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>tfw rich but lonley as fuck

My dad is a billionaire businessman. I'm his only child. He divorced my mom, she killed herself a few years later.

I now manage an office of his. I live the same routine everyday.
>wake up
>get ready
>walk to the office (live two blocks away)
>try to be the best boss possible
>go home
>play vidya
>watch the city traffic
>go to sleep

I can't talk to make myself talk to golddiggers, that's what my mother was. Look how she turned out.

Every time I try to talk to normal girls they think I'm just trying to pick them up with my money.

I have one friend but he's married and has kids now so we don't talk or hang out like we used to.

How do I stop being so lonely?
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I could really use some of your money, and in exchange I'd give you advice on some hobbies.
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>>27209614
Start by giving out money to other lonely robots who are poor.
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>>27209614
You can do anything, can't you? How important is money? You'll probably get inheritance. In the meantime, become a pauper.
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>>27209641
>>27209648
I've given money away before.

Usually around big holidays. I don't feel very charitable right now.
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i'm poor and lonely. i have no friends, it's just me and my mom. i'm trying my best, but it's hard. i hate getting out of bed sometimes.
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Try to find events or places to meet people without money being involved. Go to concerts, take a college class if you aren't too old. If you're passionate about something or even trying something new you can probably make that a basis for friendship. Rinse and repeat until you have more friends. Hell you can even do it online with people you're at an advantage since you have money to visit people easier.
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Don't talk to gold diggers then. Pretend you're an average guy with an office job and do some tindr or POF dates? The longer you can keep the money a secret the better off. Because as soon as they hear about it they turn into "perfect gf mode".
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>>27209687
give me a job famalam
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>>27209614
do what smart rich people do, high quality hookers and coke. being lonely is basically like being weak and stupid.
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Pretend to be lower middle class. Go to a thrift store or walmart, buy a shitty used car, rent and furnish an apartment if you have to. Once you feel confident that they're in it to be with you and not for the money you can come out with it.

Sounds like a lot of work but this will work like a charm. It's foolproof.
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Stp working, get a hobby and become super good at it, thats what id do if i had all that money.
Hire a hooker ever once in awhile etc.
Finding love would be impossible unless its a super rich girl too, atleast thats how i see it
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>>27209614
Buy a brother a porn account.
It's just 30 dollars and won't mean much to you
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Nice to meet you, I'm Anon, friend for hire
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>>27209776
What's wrong with a perfect gf
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>>27209614
I'd be your friend OP. I don't have a price I just don't have many friends of my own
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>>27209614
Fly robots over to hang out and sit awkwardly with for hours.
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>>27209745
>>27209776
>>27209799
Seems crazy but like it could work. I might kind of try some tactics to make myself more "middle-class." Thanks bros.

>>27209779
Hey if you get interviewed by some robot-looking dude at a marketing firm in SoCal it could have been me. Good luck.

>>27209804
I have to work. My dad plans on retiring within 10-15 years. He's working me up the system to prepare me.

Also rich girls are really hard to date. You absolutely have to be a chad. You have to have something interesting about you too. I'm too normal for rich girls.
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>>27209614
Give me all your money.
You'll suddenly have a new lifestyle as a poor person which would make your life interesting and different from your daily routine.
And I can buy my own happiness, so in a sense we both win.
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hey OP

fuck you

this isn't just a casual fuck you that people say when they're annoyed

this is a fuck you from the bottom of my soul

i want to climb to the top of the highest mountain and proclaim "fuck you OP"

go fuck yourself
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>>27209614
You need to find a purpose. You need to devote yourself to making the world a better place with the wealth Hashem's providence bestowed you with.
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>>27209614
read mate by tucker max. like actually. if you read that i guarantee you'll find the answers you're looking for.

picture is table of contents. https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/24396873-mate here are some "reviews"

but yeah. if you're rich you don't belong here. "NORMIES GIT OUT REEE. etc.. etc..."
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>>27209885
I went to an /r9k/ meetup a few years ago. We really did just sit around awkwardly for an hour or so.
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>h-hey guy's I'm rich but s-sad :(((
Give me money.

Literally 0.1% of your wealth would change my life.
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>>27209886
hey op you can probably just set up something on Tindr or okcupid

do you play on ps4 or pc?
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>>27209902
We aren't jews.

It's weird because we're in the entertainment business and everyone else is jewish. One older louder one calls us "The SS."
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>>27209886
>Also rich girls are really hard to date. You absolutely have to be a chad.
I'm not rich, but I always figured rich girls would be more attracted to other rich people (all things considered) for the same reason rich men don't want to date gold diggers. But I suppose from personal experience, a disproportionate amount of men born into money are pretty heavily Chad. My mom's side of the family isn't mega-rich but they're definitely upper-middle-class and corporate businessowners, and even there I can see upon reflection that the husband is either heavily Chad or he's from an even richer/higher-class family than the wife.

Don't da joos have events for people like you to meet the children of other rich assholes, or is that only for the real higher-ups of the Illuminati?
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>>27209614
You have the means to help so much people OP. That alone is enough to be happy, youu just have to try.
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>>27209614
If you just want friends you could try to make an online friend group based on the games you like. Thats what a bunch of dudes from /vg/ did when /dng/ went to shit. They do meet-ups when big cons happen on the East Coast. Just don't tell people you are rich right off that bat or they will just want money.
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this probably makes me a shitty person but I cannot feel any sympathy towards rich people

your problems mean nothing to me. any problem can be solved with money.
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>>27209614
>Every time I try to talk to normal girls they think I'm just trying to pick them up with my money.
How would they even know unless you flaunt it like a cunt?
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You have money and know money op. I'm not going to ask for money, but could you to tell me how to make money? How to be successful or interact with people or do any of the things you do? Please?

Now that my pathetic begging is out of the way

>How do I stop being so lonely?
You have to be able to connect to someone emotionally. You can be surrounded by a million people and be lonely because you're still isolated mentally.

Because of your money, you're in a different world than most people and that's what makes it hard to connect, for you and for them. Like the first few sentences of my post? They were heartfelt. If you were in front of me right now I would probably be on my knees weeping for you to help me because I'm a fucking loser. We're already disconnected by that huge barrier. You need to take money out of the equation.

Play online games, start talking to people, build your friendship around it and then learn more about each other. Go to meetups for things like d&d or go camping and talk to people on the trail, base your connection around something mutual. Take your wealth out of the equation until the connection is secure.
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I know where youre coming from, i won a small fortune somehow, but it didnt really buy me much anyways since all my happiness is my sister.

>win the lottery somehow.
>have a good fortune.
>only told my sister about it
>parents kinda disowns me for cross dressing and trapping.
>just my sisters smile is enough to make me happy.
>used to be depressed since i didnt have anyone besides me.
>she finds me cute clothes and help with makeup.

Youll be fine anon, i believe some day youll find a special one that can make your day and smile.
Dont give up okay?
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>>27210049
>but could you to tell me how to make money?
how would he know?

you want to ask OP's dad. not the little baby who got everything handed to him.
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>>27209920
I'm on a short leash. I couldn't give away .1% of my wealth. I would get busted up for months.

>>27209961
Lots of rich people do stuff together. Usually all the girls are 10/10 because of their moms all being former supermodels. So they latch on to chads because they're hot af and I play golf with my dad.

>>27209985
We do charity stuff. The positive emotions are only short term to be honest.
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>>27209614
inb4 troll

The only way you can ever know for sure if your future girlfriend likes you or your money is to date a girl that already has money or from a rich family. People think money solves all problems, but it creates better problems.

I am newly wealthy and moved back home to my tiny hill billy town so my relationship problems are similar.
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>>27209911
I thought maybe the whole robots being socially crippled was just a meme.
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Do I lack empathy if i hardly feel any sympathy for OP?

I work every day just to make ends meet, things like my rent, electricity, gas, car insurance, food, are always on my mind. I find it hard to feel sorry for someone who's just drowning in money.
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>>27209614

this is why rich people hang out with other rich people. you soon realize that it's hard to connect with people of lower classes
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>>27210041
Nice clothes. Nice car. Expensive drinks. My wardrobe is basically put together for me. It's hard not to tell I have money.

>>27210049
I couldn't help you man. Maybe in a few years. I'm still learning now.

>>27210054
Is winning the lottery exciting? Alot of dad colleagues buy tickets to give the money away. I tried buying a ticket when the powerball got huge but felt pretty fucked up when I saw the other people in line.
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>>27209614
See, in order to really enjoy an abundant life you need BOTH free time and money to do as you please. No wonder you are a lonely, you come from a fucked up family and do nothing but work vidya and sleep.

Is it possible for you to be a NEET or have a work-life balance lifestyle instead of being a selarycuck? If not just take a sabaatical, like a 5 month vacation where you travel the world, meet people and find yourself
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I see these super wealthy guys around here from time to time, but they never give me any money. It's weird, they have so much, but won't part ways with it.

How about this: Think of me as a hobby of sorts. I've got my own aspirations and shit. It'd be like watching an ant farm, except it'd be me, trying to sort my life out. Doesn't that sound fun? I might even take chances and tell you about all the embarrassing failures. Maybe I could help you get a girl but I don't live around Cali so it might be a bit.

I've fallen so low that even begging doesn't bother me anymore. Neat.
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>>27209911
no discussion of memes, commiserating over your small dicks, drug hookups, blowjobs from skanky fembots? what's the point then?
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>>27210143
Traveling seems nice but I've already been to so many places. Have any suggestions on where to travel that doesn't include yachts or ski-resorts?

We're closing my office for the Easter week this year. I have a chance to go do something cool.

>>27210151
Not at all. We met at this cool little coffee shop. I go there from time to time now. Pushed a few tables together and fucked around on our phones.
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>>27209614
I'll hang out with you OP. We can get drunk and go have a wild time. Camping fishing, boozing and I'll bring the girls. I'll find you a white trash genuine gold digger in no time up here in Montana.
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>>27210140
Hmm, i guess it's something many people only can dream of, saying all theis troubles would give away etc, sadly it's not how it works though, i didnt get happy from wealth, but rather just my sister alone.

Well it did give me free choices in terms of cute dresses and such.

Just get out there with a smile, thats one of the more attractive features of most people after all.
Kudos to the friends helping the community.
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I don't know how you can be this rich and complain about your problems.
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A bloo bloo bloo my dad is rich and gave me everything but im still too autistic to get a girl hold me

Fuck off cunt get a grip
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>>27210060
>So they latch on to chads
The thing is, unless you have some crippling physical disorder or an actual mental disability - and I don't mean meme 'autism', I mean you have been diagnosed with severe Asperger's or something - you have all the resources you need to be a Chad. Go to the gym, start going to bars and chatting up sluts even if you have no intention of bringing them home -- lord knows you can afford to buy them a couple drinks. Don't think of it as being a beta cuck, think of it as a talking-to-women classroom and your tuition is only the cost of a couple drinks.

Now, if you do this and don't talk to them, you HAVE been cucked and it's not a meme. Just open your mouth about anything, it doesn't matter what, you can talk about goddamn trains at first. The important part is to get used to talking to women, eventually you'll learn what to talk about, unless you're actually retarded with a physical defect in your brain and not just an unsocialized shut-in.

Obviously you won't find your onetis at a bar, and god save you if you do. But you'll know how to talk to both men and women better, so that when you meet people you actually enjoy socializing with you're capable of opening conversations with more than a "y-you too!"

Also, all the anons telling you to pretend you don't have money are probably right. But there's a difference between offering to buy someone a drink or cover lunch (whether it's a bro or a hoe) and offering to buy them a computer or paying for their vacation. Be polite, but don't be a cuck about it.
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>>27210224
OP I would personally recommend Nepal or Tibet. Wonderful places that I haven't been to since I was young. I've been saving up to go there again but low paying job meme and rent. Beautiful place and people.
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This is going to fall on deaf ears but fuck it, if you're a genuine billionaire then its worth a shot.

I'm a poor white piece of shit robot who's only dream in life is to write and direct movies. That's it. All I want to do is share stories with people.

Sadly, because of my shit financial status, I have no connections and I cannot chase my dream because I have no money to fall back on. I need to get a real degree, then get a real job and try to get farther than my parents ever did.

I guess what I'm saying is, if you want a friend and go on wacky misadventures funding shitty movies written by a robot, then I'm down.
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>>27209614
Well at least you're not paranoid about it, so you can still make friends.

Good luck. Life is weird.
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Sounds like your a prime candidate to go full Rodge my man.

leave your money to me first
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>>27209687
>obscenely rich
>I don't feel very charitable right now
Every time. Rich kids are utter scum.
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Ever seen Can't Buy Me Love?

Ride off into the sunset on your fucking lawnmower anon
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>>27210358
Thanks man. I'll do some research.

>>27210379
For real, go to a film school. Get in with some crazy students who want to make films and have them produce your scripts with you.

Work your way through film festivals. The ultimate goal is Sundance.

People think living in LA and begging people to read their script is the answer. Festivals are like combines to producers and studios.
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this thread conjures an odd mix of envy, anger, and depression
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>>27210224
Go on organized cultural tours where you interact with the natives, eat strange food, partake in many recreational activities, experience art, etc. May want to look into small remote islands (Micronesia, Palau, Philippines, Indonesia, Japan etc). I dunno man. I never traveled because I'm poor, but one thing I would like to do is take one of those govt approved 10 day trips to Cuba.

Butt seriously, do you think you would be happier if you could be NEET or only work part time? Granted you would be more miserable if you just play vidya, fap and shitpost, but so much more happier if you have things you actually enjoy and are passionate about that aren't just a distraction/fantasy/escape mechanism
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>>27210480

>film school

That's the issue. I can't because of my social status. I need to get an honest job.

I do hound festivals when I can though.
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>>27209614
Hey anon, are you still here? could you help me?
I'm stuck in South America. I finally saved up enough to fly back home but I don't have a credit card and my family/friends turned their backs on me long ago (which kinda explain why I'm still here)
I can find a way to pay you through paypal or something, I'm desperate as fuck.
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>>27209614
I will get to know the real you in exchange for a beach vacation together, what do you say? I'm a 20 y/o female if this sweetens the deal at all.
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Why don't you try hiding your wealth from normies? Like just be casual.
With money people will always view you differently, same goes for those who are poor.
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Easy, quit that job like seriously, get a 9 to 5 and 5,000 to 10,000 car and shop cloths at mid range stores, I mean you want people to actual like you yh? to see if you are decent yh? but before you start this ask yourself do the people you work with actual like you.
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>>27210532
>>27210379

Are you Dawson Leery?


>>27210536
story required

>>27210573
tits or gtfo

butt seriously though, I'm one of the happiest robots here, NEET, autism, virgin, etc but actually happy. I can show you the way, if you want to take a trip to California. We can even drive to Santa Barbara listening to 80s music and checking out spots Elliot wrote about and filmed himself
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>>27210647
>NEET
Did you not say you manage an office?
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>>27210623
Because assuming he has to dress up nice for work and since he spends most of his life working, he will be seen looking like the wealthy professional he is and attract gold diggers and gimmedats.

>>27210627
why doesn't he just downshift to a part time/seasonal position instead of the stress and time commitment of a manager, invest his wealth to grow a nest egg and milk it for passive income to live a leisurely life full of fun and joy
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>>27210647
I'm down for a trip to CA
Then Nepal :^))
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>>27210647

to be honest I can see the comparison.

Not aesthetically though.
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Please help me pay some loans.
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I'm a girl in Canada on the west side. I'm pretty lonely too and miss cuddling and falling asleep with someone then waking up to make breakfast together and going on a walk... I have the place to myself for a bit, come stay with me for a bit. I don't care about your money but you'll have to pay for your own travel expenses.
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go to some third world country as a tourist and pick up someone you KNOW is a gold digger, but for very good reasons. to them every american is a billionaire anyways, so you're not any different
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>>27210746
>I don't care about your money
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>>27210699
Thats what OP does. I live in my widowed mother's living room, and spend my days shitposting, watching TV, going for long walks outside, eating good food and an active member of a local yoga and meditation community. I am happy because I don't compare myself to or compete with other men, I don't base my self worth on whether women love or are attracted to mek, and I don't care about how feminine, masculine, mature or childish I am
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>>27210647
Do you have a throw away email I can send my detailed, tragic story to?
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>>27210759
I am working with a CEO with investments and stock trading and will have university paid for... I only pay for rent and groceries, a few steam games a year... I have enough money and more than enough stuff.
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you will never grasp how easy and good your life is

like, you might "get it", but you'll never GET IT
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>>27209614
Buy me Morrowind on Steam pls senpai
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>>27209614
MAKE ANIME GREAT AGAIN.
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>>27210807
>I am working with a CEO with investments and stock trading
What, in his bed as he has his tablet out? Reading over his shoulder after a hard fuck doesn't count, sweetie
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>>27209903
oh wow what a great post. t. no one
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>>27210711
eh, I hear Nepal is pretty violent and the water is polluted with extreme levels of fluoride, far worse than they put in the water deliberately in Los Angeles.

There are lots and lots of interesting islands in the Pacific, many are US territories and protectorates.

Anyways I explained myself well here if you would consider it for real. I myself don't even have car, license or passport yet though.
>>27210797
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>>27210703
its not bout money its bout not being lonely, but to be honest its not money it up to the individual weather or not your lonely others will always care bout status.
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>Buy frozen eggs from 5'10" Ivy League girl
>Get them fertilized with your sperm
>Get test tube babies implanted in surrogate
>Hire QT young Latina nanny
>Enjoy your new family
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>>27210820
real talk, if OP is around, don't you have any love for things? you said you liked vidya. maybe look into starting a vidya startup. You'll get to call the shots and be surrounded by like minded people. I hope i have enough money someday where i can hire people to make animu. I'd be really happy if i could finance and make money in the animu business.
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>>27209614
Maybe you should change your conversation starter from "Hi, I'm rich (and my name is Anon)" to something actual people say.
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>>27210814
Please man ;_;

Im a poorfag from Brazil who can even speak to anyone without looking like a retard

Im virgin and miserable, make this existance less painful for me

im sorry
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>>27209901
>i want to climb to the top of the highest mountain and proclaim "fuck you OP"

I'm imaging some fat neckbeard spending all his neetbux on climbing gear, flying to Nepal, bracing the cold, frostbite, reaches the peak.
Then just screams "FUCK YOU, OP"
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>>27210828
I replied to OP because he doesn't seem like a cynical idiot which is majority of this board. I have no idea what you even just said. You should try not getting angry over something you read online, let alone a post that was not even directed at you.
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Richfags can not be robots.
Fuck off.
I've been eating expired Vienna sausages since Christmas
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>>27209614
Read more Aryan Rand and embrace your richness
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Please help me pay of loans OP.
It would be insignificant amount of your wealth.
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i'm sorry, OP.
now you see the reality of life. just because a scenario is typical, even probable, doesn't mean that's how it's gonna play out.
like you'd think you'd be happy, right? no one said anything about trust or the duality of conscience, where you can be wealthy, but also suffer the burden of it.
you're not a bad person and you deserve someone just as much as any of us.
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Well, I'd try being your friend. I'm good at getting along with other people and you probably have an interesting perspective on life, kind of like living in a different world. It'd be interesting to chat at least.

Also, just to get this out of the way: I don't give a shit about your money. For all intents and purposes, I am immune to wealth. I cannot be bought. And that's a rare trait, isn't it? You would probably know better than anyone else how susceptible most people are to money.
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That sounds awful. I'll take the burden and trade places with you, OP. You don't deserve to suffer like that,
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Hey guys. OP here. Forgot to tell you I was signing out. Thanks for the lift. Gonna buy some normal clothes when I get off tomorrow.

Maybe buy a motorcycle soon too. They've always seemed fun.

>>27210746
>>27210807
>>27211005
If you ever see a similar thread and still want to meet up post "Something wrong blondy?" I'll find a way to contact you privately if I want to.
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If I were you I'd be in Europe backpacking right now.

Fuck you OP, I'm wage slaving away for another $4000.
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>>27210805
[email protected]

>>27210893
lonely is a subjective state. Some people can be lonely even constantly with friends, others don't talk to anyone for weeks and don't feel lonely, to use extreme examples.

My points are firstly that its easier to feel lonely when you work full time, because as you experienced, it takes up most of your time and for introverts it drains you so you need to go unwind alone with vidya, fapping, internets, etc. than if you had more free time in your life to live a slower pace of life and do things that are enjoyable for you. The other part is that you have to learn to be completely and utterly happy alone first, then you will be a whole person that is fun to be around, not a lonely person looking to others to fill a void in your life and boost your ego.
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>>27211101
I don't visit r9k as often... I have a throwaway E-mail: [email protected]
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>>27211103
>backpack in europe
>get gang raped and killed by muslims
At this point you might as well backpack in Somalia if you want to see "colorful people".
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>>27211101
All right, have a good night then robot.
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>>27209614
>>How do I stop being so lonely?
you face your solitude and meditate to better see that hedonism is not the answer to be happy.

there are many books, talks and videos on the dhamma, so I cannot list all.
I give a bit of everything, in the school called the theravadan. this school is the most straightforward and does not insist on ''the vacuity (of personality and permanence) '', like the Zen buddhists and the tibetans love to talk on, but it remains the same (the practices preliminary to the jhanas [=the practice of morality in daily life] differ a lot though)
this is the first thing to take: watch videos of these retreats, especially the Q&A. this monk is famous and easy to follow. he is a good introduction, with some hippies flavors. he is quite rigorous in demanding that the jhanas are states where you no longer feel the 6 senses [people tend to lower the bar of these states, but they still call them jhanas]
watch first videos of talks during a retreat
https://www.youtube.com/user/AjahnBrahmRetreats/videos

another first thing to watch:
a short video on the jhanas
[YouTube] What is Jhana? By Ven. Henepola Gunaratana Nayaka Maha Thera(Bhante G) (embed)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Lv0PFLZ12o

[YouTube] Bhante Gunaratana (1) What is samatha-vipassana? Part 1: samatha (embed)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JaFOjJtEd2g
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ESQOi9djyaA
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=41NpmB2le3I
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=div3NnAIoYU
and all the others videos from this series

The Jhanas in Theravada Buddhist Meditation by Henepola Gunaratana
http://www.accesstoinsight.org/lib/authors/gunaratana/wheel351.html
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>>27211132
>you have to learn to be completely and utterly happy alone first
how?

I've always been a loner but for the past year I've been 100% completely alone. I'm not happy, I'm on the brink of putting a fucking bullet in my skull.
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>>27211157


Mindfulness in plain English, Bhante Henepola Gunaratana.
http://www.urbandharma.org/pdf2/Mindfulness%20in%20Plain%20English%20Book%20Preview.pdf
http://www.vipassana.com/meditation/mindfulness_in_plain_english.php

Beyond Mindfulness in Plain English: An Introductory Guide to Deeper States of Meditation, Book by Henepola Gunaratana
http://www.wisdompubs.org/sites/default/files/preview/Beyond%20Mindfulness%20Book%20Preview.pdf

>This site is dedicated to the teachings of Venerable Ayya Khema (1923-1997), a Theravada Buddhist nun ordained in Sri Lanka . Her teachings (which were prolific) describe simple and effective meditation methods for development of calm and insight, for expanding feelings of loving-kindness, compassion, joy and equanimity towards others, and for overcoming obstacles to practice. She also gives detailed and lucid instructions for the meditative absorptions (jhanas) which provide access to higher states of consciousness, the way the Buddha himself practiced.
http://ayyakhematalks.org/

>insisting on the setting the samatha first, this book recast the use of the mindfulness through the three angas, [swift introduction to the various sources PLUS good introduction to ''mindfulness'']
A History of Mindfulness Bhikkhu Sujato.pdf
http://santifm.org/santipada/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/A_History_of_Mindfulness_Bhikkhu_Sujato.pdf
>Moment to Moment Mindfulness, A PICTORIAL MANUAL FOR MEDITATORS, Achan Sobin S. Namto
http://vipassanadhura.com/momenttomoment.htm
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>>27211169
It's what we call "stupid normie advice" on this board, because normies think being happy in the few hours you are on your own, when you have friends who love you and are just one phone call away, is the same as "being happy alone".
When somebody unloads this BS on you, you just scream REEEEEEEEEE as loud as you can and they will run away.
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>>27211169
Well the post above you is very thorough. If I could try to explain my own process concisely though it would be:

>develop an internal sense of self worth and unconditional self love that is not affected by anything external to you such as other people or life circumstances
Obvious first step to happiness is this, just stop caring what people think and love yourself

>realize that being alone is not a problem and not why you feel bad, you feel bad because you severely inflate the perceived value of companionship, and you entire focus is about how you lack that
If you feel like shit now, you will still feel like shit if you have friends and gf even. Cease to use alone-ness as an excuse for your state of mind and emotions, which are in your control

>develop a sense of oneness with mother nature, see yourself as an integral part of the earth and the universe. Be grateful for everything you do have and everything that you don't have. Don't hate or judge other people, and likewise yourself, instead forgive yourself when you disappoint yourself and see everything that you do and happens to you as a valuable learning experience.
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Stupid normie advice is like just talk to people, be yourself, take initiative... I don't think I am some special enlightened person, but I do have much wisdom with regard to living a peaceful and happy life, one in which you would fare better to develop rock solid internal happiness and still be a loner than to end up being social but still depending upon external validation from people rather than being in control of your own thoughts and emotions/. Not saying you shouldn't make friends and have romantic experiences if they are available to you, but you need not suffer in their absence, and as I mentioned earlier- Instead of seeking out people to fill the depressing void in your life, when you feel happy and complete, you have a personality that attracts people, makes them want to talk to you, get to know you and spend time with you instead of run away from the smell of your desperation.
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>>27210145
>why won't people give me money for existing???
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>>27209614

It seems like, with that amount of dosh, it wouldn't take much more than some imagination to hide your richness and quest for women without the attached stigma/insecurity.

Then you can come out about it 6 months into the relationship or whatever. It'll be like when a girl gets far into the relationship and then finds a bunch of garters and corsets in the dude's closet, except the good version because she's banging this poorfag and then suddenly he turns out to be rich.
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>Obvious first step to happiness is this, just stop caring what people think and love yourself
I really don't know how to do that

If no one else can love me, how can I love myself? How am I worth loving? If I'm worth loving, why can no one else see it?
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>>27211394
>I'm a huge normie, the post
Seriously though, you can't be happy when you are unintentionally alone and you can't be intentionally alone if nobody likes you anyways. If you were a robot you would understand.
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>>27211407
>yfw it's exactly what a women's life is like
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>>27211473
You make yourself believe that you are

see this post from 4 years ago

>>27211486
You can realize that how physically alone you are, and how lonely you feel both are a lot more personal choices than you realize.
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>>27211101
>maybe buy a motorcycle

young anon of the billionaire anon was killed this morning driving his new motorcycle when he collided with . . . .
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>>27211473
>>27211169
you are not happy because you take seriously what you feel and what you think.
=>leave room between what you think, what you think and what you believe is your self.

this is done in meditation.>>27211157
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>>27209614
Become a pro-Palestine activist. Watch all the gold diggers fade away as you become more vocal. Get involved with organizations like Jewish Voice for Peace, those are genuine people. If they were in it for the money, they would have just joined some zionist organization or kept quiet. Now you'll be on blacklists and watchlists and get to experience all the drama that entails. Wake up everyday with a sense of purpose.
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>>27211851
You could use your money to free Europe from the muslim invasion. But I doubt you can outmoney Soros.
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>>27209614
Yo wanna be friends OP lets play league :)
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>>27211851
>>27212122

If we're throwing out political goals, why not become an anti-circumcision dude in the US? It's an unexplored field with high emotional kick and it's sure to cause controversy.

But only if you're campaigning to ban circumcision below the age of 18 completely. That's when suddenly Jews, Catholics, Protestants, doctors and beauty product companies will all turn on you in unison.
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Hey OP if you like building computers we could be Skype friends and talk about technology and stuff, I'll even help you get a super good computer build and do cool stuff with gadgets
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>not using rich money to buy drugs and some cabin in the woods with high speed for darknet drugs and mail order bride delivery

Money is wasted on the unimaginative.
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