life it will happen *shrug*
>>27231428
>What's stopping you from walking up to the girl of your dreams and asking for a date?
Nothing is stopping me
I could do it if I wanted to but i am afraid she will reject me and everyone will laugh at me for the rest of my life
>>27231527
>will laugh at me for the rest of my life
Laught about what? that you're a fucking human being with needs? everyone wants sex, everyone needs love, don't feel shame for trying something others just can hope to do.
She's2Dandon hiatus.
>>27231428
she's married and has a kid on the way.
she will say no and I will be publicly embarrassed and my feelings of inadequacy will be amplified and I'll be one step closer to suicide
>>27231428
the restraining order
She lives in another country.
>>27231635
>>27231660
You don't know until you've tried, you might be surprised
>>27231586
>everyone needs love
I seem to have been living fine without this so far
>>27231684
even if she says yes, I'll end up disappointing her in the long run
Even in my dreams women look down on me as a pathetic loser
Not even kidding, it happens in nearly every dream I have.
>>27231689
>living fine
yeah right
>>27231428
because people scare me
It's creepy as fuck for one thing
No one does that.
No one just walks up to girls and asks them on dates.
>>27231733
it'd certainly be creepy if a majority of us robots did it, but ive seen chads do it
>>27231428
Don't have one.
Never had. Never will
>>27231733
How else are you suppose to get a gf? Fucking idiot
>>27231494
you don't get another life mate, you gotta try now, live with the regret that you never tried.
Because I go to a college campus full of fucking chads and she would probably cheat on me for any of them. Also a few of my best friends are fucking mega chads and basically are planet sized in terms of how well they can pull girls into their orbit.
i don't know how to start talking to her since i don't know her and we don't share any activities, i have seen her at my college before but i don't know how to start talking to her, i don't have anxiety or anything like that, but i wouldn't know what to say to her besides "hi, how are you?"
what should i do?
>>27231428
Nothing, I asked her out on Monday and we had our first date earlier this evening. Went much better than expected, and I'm an ugly robot.
I'm not mean enough to pretend I'm worth a damn just to get in her pants.
>>27231428
>walking up to the girl of your dreams
I'll let you know when I've found her.
Meaninwhile, I keep getting rejected by average girls.
She's beautiful and interesting and there are tons of motivated attractive interesting dudes who are probably hitting her up on a daily basis. Why should I bother subjecting myself to anxiety, physical discomfort, shame, and of course eventual rejection? I know that I have nothing to offer her, nothing exciting or substantial to add to her life, so there's no reason to torment myself.
>>27231865
I've had pussy, this one just won't happen itl (new term im coining right now, means In This Life, tell your friends millenial, can you say the same)
The fact that I know she wants my cock in or around her mouth is all the satisfaction I'll ever need. It feels really fucking good when a good Christian girl wants your cock
>>27231428
There are two outcomes.
Either she says no (or avoids the question or flakes later etc. but it all comes to the same thing):
I waste both our times. She feels awkward and harassed. I feel stupid, worthless, weak. You see, normies can brush this shit off. They've had rejections, sure; but they've also had positivity. People in their lives were there for them when they fucked up. A lot of people here have endured a pretty relentless stream of negativity. And after a while, it gets to you. Time after time you have been told that you are worthless. Another rejection just reinforces that. We don't have the reslilience to fight it. Staying quiet is better than being laughed at or called a creep.
I swear that normies are fucking delusional. When you get rejected, it is because you are not fucking good enough! They excuse it as her loss or that she was already in a relationship or tired or busy. They refuse to face the reality. Because if you were really worthwhile, she wouldn't hesitate. If you were Leo (or whomever girls like these days), do you really think anything would stop her?
Rejection's personal. You are being told that you are not good enough. But normies are so deluded or conceited that they don't see it this way. Their delusion is held together by the occasional yes. They don't accept how brutal and shallow this game is. I already know it. I don't need a reminder.
Or she says yes:
What then? I guess we plan to meet somewhere. But I have nothing to talk about, nothing to impress her with. I'm not funny or interesting; my social skills are poor. I'm not exciting, or sexual or dominant. But even in spite of all of that, even if she says past all of that and finds me 'quirky', there's no conceivably good outcome. I have to fight relentlessly to keep her interested. If I make a mistake or even if something beyond my control goes wrong, she'll just trade up - there's always someone better.
She's 5
>asking a girl out in your dreams
>not just doing fun dream stuff together
>>27232395
please don't post palvin, i find it incredibly distressing. Please, i'm literally crying
She's 2D
Oregano
>>27231428
Because shes not 3D shit
>>27232395
why is she so fucking pretty? sigh.
>>27232434
What the fuck?
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>>27232434
I'm sorry anon. I was crying earlier too. Hope you feel better.
>>27231428
>What's stopping you from walking up to the girl of your dreams and asking for a date?
How old are you? No one under the age of 30 actually goes on a "date" in this day and time.
I want to hug her and never let go.
