> yourbrainonporn.com
>This website basically tells me I'm a socially awkward depressed robot because I spend countless hours a day masturbating to hardcore shemale porn and hentai
> Tells me my life could become a living dream just by quitting porn
Is this shit true, /r9k/ ? My life has been total shit for years and I need this to change. Never tried to stop porn because I didn't know it could turn me into this.
Yes it's true.
blox
>>27149957
I've never been much into porn but I used to struggle with getting women a lot. I think it is easier to be assertive and sexual with women if you haven't masturbated in a while in general.
True /thread
No it's mostly bullshit.
At most your voice will be slightly deeper and you'll get a bit more confidence but thats it.
Don't know if it's just me but I'm constantly angry on nofap.
>>27149957
that's run by religious freaksbut 100% true
>>27150012
>being religious is bad
found the fedora
Yeah, basically.
Even if it doesn't help you get women, quitting hardcore porn is still good for you.
>>27150006
>I'm constantly angry on nofap.
I just get more nervous and do stuff to keep my mind off fapping on nofap. I recently started playing vidya again to keep my urges in check. I only fap on weekends once a day now. It really does wonders.
>>27149957
No, it's ridiculous. Not masturbating will just increase your frustration a thousand times. I tried it last summer to treat my problems with erection and other mental issues connected with sexuality. It did nothing but make me neurotic and even more crazy. Those people just want to generate clicks and views on their website and sell you a book or two to get money out of desperate loosers that think something like masturbation could be the foundation of their life problems.
Stupid fucking people...
No it makes no difference. Everyone masturbates to porn, but it's only you who isn't getting laid
>>27150075
"I tried to quit smoking but there are no health benefits because withdrawal sucks!"
>>27149986
>>27150006
>>27150051
>>27150075
Who talked about not masturbating ? If anything this website is about quitting PORN, which is completely different.
People have been masturbating for thousand of years. Jerking your deek while watching several videos of girls getting hardgangbanged n shit is something quite new to the brain - and unhealthy.
its actually the porn which is an issue not fapping.
people should fap with their imaginations or at least go softcore.
Lately I've been masturbating up until just before orgasm (stopping before I cum) and then going to sleep, once a day. Before that I was masturbating about 4-6 times a day. I don't watch pornography generally, but I feel much better doing it this way.
>>27150075
>>27150089
>>27150051
>>27150006
Found the 9 times a day jerk offs.
>>27150099
False equivalency. Smoking causes lots of harm you can directly feel, i know because i used to smoke for a decade or so. I felt many benefits and also cons of quitting. Stopping masturbation did nothing to improve my condition.
>>27150112
Well good luck not relapsing into porn trying to masturbate. It goes hand in hand nowdays.
>>27150117
I barely jerk off once a day, project more faggot.
>>27150117
Found the trolley
>>27150127
if you can't masturbate without looking at porn you are definitely broken in the head
>>27149957
Nah I was even more of a fucking loser AND fatter before I jerked off 3-6 times a night to degenerate porn
This is literally Christian lies
>>27150117
You can't read texts fully, can you? Nice bait. 6/10
>2016
>beyond 2012
>wanking to porn
The best approach is, wank as much as you desire, but do it wiyhout imagining porn. Just keep your mind blank keep steoking your dick until you cum then get on with your day.
Dont even edge, just go to wherever you go and jack off > cum > move in.
That way you dont get post-wank regret or something other bullshit.
Nofap is fucking stupid because the idea is to challenge a prevelant aspect where a lot males has very little control over so the nofap phemnomenon is like telling you "hahahha faggot i bet you cant atop fapping" and being the typical "i feel the need to prove myself" mindset of 16-20s year olds, they get bought into the nofap bullshit
Tldr: watching a lot of porn and fapping is better than not
>>27149957
>Trying to quit porn
I'm on day 2, I've had my hand on my cock all morning but not once fapped, this is so fucking difficult.
SJW's say white people don't know about struggles and stuff, well this is a real fucking struggle, the slavery to pornography is real.
Here is what I know about masturbation anyways, it makes you feel good when you cum and then you get a comedown where you feel like shit for maybe 2 weeks, within that 2 weeks you feel depressed and the only way you know how to feel good is to masturbate to porn until you cum, then you feel good again.
It's a vicious cycle and I admire anyway who gets rid of their chains once and for all!
>>27150127
>It goes hand in hand nowdays
That's the reason why people must stop porn, and believe me, it will be difficult. I can masturbate without porn now, and I'm perfectly ok with my life.
When I first started fapping to porn (I was maybe 13 or 14) it was cool n shit but then I turned 20 and I suddenly felt like a massive piece of shit for no apparent reason. Stopped porn forever and masturbation for a few months (shit was a living hell), then went back to masturbation without porn and everything is fine nowadays.
>>27149957
why do I always fall for this meme
>>27150152
>16-20s year olds, they get bought into the nofap bullshit
http://www.yourbrainrebalanced.com/index.php
Literally more than 170000 posts in the 25-29/30-39/40+ journals.
>>27149957
>nofap + noporn
>new hentai game comes out
>keep seeing porn posted in every general I frequent
help
>>27150144
lol okay me and every other male living in 2016
>>27150171
it's just a placebo that won't last for many people including me not watching porn means not seeing a naked woman ever again that's just bad in every way imaginable
I went months without fapping and now I do it like once or twice a week.
I'm 25 and kv, nothing changes.
You have more time to do other things, but that's it.
Also orgasms are way better after a long period of no orgasms.
>>27150116
>Lately I've been masturbating up until just before orgasm (stopping before I cum) and then going to sleep, once a day.
This is actually bad for you as well. Read up on it. The only 'normal' masturbation is by imagination, or with a photo, nothing that will make your brain shit itself like a full on porn movie (or multiple windows open at the same time!), withing a normal duration between 5-20 minutes, and then climax. Everything else is just gonna harm your sex drive in the long run
>>27150205
Yourbrainonporn articles has never if not rarely used the term fap/fapped/fapping/etc.
They advocate a less linear goal oriented approach as opposed to what the 16-20s are thinking. Take this guy for example >>27150164
>i've had my hand on my cock all morning
Hes already doing it wrong.
The thing is a lot of you people are taking the 'so long as i dont cum, im winning' approach, and id venture to say most of those people with at sort of linear mindset are in the 16-20s ange, whereas the link you posted have people ttying to fix this issue differently.
In short, you are wrong.
>>27150246
>lol okay me and every other male living in 2016
and how are you not bothered by this? the fact that I can't fap without porn disgusts me.
>>27150127
>once a day
You realize those "normies" and "chads" jerk off like once a month right?
I'm in my 30s. I fap multiple times a day, sometimes to 2D, sometimes to 3D, sometimes to text, sometimes to my imagination. I have no problems getting hard.
I once tried nofap, and I lost my virginity because of it, but that was unusual circumstances and I think it's unlikely to work for anybody else. The only reason it even happened was because the girl already wanted me but I was too robot to notice. I told her about the nofap and she started flirting with me more in an attempt to make me fail. The nofap itself had no direct benefit.
>>27150034
But being religious is bad, believing in god isn't but religion is just a system of control for the masses
it's like the website wants to tell us that it's bait
>>27150285
I'm 28, I touch my dick when I pee so there's really nothing wrong with resting my hand on my dick, I am not masturbating or jerked it even though I am tempted to.
>>27150310
Not him, but do you not see your fallacy.? Whats exactly wrong wih being under a system of control?
Bullshit.
I know you guys fucking spend hours on porn, but I barely use it like once a week for 5 mins max.
And I'm at least as awkward, depressed and tired as anyone here.
Day 1 of nofap: No changes, feel depressed.
Day 2: Still no changes, ready to give up.
Day 3: I am getting stronger.
Day 4: I can lift the couch.
Day 5: I can lift the couch with one finger.
Day 6: I can get women into bed with just one wink.
Day 7: I can vibrate through walls.
>>27150335
Hey man, trying to convince me isnt going to hlp you. Just convince yourself that youre soing it right and move on
>>27150350
You use 4chan though which is the same shit, instant gratification
>>27150336
>Whats exactly wrong with being under a system of control?
The fact that you are letting other people make your life choices for you, when you decide to do something good its because the book said otherwise you would burn in fire for eternity, when you do something good its for the good boy points to heaven, believing in god is fine but letting religions dictate your life is silly, make your own choices in life as to what you should do and how you should act don't do it because of religious fear mongering/incentive pushing
>>27150287
>You realize those "normies" and "chads" jerk off like once a month right?
Hahah what the fuck?
Chad has very high test, he jerks off at the very least 2-3 times a day. Weak beta robots jerk off once a month.
>>27150366
So what are you going to do about it?
Dfbef
It's moralistic pseudo-science. The only way porn is going to harm your normal sexual function is if you use it compulsively.
>>27150378
Could we please stop with the high test/sex drive maymay? This board is for +18 only
>>27150281
>The only 'normal' masturbation is by imagination, or with a photo
> Everything else is just gonna harm your sex drive in the long run
On what are you basing this assertion?
>>27149957
>countless hours a day masturbating
Yea that would make a huge difference man. Don't you notice how tired you are after fapping multiple times?
No fap forever is retarded but just limit yourself to once a week or so and your T levels will be higher, you'll have better orgasms, and you'll have more energy. All of these things can help aid you in getting rid of depression.
>>27149957
Anyone have that video where it breaks down why it's bad on a neural level?
Long term use apparently fucks up your primitive brain functions and can't release enough dopamine to meet what your body has gotten use to by all the porn watching
It's very similar to the lab experiment where they hook up a rats brain to a button that just gave it dopamine with every push till the thing died.
Also the core argument wasn't porn is bad, porn addiction is.
>>27150394
The people on this boars are black and white, left to right, extreme spectrum thinkers. If they think they shouldnt watch porn, they believe they should cut it completely, despite never succeeding. This obvious phenomenon can already be shown with these two doofus-
>>27150378
>>27150287
One says once a month, the other says 3 times a day.
When you come on 4chan, just either lurk or argue&rekt idiots to give yourself an ego boost, doing anything with well meaning intentions will only leave you disillusioned
>>27150385
I won't do much about it, I might present this argument to someone once and if they don't buy it then whatever I won't hassle them with it again, people can be happy under religion but you can be just as happy without it and still believe in god, at the end of the day its probably the fear of not knowing what comes after death that makes him put his faith in religions which all promise afterlifes.
It's true but the Internet as a whole is almost as addicting as porn even without porn.
I'd really like to see the same brain studies compared between porn users and non porn Internet users.
I almost think that quitting porn does next to nothing and it's quitting all Internet use that would really male a difference
fun fact: everything is bad for you
suicide is the only answer
>>27150474
Dopamine untill you died, that sounds like a great way to go.
>>27150506
Your problem isnt with religion itself, your problem is them exerting control and influence, Alough a lot of people can live happily throught that
>>27150474
That literally describes 4chan. I'd be willing to say that waiting for replies to a thread is just as addicting as porn.
i don't get it.
i have a very high libido (SERMs and calisthenics made it worse)
but i literally never fap or look at porn. it's simple to do, unless you're literally cucked by your addiction
>>27150546
Thats because you dont know about anything of neurochemistry
>>27149957
I fucked up a relationship with the most beautiful smart girl I ever met.
Because of porn.
(Normie wah wah)
AMD I'm not the only one. Through sexaddict/pornaddict meeting I met so many people who ruined there lifes like I did.
This is no joke.
You have to realize that your futer wife/girlfriend WILL leave you for this.
Please at least try it.
>>27150559
Thats called a yearning, not an addiction.
I might as well add its similar to idiots who says free will doesnt exist to sound like mr.fedora
>>27150565
You can't die from too much dopamine? Explain.
>>27149957
Being a man is learning to balance jacking off with real sex, because the two are very different experiences, and both are important in my opinion, you just have to find the thin line and walk it my friend.
>>27150570
>leave you for this
what exactly?
>>27150570
How old were you when you started dating her and how long sis you date before you broke it off?
>>27150599
>that sounds like a great way to go.
Youre looking at it wrong
>>27150548
My problem is somewhat with religions facts as well but mostly the control part, a lot of the "facts" religion states have just been outright proven incorrect so I have difficulty believing in the legitimacy of any religious texts. I doubt the legitimacy of these texts but unlike fedoralord atheists I recognize the fact that their is no way to either prove or disprove a gods existence within our own lives at least so to swing 100% one way or the other is foolish
>>27150622
What would happen? Wouldn't you die happy?
>>27150448
Because this is literally the way males have done it for thousands of years, and then in a very short period of about 20 years (since the 90s when the internet and personal computers became popular) it has changed dramatically, with everyone having access to video material with content beyond their imagination. You really think this sudden shift will be anything but harmful to the human brain? IRL too but even here on /r9k/ I constantly hear stories about people in their 20s having erection problems, well where do you think it comes from? The issue is that its a problem so new that no adequate research and coverage has been done so far. In the end its up to you I guess
>>27150546
it'd be pretty horrifying because you hit a point of next to know returns on the pleasure and start feeling like you were starving, drowning and on fire at the same time. It is the worse way to go.
Also let it be a lesson that all things that look pleasurable at first have very high risks of making you worse in the end
take everything with caution
>>27150632
And yet you submit to the government/society/your own construct. Welcome to my punchline, fedoralord
>>27150650
Jesus that sounds fucking terrible.
Thanks for the answer senpai.
>>27150642
Protip: you will die happy through CO or NOS poisoning. Google/youtube if you want to look into it more
>>27150651
The difference is I have no choice of whether or not to submit to society and the government, if I didn't have to I wouldn't but if you shun society and the government you just end up as a homeless dying bum on the street
>>27150648
I think all Internet use is harmful in the same way as porn if you really think about it. The screen removes the work and patience of real contact or writing.
Maybe going no tech is really a better idea. It's basically true that everything on the Internet could be just as damaging. Think about 4chan. It's literally the equivalent of porn for conversation. And Google is the same for information. It's all not something the brain is built to handle.
>>27150650
Reminds me of Wheatley doing testing
>>27150604
I think she knew from the beginning that something was of with our sex life.
She said on day it felt staged too her from the very beginning.
Anyway.
After a brief phase of a lot of sex(2 weeks) I went back to porn super fast.
I used ever situation where she was at work/busy/sleeping to jerk off.
She noticed that very quick obviously because I lost interest in sex two month in our relationship.
Of course she figured out why.
She was super supportive from the beginning especially after I told her that I almost got fiered because of that.
Short version now.
After a year of fighting this she lost every respect and love for herself. And for me.
She lefte me half a year ago.
>>27150632
>but mostly the control part
in irony you are likely the most controlled and enslaved
Those that seem most rebellious to authority of one kind or another seem very naive to the yoke of the masters they don't see.
>>27149957
give me a fucking break. It's as dumb as the "addictive" videogame bullshit.
>>27150712
This, His last reply >>27150691 screams grasping at the straws once i lured that fedora in and proved him retarded
>>27150711
so this only affects addicts?
So its nothing to do with sex then?
>>27150695
What is moderation. Youre black and white thinking too hard >>27150488. Stop it.
>>27150791
Explain how it makes any sense to use something so damaging in moderation.
The whole moderation argument is usually used by addicts to make it seem more justified
>>27150780
Its the addiction anon, addiction is bad. Sex itself isnt damaging. The problem with these man children is their solution which is to avoid the object of their addiction entirely
And the whole '' black and white thinking is always bad'' argument is how liberals destroyed society over the past 50 years.
>>27150760
I think so. The problem is I was not an addict from the beginning.
Oi think if you realize that if you try not to watch porn for two weeks and you end up finding excuses your problem is word than you think
>>27150833
Have you ever tried to quit the Internet entirely? I suspect that just quitting even 4chan would be even harder than porn
Can anyone explain to me why nofap appeals to anyone? Sometimes during the day I go into my room, watch porn for twenty minutes, feel excellent, then I come out and go the fuck about my day.
To be honest it strikes me as a weird nu wave alt-psych thing like alt-pharmacology was in the 80s. Is nofap just contemporary form of new wave shit? Seems like it.
Unless you sit inside and watch porn all fucking day like a meth head I don't understand all these idiotic cucks screaming all over internet forums about how NOFAP CHANGED MY LIFE EVER SINCE I STOPPED TOUCHING MY DICK ON THE DAILY I WROTE A NOVEL THAT DIDN'T GET PUBLISHED
what is habbening
>>27150849
It's fucking pointless at this point men.
I turend the life of the person I love most in the world in to a hell.
I have no respect left for my self.
I fell that even if I go trough with it, the fighting in my head will never stop.
I'm just sick of fighting this battle.
>>27150852
>new-wave shit
>implying
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4uAiWFdoJDg
Porn, internet, newspapers, It's all the same shit.
I'm gonna do the full 90 days and report back. Far too many faggots who've never gone a week without fapping to porn arguing both for and against this shit. Honestly my desire to give up porn has really been filling my mind this yeah, I need to give it a real good shot so I decide one way or the other.
>>27150852
>Can anyone explain to me why nofap appeals to anyone
Nofap is complete bullshit
Porn is wrong as well
Masturbate as much as you want guys. In the end, it's all about not doing it seven fucking times a day to hardcore scat shit.
>>27150117
>9
More like 10-15
>>27150712
I see the masters but they aren't ones I can do anything about what am I supposed to do say "lol fuck society" and walk out into the middle of the desert and live off lizards and suck the morning dew off leaves, I try to avoid as much control as I can but to fully avoid all control in this time on earth the only way to do that is to be either homeless or living off the land, I don't want to be homeless and there isn't and land to live off where I live, I'm thinking of one day just packing up a small bag and fucking off to butt fuck nowhere in Alaska or some shit however
>>27150648
>I constantly hear stories about people in their 20s having erection problems
That is caused by a variety of factors such as:
>obesity & low testosterone
This is probably the main culprit. It's normal now for young men to be fat and sedentary. I read somewhere that sperm counts are now at an all time low which I think indicates the drop in T levels.
>excessive masturbation
I think guys are fapping alot more these days and it makes their kegel muscles weak. It is true that the accessibility of porn as a part to play in this but the main cause is the isolation that people endure these days. Before porn was mainstream people went from living in their parents' house to being married in their 20s so it they didn't have much privacy or need to masturbate. Nowadays, NEETs spend all day alone with nothing better to do.
>>27150804
>I think all Internet use is harmful in the same way as porn if you really think about it.
>The screen removes the work and patience of real contact or writing.
Then it means you're either not using it in moderation or youre using it as a substitute outlet for a specific yearning, then in which case, the problem isnt the internet itself or the porn, the problem is you dealing with your deficiency in an unhealthy way. E.G. im a loner hence i talk to pp online, talking to ppl online gives me positive feelings (dopamine) repeat repeat repeat repeat >addiction
Your move shitcunt
>>27149957
>finally got a qt i work with to smash
>couldn't get it up because i'd jacked off like 3 hours ago at home and am used to porn + my hand
>quit porn for a week and a half and didn't fap
>fapped once last night and blew the biggest fucking load everywhere
>remember what an orgasm actually feels like
yeah cutting down is definitely the way to go. I still think once a week is pretty good though i may try to do it without porn, or at the very least without hardcore, maybe just naked chicks or my imagination
>>27150889
>>27150908
>>implying most people here would even be loners in the first place if the Internet didn't exist
>>27150821
Is is why autistics arent the norm. Otherwise the world would be a millennia behind
>>27150928
>gets royally rekt
>green texts implying meme
>also gives shitty red herring and teying to move the goal post
>grasping THIS hard
>the projection of the self into the internet world is real
Lmao...
>>27149957
porn is perfectly fine
blaming porn for anything is environmental determinism and that's bullshit
>>27150935
Maybe that was a bad thing.
The more I study engineering the more I start to realize that technology ruined society in a big way and feel guilty.
Autists would either die as kids or become monks or something like that in the past but know they are fooled into living a lie propped up by technology. Plus I'm fairly certain most cases of autism are the result of chemicals or behavioral conditioning in childhood due to modern society.
I don't use porn at all and I'm still a loser.
However I do fap to prretty fucked up thoughts every night so maybe that's having some effect. Just so hard to calm down and get to sleep without it.
>>27150964
#regt
>>27149957
>stop doing something that you like to feel better
>>27150570
Thank you for this post - you sure aren't the only one... That is the story of my life... Now i'm on my day 6 and feel better... Would go on that date now if only I could go back in time... As a failed normie who isn't giving up I just need a new chance now
>>27150852
A carthartic act of self redemption. Pitiful, isnt it?
Never experienced this degree of porn addiction, because I only fapped to vanilla softcore or regular penis in vagina material. What did wreck me though is the many hours I spent edging to adult content, the amount of times I would ejaculate, often several a day at my worst, and sheer amount of time staring at computer screen browsing erotic visual materials- part of the larger picture of internet addiction in general.
Haven't counted when was the last day I came or edged to porn, but its been about 2 weeks now, though I still briefly occasionally browse pics on 4chan/tumblr/fuskator and end up edging by humping the long pillow in bed.
The key to helping me wean myself from the evil trinity of addiction- porn, masturbating, and the internet in general was to be outside a lot more and to delve deeper into my yoga/meditation practice, at the community center, not at home, where I have spent a lifetime of laziness and can't really expect to do anything except eat, sleep, shit and use internet. If I'm going to exercise, read a book, or brainstorm to solve an internal conflict or discover a great idea I go outside to do it.
>>27150995
>stop taking heroin
Surely you were baiting
>>27150973
you know, if your conviction is as strong as youre trying to present themself to be. You wouldnt be studying engineering and going on 4chan. Surely youre keeping your cognitive dissonance in check, right anon?
>>27149957
Could i jerk to relatively soft normal porn once a week??
>>27149957
I don't think porn is a problem in normies. I think its a problem in robots though because they base their relationship desires on sexual fetishes and not on an emotional basis because they don't have any emotions. i.e they expect that having a sexual relationship will be just like what they experience watching porn. Thus why I stopped.
>>27150996
Did you failed a relationship too or have you been smart enough to start fighting it before that?
I'm just scared by the idea that I always have to be aware of "dangerous " situations.
Im scared of ever entering a relationship again.
Watching someone almost losing there mind over your behavior is go painfully.
>>27149957
>>27149986
>>27150051
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Placebo
