>we live in an age where people unironically claim the number of a woman's sexual partners doesn't matter
Are you fucking kidding me? Think about the emotional significance of just one relationship. The moments you share. The experiences you undergo. The things you do together. That person, man or woman, is a huge, huge part of your life. Now multiply that by two, three, four, fucking ten, twenty people. How many times before you has she snuggled up to a man in the exact same way and said, "I love you"? How many men have been in that bed? How many men have shoved their cocks in her?
It's disgusting. What's even more disgusting is how NORMAL it's become in the eyes of society. A 19 year-old girl can have five different sexual partners by that age and no one bats an eye.
I want off this fucking ride.
I really want to do a sex swirlie now
>that girl will say she "isn't ready" for a relationship with a thirsty beta and make him wait months before even kissing him.
>>27003719
>19
>5
thats actually lower than average
>>27003719
Holy fuck please give me a sauce for that webm
I'd love to do that to a slut
>>27003719
Nobody besides robots gives a fuck because we're all out there having relationships of our own, snuggling up to women and saying "I love you," sharing a bed with them, and sticking our cocks in them.
>>27003719
I really, really fucking hate roasties and their white knight cavalry.
They are a malignant cancer.
All the women in my family have only ever been with 1 or 2 men their entire lives. The ones with 2 are because their first ones died.I come from a really old fashion family.
The world outside is very different and it's scary :(
>>27003719
>past doesnt matter
>sex offender registry exists
>>27003876
Your hate is inconsequential.
Kick back and enjoy the ride, Anon. Hedonism and promiscuity have effectively supplanted virtues, becoming religion in their own wicked ways.
The societal collapse is inevitable. Same people who are delving in these hedonistic waters will (unfortunately( eventually "settle-down" and breed, but dysfunctional partners create dysfunctional families, which in turn spawn dysfunctional progeny, which is a true recipe for disaster.
The only thing I can advise regarding all this, is that you remain true to yourself. Have some dignity first and foremost and don't fall for any of that bullshit, because the same slutty lifestyle which a great deal of modern women practice, is often times approved by thirsty beta orbiters who in their delusion, think that granting their approval will gain them sex/relationship/affection in turn.
>>27003719
It doesn't matter, anon. I used to think like you years ago. Just enjoy the ride.
I'm 24, have a job, my own place, and a nice social life. For the past year, I've been fucking random bar girls and Tinder sluts. It's starting to get old. I can feel myself starting to want to slow down and look for a more stable partner. I can't imagine it's much different for girls. I don't give a shit what she's done before me as long as she's clean and is a decent person. People change and so do their goals and outlooks.
Also, you don't need to love someone to have sex with them.
>>27004242
>I don't give a shit what she's done before me as long as she's clean and is a decent person. People change and so do their goals and outlooks.
HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA
>>27004242
subtle ruse
7/10
>>27004242
Honestly,absolutely nothing about casual sex appeals to me. I find it absolutely disgusting, and I'd never have sex with a woman I didn't love. I don't even feel sexually attracted to a woman unless I like her personality.
Why don't more people think this way? I just don't get it.
>>27004242
my wife's son agrees with you
When will you faggot virgins realizes ITS JUST SEX, seriously you act like the girl didn't clean her pussy a million times in the shower before you got to her. Its like not liking a girl because her father hugged her when she was a little girl. As long as the girl never got pregnant there is nothing wrong with her sleeping around a bit to find herself.
>>27003719
Why is she such a nasty slut for? She is so pretty, amazing tits, ass, thin waist. She's got it all. Yet she is such a nasty slut. She could get paid a ton without haven't to degrade herself.
WHY?
You're all laughing at this guy, >>27004242
But as someone who's been on the exact same path - it's pretty fucking clear how disillusioned I was to things previously.
Once you free yourself from seeing the world from such a fogged perspective, you see it in a similar way to this. A very similar way to the way that you all believe girls see the world. Except you're part of it, and you're enjoying it - and suddenly, the world has much more to offer.
>>27004371
maybe that shit was just cleaned really well beforehand
>>27003855
Not real relationships. Not real love. Polyamorous cesspools. Diseased dicks. Sharing the flames of hell.
>>27003719
What's the source of this webm?
>>27004347
there was a study that showed that they carry all of the dna from their previous partner's sperm in their brains. And don't condom meme me, sluts take it raw.
>>27004242
As long as you get an equivalent woman there's no issue.
>>27004381
Have you seen the porn Angela White has done?
>>27004377
>>27004242
>>27004347
Crossing my fingers for a brand new AIDS to scare you cunts back inside.
>>27003719
really want sauce on this pls
>>27004377
Yeah, good luck with that mentality once you try to find a decent and loyal woman to settle down with, who isn't a literal cumdumpster who is going to take the earliest opportunity to dump your sorry beta provider ass to resume her cock carousel.
So yeah, good fucking luck, mate.
>>27004347
I know this is bait (and rather poor bait, at that), but do normies really think "finding yourself" equates to "having lots of sex with strangers?" That's so sad it's almost funny. You want to "find yourself?" Read a fucking book. Go to another country. Take up painting. Don't have degenerate, shameful sex with random people and then try to brush it off as a phase. It doesn't work that way. That's a cunt thing to do.
>>27004347
>her sexual experiences leave no impressions on her
Untrue anon. Most untrue. She will never be clean in her mind.
>hurr you watch porn
Yes that's not the kind of purity I'm referring to, I'm not some monk.
>>27004262
I don't think all girls are saints. My best friend's girlfriend and her friends are toxic people that I'd never associate with. But almost everyone on this board is young as shit. You will change significantly in the next 2-3 years.
>>27004291
No ruse. I occasionally come on /r9k/ to cop dank memes. Sometimes I post, too.
>>27004304
There's literally nothing wrong with that. There's also nothing wrong with thinking the other way. Stop wishing that the people you want to fuck think this way, and start looking for people that you can have a genuine connection with. If you really mean what you're saying, sex should be immaterial to the relationship in its early stages.
>>27004309
I draw the line there. Would never raise somebody else's kid. I work with a single 27 year old mother that just went through a divorce. She's shown up at my house drunk 3 times this month. She's slept on my couch alone 3 times.
>every girl is a disgusting slut
>why won't any girl suck my pee pee wahhhhh
>>27004466
It's guaranteed to happen m8
>>27004347
1 IN 4 AMERICAN WOMEN NOW HAVE STDS
>ITS JUST SEX XD
>>27004526
>I draw the line there. Would never raise somebody else's kid. I work with a single 27 year old mother that just went through a divorce. She's shown up at my house drunk 3 times this month. She's slept on my couch alone 3 times.
Why the hell wouldn't you just bang her and keep her as a friends with benefits kind of deal, not like you have to date the bitch, she's literally just begging you to sleep with her
>>27004526
>There's also nothing wrong with thinking the other way
Is too
>>27003719
>emotions
>2001+15
Stay cuck'd betafat.
>>27004530
>Implying that I even want a girlfriend
I'm content with my escapism and masturbation.
>>27003719
There's a difference between sex and a relationship you dumbass
>>27004262
People do change though it happened to me. Some of it was kind of subtle it usually wasn't a bunch of big changes over night.
>>27004242
>I want to fuck like a degenerate
>now I want to settle down
Do you not understand why that will never happen? Do you honestly think continuing to play into the current fucked up emotionless dating market will get you that stable peaceful relationship? Do you not see that you will never be satisfied because your memory is clogged with countless faceless whores and orgasms.
I hope you get AIDS. I hope all of you shitty hedonistic fucks with zero value but all the entitlement in the world are thrown in the pits
>>27004530
Exactly the type of quality post I'd expect from a Facebook Frog-posting Redditor.
>>27003852
Sauce sauce sauce sauce
Please anon give sauce or at least a name, This looks fucking amazing
>>27004530
>/r9k/ is one person
>h-ha l-lol you have morals and s-standards b-but you're just a virgin!
>>27004530
I don't want or ever want to fuck a roastie. And if I get an urge I just wank it and fuck off back to school to work.
>>27004721
Angela White, obviously. One of the few good porn stars left
>>27004557
>Why the hell wouldn't you just bang her and keep her as a friends with benefits kind of deal, not like you have to date the bitch, she's literally just begging you to sleep with her
Because I have a friend with benefits. She's a nurse (relatively smart) and we have no mutual friends. I'd rather not bang anyone that I work with, either. I can control whether I develop feelings; I can't control other people. I don't shit where I eat.
>>27004557
>Why the hell wouldn't you just bang her and keep her as a friends with benefits kind of deal
I'm not him but I've tried this with 2 hot single moms, neither wanted to be fwb they wanted to actually date and shit so I was like bye
>>27004557
...Maybe because he wants to have sex with a woman he genuinely loves and cares about instead of doing it because "DURR MY FRIENDS AT 4CHAN TOLD ME TO XDDD"
Women are retarded but men are just as fucking retarded for encouraging their whoreish behavior and being seemingly incapable of not thinking with their dick.
>>27004751
True cause fucking a girl you work with always ends up in drama and bullshit that you have to worry about everyday when you go in to work, way too much stress
>>27004762
This happens with any girl who wants to just be a fwb, they're hoping you'll realize that you like them if you if they let you have sex with them enough
>>27004763
Well obviously we would all love to have a woman for that but you gotta take what you can get sometimes
That was 3 posts in a row of (you)s, shit was stressful
>>27004671
>Do you not understand why that will never happen?
I guess not. I just assumed that, much like in the past, I could enter an exclusive relationship and try to develop something deeper.
>Do you honestly think continuing to play into the current fucked up emotionless dating market will get you that stable peaceful relationship? Do you not see that you will never be satisfied because your memory is clogged with countless faceless whores and orgasms.
I have got, literally, no clue what you mean. I've had sex with people in the past, yes. I do not constantly think about them. In fact, they rarely enter my mind. I even have completely platonic friendships with some of them now.
>>27004751
Nevermind, you're a retard, too. I can't believe I just defended you.
Is it really this hard to find someone else who values an emotional connection with their partner over sex? I'd have no problem with waiting until marriage for sex if I loved the girl. Why is everyone else so fucking hedonistic and degenerate? Jesus fucking Christ, this world.
>>27004857
Calm down you're full on rustled
People can make what decisions they want is the bottom line, no matter how shitty of a decision it is it is still up to the person to do something or not
truth incoming:
women know it's bad. they're trying to hide it and deny it as much as possible for as long as possible, until a lot of self destruction is done.
every time a meet a girl and i we get to talking about our sexual past, everytime i bring up how i was raised religious and wanted to wait until marriage, they start criticizing their OWN past.
i had a co worker tell me she wish she didn't lose her virginity so soon after i told her that i wanted to wait til marriage.
they know they have no discipline and they strongly idolize men who do, because they crave guidance, even though they are swearing they are independent; we know this is a joke.
Most people are shitty, it's the sad truth. Most people do whatever others do or what society makes seem normal. Why else would people do things like go out clubbing, getting drunk, or fucking strangers. It's disgusting but a lot of people aren't comfortable with themselves and feel the need to fit in. That's why we get sluts. The people having multiple sexual partners in a small time frame are unstable and can't truly appreciate a relationship.
>>27004940
There will be a lot of sad lonely cat ladies in the future.
Glad to see the webm I created is finally going to good use.
>>27003719
robot women, best women anon
>>27004242
spoken like a true cuck, anon
>>27004347
>its just sex
nigga you hearing yourself?
>>27004530
The disgusting sluts don't count as girls, they aren't even people.
>>27004857
I don't know when or why you were in my camp. I've had the same story since post one.
>Is it really this hard to find someone else who values an emotional connection with their partner over sex?
No, it's not. Look for them. And I never said I don't value an emotional connection. I just haven't been looking for one. I've been "reveling in hedonism." I've literally turned down dating girls because they were looking for serious relationships and I wasn't. Go out and talk to people; you'll find others that share the same values.
>>27004925
I am, I know. I support people making their own choices, I just wish and pray those choices were different and nondegenerate. It makes it difficult to find like-minded people when the majority of people in this country have a very "casual" (read: whoreish) view on sex.
>>27004473
It's angela white episode 90
>>27003719
It's not really normal though. If you're with well adjusted adults the majority either laugh off or frown upon whoring behavior. Kids exaggerate a lot but the reality is that there are plenty of non slutty girls that go unnoticed. Add on that you're getting opinions on a board filled with people who have unhealthy obsessions with having sex. Chill out man, you only need one girl.
>>27005025
I might have misunderstood what you meant; it went over my head or something.
But robot women are sluts. Just as desperate for attention and validation as male robots.
Where a male robot is used by women as an emotional tampon, a beta orbiter, a pack mule for shopping, a female robot is instead used by men for her body.
>>27005043
>Have sex with multiple women
>Cuck
Anon...
>>27003776
If she's a virgin, then there's nothing wrong with this, if she's not, then it's disgusting.
>>27005072
That is what everyone wants is for everyone else to do whats right and not be different than them, but its just the genetic flaw in our human programming in the way we are slaves to our natural reflex.
It's just a symptom of the problem at large of the entire human race existing.
>>27005099
by robot women i mean women who would be thought of as robots, or non social
>>27003719
What bothers me is that people on the Internet will tell me that the girl in that .webm is an outlier, or part of a minority of sluts that don't represent women at large.
No. That girl in that .webm represents how women behave these days. Don't lie to me, women being willingly degraded, abused and filmed is COMMON now.
>>27005207
The girl in the vid is a fucking pornstar dude. Chill out
>>27005207
>Don't lie to me, women being willingly degraded, abused and filmed is COMMON now.
Not really. I've banged tons of sluts. They still get mad as fuck if you try to film them. In general. There are exceptions to this.
>>27005221
She still represents what many women are doing these days, regardless of if she is a "porn star" or not. She represents women via her actions.
Go here and see what I mean you fucking faggot. This is one facet of what I'm talking about you faggot: >>>/hc/
>>27005207
This. Exactly this.
A small minority of women remain virgins until marriage.
Very few women don't have naked photos of themselves on the internet.
Very few women don't have have a tinder account or similar "hookup" app.
Casual sex is the norm now, and no one seems to be bothered by it. That worries me.
Honest question. I'm not trying to be SJW or anything, but couldn't you say the same thing about guys?
>Are you fucking kidding me? Think about the emotional significance of just one relationship. The moments you share. The experiences you undergo. The things you do together. That person, man or woman, is a huge, huge part of your life. Now multiply that by two, three, four, fucking ten, twenty people. How many times before you has he snuggled up to a girl in the exact same way and said, "I love you"? How many girls have been in that bed? How many girls has he shoved his cock into?
>>27005301
Sure, if I was gay. Are you?
>>27003719
>I can't see the difference between the things that go on in an intimate, long term relationship and one night stands and believe they have the same value.
>>27005313
If both genders are having this issue with intimacy, maybe the problem isn't the gender.
Ever think about that?
>>27005291
A very small minority of men remain virgins until marriage too. More men are on Tinder and dating apps too. I agree with women having more nudes out.
Society is getting degenerate as fuck and I don't like it either. fucking hell, i wish it just was just women but it's fucking everyone.
>>27005177
I wish they existed, man. I really do. They would be perfect.
>>27005301
OP here. I do say the same thing about guys, which is why I put "man or woman" in the opening post. I just continued with the woman example because I was writing it in the second-person. Sorry if it was confusing.
I'm not some retard who goes "tfw no pure virgin gf" and then goes out and fucks some drunk whore I picked up at a bar--I don't hold women to any standards I don't also hold myself to. If I can do it, so can they. I do not respect whores--male or female.
>tfw have herpes
Molested by a babysitter when I was 9 or so, she gave me herpes. I feel so dirty. I haven't had an outbreak in years, but I feel stained. There is no cure. I can never have a wife and kids like I want, because to cum inside my wife without protection would put her at risk of getting herpes, and I just couldn't do that to her even if she was willing to take the risk.
I don't know how sluts can live with themselves. It wasn't even my fault and I feel ruined. How can they deal knowing they have STDs?
>>27004425
Love doesn't have to be forever to be real, and hell is pretty cozy when you have someone to share it with.
>>27005353
Sure, how would you propose to solve the Jewish question then?
>>27004857
Why is sex such a big deal? It's just an activity. Would you also be upset that a girl went on dinners with 20 guys before you, or that she played Mario Kart with 20 guys before you?
>>27005322
See, it's exactly this kind of thinking that's ruined dating and society in general. Intimate, long-term relationships and """""one night stands""""" DO have the same value when it comes to the choices you make. You can't just wave away part of your sexual history with DUDE ONE NIGHT STAND LMAO and pretend it's insignificant. That says so much about you as a person, and negatively-so.
>>27005417
>Would you also be upset that a girl went on dinners with 20 guys before you, or that she played Mario Kart with 20 guys before you?
Wouldn't you? Who the hell does that unless they're either eating on other people's expense on purpose, or a professional Mario Kart player?
It's not even the emotional baggage or the fact she's had other dicks in her before... it's the fact that there's no more sense that it's better to keep exes in the past anymore.
They'll always be lurking around in the background, on her Instragram, at her favorite bar... they'll never stop gunning for you. And both objecting to her talking to them and ignoring it both make you look weak. You can't win.
>>27005417
Yes. If she's ever made an emotional connection with anyone she's diseased and impure. She must exist solely for my benefit.
>>27005417
>we live in a world where the average person actually believes this
Sex is intended for reproduction. To spend so much time having sex and focusing on sex as to accumulate 20 partners is inherently shameful because of how bound you are to your animal instincts.
>hehe, my peepee feels good, this must be good!
Nevermind the fact is destroys people's ability to have long lasting, successful relationships in the future, and exponentially increases divorce rates.
You know that sex before marriage was a long time tradition for a reason? I'm not religious, but to throw out thousands of years of wisdom is foolish, especially when the reason is just to make your pee pee feel good.
I hate this culture.
>>27005291
>casual sex is the norm now
But thats great, it means going through less bullshit just to get a quick fuck
Women are rarely worth keeping anymore now that 'muh womyn power' is giving them their reason to fuck anyone, its not a pretty path but the result of getting what you want is quicker. You can still try gf them, but after a hit of reality, you should know better.
We're in an era where getting sex or any action is easier than ever, just enjoy and add to the rising fire, no point chucking a cup of water that will barely douse it.
>>27005383
>I can never have a wife and kids like I want, because to cum inside my wife without protection would put her at risk of getting herpes,
Not how it works, virgin. Herpes is only spread by active sores. If you aren't having an outbreak, you aren't contagious.
>>27005383
Maybe they'll be understanding the way this dude was?
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/386g67/i_had_the_herpes_talk_with_the_guy_im_seeing/
> After I finished my speech, which didn't go exactly as I had practiced, he just looked at me and grabbed my hand. To my surprise he was completely understanding and told me he likes me for me and doesn't care about that. I was so shocked that I wasn't rejected that I didn't know what to say! People have always told me that if you find the right person, they won't care about those kinds of things and will still try to make it work.
Good luck! :)
>>27005417
Disease spread
Other than that monkeys need it to sustain themselves emotionally
Fucking a girl that has been with other guys makes you feel less important or some shit, I'm a virgin though so what the fuck do I know
>>27005301
Yes, you can say the same thing. Doesn't excuse either gender. Both harm themselves by being sluts.
Just because it was socially acceptable for men to do it, never meant it was a good thing.
>Socially acceptable =/= good
>>27005416
I have no solution. But at least don't spend your life shoehorning all women into one box and destroying any chance of a relationship.
Just accept that we're all in this shit together.
My first gf in high school had 30 patters before me. She was 18 I was 17. Also age raped me I guess. She was fucked up. Dad was alchoholic. Etc.
>>27005546
I really hope this doesn't devolve into a thread where whiteknights and mentally ill women start talking about how "society" hates women that have sex.
I cringe every time I see that, I can't help it. Women are always looking for ways to feel oppressed.
>>27005513
>Maybe they'll be understanding the way this dude was?
No, they won't be. Because I'm assuming anon is straight and women aren't capable of love. It's clear from that story he loves her. So anon doesn't have a chance.
>>27005505
I know that, but I've read many, many stories about it being transmitted accidentally. Hell, I know someone who accidentally got it from their gf despite knowing about it. Sores are tiny, and unless I shaved my dick and balls everyday, I wouldn't be able to be sure about every last thing. Especially if I shaved my dick and balls, because then ingrown hairs can be mistaken for it. I've read a few studies, and if you're with a long term partner having unprotected sex, even if you're monitoring for an outbreak, the chances are very high they will get it at some point.
>>27005513
Don't know if you're being sarcastic or not, but thank you anyways. That guy sounds like a cuck though.
>>27005557
Statistically that's not true though. And not generalizing will ruin your life very soon and very badly. Feel free to continue jumping on random cocks for true love though, since that's what your philosophy leads to.
>>27005513
Since 2/3rds of the girls have priced themselves out of the market, a non-Chad has no choice but to accept an incurable STD or bastard kid if he wants sex. .
>>27005417
>>27005468
Do you braindead morons really not understand that sex is an extremely intimate, emotional expression of love between two people? It's not comparable to playing Mario Kart, you fucking dumbasses. It's not some mundane pastime with no meaning behind it.
And way to miss the point of the argument, you little SJW faggot. There's literally nothing wrong with wanting to be a special, significant person in your loved one's life. If you're the forty-seventh guy she's slept with, the third guy she's married, and the fourth guy she's promised to "spend the rest of her life with," then you're not fucking special at all. Relationships should be meaningful, not fucking assembly lines of people lining up to shove their cocks in you.
>tfw turning down pussy and saving my virginity for the girl i'm pining for
I hope it's worth it.
>>27005402
Flippant, just like the nature of your relations with others. Pottery.
back thousands of years ago people probably fucked whenever they wanted. Then people realized that this was complete shit and fucked everything up so then we developed the traditional view of sex to solve this problem. Now we have cast away this wisdom which was developed over a long period of time.
Does anyone know if the idea of virginity keeping and not being a whore was developed separately in multiple civilizations? I bet it was because it's the obvious solution to the problem.
>>27005482
>Sex is intended for reproduction.
FYI sperm is intended for reproduction, and yet you spill it every day while looking at drawings of japanese girls on a computer monitor
>Nevermind the fact is destroys people's ability to have long lasting, successful relationships
I'm gonna need some sources on this.
>You know that sex before marriage was a long time tradition for a reason?
Yeah, they were afraid the invisible man in the sky would torture them for eternity
>thousands of years of wisdom
Jesus Christ man, this and the "as nature intended" meme too?
>when the reason is just to make your pee pee feel good.
Oh, you mean like whenever you jerk off?
Or whenever you disregard the wellbeing of animals so you can eat food just because it tastes yummy?
Or when you buy a phone/computer that was mass produced in a factory where kids are overworked to suicide, just because it feels good to buy?
Fuck off, you hypocrite.
>>27003719
>>27003852
>>27004721
Yeah OP not to derail your thread but I'm going to need sauce.
Actual topic discusion: If you think about it, each partner is devalued. The more men she's slept with the less valuable you are to her. You're just another guy and if she can so easily develop and lose feelings for those other guys, she can for you. She's basically asking you to compete on a level no man rationally can. It's not fair and it's not healthy. Especially in situations where she's not willing to do things with you, sexually or otherwise because some other guy ruined it for her.
You also have to deal with the emotional package left over by those other guys too. She won't trust you because Chad cheated on her so now she acts irrational any time you want to do anything she doesn't approve of, thinking you're going to go cheat because Chad can and does.
Honestly, we as men need to stand up and tell them this shit and not reward them. I think it's perfectly reasonable for you to ask how many sexual partners she has and if it's too high for you, you fucking leave. If you find out she lied about it, you fucking leave.
Telegeney is proving to be real too, she has the literal DNA of all those assholes floating around inside her. Parts of their soul, that you have to deal with.
Women don't realize our sexuality works differently, they might like to be shared but we don't like to share.
>>27005024
Sauce?
>>27005672
>>Do you braindead morons really not understand that sex is an extremely intimate, emotional expression of love between two people? It's not comparable to playing Mario Kart, you fucking dumbasses
virgin neckbeard detected
>then you're not fucking special at all. R
and why would you be? you think your that good lol, how big is you're cock and how much do you make anyway lol
>>27003855
You sure do give a fuck when she cheats on you though. Then I get a call in middle of the night from your drunk ass lamenting about how you should of listened to me about that girl.
Hedonism is cancer to any society or civilisation.
>>27005672
>sex is an extremely intimate, emotional expression of love between two people?
Do you realize there are different contexts of sex? Not all sex is intimate, you braindead moron.
> It's not some mundane pastime with no meaning behind it.
So why do people complain about sex being meaningless nowadays?
>There's literally nothing wrong with wanting to be a special, significant person in your loved one's life.
And there's nothing wrong with hoping you marry a perfect 10/10 tall rich guy, but it just ain't gonna happen. The sooner you reign in your fantasies, the better off you will be.
> Relationships should be meaningful
And they can be, regardless of sex.
Why is sex so important to you? Probably because you don't have it.
>>27005740
>I'm gonna need some sources on this
Pic related, also
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/06/24/relationship-between-early-sex-and-divorce_n_882681.html
https://www.focusonthefamily.com/about_us/focus-findings/marriage/premarital-sex-and-divorce.aspx
>Oh, you mean like whenever you jerk off?
The difference is jerking off is healthy, and it doesn't increase my odds of divorce in the future, which is harmful for both parties, and the innocent victims- children produced in the marriage.
>you hypocrite
You are making false equivalencies. All of those things are material, they are not equal to a reproductive act between two individuals. You are putting
>make my pee pee feel good!
on the highest pedestal. You become slave to your animal instincts. I eat food because I need to. I eat meat because I enjoy it. But I do not center my life around it, nor do I attempt to justify it to everyone around me as the most wholesome good, a liberation, like people in this day and age do with sex outside of marriage.
Good try though.
>>27005493
>We're in an era where getting sex or any action is easier than ever
So what does it mean if you still can't get sex?
Am I an absolute failure of a human being?
>>27005635
>Statistically that's not true though
What does that mean? We're all living in the same society, right?
And have fun masturbating to hundreds of porn stars, until you get bored of natural sex and need crazy fucking fetishes to even get aroused.
Much more honorable.
>>27005493
Seems better to try to fight it than to give up and go down with the ship.
I realise the brutal irony, or hypocrisy or whatever, of that on a board where we all gave up a long time ago.
It's just... sure, everyone else is jumping off the cliff but that doesn't mean you have to do it, too.
How on Earth do you get over the fact that, once you're old enough to have a steady income and enough wealth to sustain a family, that 99% of all available women have already had their good dose of dicking and semen sprayed all over their bodies while one remains a virgin?
How the fuck can one cope with that?
How is it possible to deal with the fact that women are completely pardoned of all their previous sexual adventures while the beta male remains pathetic and has to swallop up all of Chad's crusty semen off the slut's face?
Is this society a detrimental one towards us? Are we destined to get cucked?
>>27005093
Fucking hell I'm still not finding this shit. GOOGLE YOU HAVE FAILED ME.
>>27005916
>We're all living in the same society, right?
Absolutely not, we live in many societies, some intertwined with each other, some never touching. That's like saying a schizophrenic homeless guy and Oprah are living in the same society.
Mad that you're not sexy enough to make men hard, btw?
>>27005842
>So what does it mean if you still can't get sex?
Natural selection. I'm serious.
>>27005383
Because women don't have the mental capacity to understand the concept of "wrong", it's "I want something so I do it." Never expect a woman to sacrifice something she wants so she's not putting others in harms way.
>>27005777
I lost my virginity at 16 to a borderline autistic girl I barely knew from high school. First and only time I've ever had sex. Felt nothing towards her, didn't like the sex, regretted it ever since. Relationship ended four months later. I hate the fact that I wasted myself on her.
Sex is meaningful, no matter how much you try to deny it.
>>27005672
>Do you braindead morons really not understand that sex is an extremely intimate, emotional expression of love between two people?
It can be, but it doesn't have to be. People have had sex for all kinds of reasons throughout history, from animalistic lust to a passionless need to reproduce. What gives you the right to come along and say "you're doing it wrong!"?
>There's literally nothing wrong with wanting to be a special, significant person in your loved one's life.
But there is if literally the only way you can feel special is being the first person to ejaculate inside of your partner. My current partner isn't my first fuck, and I'm not hers - but it doesn't change how wonderful it feels when we cuddle up with each other after we come together.
>>27005958
by doing this and walking away. not putting up with that shit.
>>27006031
I don't think that's entirely true. It's more akin to:
>I want something
>it's wrong
>well let me justify it to myself
>okay now I will do it and I am in the right
Modern slut culture.
>>27006037
>What gives you the right to come along and say "you're doing it wrong!"?
What gives you the right?
>>27005482
> I'm not religious, but to throw out thousands of years of wisdom is foolish, especially when the reason is just to make your pee pee feel good.
I know this feel. Hell monogamy isn't even a religious thing, the worlds leading antropologist and his team discovered that monogamy is literally what evolved you as a species. It came first. When people talk about animal instincts, their actually going AGAINST their own biological imperative by being sluts.
That's how the other hominids died out!
But you're 100% right because it's basically "me pee pee feel good!" it's basically chasing base-line physical stimulus no matter what, no matter who gets hurt, what diseases you get, etc. And the funny thing is how our culture lies about it. We're honest here because we're anonymous but normies constantly chase after this physical stimulus, are mindless slaves to it, and then pretend like they're not when people are looking at them. Especially the religious.
>>27005824
>Pic related, also
Those results are probably conflated with many other factors, like age, religion and community. The only girls that would've said they were virgins would either have been young (and therefore more impressionable) or religious (and therefore more susceptible to peer pressure). Non of these things mean she's better at being a more intimate partner, they simply mean she has other priorities than just you, the partner.
Oh, and if you look at that graph, it only really drops off after 4 partners. Which is pretty average. So really you're just complaining about sluts being sluts.
>The difference is jerking off is healthy
And so is safe sex
>doesn't increase my odds of divorce in the future
There hasn't been any studies on this, but I wouldn't be surprised if exposing yourself to thousands of different girls through porn DIDN'T affect your view of intimacy negatively
>. I eat food because I need to
Then why not eat the cheapest, healthiest stuff and nothing else? I'll tell you why, because:
>I eat meat because I enjoy it
i.e. because it makes my tastebuds feel good!
>But I do not center my life around it
Oh, so it's not why you're an overweight fat fuck?
>nor do I attempt to justify it to everyone around me
You seem to be doing so right now.
>>27005817
>Do you realize there are different contexts of sex? Not all sex is intimate, you braindead moron.
It's supposed to be an intimate experience. You're no better than a fucking monkey who goes out to fuck his she-monkey in the open because DURR IT'S JUST SEX LIKE WHO CARES MANNNNNNNN
>So why do people complain about sex being meaningless nowadays?
Are you retarded? You hedonistic shits make sex unimportant with you constant animal fucking hence it loses it's meaning to you and you only.
>And there's nothing wrong with hoping you marry a perfect 10/10 tall rich guy, but it just ain't gonna happen. The sooner you reign in your fantasies, the better off you will be.
>it's now unreasonable to expect your partner to not fuck indiscriminately in party orgies
>it's now unreasonable to expect that your partner at least maintained a level headed long term relationships if she had some partners
>it's now unreasonable to practice self restraint
>Why is sex so important to you? Probably because you don't have it.
>LOL UR A VIRGIN
It's like you're too dumb to connect two and two and realize your error of thinking. Don't take it out on everyone else for proving your moronic statements wrong.
>>27005817
>Do you realize there are different contexts of sex? Not all sex is intimate, you braindead moron.
Sex is inherently an intimate act, you fucking retard.
>So why do people complain about sex being meaningless nowadays?
Because retards like you spout retarded things like "not all sex is intimate" and treat sex like a joke.
>And there's nothing wrong with hoping you marry a perfect 10/10 tall rich guy, but it just ain't gonna happen. The sooner you reign in your fantasies, the better off you will be.
>a man wanting to marry a girl who isn't a whore is the same thing as a woman wanting to marry a rich, 10/10 model
How fucking dumb are you? A woman can choose to not be a whore. All it takes is self-control, something most people seem to unfortunately lack. A man can't choose to be a rich, Chad model.
>And they can be, regardless of sex.
If you're the sixty-seventh person your girlfriend has been with, your relationship is diluted as fuck.
>Why is sex so important to you? Probably because you don't have it.
See: >>27006034
This is the classic normie justification for their degeneracy. "Hurr, you value sex and ifnd it meaningful so u must be an icky virgin XDDD"
I hope you get AIDS very soon and slowly waste away as snippets of this thread echo endlessly in your head.
>>27006152
maybe you'd be less mad if you got laid once in a while ^_~
>>27006008
Mate, we just established that both Western men and women are having these problems. We're not talking about fucking Kurdistan here.
Once again, why is masturbating to strangers in videos a better option for preserving intimacy?
>>27005750
I agree with all this but
>Telegeney is proving to be real too, she has the literal DNA of all those assholes floating around inside her. Parts of their soul, that you have to deal with.
This is only if Chad gets her pregnant, she MAY retain it - the study was done on mice. It's not just from being cummed inside.
>>27006126
>Those results are probably conflated with many other factors, like age, religion and community. The only girls that would've said they were virgins would either have been young (and therefore more impressionable) or religious (and therefore more susceptible to peer pressure). Non of these things mean she's better at being a more intimate partner, they simply mean she has other priorities than just you, the partner.
>Oh, and if you look at that graph, it only really drops off after 4 partners. Which is pretty average. So really you're just complaining about sluts being sluts.
Okay, disregard my evidence but don't post your own or any proof that your claims are true. Nice work.
>and so is safe sex
Within a marriage yes, otherwise the effects are just too damaging long term to their ability to form meaningful relationships.
>There hasn't been any studies on this, but I wouldn't be surprised if exposing yourself to thousands of different girls through porn DIDN'T affect your view of intimacy negatively
You are assuming I watch porn, I don't.
>i.e. because it makes my tastebuds feel good
Yes?? And?? You are trying to say that eating for enjoyment (in moderation, I am not overweight) is wrong if having lots of sex outside of marriage is wrong. These are two different things. Eating food for enjoyment doesn't effect the possibility of my future kids growing up in a broken home.
>Oh, so it's not why you're an overweight fat fuck?
lol, you sound mad, resorting to petty insults.
>You seem to be doing so right now.
Do you know what justification means? You attacked me on it, I explained why it's different. Did you want me to just not talk about it?
>>27006117
I'm glad someone else knows this feeling. I hate when people say that sleeping around is liberation. It is slavery, it is shackling yourself to your basest animal desires, made possible only by modern birth control.
I'm really, really glad someone understands where I'm coming from. Thank you very much anon.
>she starts remembering fondly of that time you and her had a puppy
>except that wasnt you it was her old boyfriend
>>27004242
> I don't give a shit what she's done before me
Boggles my mind when people say shit like this.
You're saying it wouldnt bother you if the future mother to your children had been sucking dicks for 10 dollars?
If you had the option between a nice girl who had 0-3 partners or a nice girl who has had 100. Any sane man would choose the first.
>>27006010
But even serial killers and downs syndromes have gfs.
Am I really worse than them, just because I'm a bit awkward?
>>27006199
>Mate, we just established that both Western men and women are having these problems. We're not talking about fucking Kurdistan here.
You didn't understand my post.
>Once again, why is masturbating to strangers in videos a better option for preserving intimacy?
Gee I dunno, why is killing people in video games a better option for stress release than killing them for real?
>>27006188
Maybe you'd be less of a retard if you actually studied in school. I've also had a gf before and I don't accept half the cuck shit you "MUH DIK" monkeys gladly take just to wet your peepee in a warm hole.
I find it hard to believe that a woman in this thread is arguing AGAINST casual sex. All women are sluts and whores. Some guy is obviously roleplaying a woman here.
>>27006225
I don't think retards on this board are old enough to realize that people have memories and how their past experiences shape them, for them "memories" are "that time at band camp when I stuck a flute in my pussy" or some shit.
>>27006097
>What gives you the right?
No one's saying "Only casual sex is right!"
There's the retarded group
>Casual sex is always wrong!
And the sane group
>Any sex can be right or wrong, make your own choices
>>27006287
Sorry you're gf left you because your a small dick shitter with 0 sexperience :)
>>27006097
Nothing. Hence why I'm not saying "you're doing it wrong." If you only want to fuck a virgin partner who you've married, go for it. Just don't get upset when other people don't go along with it, and fuck for other reasons.
>>27005721
Yeah it happened way before we were even a species. We had 14 cousins, hominids, but most died out because they couldn't/wouldn't take care of their own children or breed with us because we were better parents.
I mean it's simple evolution, you take care of your kids, they survive, they go on to pass your genes around. Monogamy happened because it meant you focused on your own kids, you recognized them, they looked like you and your partner. So you could focus your time and energy on them.
Cuckolding on the other hand is anti-evolution. It's not natural for our species at all. It developed later when sluts weren't gathering berries for us anymore and were sitting around with nothing better to do than fuck another guy while they're husbands were out plowing the fields or fighting wars.
>>27004347
>dat bait
>find herself
Try harder m8 you can do better
>>27006292
It's an insane autist who always does the moronic "hurp durp horse cocks in muh pussy are the same as you jerking off to womyn on the screen" schtick, you haven't noticed it? It's been posting for years.
>>27006318
>normie already mad
OOGA BOOGA MUH DIK MUFUKA
I'm sure I will grate my teeth in anger at you normie from my office in the tower as you tell your McDonalds coworker about that orgy porgy you had
>>27006224
OP here. I also agree wholeheartedly with you, m8. Unfortunately we seem to be a small minority, even on /r9k/.
>>27006178
>Sex is inherently an intimate act, you fucking retard.
Sex is inherently not an intimate act. See? I can pretend my opinions are facts too!
>>27005369
i know a few, one looks good too, short and chubby just how i like em but no too fat
>>27005817
>>27006188
>>27006318
Are you a nigger? Because it sounds like your dysfunctional family and lack of a father figure fucked you up good anon
>>27005402
>Love doesn't have to be forever to be real
wow, holy fuck, this generation, this society, hope humanity get extint soon.
>>27003719
Does that apply to men too?
>>27005136
>get multiple STDs from her EX, jamal
anon...
>>27005402
>LOL IM SO EDGY GUYS IM SO FUN TO HANG OUT WITH >:D
Why are you such a faggot?
>>27006377
Sex is an intimate act, this is a fact.
idiot.
>>27006369
Used to be more like us here, but alas, what can ya do.
At least there are still some reasonable people out there. It's always good to see one. Stay true to your convictions.
>>27005817
>And there's nothing wrong with hoping you marry a perfect 10/10 tall rich guy, but it just ain't gonna happen.
>guy
Female detected.
>>27006152
>It's supposed to be an intimate experience
>b-but it's SUPPOSED to be!
Supposed by who? Nature, which you literally disregard in the next sentence? God, in which case you are sticking to some thousands-year-old tradition just because?
> hence it loses it's meaning to you and you only.
So why are you upset if it doesn't lose meaning to you? Can't we just coexist?
Wow, you went off the deep end there. Most people don't have orgies, and most people do have long-term relationships. And isolating yourself for so long probably does affect how you see sex, sorry to say.
Get a grip son, if you keep going like this you might have a nervous breakdown.
>this thread
wew. Just go back to facebook lads. I'm sure everyone will like your post for sticking out for your wife's son
>>27006228
>Boggles my mind when people say shit like this.
They're beta whiteknight nu-males who have been cucked by feminism so hard that they genuinely believe this bullshit. It's scary.
>>27006444
>already mentioning god
Can you tip your fedora any harder?
It's funny to think virgins know anything about relationships and romance, considering they've never actually experienced it themselves.
/r9k/ has been conditioned by movies, anime, visual novels, and all forms of media into believing that romance is some magical bullshit. It really isn't. Romance often never works out and relationships fall apart. Even long-lasting relationships fall apart, such as parents of 20 something year old kids deciding that they're better off alone. Sorry this shit isn't like Katawa Shoujo. Your Hanako doesn't fucking exist. Romance for the most part will not work out. Not trying to sound like Schopenhauer here, but just trying to warn you about falling for the romance meme.
>>27006444
>Supposed by who? Nature, which you literally disregard in the next sentence? God, in which case you are sticking to some thousands-year-old tradition just because?
it gets boring if its not
also, are you a fem""""bot"""" if so, then be gone, normie
>>27006429
Sex is not an intimate act, this is a fact. Idiot.
>ITT: A slut keeps insulting God and defending casual sex, yet robots are afraid to use the fedora meme and fight back against her because they don't want to hurt a womyn's feelings
You are a bunch of faggots.
>>27006444
>supposed by who? Nature?
The male and female brains release chemicals that relax the user right after climax. The female brain also releases chemicals that cause her to bond more strongly with the male; as seen with pregnant mothers who give birth to their babies and despite the pain are happy to see their newborn
Human society up to modern times has condemned hedonism and the primal act of sex for thousands of years because animal-like sex debauchery is incompatible with the stability of society. And you can argue that prostitution is the oldest profession because of these primal instincts of humans yet nowhere in any human society of the past do you see them being praised and lauded.
Sex with a partner is okay to be indulged but you faggots take it a step further and numb yourself, orgy after orgy then wonder why you can't feel a thing anymore. No wonder feminism has seeped into your numbed out brains
>>27003719
At this point I'm considering becoming a monk. I'm fed up with living around hedonistic animals, nor are they worth saving from hell.
>>27006516
Sex is a natural form of procreation.
It's not sacred when a dog tries to hump your leg. It is really nothing special, much like masturbation.
>>27006512
What the fuck Is this bullshit meme?
>r9k is one person
>everyone who browses this board is a virgin because a few people have said so!
>you have a different opinion than me? YOU MUST BE A VIRGIN?
I cannot comprehend this mentality in the slightest. How close minded, no, stupid can you be? Kill yourself mouthbreather.
>>27006412
>I can't think of how to respond here
>I'm just going to piss and moan about muh degeneracy
>that always works
>>27006428
Considering that I'm coming inside someone of the opposite sex on a regular basis, while you're just playing with a cock all day, I think I should be asking you that.
>>27006377
in-ti-mate
'in(t)emet/
adjective
1.
closely acquainted; familiar, close.
2.
private and personal.
You are shoving your genitals into someone else's genitals, you stupid fucking retard. That is objectively an intimate act.
I don't even have a reaction image that accurately conveys the anger I feel right now. You are literally too fucking stupid to live.
>>27006582
We are not dogs, we are humans with a higher level of awareness you fucking retarded fembot cunt.
>>27006419
Yes. A whore is a whore.
>>27006178
>Sex is inherently an intimate act, you fucking retard.
Is that why bonobos just fuck anyone out in the open?
What's so intimate about it other than it feeling good? Is eating a tasty meal with someone also intimate?
>A woman can choose to not be a whore
If your definition of whore is more than 0 sex partner, than not really. And why would she want to sacrifice a huge part of life in order to find an autist like you who fetishizes virginity and puts in on a pedestal.
Almost sounds like you should become Amish or something if this is such a big deal for you.
>If you're the sixty-seventh person your girlfriend has been with, your relationship is diluted as fuck.
Sure, if you're the 67th one night stand. But if you're only the 2nd or 3rd or 4th long term partner, that's a little different.
>"Hurr, you value sex and ifnd it meaningful so u must be an icky virgin XDDD"
Simply an observation of your obvious neurosis related to sex. You don't think it's interesting that you are so obsessed with something you have never experienced on anything but an abstract level?
This is kind of like talking to a 12 year old who thinks he's an expert on mustaches.
>>27006570
Mentioning god is a fast way to shut peoples minds. The fedora runs deep through society, now. If you try to bring god into an argument then people just disregard opinions. It's sad, really.
>>27006255
>killing people = sex
Wow, now I've heard everything.
Let me guess, American right?
>>27006512
I get where you're coming from obviously but I feel like not having experienced it allows some of us to have a more objective perception of romance as we have no subjective involvement/ investment in it as part of our personal lives.
maybe I just sound like a virgin faggot who is justifying having an opinion, its still going to be biased by cynical virgin feels but hey its a point nonetheless.
But its their body!
>>27006590
>his only argument is muh dik
It's time to stop posting jamal
>>27006602
It really confuses me how people are so eager to deny their humanity and want to act like animals.
>marriage rates are plummeting
>single mothers are at an all time high
We're at the tipping point. Things are shit, but women are going to start feeling the consequences of their decisions, and white knights will count for nothing when even they don't want to sign the marriage license.
>>27006703
If we didn't have a migrant wave with a radically different culture flooding in then yes, things could eventually level out and start to return to normal.
>>27006655
It's the only way they can justify their disgusting habits. By removing any sense of morality and responsibility they don't feel as bad about the things they do.
>>27005740
>Or whenever you disregard the wellbeing of animals so you can eat food just because it tastes yummy?
>Or when you buy a phone/computer that was mass produced in a factory where kids are overworked to suicide, just because it feels good to buy?
wew lad
>>27006546
Sexual intercourse is litterally one of the defnintions of intimacy you fucking teenager.
>>27006571
Really? Because the study I saw showed a correlation between oxytocin and bonding, but no conclusion as to whether oxytocin release led to the bonding, or whether couples who bonded released more oxytocin than couples who didn't bond.
Ultimately it doesn't matter to me, because I am incapable of scoring a woman.
Tulpamancy here I come.
>>27005369
>I wish they existed, man. I really do. They would be perfect.
I'm right here you fag
>>27006224
>Okay, disregard my evidence but don't post your own or any proof that your claims are true. Nice work.
There haven't been any studies done on the opposite. I'm limited to simple logic here.
> too damaging long term to their ability to form meaningful relationships.
You don't even understand your own studies. Just because two factors are correlated, doesn't not mean they are causal.
You really think that if you fucked one more girl, you would then end up divorcing your wife? There are way more factors involved here, and your inexperience in how relationships work is showing. Stop being autistic and only seeing people s numbers.
>You are assuming I watch porn, I don't.
Well then, you are an insignificant minority (even on r9k), and by your own logic, I should completely disregard you.
>You are trying to say that eating for enjoyment (in moderation, I am not overweight) is wrong
No I'm not. I'm saying that you do it for enjoyment (aka because it makes my peepee feel good!). Therefore you are on no higher moral ground; you use the same fucking motivations for hedonistic desires as the people you are complaining about.
>>27006419
>wanting to date a man who's licked other woman's assholes
That's so fucking disgusting. I wouldn't even lick my own asshole and it's clean.
>>27006596
Neither definition applies. People don't need to be closely acquainted to engage in sexual intercourse, nor is it innately a private and personal act. Some people fuck on camera. So you've just disproven your own point. GJ.
>>27006293
You mean like, she still cares about you even though she thinks about her ex sometimes?
Or do you mean you will never be as important as her ex no matter what?
>>27006648
You don't have an argument, so why should I?
>>27006785
>>No I'm not. I'm saying that you do it for enjoyment (aka because it makes my peepee feel good!). Therefore you are on no higher moral ground
Hmmmmm which one of those two things involves OTHER PEOPLE. I see you conveniently disregarded >>27006255
>>27006602
>>27006655
We have reason, that's about it.
And we can come up with reasons for putting less stock into sex as an intimate sacred act that must be between two committed partners.
Sex is a recreational activity for human beings. We do it because we get pleasure out of it. Whether it's for higher pleasure or for bodily pleasures doesn't really matter. Sex might be an intimate act, but it can be done outside of wedlock and oftentimes it does. Hell, it happens all the time outside of relationships too. Why? Because sex is fun and pleasurable. The intimacy is not the appeal to sex, it is an afterthought of sex.
>>27006770
Are you the only one? Where do your people call home?
>>27006512
Do you know why most relationships fall apart? Because most people are retards with bad judgement, poor impulse control, and no self-awareness. There is nothing unrealistic or unattainable about a VN-esque relationship.
>>27006765
So 12-year-olds can be more deeply intimate than you and me?
Do you realize how moronic that sounds?
It's not the act, it's the motivations behind the act, you retards.
>used to be robot
>kv acne ridden ugly skeleton until 19
>some 4/10 chubby asian girl liked me and we dated, lost vcard
>was a shitshow but everyone needs a starter gf
>got on accutane and started lifting and forcing myself to act sociable
>now have fucked 5 girls, made out with 12
Now let me tell you about the last one and why this is all relevant.
>girl 2, 3, 4 all use ME as a one night stand when I just wanted a relationship
>say fuck it, better than nothing and girl 5 becomes fwb
>girl 5 is an internet 7 and irl 8.5, still to this day dunno how I got her
>we start getting close emotionally
>agree to be exclusive fwbs
>hanging out without sex, talking and cuddling
>holding hands sometimes in public
>she just wanted to stay how things were, didn't want a relationship with anyone she said
>she had fucked at least 20 guys but I didn't care, she was great
>suddenly she ends it, says she's getting too attached but that was bullshit
>see her in another guy's arms a couple weeks later, her friends confirm they're dating
The moral? No matter how much affection you may think a woman feels for you, or even how much affection she thinks she feels for you, if she has had a lot of sex she will never feel those attachments as strongly as if she hadn't. You will always be to some degree expendable, and that degree will increase as a factor of dicks taken.
Take it from this robot wearing a chad mask, your opinions are correct. Never settle brahs.
>>27005513
I have a 4/10 butterface "friend" with herpes and she gets plowed by randos on the regular that she told me "don't care". Wtf...
>>27004242
>you don't need to love someone to have sex with them.
Chad detected
>>27006822
I'm obviously talking about something that's of too great complexity for you to understand so nevermind.
>>27006433
Or, you know, I could be lending credence to all possible perspectives, and letting that decide the argument, instead of choosing one side and holding on for dear life. You close-minded autist.
>>27006224
>Eating food for enjoyment doesn't effect the possibility of my future kids growing up in a broken home.
Yeah it's all about context here. Sex involves mutiple people, sex involves MAKING people. It should be viewed more seriously than "ME PEEPEE AM FEEL GOOD!" like it does to normies. They are the ones that end up getting pregnant with people they don't like, raising some shit kid who ends up a bully or pyscho criminal because he is just a byproduct of random fucking and not planned or cared for.
Other people's sex effects us. It's everywhere. People make decisions based on it and will screw you over just to get sex. I know, it's the story of my life. I've been made homeless several times because the people I was living with wanted to have sex with other people and not have me in the house to see it. Women pull this shit all the time. It's always the non-sexually active male they gang up on, blame for all the problems and turn the social circle against them. Seen it happen to my robot-like friends too.
On one hand, if sex was "just sex" that would be okay, maybe, but normies make it spill over into every area of everyone else's life while pretending they aren't even having it. While they judge everyone else on whether they are having it or not.
>"N-n-ooo anon, you need move out because she's a single mother with a kid and they have no where to go! I'd rather put you out on the street than this poor single mother!"
>"Anon she cheated on me when you moved out!"
>I'm glad someone else knows this feeling. I hate when people say that sleeping around is liberation.
Yeah I know, I think we've been going on without sex for so long that we have a more objective view of it. Their brains are hardwired to lie and delude themselves because sex feels good and that feeling trumps reality.
The whole TL;DR of this post is that normies don't have enough self-awareness to realize how much their sexual liberation causes problems for themselves and others.
>>27006847
I live with my parents and lock myself up in my room away from the degenerate world we live in.
>>27006602
You're right. As human beings who truly understand the pleasures of sex, we should strive to engage in it as often as possible. We shouldn't limit ourselves to mere reproductive need like animals - we should embrace our sexualities, and indulge regularly and enthusiastically.
>>27006884
Isn't it illegal to have sex with someone without informing them that you have a life long infectious disease?
>>27006590
When you bait this hard i don't have to reply seriously
>>27006876
>if she has had a lot of sex she will never feel those attachments as strongly as if she hadn't.
That's like saying "I'll never feel the attachment to a wooden horse now that I have money and I can buy game consoles and cars and airplanes and shit" your just a poorfag who has no choices in life because he has no social capital or money or anything and your justifying it
>>27006843
We do it because it put us here faggot, but sure, pseudo-intellectualize your cummies; wouldn't be the first time.
>>27006816
Kill yourself. I'm not saying this as a joke. This isn't friendly "banter." I genuinely mean it. You are literally too stupid to live.
>>27006930
So unfortunately getting those rare perfect girls will require a lot of breaking and entering.
>>27006816
It's "innately" intimate you simple cunt.
>>27006966
I'm not poor though, not sure why money came in here. Normally my poor self image would agree that it was just me being shit. But in this case, I secretly read her texts one time and she had literally texted her friend all this positive shit about me, mainly how I'm "amazing in bed".
So it doesn't even matter how good the sex is or how close you are, it's literally just about novelty for sluts. Never get involved with sluts.
>>27003719
there has never been an age where there were no people claiming this. only virgins actually believe having sex with someone makes them a huge part of your life btw, and even that situation is more self centered than oriented around the other person.
with that said, just find a conservative/"traditional" girl. society doesn't think being a slut is normal at all. you're just a fucking beta faggot who failed at life and you look to forms of entertainment to substitute for that. whores have existed all over popular media since the beginning of history.
>>27006575
you would only do that for your own hedonistic pursuits so it has little merit.
>>27003719
I don't really see why it matters.
>>27006512
Just because we haven't experienced it first hand doesn't mean we haven't observed it. Like I just said in another post and this >>27006640 anon said, we have a different, more objective view.
I rambled on in my last post and skimmed the point, but sex-havers build up cognitive dissonance because sex feels good and they don't want it to go away. I've seen relationship after relationship implode from miles away but the guy in the relationship didn't want to believe me because he was getting his dick touched, so there couldn't possible be any way that this dick-toucher was harming him or cheating on him or using him or lying to him!
My opinion of the female and females in general is different when they're not directly manipulating my emotions through my bodily pleasure. When she's not touching YOUR dick, it's a lot easier to see her flaws and the flaws of the relationship in general.
the more people you have sex with the worse of a wife/mother you'll be
so says every study ever conducted about marriage and raising kids
>>27007038
>you're just a fucking beta faggot who failed at life
Where do you think you are, you walking testament to the merit of eugenics?
>>27006975
That's a tautology, though. "Sex is intimate because the dictionary definition of intimate is sexual inter purse" is completely meaningless. It's like saying the skybox green, then clarifying that I define green as the color of the sky. It's technically true, but doesn't actually say anything.
>>27006989
Yeah. I don't like to answer phonecalls or open the door.
I'll receive letters and notes.
>>27006484
The other two faggots brought up religion, not me.
>>27006571
>Human society up to modern times has condemned hedonism and the primal act of sex for thousands of years because animal-like sex debauchery is incompatible with the stability of society
Yeah sure, that's what this is really about. Saving society. Not that you're sexually frustrated or anything like that, nosiree.
And no one's having orgy after orgy. You're susceptible to internet memes as you are to anime. Why not just go out and experience life for yourself instead of judging it from afar with no accuracy whatsoever?
>>27006596
>You are shoving your genitals into someone else's genitals, you stupid fucking retard.
So? What about shoving your collection of nerve endings into another bunch of nerve endings makes it magically intimate?
Once again, look at our close relatives, the Bonobos.
>>27005024
Cunt are you serious? What's the goddamn sauce? I feel like i'm taking crazy pills here!
>>27006647
I was waiting for this for a while.
A better analogy here would be that it's the same bowl of cereal, except 50 different dudes with 50 different spoons eating out of it. Doesn't sound appealing does it?
>>27006909
Nah that was a freudian slip. You're either gay or a girl.
>>27007073
HOLY SHIT
and here i am sitting with a sealed vagina that won't even take a finger
how the fuck do you get into fisting
shit man
>>27007033
what is she gonna tell them "i picked a small dick loser" lol
gotta front dat shit mang
>>27006703
It's funny, I bet that if society changes and it gets harder to get casual sex, r9k will complain even more.
>>27007073
Correlation doesn't imply causation. Before premarital sex was normalized, people who engaged in it tended to be the kind of people who would make bad parents. Now, since it's becoming normalized, the statistical difference has decreased - since now people who are likely to be good parents are more likely to engage in premarital sex. In a few decades, there probably won't be any statistical significance - or maybe the effect will be reversed.
>>27007073
It was hard to read the first part, disgusting.
Man to think she had 26 years of fun before her life START to get bad, woman are much luckier than us
>>27003719
I am convinced that there's some kind of conspiracy in place to JUST.
>>27007106
>Once again, look at our close relatives, the Bonobos.
You always bring up the exact same disproven talking points every time you sperg out on /r9k/. Are you legitimately autistic or just this inhumanely bored? Do you have an actual life or what?
>>27007087
Drop me an email and tell me how to identify your sort.[email protected]I'll get back to you in the morning.
>>27007245
>I am convinced that there's some kind of conspiracy
>nopt already having proof of said conspiracy
stay bluepilled, goy
>>27007174
y-you too?
I can't even fit the tip of my pinky finger
>>27007127
You're describing an orgy, anon.
>>27005824
I'm basically on your side bro but if you're thinking jerking off to porn is not harming your future sex life you're just as delusional as the people you argue with.
>>27007075
>I say sex is inherently intimate
>you say sex is not inherently intimate
>I point out that "intimate" is literally a fucking euphemism for, and is defined by, sex
>"n-n-no, th-that's technically true but it doesn't s-say anything!"
It takes genuine effort to be this much of a fucking obtuse idiot.
>>27006117
link study you fuckwit
>>27007110
Been posted already, m8. Angela White.
>>27005454
>my values are the same as other peoples and therefore how I interpret things like sexuality and relationships is the only viable interpretation of them - the post.
You are a child.
>>27006839
>Hmmmmm which one of those two things involves OTHER PEOPLE.
You mean food? Those fields could be used to feed some of the thousands of people that die of starvation every day.
Or did you mean buying gadgets and shit, which involves children working in labor camps and never seeing daylight, except for the one time they jump off the roof to end their misery?
>I see you conveniently disregarded
Nope, answered it right here
>>27006639
Equating sex to killing people is ridiculous. They're like literal opposites.
>>27007265
Eat dick u pedantic lil hoe
>>27007072
Ever seen the movie Hitch? It's easy to objectively see things in other people's relationships. That's the difference between being a commentator vs being in the game. Once you're in the game, objectivity is not only hard to maintain, but also hard to keep. You're not going to be able to see everything that is going on from your point of view. Hence, why having male friends who are straight up with you is imperative. They're like coaches, they keep your head in the game.
>>27007317
I tried nigga, i ain't found nothing
>>27007075
Nevermind, brother. It's clear we're arguing with aspies here. It's just hard for them to imagine a world outside of statistics and dictionary definitions.
![immanuel-kant[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/D7Dxw1o.jpg "immanuel-kant[1].jpg")
>>27007323
>implying morality isn't objective
Fuck you.
>>27004242
>fills up memory with random girls and moments with them
>he thinks he'll find a happy stable relationship one day
Ahahahaha.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2510656/Casual-sex-cause-depression-lead-suicidal-thoughts-experts-warn.html
http://www.sheknows.com/health-and-wellness/articles/1089297/scientists-link-millennial-casual-sex-trend-to-depression
AHAHAHAH
>>27007385
Your sex is garbage and meaningless and it's all you have. Sounds pretty sad to me senpai, hope you don't hang yourself.
>>27007385
>statistics and facts all completely disprove my argument
>let's just ignore them altogether
Wow, it's like I'm really on tumblr!
>>27007342
>Nope, answered it right here
No, that's called playing stupid*.
Look, I like doing the whole devil's advocate bullshit too, but at least I'm legitimately intelligent enough to construct an amusingly retarded hypothetical position that brings the issue to light in a clever and often hilarious manner (even if most people don't get it). Try more of that and less of this*.
>>27006785
>You really think that if you fucked one more girl, you would then end up divorcing your wife?
Again with the female language here. And yeah it does happen like that. Chad husbands cheat way more than betas because they're so used to getting new pussy all the time it becomes second-nature to go get it. Where as the beta is just glad for one pussy.
The guys who I know who've had one GF their whole lives don't cheat and the guys I know who get laid a lot often cheat and don't care, they make up excuses for themselves.
It definitely goes both ways, it's just more work for a male.
>>27004853
why do you even bother posting?
you seem like a reasonable. educated guy in his mid 20's
>>27004480
>>27004671
these people so clearly have never been within 100 miles of a woman.
