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Jesus Christ what was I thinking?
My online "girlfriend" just ghosted me and I'm getting really upset about it for some reason.I'm 95% sure she had other beta orbiters.
>>27095751
Aw, for some reason this made.me really sad for you. There's nothing wrong with you. I'm sorry
I have no idea what "ghosted" means
so jokes on you op.
>>27095794
Ignoring you without saying anything or why
>>27095782
Thank you
That actually makes me feel a little better
>>27095751
>My online "girlfriend" just ghosted me
>My online
>online
there ya go
they have no reason to invest in you or see you as a person. You are just data on a screen.
They had their fun and now they move on.
It sucks Im sure but the internet holds little bonds of respect or affection
That's harsh, bro, but it'll learn you. Internet girlfriends are worse than being alone. If you are so desperate for contact, get a steam and friend /r9k/ fagboys until one accepts you and talks. Or join an MMO and a guild. Easy socializing.
>>27095895
I'm just confused as to how I got so emotionally invested in her.
We haven't been talking as much as we used to and it slowly died down over time.
I wanted to see if she'd message me first and it never happened and eventually she blocked me.
>>27095895
This.
You need to meet up in person asap if you're doing the online dating thing. Otherwise one party gets bored and moves on. Nothing wrong with you OP, it's common.
Let this be a lesson. Next time plan a meet up asap.
>>27095935
I have a chromebook I can't
When this girl I like stopped talking to me because I went in a bit deep she sent a really long message explaining why and was so pleasent in the way she did it but I cried for about 3 hours, knowing I'd never speak to her again.
>>27095957
Now that I think about it she never seemed like she intended to do that.
>>27095970
God damn I can't imagine that right now
>>27095751
She probably found someone IRL, as you should. I felt the same way this morning, my first post as tripscum was crying about being an "incel", but I met a chick at work today and I hope that goes well.
Don't worry about it my man, just try to improve your confidence.
>>27096009
Did you talk about the idea of meeting up? If you were referring to each other as boyfriend/girlfriend then that must have come up as a priority?
>>27096051
Yes we did but it didn't have much detail and we only talked about it two times. It was kind of an immature relationship. We just said 'I love you' and all that garbage. It did make me feel better about myself though.
I'm pretty sure I was just unwittingly one of her many orbiters because whenever I brought up meeting each other ever since it was initially brought up she would withdraw and I'd have to wait another day to talk to her.
It was painful.
>>27096044
I don't care about my confidence I just want to be in a relationship with someone.
I'm pretty sure she just used me for fapping material because we did send each other pictures and she had a strange fetish for my nipples and she sent me pictures of her boobs.
>>27096171
She also got one dick pic kek
>>27096142
Yeah, sounds like she wasn't it as serious as you were about it.
It's okay my man, lesson learned for next time.
Been there before.
You probably wont forget it, but you'll get over it. You may even laugh about.
Learn from it. The next time you are interacting with a lady, remember this and do something different.
There will be another time and eventually you'll figure it out.
>>27096270
I hope so.
Probably not though.
I'm pretty sure I'm mentally retarded.
At the very least I wish I could've convinced her she was pretty. She had some major self esteem issues and would get really upset about it.
>I don't care about my confidence I just want to be in a relationship with someone.
Focus on confidence. Focus on yourself, if you're in a relationship just to be in a relationship, you're going to have a bad time. Working on building your confidence will help get you in a relationship in a big way as well as within your life
>>27097038
I guess that was a pretty stupid thing to say.
See this>>27096343
OK, I'll try my best
>tfw been talking to girl on kik for literally a few months (that started off strictly dirty but basically now is like a friendship and we just talk casual with occasional dirt mixed in)
>keeps telling me that im weird/autistic ("but that isnt a bad thing, i really like you")
>tells me that the way i talk and my mannerisms remind her of an ex boyfriend she had that had aspergers
>literally asks me if i'm a virgin
i'm so fucking autistic, permavirgin and pathetic that they can literally tell i am just from texting with me
>>27097079
Nah man many many people have made that mistake and many stay in relationships they hate because they're more afraid of being alone. Focus on yourself, it's a more fruitful ambition
>>27097130
ive been called weird and a dork on several occasions. i dont know what to do i wish i could be normal like them but im not
god damn i cant take this much longer.
ps. no fbi i am not about to kill myself (although i really dislike myself)
KEK
I OVER REACTED! HER PHONE WAS JUST OFF! I GOT A MESSAGE FROM HER! WHAT THE FUCK? NOW I WISH SHE GHOSTED ME! I CAN'T EVEN LOOK AT THE MESSAGE I'M FUCKING SHAKING! WHY AM I SO FUCKING EMOTIONAL?
>>27097238
god damn dude rest in the fucking reeses pieces
>>27097238
You should kill yourself tbqh fampai
>>27097238
It happens.
You're going to have to just get over it.
One of the secrets of normies is they can navigate through awkwardness. Take a page.
t.cyborg
>>27097238
Your only solution is race war, now
>>27097238
I've never had such a combination of laughter an pain before. Holy shit.
>>27097277
>>27097307
>>27097333
>>27097351
>tfw find a bigger mixed race girl on /soc/
>start talking to her on kik
>try to steer it dirty but she isn't having it
>compliment her a lot like a beta faggot telling her that she's pretty (she is) and shit like that and all she says is "no ur lying im ugly" but im just hoping to get her naked pics
> figure shes playing hard to get
>then sends me a cartoon another kik friend of hers drew of her naked
>i say "lol he has quite an imagination huh? he gave you really big beautiful breasts and a huge bubble butt he must really have a fantasy about you
>she says "no its accurate because he's seen me naked before" really matter of factly like that
>drop her right there
i'm pathetic holy shit lol
Fuck off OP.
Some girl I've been friends with for 5 years (real friends, not internet shit) got drunk and asked me if we were "ok being friends" even though I haven't mentioned my feeling for her in over a year. I sperged out and avoided the topic because I was on vacation and didnt want to think about it and ruin the vacation. I told her I'd talk to her tomorrow then didn't. That was new years eve and two months later she still hasnt said a word to me and our friendship is now dead forever because she was drunk and brought up my autism. And because i was a sperg who tried to get into her pants and lost one of my few close friends because of it.
You sperging out because she didnt reply for 10 seconds, is gay as fuck. Do you even own a phone? I am away for mine for hours either on the computer or going somewhere or playign D&D or shit.
Well OP, what does it say?
Oriental conjunction
>>27097598
This, at least tell us what she wound up responding to that mess.
>>27097730
Kek
Fuck no
>>27097782
This is now a story, I want to know how this chapter ends.
Oregano commiseration
>>27097860
Just trust me. You wouldn't be satisfied by it
>>27097939
at least tell us if she is freaked out or wants to break up
>>27097939
I don't give a shit about satisfaction, I want to know the truth.
Origami condensation
>>27097962
>>27097968
Alright, it's gonna take two posts. I'm going to consider it.
>>27095751
>sending word diarrhea
>>27097992
Thank you.
Organizing communism
>>27095751
>online relationships
comentario original
>>27095751
>thinking catmolester is your gf
you fell for it friendo
>I know I'm overreacting over a kik relationship
fuck my sides
OP please have some self respect
>>27097460
dodged a bullet, that grill sounds like a grade-a sloot
Kek it gets good. Seriously considering delivering.
God you guys suck. Get your shit together. Stop talking to women over the internet, it is the biggest waste of time I can think of.
>>27097238
Jesus you are fucking retarded. Maybe that is what is wrong with you?
>>27095859
I'm so sorry, Mr. Anon, but the man you were talking to (you may know him as the writer of post >>27095782) is actually a dangerous sociopath and compulsive liar. Please don't believe whatever he's told you, because everything he says is the opposite of the truth. Don't worry, we'll find him and take him back to the institute.
>>27098195
I am in agreement, but I still want to hear the rest regardless. Blame it on being bored at work.
Orbital comforter
>>27095935
Yeah bro, he can't, he has a chromebook. And a heterosexual orientation. I don't think your "find a boyfriend instead" approach is going to work.
Well you call things toxic so that explains it at least
Sorry for the wait, have to edit the photos with a shitty computer
It gets hilarious
>>27098176
delivar, you have to
bump, still waiting for op to deliver.
am curious
>>27098270
hurry up dummy
Delivering when
I'm original
>>27098270
Waiting for OP to deliver.
Organ commission
>>27095751
>online
>girlfriend
Choose one.
OK, fine
Here is first one
>>27098453
>i love you
2 texts in and i can already tell what type of girl she is.
>>27098453
keep going
she thinks you're cute btw
>>27098453
Daww so far.
Arigato commiserater
>>27098486
300lbs or 100lbs and afraid of her own shadow
either way chad will get to her eventually
>>27098453
>i missed you
she only deleted kik for like 2 hours man have some dignity
>>27098453
>i deleted kik
Why?
>>27098453
>i love you
Marry her op. She's so I love she can't control herself holy shit true love.
>>27098507
For fucks sake. Idk if I should keep posting
>>27098542
just do it man
>>27098537
It degrades... trust me
>>27098542
Meh don't care about it, just post
>I said she was pretty because she has is self conscious about the way she looks but it came out as cringey
More to come if I'm willing
>>27095751
Ash just does that my man
>>27098625
keep em coming boss
>>27098625
Proceed
Orca communists
>>27098625
post her nudes robro
>>27098676
Never going to happen. I told her I wouldn't.le gentlemen
>Shit starts hitting the fan
>>27098453
I'm happy it worked out for you, OP.
The truth is, I'm in a similar situation and thought about writing her something similar. I hope my story has a happy ending too
>>27098719
nigger she's talking with several other robots itt and god knows how many on tinder/irl
the time to be a gentleman went away when she went behind your back
>>27098719
dude where is the rest
I feel dead inside
>After fu I asked her if she really loved me
>>27098088
What the fuck
This is the most
>2000
>Runescape
>I'm 13
Thread that I have seen in a while.
>>27098876
are you being ironically stupid or just stupid
>>27098970
Unironically stupid
>>27098876
>What the fuck
what are you taken aback at
>>27098876
Nigger, ask her if she likes you romantically. Instead of just trying to fuck everything up for yourself. Stop being a faggot.
Ordinary Commonwealth
Look, I'm tired. I'm going to sleep. I asked catmolester if she can finish this thread.
>>27098876
Wow
OP she isn't even worth it dude.
This girl is an attention seeking whore that constantly needs self validation. She doesn't care about you.
Threads like these make me realize I'm actually an okay texter
>>27095751
She's probably out there getting faceblasted by Chad. Just thought I should inform you of this, Anon.
>>27098876
>casual 'fucking's
>calling yourself retarded
Avoid this.
op what's your kik
>>27099737
>>27098876
>>27098719
>>27098625
>>27098453
>>27095751
Post her nudes you giant cucks.
>>27099737
qt gril, i can see why op fell for it
>>27097238
you didn't overreact. girls don't turn off their phone unless they are out fucking other guys when they already have a boyfriend.
sorry pham
>>27098876
why are you doing this to yourself. do you hate yourself that much
>>27095813
i've ghosted a guy before
he was a creepy rapist and every time we'd talk he'd try to provide a logical argument as to why i should have gay sex with him
op is probably an overbearing creeper that doesn't know when to quit (or does know but chooses not to)
>>27095751
>My online "girlfriend"
Are you serious dude? I can recognize by the way she's typing exactly who this is.
She's been in an online relationship with half the dudes on omegle from r9k, she's probably convinced over 5 people she's talking to right now she's in a relationship with them.
>>27097238
just text "oh okay, nevermind then." and make plans to meet with her.
OP you grossly overreacted.
For the sake of both you and her, I hope she dumps you so that you can learn from this.
Your reactions were so absurd and over the line that part of me thinks there may be something really wrong with you. Have you ever seen a doctor about your emotions?
>>27101601
give him a fucking break. you're the one overrreacting with a bunch of other fags ITT.
if you get ghosted several times, you'd get emotional over it too. and if you don't, you're literally autistic.
>>27101622
Everyone has people up and vanish on them on the internet. Including people we come to care about deeply. It hurts very badly when someone you care for is away for more than a week and you don't know why, but it's not an excuse to go full borderline personality disorder on them like OP did. The normal person responds to having an internet friend vanish by sending a message like, "Are you okay? I'm worried about you. Hope to hear from you soon." And then maybe after a month or so, "I hope that whatever you're doing you're okay."
Everyone has experienced what OP has experienced. But most people don't have insane person emotions like him.
>>27095751
*sigh* I did this to my online boyfriend once.
God I felt awful. Subsequently, I fucked myself up on drugs as a result. He did likewise.
Additionally, I broke up with him on his birthday a few weeks prior.
Karma got me good, and I'm fucking glad.
>>27101601
>>27101652
>>27099957
I'm trying really hard to control them it's not like I'm making zero effort.
My thoughts are always non-verbal and purely emotional.
I have to focus really hard to bring a coherent thought to the front of my mind.
I'm just sick of ruining every relationship I'm in with my craziness. I have no friends that don't last over 3 months.
>>27095751
I remember when I ghosted my online bf. Back in 2010, I developed this really bad paranoia that eventually he would do grievous harm to me and I couldn't handle it. I thought that it was just a product of being young and stupid, but even as an adult I get panic attacks from people who are interested in getting to know me, even other women. I don't even know what brought that on, I've always had online friendships and was a sperg but normie with friends irl. I turned 17 and a switch flipped.
