Why is r9k so afraid of rejection and humiliation? Especially the public kind? Why do you care so much about what normies think?
>>27102632
Every time my pathetic excuse for ego and self confidence inevitabley shatters, it takes a long time for me to pick up the pieces
I just don't want to deal with that
>>27102801
and why aren't you simply giving yourself more reasons to have a solid ego
>>27103002
you realize this is the equivalent of saying "why aren't you simply giving yourself less cancer?" to a cancer patient, right?
>>27103002
ego comes from acceptation
Your question is loaded and has incorrect assumptions.
It's not that I am afraid of rejection or humiliation, I actually expect it.
It's not about what others think so much as it is what I myself think. I hate myself and that is the problem. The problem is with the ego, I don't have a large ego or anyhting like that, I have a negative ego.
>>27103043
so you have what disease exactly?
>>27103256
This is also a loaded question and you are a retard who should leave.
>>27103296
>i can't answer because the only disease is internet addiction
>>27103366
Not that anon but fuck off, you clearly don't understand depression or anxiety.
>>27102632
We are social creatures and the frear of rejection is scary
I don't give a fuck about their opinions. That's the main reason why I can't get close to them.
>>27103366
You are the only one who implied any diseases here in the face of a crude example, because that fits your pre-scripted mode of thinking witch you represent.
>>27102632
It takes time to break that barrier, normalshit.
>>27102801
It gets easier over time.
>>27102632
I have no idea why. I wish I wasn't so self centered and insecure and afraid of embarrassment but I am and I don't know how to stop.
>>27102632
society conditioned me to fear it.
>>27102632
yeah let's all just embrace the wisdom of cuckoldry! someone has to get the short stick of natural selection anyway, i'ts a noble sacrifice!!
>>27102632
>why don't you enjoy eating shit
>why are you complaining about the taste
>>27104004
so THATS why you opted out. If you think that's noble, good for you I guess
>>27104266
that isn't even a viable analogy. lots of people disregard/embrace said fear and overcome it without being literally cucked by it like r9k is
>>27104423
>people are okay with eating shit
>you should be too
>>27104478
wow, you literally are cucked by your fear
>anything but comfort is shit
go post about it on your favorite reddit, cuck
Because I have low self confidence and my self worth is determined entirely by what others, even complete strangers whom I will never meet, think of me.
I asked out my coworker over linkedin and got rejected, turns out she has a boyfriend and was very nice about it. Things will be a little awkward at work if I have to work with her, but now I feel like a great weight has been lifted from my chest. Rejection isn't that bad---letting a crush just sit inside you and doing NOTHING, now that is terrible for you.
>>27104537
>i am literally cucked by strangers opinions. i am a cuck
that's basically what you're saying?
>>27102632
>Why is r9k so afraid of rejection and humiliation?
An inherently low sense of self worth which makes them sensitive to criticism.
>>27104561
>self-esteem comes from the inside, just bee yourself
>>27104520
>advising robots to go out and get cucked by normalfag society
>calls them cucks when they're smart enough to not do it
Try again goy.
>>27104551
>asking out a coworker
>asking out anyone over linkedin
>thinking she actually has a boyfriend
>thinking she didn't talk about it with all your female coworkers and they didn't laugh at you for using linkedin to ask someone out
>thinking your office reputation won't forever be as a weird, most likely short, manboy who asked a coworker out over linkedin
