>tfw women all want a confident, strong, dominant, assertive alpha male
>tfw I am none of those things
>tfw women are into being dominated during sex and like being choked, held down, and other demeaning shit
>tfw I think sex should be loving and gentle and could never do any of those things
>tfw I will be alone forever
please post in my thread, fampais
human nature isn't this desu
>raised by mother and grandmother
>also visit aunts and great grandmother
>learn respect for women
>autistic so I follow the rules most of the time
>never want to do anything crazy
>dad and mom used to drink, dad did drugs
>didn't want to be addicted like them
>have a bad stutter
>it destroys my confidence as I get older
>develop a sense of morality that keeps me from doing anything crazy
if I hadn't bought the memes about being a good boy maybe I would have lived a little. maybe I'd have fucked women and got some confidence. it's too late now.
>>27143888
>women are a monolithic horde and all of want and like exactly the same thing
This is one of the things that shits me most about /r9k/. God forbid women be people who like and want different things.
>>27144477
All women need food to survive, water to live, and Chad to fill their vag in a rough manner. It's very basic.
>>27143888
>act very quiet and reserved around people
>can't be assertive to save my life
>not at all dominant in day-to-day life, i like to be a follower
BUT
>comes down to sex
>i want to have complete control over her
>tell her what to do, tie her down, dominate her, overpower her, make her beg for it, etc
>this contradicts my normal behavior completely
>hold her and stroke her hair afterwards
How am I supposed to meet someone if I act so submissive all the time but want to be dominant during sex acts?
>>27143888
You sound like every special snowflake in town. Enjoy your pride on your way down to miserable old age sounds like you have everything figured out!
>>27144461
Holy shit are you me?
My dad also was in prison
>>27144477
t. single mother looking for a provider
(and a roastie for sure)
>>27144566
Go to a BDSM joint,as long as you're not incredibly short, have a half decent amount of muscle, and don't have a girly voice you'll have you're pick of girls who want to be dominated.
>>27144602
My dad went to jail a few times. He did end up in prison briefly but my grandma had connections. She got it down to probation. Since then my dad is doing better.
I'm still a pathetic loser though. It's weird being around my dad and other people. He can talk to total strangers as if they're friends he's known forever. To me it's literally like watching a magic trick. I don't know how he does it. Strangers respond to him, laughing and smiling, like he's an old friend.
>>27144659
That's actually a decent idea. No places around where I live and I'd need to gain some weight but, STDs aside, it sounds like the kind of thing where you more or less skip straight to sex.
I can learn to change myself but it's all gonna be useless because i have a small dick. Even the most alpha chad will lose to the beta with a big dick because we're competing for women here. Women.
>>27144859
As a guy with an average member, if you can make a girl orgasm with your tongue or your fingers reliably, you're already better than 90% of her past sexual partners. Guys in general suck at the "pleasing her" part of sex.
>>27144790
BDSM (dom and sub) foreplay is huge, most places rigorously require STD screenings, don't expect sex right away.
>>27144461
Why don't you just do something crazy? Morality is just normie memes made to control people and keep them predictable, just realise this and live your own life
GET OFF POL AND GET A FUCKING JOB
GET OFF POL AND GET A FUCKING JOB
GET OFF POL AND GET A FUCKING JOB
GET OFF POL AND GET A FUCKING JOB
Fuck I thought I was on pol.. sorry guys continue meme'ing
>>27144704
Some people are born/learn how to be gregarious, others aren't/can't learn.
I brute forced my way out of being a cyborg into relative normiedom. Still had to settle in certain regards.
I'll leave you with a piece of advice given to me:
The following traits are not correlated with each other, despite what your intuition tells you: Character, Intelligence, and Physical Attractiveness.
>>27143888
This is just how women are, if you really want to show your love to one, fuck her sore, then act gentle after sex. The same way a child must be beaten first, then is given relief.
>>27144955
These are truly words of wisdom.
Dubs confirm.
A woman will stay with a man that beats the shit out of her even though she knows that he will in the future.
What is it in this man that the woman is attracted to?
>>27145028
There are a million and one psych studies on why abused spouses don't leave the spouse. Asking on /r9k/ is kind of idiotic, given that an abusive robot would be no more attractive to a girl than a non-abusive one.
>>27145028
physical attractiveness, duh
why ask what gets asked and answered a hundred times daily here
>>27145108
a physically attractive man with the personality of a fat autistic neckbeard is just as fucked as a fat neckbeard with the personality of a chad
both matter
>>27144477
Yes, all women want to be sexually and forcefully dominated. No exceptions.
>>27145131
So if I go up to a cute girl, punch her in the mouth and start beating the shit out of her, will she want my D?
>>27145131
As a guy dating a sub, the manner and style in which they want to be forcefully dominated differs greatly. You might as well say things like "women want masculine men" or "grass on suburban lawns often is a pleasant shade of green".
>>27144955
I think I get what you're saying. I appreciate the advice anon.
I don't want to have rough sex with a boyfriend and I don't know where you got the idea everyone wants that.
>>27144477
>what is biology
Are you retarded or something?
>>27145235
Congratulations! You're an exception. On the dom-sub scale, where 10 is a completely dominant sexual preference, and 1 is a completely submissive preference, the center of the bell curve is around 4.
>>27145289
For women* to specify. For men, its around 5.5 or 5 depending on whose work you're reading that day.
>>27145289
Yes, I'm just an exception. It can't be that OP is wrong.
No, sir.
>>27144593
>being a low-self-esteem mentally-ill loser with no friends or future makes me a special snowflake
>wanting an equal, loving relationship makes me a special snowflake
>being very insecure and timid about sex makes me a special snowflake
>not getting off to slapping women around and acting like a fucking brutish mongoloid in the bedroom makes me a special snowflake
Fuck off.
>>27145323
I will assume that you understand how general curves work, but yes, I acknowledge that a statistically significant number of women do not enjoy being dominated/enjoy dominating men. Some women like being dominated and dominating men. The world is an interesting place.
>>27143888
How long will you live your life paralyzed by fear?
>>27145331
>I'm not like the other boys!
Fuck off
>>27145486
Why lash out at others?
>>27145520
Just doing gods work senpay
>>27145486
>don't watch porn
>don't find literal whores having sex on camera appealing in the slightest
>can't get sexually aroused to a woman unless I like her personality
>want to wait until marriage to have sex
>find casual sex to be deplorable
I'm in no way one-of-a-kind but I am in the fucking minority and if you think otherwise you're a fucking retard.
>>27145671
>frankly, I'm not like the other boys
I think we get the message, mr unique. Your life is just too much.
>>27145486
>>27145701
found the triggered roast beef
>>27143888
>tfw women are into being dominated during sex and like being choked, held down, and other demeaning shit
This is honestly the worst thing to me. I've totally alienated myself from women since discovering this. Call me a beta effeminate faggot or whatever the hell you want, it just isn't me and I'm not going to pretend I'm something I'm not.
I have trouble taking women seriously even in platonic situations at this point
>>27144593
How the fuck does any of that make him a special snowflake? As opposed to "hurr durr not all women are teh same"? Go fuck yourself faggot.
>>27145235
>I don't want to have rough sex with a boyfriend and I don't know where you got the idea everyone wants that.
Every stupid cunt says this and every stupid cunt is completely full of shit up to her ears.
>have literally seen irl shy timid waifs keep dumblr blogs where they "like" all kinds of disgusting bdsm/degradation filth
>>27145701
>didn't address any of my points
Face it, the majority of men do not think the way I do in regards to sex. I wish I could be normal and like the things they do, but I can't and I don't. Blonde women scare me, for instance. Do you think that's normal? No, it's not. Just fuck off, you triggered roastie whore.
>>27145863
>Every stupid cunt says this and every stupid cunt is completely full of shit up to her ears.
this
it's amazing how a human being can be so deluded about themselves, but that's women for you
always look at what a girl does, ignore what she says and expect the former to be the exact opposite of the latter
