/r9k/, I am a female that wants to live as male.
Give me reasons not to. The one reason I have is to not be isolated from my family.
The grass is not greener on the other side
All a girl needs to do to get laid is have a vagina.
Being a boy, you must be hot and talented to get laid.
>>27142503
Well you won't get the actual male because you will be seen as trans.
From a guys perspective you'll have the masculinity meme pushed on you and if you don't meet that don't expect anyone to respect you.
>>27142503
>/r9k/, I am a female that wants to live as male.
>Give me reasons not to. The one reason I have is to not be isolated from my family.
At best you'll be a short, small-boned, feminine "man" with a weird, tiny, non-functional penis.You will also never truly unlearn your female social conditioning. You will get zero respect from other men or women. Basically you'll be an effete manlet with a tiny, broken pecker - that would be Hell on Earth.
>>27142503
Accept being alone for most of your life. Oh wait, you can't.
>>27142503
If your family doesn't support you then fuck them. Make your own choices and do what feels right.
Go for it. It's been done before.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Ip7kP_dd6LU
>>27142685
>muh feels are more important than reality
>>27142503
You will be a faggy """"""male"""""
Always, no matter what.
But being a faggy male is not """""""that""""" bad today, so.
>>27142567
I'm a 28 year old female and I've never been with anyone, not even a kiss.
>>27142705
you already are a boy
>>27142567
Im into girls so it already takes more than having a vagina.
>>27142722
You are a disgusting abomination that deserves to be put to death.
So is it a FtM thing or you're just jelly of being a male?
>>27142700
Man fuck off. I tried killing myself (and failed), and I wasn't thinking of them. I'm glad it didn't work NOW, but seriously, you faggots fantasize about necking yourself all the time, and that is literally about your gay ass feels
>>27142503
Is it a social thing or are you FtM? If you are FtM nothing we can say will change how you see yourself.
>>27142774
*Yourselves.
I've had thoughts about becoming male since middle school. I cut my hair short and wore men's clothing for a couple of years. I made the sperg friends I had call me by a male name. Now I am a regular looking girl. I wear dresses, skirts, nice clothing, yet I still want to be a boy. It has been on my mind for a while but I would never do it because I would be disowned by my family. I hate it and I hate myself and I do not know what to do. Nobody knows and I am afraid of getting professional help because all they will do is convince me it's okay to be a man but I know it isn't. It is unhealthy.
>>27142811
Thanks mom, will you come to bed and jerk off your little man so I can get some sleepy?
>>27142640
That does sound like it would really suck, actually. Good reason, thank you.
>>27142685
My family is almost all I have, though. I have only one IRL friend, things already hurt enough how they are. If they all died, maybe I'd say fuck it at that point.
>>27142755
I know.
>>27142503
You cannot because you are too biologically different and were nurtured in a way that makes it impossible for you to empathise with life as a male
>>27142774
Its dysphoria. Im not really jealous of males, except that they seem to fit in better than I do, I feel out of place. The dysphoria didnt start until my late teens though. It might be fetish related, I watch too much porn and self-insert as the male. I've always done that.
>>27142821
Your family must be shit if they would disown you for that. If they don't love your for who you are they don't deserve to have you as family. And it is ok to be a lesbian or want to be a man. Don't listen to what you're being told because obviously you're in a very negative environment.
here I'll give an easy example of what it's like being a guy
if a girl trips and falls everyone gasps and many will try to help her
if a guy trips and falls everyone either loudly or quietly laughs and maybe one guy will check if he's alright
basically no one cares about you when you're a guy. if that's what you want, by all means go for it
>>27142821
My aunty went on for years like that and has only recently gotten surgery to become male and is now the happiest she's ever been. My grandparents turned around to the idea eventually so I think deep down parents and family don't usually disown their own family members.
>>27142914
Just do what feels right, and fuck the opinions of others.Their comfort and feels should never come above your happiness.
>>27142503
>Give me reasons not to.
Because it's fucking shit?
You're an idiot.
>>27142821
OP here, This is how I feel too. I tried it out for a few years as well. Im scared to go to a therapist and talk to them about it because I am afraid that focusing in on it in that way will make me feel even worse about my gender, and then Ill fuck my life up. As things are now, its only painful sometimes, if I distract myself from it.
testosterone will make you look awful. surgery is expensive. no one will take you seriously as male, you will be seen as a trans person forever. people will always know you as "that one trans guy". you need to accept that you were not born male and you will never be the man that you want to be. find people that will understand how you feel, they will help you cope and live with how you feel. I'm sorry anon, I hope you figure out what you want to do soon.
>>27142977
Don't be scared to go to a therapist, it could really help. You have to be happy with who you really are, don't let anyone tell you who you should be.
ITT dumb bitches that want "the best of both worlds." Yet living as girl is already the better world. Fuck off.
>>27142705
I'm a 29 year old male in the same situation.
We should continue to do nothing about this.
>>27143050
If being a girl is so great why are we on fucking 4chan with the likes of you?
>>27142821
hi cait .
>>27143078
Why? I need to get my shit together first before I try to meet someone because I don't want to die alone.
>>27143083
Because you came for the memes, just like every other redditor.
>>27142977
>>27143010
Therapists won't put ideas in your head, they will only pull out whats already in there (good ones at least). I can say from personal experience its defintiely worth a try.
>>27142705
lose 300 lbs
>>27143163 nvm I don't use reddit btw
>>27142925
Part of my family would disown me, but they are my family. They love me and I love them. Family is first.
>>27142934
I am afraid of the embarrassment and shame I will bring them
>>27142977
I think you should go to a therapist anon. A good one that isn't biased. It will make you feel heaps better.
>>27143097
not cait sorry anon
>>27143296
Live your life for you and no one else.
>>27143135
one of the biggest myths on this board is that getting a gf or bf will grant peace of mind and self esteem and not loneliness when it doesn't do that
it just fills you with anxiety-and i'm not talking about the cucking thing, though that's part of it. instead of just your happiness, which none of us have a handle on anyway, you have to worry about another person's happiness. both of you have to change comfortable routines and behavior and get used to quirks and idioms that might have been cute but length of stay or living together cause to become annoying and grating. and the worst part about it is that whatever effort you put into it, ultimately you can't make the other person happy and they can't make you happy. being in a relationship doesn't make you less insane or alone or awkward. you just have someone you grow to hate to survive with you for a while.
>>27143083
If being a boy so great then why is this board filled with kissless lonely virgins. What makes you think you can even be a decent man if you can't even meet the unreasonably low bar of being a girl?
I swear to God if you ever fully transition and people sincerely treat you like a male you would commit suicide.
>>27143463
Your delusional.
>>27143513
>delusional
>trans "I'm really a BOY" person
I feel like shit now. I wish I didnt start thinking about this tonight. Going to shitpost on some other boards. Thanks for responding, friends.
>>27142503
You can at max have a 2cm cock.
You'll get the fate you deserve faggot.
>>27142503
Why play hard mode when you have easy mode?
>>27143513
You would literally not be able to cope with being an average male. You would opt for suicide within days. Fortunately for you you'll never have to experience it and you'll just be humoured as a weird girl even if you do "transition" or whatever the hell they call that genital mutilation shit.
