If our fathers could do it why can't we? Have times changed that much? How did our dads do it?
>>27227133
women were loose whores in the 70s when most of our parents met, which lead to our feminist dystopia
>>27227133
my father is fat.
he shagged fat woman
i'm fat homunculus
fml, just kill me fampai
>>27227133
They were just being themselves
My dad didn't have /r9k/ around to let him know that marrying a drug addict with a child from another man was beta.
My father was just cool and chill and my mother liked him.
Those were different times.
Women are garbage now. Caring about them is a waste of time.
>much
you probably spend 0.0001% of the time around women that your dad did. your progress and chances are basically nothing. relationships are literally just a function of time and energy spent. it has nothing to do with generations, nothing has changed in humans in tens of thousands of years. you could get with a hot rich girl or you could get with a down syndrome tranny. it just depends on how you learn to be sociable with whoever you want to date.
>>27227133
my dad and my mom were both immigrant children, plus my mom was raised in a super conservative home. conservative backgrounds are vanishing so it's not like people stay naive forever in THE CURRENT YEAR
also, my dads side has serious personality issues and i think i inherited all of them. even if im not ugly i still can't cope with full on normalfaggotry
He lived in Mexico where being 5 ft 7in is actually tall. Supposedly women used to throw themselves at him.
I'm the same height and no woman has EVER showed interest in me and I'm literally a carbon copy of him.
My dad taught me everything he knows. The problem is that the world changed around us. So you can't live the same life as him.
> assuming our fathers got a girl anywhere near that hot
Why do you think just about everyone here complains about being ugly, mate?
i just think different times. people can look up the person and see like social networks and things.
Why were our fathers able to buy a house in a nice neighborhood after working in a shitty factory for a couple years?
Times change. Women have social media and an infinite amount of validation. The world loves to remind them of how precious they are and how worthless we are.
>>27227377
My parents are still married, I've seen a picture of my mother in the 70s and she looked like a top model.
>>27227326
>being a mexican midget
>expecting a gf
Xddd
My dad was like 35 and fucked a fresh out of high school intern who was trying to get a full time position at his company. She was hired than transfered soon after. about 9 months later he found out she was on leave for having a baby and putting it up for adoption, he then was like "fuck that" adopted it and never talked to her since. He used to be quite the ladies many back in the day and fucked chicks all the time til he found out about me and decided to get his shit together, but he'd still bring an occasional girls home to shag thought my childhood.
Kind of a strange environment to grow up in really. but yeah, thats "how my dad did it"
More than ever before in history the world is changing drastically. Society as always is slow to adapt to these rapid changes and so there are many misplaced people like ourselves falling through the cracks.
I'm glad at least I'm not one of those poor guys that had to live through two world wars, in many places those times were fucking brutal.
Yeah the world changes but people stay the same
The Jews.original post famalam
>>27227319
>Conservative
Be more specific, because southern tough guy bikers cuck and fuck each other's wives all the time
>>27227133
Looking at society, the bar was lower. Women were either far more monogamous (due to societal pressure) which gave men a larger pool of women to work with due to far less women exclusively fucking around - Or the women (in some circles) were just "easier" like in the "hippie era".
Today we have these opportunistic cold hedonism-machines that have all the sexual power, while getting told 24/7 that they are oppressed victims.
Then ofc we have the fact that there will always be outcasts and losers, having well-adapted parents is of some weight but it is in no way a guarantee that the offspring can adapt and/or will have a "successful" life.
he grew up in a culture where everyone was expected to have a gf and therefore anyone could obtain one. pussy essentially just fell into his lap by virtue of him being both alive and outside
>>27227782
>monogamous
are you retarded? your argument might be almost true if you're 50 and you're talking about your grandparents, but what the fuck man.
>>27227777
>fake hypocritical conservative Trump supporters
>>27227464
So how did you end up here
>>27227133
papa just went out with girls in his league instead of watching porn. i made it, but much later than he did. you have to remember that most people on this board are missing parts of their brains or are just really lazy. it has nothing to do with genetics.
>>27227983
idk about him, but-
> because alpha conservative parents
>>27227133
My dad was miserable. I dont really wanna do what he did.
>>27227943
Buddy, i believe you need to look at some relevant statistics on the 50s and 60s and compare them to what came after, or simply sit down and read some basic western modern history, particularly about society and culture.
>>27227133
my father was a cool dude who was in his own gang fucking bitches and earning money with a decent job in the day. now he lives a quiet life with my mom and im his biggest failure, not his fault i guess he was the best father in my opinion, im the failure, im ugly as fuck
>>27228135
>his parents hooked up in the 50s
they still lived through the 70s which were far worse than now. shut your faggot old man mouth
My mom was a genius college student and My dad worked at a hot dog stand at a country club when they met in the 80s.
She later cucked him for a fellow genius she cucked for my dad when I was 6.
He abused me till I was 14 when he cucked her for a 24 year old girl who cucked her BF for a rich poly sci major/lawyer who my mom cucked for my dad.
Women and Men are filthy animals.
I did "do it", because I'm not horribly offensive to look at, I can cook, and I'm funny. Plus I'm really good at faking confidence. My dad's a retired model, though, so I could never compete with him.
>>27227133
My dad's ugly and fat. But he's tall and a good bullshitter. I'm short and pretty bad at bullshit.
It is what it is.
I think a lot of the issue is social media giving women too many options and everyone being able to easily find the Chads in their area to fuck, or that they see all the Chads and set their standards only for Chads.
The Internet changed the whole game. Now we have to compete against all sorts of people around a big radius. We sometimes even have tot compete against people in the other side of the world. Before the Internet the people girls had access was more limited so they had to choose in those circles. But now those circles that girls have access is just too broad.
Well our mothers didn't have Tinder, Facebook, Instagram, Pinterest, Snapchat, Skype, Omegle, Youtube, Patreon, Tumblr and Reddit, so... At least they weren't competing with every other man on the planet for a woman who will always have someone better available.
>>27228358
Personally, I think orbiters are part of the problem. It's a lot easier to orbit a chick now with cell phones and the internet and such, so every chick out there can have an orbiter. These guys will give them attention, affection, and possibly nice things. So when they're looking for a guy, they don't need to look for someone who's affectionate or someone who will buy them things and pay attention to them. They can just find some guy who's hot and has a big dick because the weird guy in the fedora and the MLP shirt is fulfilling their emotional needs.
>>27228378
What once was the 80:20 rule was tested in an official Tinder survey, and they found the number has become 85:15
http://mic.com/articles/110774/two-thirds-of-tinder-users-are-men-here-s-why
http://elitedaily.com/social-news/men-women-tinder-experiment/1310866/
>>27228495
Are you trying to say that females don't actually visit those places?
My counterargument is the following. You don't even have to have a dating account to get an interested boy in you. You can literally go anywhere on the Internet state or imply that you're a female and you'll be basically having the same effect as if you're in a dating site.
>>27228546
How did you get that from his post? Do you even know what the 80:20 rule is? It's that 80% of sex is being had by 20% of men.
>>27227559
Your dad sounds like a bro.
>>27228657
80+20=100%
85+15=100%
The rule you're saying doesn't have to complete 100% but both examples do. So my reasoning was that it was a ratio. 80% men and 20% women. I hope it makes sense. Also I wouldn't read bullshit articles. If you can't explain your ideas in a post then you're not very smart.
>>27227133
My dad is a loser who settled for a disgusting mongoloid to have kids with
I'm not continuing the cycle
>>27228781
If you were missing the point any harder you'd pass into another board. It's not about reaching 100%. The top 20% of men have 80% of the sex. It's like the top 1% of people owning 50% of the world's wealth or whatever it is now. The point is not "hurr durr women don't use those sites durp I'm a retard who can't read". It's "chances are you won't get a lot of responses on those sites because women can be choosy and just hook up with the guy who's fucking a dozen other women regularly."
Why did our dads do it?
>all these anons blaming women right off the bat
>>27228826
You are too retarded to understand. I am telling you. The poster I was responding didn't explain his XX:YY bullshit. I was aware of what he meant by that when I read your post but I was explaining why I made the reasoning I made. Which I still don't see any flaws. I made the best reasoning with the information I had to reach my conclusion.
>>27228189
Not that you deserve an answer (or that you could even sufficiently grasp the content) but: One of the most important factors is the upbringing your parents had, which brings us to the upbringing and culture your GRANDparents had and lived in, which brings us even further back in time. The last 100 years of western society reflects an absolutely massive paradigm shift where essentially our entire evolutionary history was turned upside down in the equivalent of a nanosecond.
My parents hooked up in the 70s btw, not that it's relevant.
>>27228881
I don't need to explain my "XX:YY" bullshit. It's not something I made up. It's discussed frequently and if you're not familiar with it you need to lurk more instead of acting like other people are retarded, faggot.
the da' was too stupid to be depressed
My dad is an ugly, sociopathic manlet rich dude who married a good-looking idiot.
I'm not sure where things went wrong for me, but it was somewhere.
>>27227133
blame meiosis. you got the shitty genes.
It's not that you can't, it's that you don't bother to.
People in the past had all kinds of myths and ideals to guide their way, from nationalism to religion to abstracts like "freedom" and so on...
But the world today is far more cynical, materialistic and disillusioned than ever before.
Future goals like "having a wife and children" or "supporting the growth and expansion of my glorious country" don't have the same pulling power they used to.
Hell, it was always kind of bullshit really. The idea that you live on through your children belies the fact that in about 100 years' time, your kids will be no more like you than any other member of your tribe or race, and if they racemix they might even be less like you than a random conational. Having kids means literally nothing in the grand scheme of things.
And practically nobody cares about country anymore. To the horde of aliens in America, it's just a massive goody-bag unfortunately filled with bitter white guys bitching about how life used to be better for them, >muh 1950s, >muh American Dream and all that shit. For increasing numbers of white men, nation is the God that failed. As is God himself.
Basically: Life is depressing even at the best of times (physical decline, getting uglier, worrying about death more as time passes) and it's even worse now living in an era of decline and watching everything strong, good, and excellent being ridden roughshod over by a mob of degenerates and failures.
I don't know if this is the end of the world. Probably not; and more is the pity.
>>27227457
This is fucking SUCCINCT
>>27228926
>parents hooked up in the 70s
>this moron talking about monogamy and "evolutionary history"
thanks, Obama. i have to hear about shit excuses like "women were both more prude and easier before i was born" for why they are sad losers since you created 4chan.
>>27227133
Dad was 6', had a beard and Jesus hair, handsome face, good sense of humor, and a tan, lean body from a life of physical labor.
My dad grew up poor as fuck, so he had to actually go outside and talk to people, he couldn't just sit inside all day and slowly go insane from the isolation. Plus, he became a doctor, so it was easy for him to find a white girl.
>>27227457
>times change
median millennial homeowner lives in a larger home than he grew up in.
what changed is that losers have a platform to complain on, and they watched movies about wealthy or upper middle class people from the past. all of a sudden you get a circle jerk of absolute trash wondering why none of them live like their role models on the television.
you aren't worthless for having a dick, you're worthless for being worthless. you actually think you'd have a better time with women if it wasn't for girls checking their twitter accounts. yeah and i'd win the lottery more often if i had a beard.
What I'm more astounded by is how and why my father chose my mother.
My mother is a forgetful dope who doesn't seem to care about about anything and when she forgets stuff she just says "oh well, nothing happened, so what"
My father is a selfish asshole who wants everything done his way and has an extremely short temper and he passed all this down to me
For basically all my life my parents have never seemed to like each other at all and most of their marriage is spent insulting each other, mainly my father insulting my mother and her ignoring it, or just telling him "fuck you, asshole" and have rarely shown affection to each other ever. From my ages of I think 10-12, my father was constantly threatening leaving us/divorce and even lived in our guest bedroom and my mother was terrified that he would leave even though she didnt like him
I think my dad was 35 and mom was 30 when they got married. When I was born they were 39 and 33 respectively
I have thought about sitting down and asking them how they got together and why they have stayed together if theyve never seemed to like each other but i figure it would be really awkward
>Don't worry anon, you'll find someone, your father and i have been in love forever, he helped me when i was in my darkest moments
>mfw my mum was off the cock carousel and "found love" and dad settled for her
My dad fucked a single mom. So I guess I'm on track.
My dad's hair was literally the only reason my mom fell for him, she makes it a point rather often. They both have really good hair, who's fucking genetics did I get then?
Or maybe I don't want to know
>>27227457
This hurts but it's true
Because I'm just the most fucked up one in my family. Doesn't really matter why.
>>27227133
because my father was crazy and my mother was an idiot. i'm going to kill him someday
Different times, women were slightly less shamelessly slutty in the past. I bet if you took the average sex partners for women for the last 50 years, our generation would be the highest by far.
>>27227974
Sounds more like Bernie supporters, no Trump supporter would ever do that. Are you a Shillary? Your tricks won't work here, vile jew.
my dad was a massive chad and asshole
>>27230060
so he was better than you in every way?
>>27228859
Haha I know right, like how could anyone ever think anything is a woman's fault?
>>27230084
yes. he's extremely outgoing and i'm sure he's fucked at least 50 women throughout his life
>>27227133
Stunted growth. Not sure what exactly caused it. Maybe malnutrition, lack of exercise, etc.
>>27229435
People have been around for a while mang. It shouldn't be such a surprise that women could have been different from the women of today. I would argue they are a lot easier now than they were in any recent history, but they were undeniably different no matter how you look at it.
They didn't have the internet.
The internet, for all that it's done for us, almost single-handedly propelled us into the sexual inequality we're in now.
>>27229517
>implying libraries didn't exist before today
Lel, what a retard.
>>27230208
wow. how has he not beat and then disowned you?
My dad married my mom who at the time was a fat, single mother. She lost the weight though and is actually a good mom and wife, she just made shit decisions as a teenager.
I don't want to marry a fat single mother and hope she turns out good.
>>27230281
my parents have been divorced since i was like five. he's pretty fucked up and has problems with drugs and alcohol. he never laid a hand on me or my brother though.
i haven't seen him in almost five yearsi miss him
>>27227133
because he was very sociable
while i was raised as a human so i am polite, because of that in school everyone ignored or told me to shut up.
> dad is a fucking manlet
>I'm taller than mom and dad
>mom is shortest of family
> female cousins taller
>mfw i'm still kv
>our faces when genetic recombination
>>27228358
I WANT TO SHOOT THOSE SMUG CUNTS IN THE PIC
>>27227133
he was wrong to do so
he was wrong to have made me
>>27227133
>dad was mexichad
>he was a bassist for a band and a carpenter
>came to u.s
>i am not chad, for i am meximanlet
>hes mad even though he never even tried to encourage me, just called me a lazy whiny piece of shit from age 5 and on
>>27227133
>tfw my dad is literally 5'4'' but has had way more women than I will ever have in my life
>has even been in threesomes
It's a weird feel fampai
Our fathers didn't grew at a time when they got told they were the cause of all evils in the world
Our fathers didn't grew at a time when there were 30 genders and sexual orientation was a spectrum
Our fathers didn't grew at a time when women of all shapes are beautiful but only shredded men with low hairlines get the covers
Our fathers didn't grew at a time when women got hundreds of potential suitors just by sharing what they ate today
Our fathers didn't grew at a time when the most competent workers at their field are being told they should be replaced by women and negroes because it's "cool"
>>27230668
*didn't grow, anon
>>27227133
Because my parents were virgins when they married. Same with my grandparents on both sides and all my aunts and uncles. Same with all my married cousins. There are no virgin females left for me. The only women showing slight interest in me are tumblr sjw landwhales who constantly brag about their past sexual number counts.
Were any of you only children? Only children have this "all of them are socially awkward and weird" stigma
I honestly cannot imagine my father (or mother) having another child besides me. Our family life has been so dysfunctional growing up, I just can't imagine what another human being would be like living here
>>27228358
Disgusting whore. That pic makes me so damn mad
>>27228417
>every chick out there can have an orbiter
>an
>singular
>>27230746
Socially awkward only child here reporting in
Because back then people had to go out and practice their social/life skills.
>>27230748
Why is she a whore?originalfuckingcommentyoufuckingcunt
>>27227133
My father is dead and my step dad is there i guess...i wanna die.
>>27227296
No no no and no? fuck yourself normalfag
>my parents met when they were 30.
>they are both hispanic
>they both had a marriage and divorce prior to meeting
I'm surprised I turned out as normal as I did
as for getting with a qt grill, I have already surpassed what my family has acheived in strength.physique. it matter if I grew up in conflicting contexts. I simply am too respectful for hispanics, then i seize up around white people b/c i view them as my superiors.
The majority of human history is comprised of dead family lines.
>father married one of the first girls he dated after knocking her up
>she cheated on him and divorced him
>they got back together
>both of them started cheating on each other
>dad married new lady
>LITERALLY got circumcised for the new wife and honeymooned in Jamal-land
It's a wild world, not going to do women like my dad did.
My dad and mom were pretty objectively attractive in the 80s from what I've seen, but somehow I turned out ugly as fuck. Feels bad man
My dad was a certified Chad. He was in a frat and did many drugs and slept around, from what I've heard. I'm no kv but I'm not on that level
>>27227540
I'm not Mexican. I was born the good ole U S of A. I'm also white
>>27232977
Fuck me.
*I was born in the good ole US of A
My dad inherited his dad's company and ended up wooing one his employees. He was 37 and she was 39 when they finally got around to making a kid together. Mom had two previous marriages and sons whereas my dad had none. He was desperate for offspring while not having any actual goddamn clue what it was have to kids or how to raise them into a functional adult. She was desperate for those betabux since both previous marriages had been to womanizers who worked minimum wage.
Mom thinks of herself as a talented mom due to raising two kids before me, or thought of anyway I'm an adult now and been living alone for four years, when in reality she dumped her kids to their dads or grandparents half the time. Both were relatively old when I was born and were really fucking afraid that something was going to happen to me, so I ended up being sheltered and not given any responsibility, couldn't even walk to school on my own because they thought I was either going to get kidnapped or skip school. Dad had emotionally damaging childhood and adolescence and is a husk of a man and feels immense need to control anything and everything. Mom had worked minimum wage most of her life but suddenly started referring to other people as 'peasants' after marrying into money.
Could write several posts about this, but I have done that before and no one usually gives a shit either way. This was mostly off-topic anyway, fuck.
