It's time to confront yourself.
You need to realize why you can't be with your oneitis. Lay it all out here, get it off your chest and get over her.
>>27228336
Is that a real book? I need it.
I know why, it's because she doesn't want me anymore.
I'll go ahead and do mine.
I can't be with my oneitis because of how obviously different our paths are.
She wants to care for children with special needs and live a healthy christian life.
I want to make money and live my life with her, nothing else.
I am in no way religious and lack the desire to help others like she has.
>>27228387
I don't know. I searched "oneitis" on Google Images and thought it fit.
>>27228336
it doesn't really matter, she basically rejected me before i could even ask her out. we used to be good friends but don't talk as much anymore. i thought she was giving me signs awhile ago but i thought she was going out with someone else at the time. i still can't stop thinking about her because she's the most beautiful person i've ever met- more than all the porn stars and models.
it's almost kind of sick because we don't have much in common, we just got along because we hated the same things. i don't think we would have a great relationship if it did work out. but i still wish it did/will. i have tried, and i can't get over her
>>27228336
when my oneitis became a race traitor i was instantly cured. i guess i was lucky. as soon as i was cured i started caring about myself more, started college again, going to university soon. i have actual plans for my life now. i am very afraid of attractive women now because i don't ever want this to happen again, all these wasted years. thank god i am very picky regarding women.
Im not a real robot but I have never gotten over my oneitis even after I fucked 3 other girls and have a decently hot gf atm. My oneitis kept insisting we were just friends butI kept making advancements. We would do things lik cuddle, hold hands, we madeout once and she even grabbed my pants right at the crotch area kinda signaling she wanted it (I was way too blueballed by then). She blocked me after I got mad telling her that its either more or nothing. That was 5 years ago.
I was a chubby loser beta back then and ever since then I have fixed everyflaw that was wrong with me back then, I make good money, I am /fit/, I do some normie things all in the hopes that one day I will get a second chance. (She always complained I didnt work even though I was in college, and that I didnt do normie things like drink or go clubbing)
I have built my whole adult life to prepare me for her. I have unfortunately ran into her couple of times but under not good circumstances.
Atm my life only has 3 options,
1.I somehow get to have her
2. I realize this is is a lost cause and I killself
3. I keep livin life with gf and ease the pain withhookers(ive never been wit one) and alcohol
I like /r9k/ because I understand all the pain yal go through. I transformed myself into someone I am not just to get a chance to be with a roastie that probably doesnt even acknowledge my existence. She was the last girl I ever truly felt butterflies for.
my oneitis is 14 years old and in a different country.
>>27228336
I'm already in the process. Way I cope is by doing drugs with randoms I meet over YikYak. Going over to a girl's place next Friday to sesh with her.
She's not very attractive which is great because I can practice just chilling and talking to a girl, which will really help me out.
She doesn't sesh with other ppl and says it's sad seshing alone. I'm 40-45% over my oneitis rn.
>>27228336
I can't be with my oneitis because he's a Chad. He's all I think about, the reason I push myself at all. He says I'm his third best friend, but I've probably slipped. He has dozens. They all stream together and I can't. Half of them are as infatuated as I am, we've both just started calling his situation a harem.
The only thing I don't understand is why he likes them but not me. Too straightforward is what he said. I don't understand the subtlety of flirtation. I'd do anything for him, and I have, But my best isn't good enough.
I need to force myself to love something, anything else enough to pry him out of my head and replace him.
Thanks for the thread.
I'm not sure why I can't be with my oneitis. I hung out with her yesterday and she gave me the scoop of all the shit thats been going on with her. Alot of the situations that she brought up sound like she caused it herself but for some reason, I like that. I like how she has a "don't give a shit" attitude. When she was talking to me about how some guy keeps stalking her and leaving her things at her door, I got lost in her eyes. I'm fucking hopeless. We shared a pizza and got coffee at 8pm because she probably has a caffeine addiction. Then I drove her home and during that, we reminisced of the good ol' days in high school and the cringe phase we went through. When I dropped her off, we hugged, and she went into her house
Yesterday was the best fucking day I have ever had in 2 years. I locked myself in my room for the 2 years prior but a friend of mine asked if I could hang with him and I said yes, then he cancelled because his car was in the shop, to which I asked my oneitis on short notice if I we could hang out
shit, this turned into a blog, but I'm just really happy about how my day turned out yesterday
>>27230650
you cant buy love and if you cant flirt then dont. go out meet lots of new people, somone will replace him sooner or later.
