>10 years ago
>be young beta nerd
>meet stacy through family friends
>we don't like each other at first
>always see each other when forced to go out with family friends
>slowly start getting along
>she invites me out to a movie with her friends
>go out and make friends with her friends
>start hanging out with them
>become really close friends with her
>in high school start browsing 4chan
>realize I'm a beta orbiter cuck
>slowly stop hanging out with her and her friends
>she always invites me out
>literally begs me and gets mad sometimes
>decline most of the time
>will occasionally have to hang out with her since our families are close on thanksgiving, Christmas, etc.
>stop texting her, calling her, and whenever she invites me out I say I'm busy
>gradation high school and go to uni
>a lot time passes
>I see her last week at a family barbecue during the holidays
>she gets angry that I've cut contact
>legitimately gets upset
>later that night mom tells me she was truly my friend and she loved me
>lmao okay
>stay toastie, roastie.
Should I feel bad for avoiding this roastie whore, robots?
yeah i'm not gonna read this shit
>>27108738
Ok.
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>>27108702
I mean are you guys actually friends or are you just trying g to fuck her? If you are actually friends then you're kind o an asshole but then again I was very good friends with a girl that I loved and she played with my feelings so I cut contact. Idk dude
>>27108702
Maybe. If she hanged out with tons of guys then you were an orbiter and did good. If not you're a cunt who missed out on a golden opportunity
>>realize I'm a beta orbiter cuck
Memes have poisoned your mind, you fucking idiot. It's called FRIENDSHIP. YOU WERE FRIENDS.
If you tried to get with her n she said she wasn't looking for a bf, then got a bf, or pulled that "ur so nice y don't u have a gf?" Bullshit, then you did good.
Otherwise. Oyyyyyy you fucked up goyim.
You shallow fucker screwed a friendship with a blood related girl, that could hook you up with other girls, that could just be your friend.
All of that because 4chan told you so.
Have you realised that you just got KEKED by 4chan mate?
>>27108986
The friendzone is where she keeps her beta backups anon. Chicks will ignore guys who treat them well and stick them in the zone for later use (like when she is in her 30's and wants a baby). Men are not programmed to be friends with women we are programmed to be a able to get with 85% of them sexually.
>>27108702
>later that night mom tells me she was truly my friend and she loved me
you should have told your mom right there "i wont be used as an emotional tampon, are my tendies ready yet?"
>>27109079
He probably cried and came to 4chan seeking validation, someone must say that he is right.
>>27109073
>blood related
>family friends
I don't know about that.
>>27108702
Why don't you stop talking to us and call her. Who knows what could happen. If it turns out she make you an orbiter then walk away again. I don't think that what she did in the first place but hey I'm just words on your screen ya know
>>27109074
>The friendzone
>Chicks will ignore guys who treat them well
>Men are not programmed to be friends with women
>>27108702
If she really loved you as more than a friend, you dun goof'd. If not, you did the right thing.
>>27108702
>he fell for the meme this hard
>>27109257
i like to think OP isnt that stupid and knew that he wasnt getting with her ever and choose the right thing to do.
>>27108932
This desu. My last really good female friend that I did so much for cut contact with me and became best friends with my fucking shitty ex after I broke up with her and she never some to me again.
Women are fucking pieces of shit.
>>27108702
No, you did the right thing. I wish I had the discipline to do the same, but I've gone so long with no friends I find myself taking any "friendship" I can get, even if it is fake female """friendship""".
>>27108702
If she actually wanted to be your friend or even more then you are straight retarded for breaking it off because of your own self-doubt and hangups. If not then eh who cares?
>>27108702
>stay toastie, roastie
i hope you said this to her face
good joob
>>27108932
Females are shitty friends. Why would you be a beta orbiter cuck when you could just get a male friend. Women are for fucking.
>>27108961
Nah she didn't hang out with tons of guys, she's a virgin and only has a few guy friends, but I was her closest guy friend in high school. She's only ever kissed a guy while drunk. But she had crazy expectations, it's not like she was a catch.
>>27108932
Well we were actually friends. I did wanna fuck her, but I was a teen, I would have fucked any girl with a nice ass. I stopped hanging out with her because I didn't want to be a beta orbiter. She even told me once that "we're probably going to get married when we're older" but she made it sound like I was a backup plan after she went full whore.
>>27109257
I don't think she loved me more than a friend, but she definitely loved me. She was REALLY upset that I had cut contact.
>>27109275
>thinks its a meme
cuck.
>>27109222
kek where is the rest of this conversation
>breaking up a friendship just cause it's with a girl
Dude, are you kidding me? Are you really that autistic? This board makes me feel so good about myself.
Me and my female manager at my job hang out and smoke weed, why are you so autism?
>>27109553
Because I just am. You sound like a fucking normie. Dude weed xD 420 blaze it bro!!
>>27108702
From my understanding og "Stacey"s, they usually have a big field of guys to give her attention.
I doubt she would be as insanely upset as you make her sound if just one guy of tens left. To even bother noticing you are not there and actively trying to bring you out is more consideration than any Stavey would have given you. As /r9k/ tells me, Staceys are at a level of shallow who would not even notice you were gone. By that logic, your story would have ended like this:
>slowly stop hanging out with her and her friends
>that is pretty much it, haven't heard from her since
I think she genuinely enjoyed your company. Whether she felt it as romantic or platonic I cannot say, but she definitely gave you more caring than your average high school whore. Personally would have just stayed to enjoy the experiences you all had together. If you really were not attracted to her, then you have no reason to feel like your being played because even if she starts playing the average Stacy's games you would not play into it anyway. Have fun with the group and set your sights on another girl.
>>27109384
lad... i was skeptical at first but you actually let 4chan ruin your mind. this sounds like a legit nice girl that wanted you. had you put in any effort you would be together right now. her "expectations" are just meaningless words look at all the girls out there expecting so much getting treated like dog shit and keep coming back. you were right that you were beta for sure you let her words scare you and dictate your actions.
sounds like you ruined a sweet thing due to your mental issues
>>27109384
yea any girl that makes you feel like a backup plan isn't worth the effort. fuck that. she got mad because you refused to be a backup plan. that's ultimately what it boils down to.
don't be friends with girls you want to fuck. it never ends well.
You should be friends with pretty girls who are nice to you. Pretty girls make good connections easily, Pretty girls are pretty so you can stare at them. Pretty girls break up with their boyfriends and do stupid things like revenge sex. Pretty girls need someone who they think doesn't want to use them just because they are pretty.
this doesnt mean you always buy them free shit or let them vent their emotions at you
>>27109912
you just described beta orbiter, thats what you dont want to be
>>27109931
>beta orbiter
how is hanging out with women beta? How is being good at talking to women beta? You do know that when women see other hotter women with a guy they get jealous right?
I mean you can't be this dense really can you? Are you a pathetic fucking virgin manchild? I bet you are, maybe you should start building a cuckshed.
>>27108702
always avoid, anon
>>27109912
4/10 bait
work on your bait anon, it's really sub par
>>27109997
reality isnt bait you fool. If you want to be an operater in the real world you need to be senpai with bros and babes alike
>>27109972
in what world do you live in where women get jealous of a woman's beta orbiter friend? lol
This post is the reason why I'm not going on 4chan anymore. Farewell space frogs.
>>27110034
the real world, google it there, are about a million results you fucking scrub.
"women men other women" provides at least a few results
not only beta orbiters have female friends you stupid pathetic neckbeard.
>>27110080
>uses the word scrub
let me guess, you're 18-20 years old and play cs:go 6 hours a day
>>27110135
i'm 24 and have never played cs:go, i played 1.6 and source back in the day but i don't play vidya anymore. Whatever you want to make up to protect your bruised ego though, scrub.
>>27109751
I won't kid myself when I agree that you say 4chan fucked me up. But I was pretty weird even before that. I think 4chan has done me more good than harm though. Back in high school I started browsing /fit/ which motivated me to get in shape. /r9k/ and others boards provide countless entertainment and stop me from feeling lonely and wanting to kill myself. I know I have autism, but I don't care, I live for memes.
>>27110178
I'm going to follow your advice because you are clearly swimming in pus juices
so basically I become a pretty girls non orbiter friend, women will automatically get jealous of her, and then I'll be knee deep in pantie cream
fucking brilliant
>>27110182
i wish i had a stacey that wanted me. you are going to regret this maybe not today but down the line when you are browsing memes at 2am with no point in living
>>27110178
>i played 1.6 and source back in the day
>i'm 24
i'd fucking kick you in the throat
>>27108702
>>27110296
and you, op, you're everything that's wrong with men. you're everything that's wrong with women, too.
>>27110348
i can tell you enjoy penis just from the way you type
>>27110296
he was literally 11-12 years old when 1.6 was released
fucking lel
>>27108702
You do realize that those on /r9k/ are just sexually-frustrated virgins who post bull shit to make themselves feel better, right? None of it should ever be taken serious.
>I'm a virgin not because of my own lack of actions but because w-women only saw me as a beta orbiter!
Sounds like you lost a good friend and a possible Stacy girlfriend because you're retarded. Good going.
>>27110280
You're oversimplifying the point I was trying to make. Try rereading it in the context of this thread and it may make more sense.
Not sure if you're just playing dumb or you're just actually a fucking idiot but I tend to think it's the former the way you're typing.
>>27110369
you're enjoying my penis, too, just from the way i type :^)
>>27110296
what are you trying to say here? that you're sexually frustrated cuz you cant get pussy?
>>27110294
She didn't want me you cuck. I was her backup plan.
>>27110455
yes you got me I'm an very dum I will take all you're advice thank you
>>27110545
good thing you don't have to be smart to bag and tag, right?
If all the cybernerds on this forum prove anything it's that.
>>27108702
sounds more like you're at fault and suck as a human being.
I wouldn't wanna be in her position.
>>27110497
i'm sexually frustrated because i can't beat the shit out of you, that's what i'm trying to say
I'm torn. On one tentacle,
> Stacy btfo
> she wants to spend time with you
> turn her down
> God's work, Stacies need to learn pain and rejection
but then
> virgin
> not a catch
>>27110573
>forum
>>>/reddit/
>>27110703
Like I said before, she's a virgin because she has very very high expectations. But besides that she's a fucking stacy.
>>27110524
you clearly made it sound like she had feelings for you. had you been assertive you would be with her right now. stop thinking in memes and just talk with her maybe you can save it
>>27110787
>Stacy who has everything but is still a virgin
>coincidentally got upset when you stopped talking to her
Could be wishful thinking but she might have been waiting for you to nut up and ask her out.
>>27110811
>you clearly made it sound like she had feelings for you.
No. She didn't. I didnt fit her expectations. I was a backup plan.
>>27110652
too bad you never will cuz you're a scrawny manchild who doesnt lift and gets no pussy right?
>>27110777
even if i wasn't memeing in that line, this is reddit's anonymous image board now. I mean, You know that right?
>>27110892
>Could be wishful thinking but she might have been waiting for you to nut up and ask her out.
I knew her for 10 years. No one would wait that long for someone else to ask them out.
>>27110894
>backup plan
>bad thing
get as many hot girls to backup planzone you as possible and you'll never go without pussy
>>27110935
beta girls will... not hot girls tho
>>27110935
>10 years
Oh fair enough. You did the right thing then. Well done.
>>27110950
A backup plan is a good thing?
So if she's 30 and she hasn't found Chad yet, she'll turn to me and say "OK now we can get married friend" and I should be okay with that?
You fucking cuck.
>>27110998
more like she'll turn to you and let you fuck her cuz she feels so worthless and she's an emotional child who thrives off attention and is struggling to maintain relevancy.
30 is nasty tho. Why would u even care about a 30 yo woman?
>>27110932
too bad i never will indeed
>>27111144
maybe you'll reincarnate into less of a cuck in the next life so you can at least actually attempt only to ultimately get your face beat in and then go to jail, dweeb
>>27110998
>He actually believes the 4chan trole posting.
Kek, believe what you want friend. But you're going to end up dying alone as a virgin, while those "cucks" are still getting pussy.
>>27111252
>I am willingly making myself plan B
>But thats okay though cause im getting pussy!
I cant believe people like you exist
>>27109074
idiot, why would she even want a baby with a genetically inferior beta? are you really that much of a virgin that you've never met a female that you don't feel sexual attraction towards
>>27111279
>muh plan B
You're acting like a woman lmao
It's free easy pussy, and you're obviously getting none you cuck.
At first i thought you were talking about plan b pill, but then i realized you're a virgin so you probably don't even know what that is.
>>27110894
bro you got nothing to lose just try to be forward with her one last time. if it fails then continue doing nothing if it succeeds you could be in that pouse. say something like "hey i really liked you and your rejection hurt thats why i have been acting so weird towards you, i dont want to get hurt again."
thats sure to stir up some emotionally shit. either you are back in the game or never look back
>>27111238
i changed my mind, you're actually a funny guy. thanks.
>>27111394
hope you have a good day senpai
>>27111279
>If I'm not the primary source of attention, I don't want to participate.
You sound like a woman or child.
I can't believe people like you are actually that easily brainwashed by r9k troleing kek.
Well have fun dying a virgin I guess.
>>27111453
yea its kind of sad really, I think he just let all the other beta cuckposters who cant get pussy on r9k (and drag other people down so they feel more normalized) poison his mind
>>27109751
Heh I laughed at this pic
Im gonna do this with my daughters hair
>>27111453
>>27111492
>"M-m-m-muh pussy" he said, as he clipped Stacy's pubes
>>27111685
>Sitting in your basement never getting any sex is better than having girls interested in you and getting sex.
>Proven by mental gymnastics posted on boards such as r9k.
>Cuck, lol, amirite guys?
>>27111110
>>27111111
close desu
how do you feel
So if you are a male, every interaction you have with a female must be about sex?
is that your point, OP?
>>27111765
admit it
mine would've been better
>>27111685
i've made money off of having a hot girl as a friend. I've also met other hot girls not to even mention my skills talking to hot girls that came from talking to hot girls.
>>27111867
Well they aren't good for anything else.
>>27112073
well then, another parrot with nothing new to say
I have a pretty similar situation that is still playing out, OP.
>Working retail
>Have one female manager
>"Stacey"-ish, though plain "normie" seems more appropriate, and a little older than me. Not robot ideal by any means.
>Never paid much attention to her for those reasons (too busy rebuilding my life to pursue woman right now anyway)
>We start getting close, I think mostly due to our ethnicity drawing us together (only two spics on staff)
>Learn we went to same elementary school, liked kids, and had a disdain for loud people with attitudes (this job will do that to anybody)
>First woman I have felt comfortable being close to and even touching without objection from her or fear from me
>Don't feel awkward with her even when I am at a loss for words in conversation
>Realize she is passing hints that she likes me
>Worryingly I start getting feelings too
>Notice her body is slamming to boot and that I've been close to that this whole time
>She gets increasingly comfortable with me when we're alone
>Last night in the office while were talking she letting her hair down, opening her legs, and turning her chair she was in right at me
>Losing my grip but try to ignore it
>As we walk out literally side by side I see in the front door's reflection an image of a simple working couple going home that I found charming.
>However I averted my eyes in fear a second after.
1/2
>>27113404
2/2
Now today I am here wasting my day off feeling conflicted. The stories are different, but the driving force behind the conflicts is the same: "ewww Stacy/normie who might be taking advantage of me, take it away ree". As I get older and start trying to actually improve myself, I have been questioning whether or not I crossed a line in sanity somewhere when I started to adopt /r9k/'s views. In retrospect, since my late high school years, I realize that I became the people I hated. A condescending, wannabe prince with nothing to offer that still had high moral standards for women and treated anybody who even SLIGHTLY strayed from the mark as subhuman. Making up for my insecurities and shortcomings by devaluing everyone else regardless of their actual merit or character is a shitty way to live. God, I don't know how legit Staceys live with themselves doing this. I don't know how anybody can. It is depressing and has kept me from moving forward. It's made me push nice people away out of fear of being played.
Even with this realization though, I am still in conflic because old habits are gard to break, I guess. Should I remain full robot and scoff at her approaches without remorse? Should I just keep away from women until I find the unicorn that is a 10/10 robot approved girl? Is living this way really necessary? Alternatively, should I accept that my paranoid ego has kept me a child all these years?
Man, at this point I just want to take her right in her office chair and procreate like our rabbit-like genetics tell us to until we can create no more.She is a real nice woman I can communicate with, even with her flaws.
If anything is certain though, I ultimately wasted a big part of my life over being a pompous bastard masking himself as some last remaining porpogater of virtue.
You probably made the right choice as long as you ruled out all possibilities of getting your dick wet.
I've had one platonic friendship with a girl and I ended up cutting it off too. I was never attracted to her, her ex used to drum in my band and we just sort of kept in contact.
>Conversations were always about her and the way she felt because she was depressed a lot of the time.
>Couldn't take banter and would get pissed off with me if I didn't make the effort to talk to her constantly.
>Started falling out with other mates of mine for above reason.
>Her new bf was fucking wierd
>She had very few female friends that I could hook up with to make up for the above bullshit.
Two years without talking and she messaged me again, single and desperate. I wasn't having any of it. 12 months later and she is with some cuck orbiter and has pinned him down with a baby boy. I think I dodged a bullet there desu.
