A girl told me this the other day
>A guy being friend zoned is the girl equivalent to becoming fuck-buddies when you want a relationship
I told her
>When a guy gets friend zoned, he gets no sex
>When a girl becomes a fuckbuddy she gets all the sex she wants
She still says they're equivalent
How is this equivalent?
in a woman's mind it is equivalent
women don't care as much about sex as men, but they do care about having a guy who will buy them shit and all that lovey dovey shit.
so, friendzoned=all the emotional shit with no sex, FWB=sex with no emotional attachment
so yea, it is kind of equivalent, in the fucked up female brain kind of way.
>>27196411
because they dont have testicles making sex the single most important aspect of existence.
>>27196411
It is equivalent, but men still have it worse. Women who are fuckbuddies get fucked FOR REAL
friendzoned men do not get real fucking friendship
Also
>listening to girls
They aren't equivalent. Just typical female bullshit. Ignore her.
>>27196458
This. Relative to their priorities it is similar.
value is tied to scarcity. You don't care that a few feet away from you is a tap with limitless clean drinking water but there are villages full of africans who would wet themselves over excitement at having that. Same with sex with women they can literally get it any time and place so it has no value.
most women would rather peel gum off the sidewalk and eat it than have casual sex because of all the risk factors for women and the fact that masturbation is better than sex for females (unless the guy is REALLY hot, no point in risking STDS, pregnancy, infections, having to be on birth control, ect.)
it's like a girl telling you no relationship but you can still buy me stuff all you want, whenever you want!
>>27196411
Men want sex, women want resources, obviously women enjoy sex and men enjoy resources, but the primary goal of the sexes is different, that is how it is the same.
>Friend zone, gives resources but no sex in return
>fuck zone, gives sex but no resources
In return
>>27197004
This all day. Ladies don't really want sex. It just isn't that great for them.
>be myself as a virgin
>watch lots of porn
>the lady in the porn screams in extacy the whole time
>spend years thinking sex is amazing
>finally have sex one day
>start the foreplay, its eh
>oh yes hes going to stick it in
>hurts at the beginning
>he starts pumping away
>feels like nothing other than a painful stretching/pulling feeling, no pleasure at all
>pretend to like it because it's awkward being dead silent and he seems to be enjoying it very much and don't want to be a buzzkill
>it goes on for about 20 minutes, looking forward to the end
>repeat every time I have sex
>>27197110
You are doing it wrong
Desu
>>27196411
It's 100% true. The girl knows what's up.
>>27197056
The friend zone doesnt give the man resources, though. It gives nothing to him.
all gender dynamics can be explained by how childbirth can kill a woman while a man can potentially get thousands of women pregnant
because to a guy its a hit to the ego if a girl only wants to have an emotional relationship but not have sex because thats your biology is screaming at you to do so you get butthurt when it doesnt happen
to a girl it's a hit to the ego if a guy only wants to have sex without an emotional relationship because if she gets pumped and dumped she might fucking starve to death for 99% of human existance
>>27196458
this, actually. women are less interested in sex and more interested in relationships
>>27197158
Are you stupid? That is the fucking point
>friend zone, man gives woman resources with no sex in return
>fuck buds, woman gives man sex with no resources in return
Idk how to explain that any simpler
>>27197192
just one thing
don't mistake the whole 'women being more interested in relationships' to mean that men don't care about relationships. that couldn't be further than the truth.
the drive is about the same for both to want to be in a relationship, but men just want and care more about sex than women.
>>27196411
this is completely true.
Also, the male equivalent of a slut is a guy who gives commitment easily
>>27197238
i never said men don't care about relationships, but men are more interested in sex that women, while women are more interested in the emotional shit
>>27197268
im just saying, a lot of people seem to think men just give a shit about sticking their dick in things
its just not the case unless we're talking about pretty boy fuck toys
>>27197192
>>27196458
>>27196411
>tfw a girl used me as her fuck toy and when I wanted to be in a relationship with her she put me in the friendzone
EVERYTHING IS WRONG
>>27197110
That sounds extremely depressing and your experience is in no way representative for 50% of the population. All the women I know, including myself, HIGHLY enjoy sex and talk about is as much as men do. It's the best feeling in the world for me. So I'm sorry you feel that way, but something is wrong with you, it's not natural and women are biologically supposed to enjoy sex too, girl. Go see a gyno or get a new partner.
>>27197110
look at this cutfag
>>27197289
that's because only fags are interested in relationships
>>27197289
how do you fail so hard that you go from a fuck toy to getting friendzoned?
what the fuck
>>27197295
>HIGHLY enjoy sex
can this meme please end
we all know this is a lie
Ive friendzoned atleast 4 girls in my life. The girl youre talking to is just a roastie hoe
Thanks again /r9k/ for reminding me I'm as weak as i could be
fuck you cunts are sad. you'll hate just yourselves
turn your pc off.
start eating whole foods
do some exercise TODAY, and everyday after that
how do you expect to enjoy this ride when you don't take care of your flesh vehicle? The land of milk(serotonin) and honey(endogenous dmt) is just around the corner if you put some effort in.
>>27197380
>take care of your flesh vehicle
I take care of your mom's flesh vehicle
>>27197346
>Ive friendzoned atleast 4 girls in my life. The girl youre talking to is just a roastie hoe
Of course, the opposite cases happen a lot too. But it's generally true. Most guys fuck a lot of girls that are interested in the guys without committing to them before they find a girl that they regard as relationship material. Most girls friendzone a lot of guys who are interested in them before they find a guy they want to date. Of course, many guys don't even want to fuck all of the girls they could for different reasons. And of course many women will sleep with hot guys that they wouldn't want to date.
>>27197128
there doesn't seem to be much margin for error, he sticks his cock into the hole
>>27197337
I'm sorry that you've never pleased a woman, but the first time a man made me cum, I saw stars and nearly passed out. It was an out of this world experience, and I've been nearly addicted since. The feeling of two bodies being so close, his touch, our intimacy, his cock inside of me - nothing can compare. I have female friends who've been in long-term relationships and female friends who've had >50 one night stands, only with the intention of getting laid and never seeing the man again (why do that if you didn't HIGHLY enjoy sex?), all of whom agree that sex is VERY important. I know couples who've broken up because the guys were terrible in bed or lasted very shortly, which means that it's pretty darn important to girls too.
Your response says something about YOU and your skills, not 50% of the earth's population, man. Girls LOVE sex if they're with a guy who can please them. Sorry you've never experienced that.
>>27197484
There's more to sex, man, it sounds like you're both terrible in bed and that you're not attracted to him. It's super sad and not the way it's supposed to be. I can guarantee you that's NOT normal.
>>27197503
yeah yeah we get it: your daddy raped you
>>27196458
They only care less about sex because they can get it whenever they want. Its not that they don't want it any less than a guy
>>27197503
pretty solid bait
7.5/10
>>27196411
Because the relationship is the important part to women, not the sex.
>Girl who's just a fuckbuddy
>No relationship, even though having one is priority #1 to her; has all the sex she wants, which is nice, but is what she wants as part of a relationship
>Guy stuck in the friendzone
>No sex, even though having it is priority #1 to him; has all the touchy-feely conversation stuff, which is something he wants with sex
And if you don't want the touchy-feely stuff but you're still dealing with her, you're just a cuck.
>>27197536
Nope. Love my dad, had a normal childhood, lost my virginity at 16 to my first boyfriend. He was a few years older than me, it was wonderful and I'll cherish it forever. You think only incest and rape victims enjoy sex? That's pretty screwed up. I think it's the opposite.
>>27197558
It's pretty sad that some men actually are so bad in bed they believe that woman can't enjoy sex. Or never had sex before, but assume women don't enjoy it to make themselves feel better, I guess? The female orgasm is VERY strong. Don't you have any female friends who speaks about sex? This is my first visit on this board, is it primarily for virgins/angry teenagers or what?
Guys, if you don't think women enjoy sex, why do you think so many girls have casual sex?
>>27197734
so did your dad rape you in the ass or fish hole?
>sex doesn't matter to women
>they just want romance
kek
women want validation. sex is validation. maybe they want even more validation but to say sex is nothing is just laughable. if a girl doesn't have sex or cuddle for a while you will hear about her being depressed because of it.
>>27197314
IF WANTING TO BE LOVED BY A GIRL IS GAY, THEN THROW ME INTO THE PRIDE PARADE SENPAI
>>27197317
I KNOW RIGHT? ICARUS AS FUCK. I COULDN'T LEAVE WELL ENOUGH ALONE I JUST WANTED TO HOLD HER IN MY ARMS AND WATCH THE SUN RISE AFTER SLAMMING HER HOLE ALL NIGHT LONG BUT I RUINED EVERYTHING FOREVER BECAUSE OF THAT
>>27197734
>This is my first visit on this board,
kek
fuck off to /soc/ because you clearly don't understand the bantz here
The girl probably thinks she's so incredibly interesting that just being her friend is better than being friends with a guy and having sex with him.
That's bullshit.
>>27197110
>GIRL REPORTING IN
Every thread, every time.
>>27196458
>he has fwb relationships where you just do sex
No that's not normal. That's called a bootycall. They're just on your bootycall list.
>>27197748
>>27197822
Nope, I clearly don't understand the bantz, mate. It's not really funny, it's just depressing and hateful, reminds me of neckbeards on Reddit who complain about being "forever alone" because women friendzone them. It's pretty pathetic man.
>>27196411
>When a guy gets friend zoned, he gets no sex
Well he does get the emotional side of things, so it's symmetric.
>>27197883
did your daddy stink a finger in your ass while he forced you to blow him?
>>27197914
I know you're trolling, but you're not getting a reaction out of me, man. I just feel kind of sorry for you, do you have an incest fetish or something?
>>27197883
either lurk more or go to /soc/
no one is interested in listening to your dumblrina normie shit
>>27197895
>he does get the emotional side of things
a friendzone guy doesn't get jack shit. most guys on the friendzone won't even receive hugs. they'll just have a girl who occasionally pretends to care about them but any halfway intelligent man will see that their nothing more than an emotional dumping ground.
>>27197949
did he make you spit or swallow?
>>27197203
That's not the problem.
The problem is Men want sex, and don't get it. Women want resources, don't get it, but a great majority still enjoy sex. They're still making out in the end.
Living young, wild, and free is popular for a reason.
>>27197959
"Normie shit"? So you think you're a different special snowflake who deserve your very own ~not like other people~board just because you can't get laid?
>>27198017
do you still dream about your daddy's cock in our ass?
>>27198017
yes i am a a strong independent man and i dont need no normie woman on my board
this is amusing
>>27197734
>He was a few years older than me, it was wonderful and I'll cherish it forever
And this is why you never date girls who are not virgins.
>>27197503
From someone who's over 25 with no sex drive, it always fascinates me to read this.
Kinda makes me feel like I'm missing out. But it ultimately doesn't matter. Those who have wildly amazing sex tend to have wild cravings for it. Without that, I'm not really missing much.
>>27198064
it's either bait or something written by a typical whore
>>27197895
>Well he does get the emotional side of things
>Hey anon, does this dress look nice for Chad?
>Yeah me and Chad went at it all night! I'm soooo tired!
>Haha netflix
>Haha close right?
>Hahahsdjlgirghleirhilergergge
>>27198037
In our ass? I don't remember any sexual encounter with my dad, but man, he's fucked you too? What a slut my dad is, anon.
>>27198058
You must be super insecure if you think cherishing something as a memory makes other experiences less special, man. My current boyfriend and I both have had sex with other people before, it doesn't mean anything, we've met each others ex-parters too, no hard feelings and we're all on good terms. We're adults about it. I don't know any virgins who are older than 18, so should people find the person they're spending the rest of their life with in high school?
>>27198064
Well, if you have no sex drive, it probably wouldn't be as enjoyable. I have a high libido, but I also really enjoy the intimacy and tenderness of him being inside me. Just looking into your loved one's eyes while they make you cum is a fucking WILD experience. And yeah, the better sex you have, the more you crave it! It's like an addiction.
>>27198180
femanon here
you're a stacy whore and you should leave
>>27198223
>>27198180
Santa Claus here, go fucking kill yourselves
>>27198180
your dad molested many kid in your neighbourhood
that's how he got aids
you should get tested
>>27198180
>haha virgins
normie, please go.
>>27198275
b-but i'm on y-your side anon
i swear im not like the other girls!
>>27198180
No hymen. No diamonds.
Dont date an used up slut.
>>27197110
>Ladies don't really want sex. It just isn't that great for them.
Lol, not if it's with you maybe.
>>27197503
Good sex is goddamn ETHEREAL. Robots gonna cry
>>27198384
you do realize that post was apparently written by a girl right
>>27197295
Can you get out too and go back to tumblr?
>>27198223
Sure you are. Lmao.
>>27198382
Good luck finding a virgin if you're over 20, man.
>>27198491
>tell a girl that sex should be enjoyable for her too and she might ought to contact a gyno
>RAAAA DUMBLRINA WHOORE GO BACK 2 TUMBLR
topkek'd anon
>>27198554
these baits are getting weaker every post
come on dude i want to be triggered
>>27197503
It's a fact that women don't like sex. A lot of girls haven't even had an orgasm.
>>27196458
>women don't care as much about sex as men
Wrong. My oneitis loves sex more than anything in the world. So does a good friend of mine.
Most women don't show it openly, but they care about sex just as much as men do.
