It is a fact that
>personal successes = personal happiness = improvements in your life
Thats the only thing you need to know and you should strive for it. Anything other than literally getting off your ass and improving yourself is being a lazy beta, and you will continue to remain unhappy because of this. Any excuse or sob story about my mom my ex my friends is an excuse to not improve yourself, and you sitting in a chair complaining about how no one loves you will not make you happy. So you'd rather live in sorrow and eat chicken tenders and make excuses because youre lazy.
>inb4 normie
Bump
This shit gonna get buried cause y'all are lazy as fuck
And what does success mean exactly?
Also, it will get burried because this thread is unoriginal as fuck.
>>27222932
It's getting buried because you posted a picture of an ugly-ass naked midget.
If you're going to troll people, you should pick something irksome, not disgusting.
>>27223104
Whatever you personally define as succeeding. To me right now its not beating off, going to the gym, and getting a job, and developing social skills since Ive been in a room for so long.
>>27223259
And i fuck up on those daily but its a start
>>27223259
>>27223286
That's rather sad. Do you feel the urge to post threads like these just so you could feel at least slightly accomplished, compared to the rest of us?
Either way, it's always a bittersweet feeling, seeing people in denial. I want to be happy for you and stuff, but also, you're hopeless (and deep down you're also aware of that).
>>27223361
Everything we do is for ourselves, I posted this to help people feel better to help myself feel better. Humans are selfish beings. I understand coming to a place with people struggling and bragging about knowing the secrets to life is demeaning but I'm just trying to help man. What exactly am I in denial about? I do jack shit all day but play video games, but I know im not worthless and that feels like a pretty heavy projection. You arent worthless either, the only meaning in life comes from yourself so Im completely not worthless, in fact I am the only thing with worth.
>>27223361
Do you feel the need to express your anger at yourself to some random person on the internet because you yourself feel hopeless. Im obviously trying to feel better about myself, but so are you. So is everyone. Youre honestly just an intimidated little faggot who cant take help because something I said triggered you.
>>27223482
How do you go from "imrove urself betas lol" to "you're not worthless just bee urself"?
Also, the whole tough guy/ gym teacher act isn't really an effective method, especially to robots, especially via written text, especially coming from someone like you.
Either way I wish you good luck in your journey to find happiness anon. I believe in you <3
>>27223482
Anon stop. I know you are in deep pain. You dont need to justify yourself.
>>27223558
Ok, I'll bite: how should one exactly take help?
>>27223615
enjoy being a lazy fat fucking retard
>>27223662
Listen to advice from niggas. But also realize that everything anyone does is for their own good. You need to help yourself since youre literally the only being that matters.
>>27223259
So youve spent a week or two outside your room and started a thread to make you feel better? Neat.
>>27223776
Realize you can only improve yourself
>>27223776
Anon I believe you are not even breathing properly. Could you please describe how you feel? Its okay to feel pain and anger at the same time.
>>27223839
Yup but to share with others what I see in life. So you just replied trying to make me feel bad to make yourself feel better because youre triggered.
>>27223776
So your advice is listening to advice? woah
Either way, I sincerely wish you the best with whatever niggery you're dealing with, cause you seem to have issues. Take care
>>27223853
I want to help people feel better and improve themselves but no one takes my advice because of my own downfalls like being a mild autist/schizo/anxious weirdo. I know the true path is leadership but Im too fucked in the head to lead right now so it just comes across as some faggot telling you to do shit. I need to get my life together and helping other people can't be a part of it until I help myself.
>>27223983
You need to slow down anon. Its ok to take a break and let yourself feel it all. Life is not a race. You dont need to help everyone and try to make it all right in one day. It takes time.
>>27223983
Basically realizing people domt want to help themselves and their proud of it is mind blowing and sad at the same time. And the fact that these people live on the same planet and only serve as a net loss is fucked even though they didn't choose to be born. Just lazy betas getting on my nerves because Im being a lazy beta.
>>27224078
Its okay. You are speaking to real human being anon. How does it feel knowing they are breathing and living, even though they are behind computer screen? They are the same way as you. They feel sad and anger too and are frustrated often.
Many people dont know how to help themselves. You said you had problems with yourself too, they may have problems with themselves. Its hard to do everything right in this world.
There is no point in trying to change people. They will change when they will be ready.
>>27224185
Feels like I want to fuck you like an anime grill. Feels weird because even though youre just another evolved ape on a computer I will never see you or anyome else perspective on life so I dont know how fucked I really am if at all. Its also scary because interpersonal relations are weird as shit right now because I never have them so I pretend you arent human.
Not going to read your self-congratulating, just-world jerkoff fantasy. Just going to tell you that you're a normie pissant.
>>27224394
I dont care. Just felt like sharing knowledge with the world
>>27224394
The world isnt just infact we're just animals in nature. Why dont I relate with anybody if I'm so normal?
>>27224351
Its normal to try to dehumanize people if you dont have social contact. Its a way of coping.
I can assure you anon that you are having a social interaction right now with a human being who understands at least a bit and cares. If you want to call us evolved apes its okay but we are similiar. I do feel frustrated that we wont meet ever and wont exchange perspectives on life. I would like to have some social interaction as I am also lacking it quite a bit these days.
You are not alone who would want to fuck those animu girls.
>>27224572
Add my kik burnin.dope
>>27224770
I dont have kik. Never used it and dont even know what it is really. I dont normally exchange contacts with anons as I only use my computer for internet and cant be online everyday.
We can talk here and now if you want. I wouldnt be able to promise you other way.
Limited moments always feel like they have more quality in them as people must choose what to say or they will only regret not saying what they trully wanted later.
>>27224924
I feel like you were hitting on me and I acted too beta/not like whatever fantasy you envisioned and I fucked it up.
>>27225007
And now youre just using me as someone to talk to
>>27225007
Its ok. You should try to stop viewing everything from what you should do and do what you want to do. The whole alpha beta thing will just make you feel worse in the end. We are not dating anon. I am not your lover. I just want to talk to you.
>>27225108
did you want anything sexual from starting this conversation
>>27225397
There are people who will be kind to you without wanting to fuck you. World is not black and white. This conversation have no sexual intentions on my part. I use qt anime pictures because it evokes emotions that cant be expressed in internet conversation.
I dont find pleasure in trying to screw people off. I have lack of social contact and I understand how people feel because I studied psychology. I understand that some people want to control others to protect themselves from feeling lonely. I also understand schizophrenics and depressed. There are too many people in this world and even though I wont see them or know their life story I still kind of care.
I like the idea that those people are living, being their own protagonists of their lives, struggling to find a meaning in this world, feeling happy and sad. Some will stop trying and kill themselves, some will continue doing what they do, others will vastly change.
I just wanted to talk anon.
>>27225589
what do you want to talk about then man?
>>27225668
It doesnt really matter, I would talk about anything you want. What are you hobbies? Maybe, how was your day? Or what are you trying to do right now that made you so frustrated? What happened that made you so conflicted. It depends on you. You can ask me also if you want to know something I will answer you.
>>27225761
playing WoW but even that game is fucked up. i feel pretty good about myself actually since I did yard work today. need to keep doing shit to make myself feel better and I have to harness my willpower to do them and i think i can do it. what about u
>>27225589
Anon a saint. SAINT.
>>27225761
alright dueces man thanks for the support
>>27226236
Its great you are doing something you feel is important. Just dont rely too much on willpower, its mostly illusionary, people need experiences so it becomes natural. It takes time for our organism to get it. Sometimes it takes years to see how we progressed.
To feel better is a great goal to have but dont try to limit yourself to that. Its okay to feel sad and angry if you feel like it. When you let your emotions run without trying to control them your brain will have easier time because it will process them faster. Its more healthy even if it hurts a little its better to not try to avoid feeling them. I had a lot of problems with this in the past.
You have all the power you need really. Its sometimes hard to find it but its always there. There are techniques which help like thinking about why you feel how you feel and why you do things you do. Autogenic training is useful if you are interested in how to be more stable emotionally and doesnt require much learning. Focusing and mindfulness are also helpful. All of them are possible to learn and practice without help.
My hobbies are psychology, philosophy, anime, reading and failling in life. I guess I could say fourchin and some other forums too for discussion.
I had a few depressing days. Mostly because of my future life that seems kind of black right now because of my situation in my country and problems in family. I wish I could play MMO, I was kind of addicted to them because I used them as escape from reality and stopped caring about life problems. So I had to delete my video games and abstinate from it.
Anyway I really enjoyed talking with you even if it was for a while. You may not believe me but its true. I have to go to sleep though as its already morning here and I have work to do today.
I hope you achieve what you wish for anon and stay feeling good. Pardon my english.
>>27222760
in order for one to succeed, others must fail.
Ah yes, the family, big house and fancy car provide an everlasting high. Faggot.
>>27228281
I didn't even read the thread before posting this, I thought it was one of those douche threads. Never mind.
>>27223259
I personally define succeeding as doing what I enjoy, which mostly consists of playing vidya and beating my dick relentlessly to porn. Do I feel happy from this? Fuck no. But I feel a hell of a lot better than sucking corporate dick to get a 4% raise or trying to get with some horrible cunt.
>>27222760
Is that dude fucking a midget?
>>27222760
>Starting a thread with that lazy garbage post
Apply yourself anon
