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Can we get 22+ thread going? Hows your life?
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22 still has hope. 25+ is where the train leaves the station.
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>>26928761
>23
>shitty
>can't wait to die
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>>26928761

Lemme guess, you're 22 right?
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>>26928782
OP here, 26. Lately I have been thinking I dont really want to get on it.
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>>26928761

>23
>feels like a second puberty
>stopped vydia
>started liftin'
>feels good man
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>23
>no social life
>minimum wage part time job
>going to community college, about to transfer back into a university (failed out of my first school)
>live at home with my parents (because I failed out of my first school)

Things are going great, OP. They only way things could get even better is if someone put a bullet in my head.
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>23
>just barely finished BA in something I don't give a shit about
>no idea what I want to do in life
>too dumb to start own company
>don't wanna wageslave for min wage
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>>26928793
26 you faggot.

orgn aofno gamofma
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Turning 24 this year.

I have nothing going on in my life. Hate my job, no friends, etc.
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>>26928799

Too late, we're already on.

>>26928816

Do not fuck up your 2nd attempt at uni. The best place to meet friends or GFs are schools/universities. If you play it right you can easily fix it.
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>>26928761
I'm 22 and in the prime years of my life, those who say otherwise are pedophiles. Since I still live with my parents I have a job with no bills to pay, and I have no serious responsibilities yet. My body is youthful, finished with college, I'm legally allowed to drink, no kids, life is good senpai.

People my age are like "Ughhh I'm so old" but years from now they're going to be regretting ever saying that.
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>>26928782
I'm 29 and my life still hasn't started yet. It's more common than you think.
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>>26928761
It's shit. fuck originality.
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>>26928761

>28
>only friends are 19-25 because I'm in college again
>no gf


Kill me
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>23
>Aviation Broker
>Part Time Commodities Trader
>Well Off
>No College Degree
>Still feel like shooting myself in the face everyday
>Still no gf
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>>26928761
23
Two jobs, one internship, graduation this spring
Still with mommy
Still play vidya
Virgin
300lbs

I'm doing fine I guess, working on my weight right now.
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>>26928841
I have 0 friends (and want it that way), live in my own flat and have passive rental income. Fuck the train.
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>>26928885
How old were you when you started college
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>>26928845
>>26928761

Also my photo that I'm including is indeed relevant to this thread
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I'm 26, my health is pretty much hsit, I have well goen past the point of no return when ti comes to getting a gf or even friends, and everyone around me on the internet is a youngster adn I'm not allowed to drool after almosta any of the women in the eyes of the normies since I'd be so old compared to them.

Other than that no money no nothing. Think depresison is bad at 20? It's only going to get worse and worse
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>>26928892
>Well Off
>Still no gf

Just rent man
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>>26928854

When do you expect it to start? I'm 26 and I feel like mine is over. I have not only missed out on everything, but I didn't even build a base for a 2nd attempt.

>>26928897

>and want it that way
Yes and that's why you're on the internet talking to (You)s instead of real-time (You)s aka friends.
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>>26928900
Went to college 18-23
Joined Army
Back in college

To old to date the girls I like
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>>26928761
>23
>Graduated college in January
>Job in a new, big city making $55k
>Nice apartment near downtown
>dating a 19 year old college student with DD's
living the moterhfucking dream
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>>26928825
>I'm too dumb to work for myself and too proud to work for someone else
This is where homeless people come from
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>>26928761
22 KV, Elliot Rodger Style
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30 and finally broke 100k this year, been working my ASS off for the last 7 years since I started working at 13$ an hour. You can make it happen if you really put time into it and grit it out. Also stop pretending you have some mental illness, that is such bullshit and won't get you anywhere.
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I DONT KNOW ABOUT YOU BUT IM FEELING TWIN TWO
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>>26929077
>work my ass off for 7 years
Or I could just let you work to earn my neetbux. Nice try wagie
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>>26928761
26 going 27 here

Wake up at 2pm. Go to the bathroom, eat, go in my room back, turn on the computer, watch movies or youtube and browese 4chan and reddit, go to sleep at 5am crying.
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>22
>KHV NEET
>Almost never leave the house
>Have a handful of friends I only talk to through group chat
>Have about 11.4k in savings from when I did work, can't claim neetbux
>just waste time on the internet to get through my days, old hobbies and pasttimes don't have the same appeal, probably depressed or something
>only face to face interactions with others is ranting about women and niggers to my mother

I don't really have anything to moan about. I mean my life is shit, but only cos it doesn't meet my idealistic expectations that aren't feasible, and even though I'm aware of this it's still not good enough cos I'm a massive narcissist so I just want to kill myself and be done with it all instead.

Fuck it, at least I don't have kids.
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>>26929077
>13$ an hour

Last job I had 3 years ago I got payed 10 dollars a day (from 6am to 6pm). Got fired after 3 weeks for being rude to boss' wife.
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>22
>still live at home
>make $17/hr doing security, shit is cash
>no gf

i'd say pretty decent desu
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>>26928761
>22+ thread

Geez, you call this old. Why not make a 30+ and fuck off?
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>>26929396
Worked once as a night security guard to a car dealing shop. Got payed $100 a month. Last two 3 months before I quit wasn't even getting payed anymore.
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>>26928892
>34
>programmer
>well paid job
>two degrees
>bored out of my mind, life is empty
>still no gf
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>22
>good job, travel a lot for it which is cool I suppose
>No social life, people around my age tend to annoy me and 30 somethings talk to me like I'm a child
>Go to concerts/festivals alone at least once a month to fill the void. Usually meet cool people at events like this but usually are people that live far away that I can meet at similar events rarely.
>no gf obviously and don't really care to have one
>overall life is okay, I just feel like there's something wrong with me because I don't have a friend group to hang out with regularly.
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>>26928936
Some 30 year ex-military guy is dating a a decent looking 22 or 23 Asian.

He is so goddamn nice to me. When we work in the computer lab he brings me healthy food (like wraps) sometimes. I don't even tell him I'm struggling with money and only eat bland shit, it really makes my day. We also talk about vidya. I'm virtually invisible to everyone else.

23 here btw. Graduating with a poor gpa in chemical engineering this may. Might teach English abroad cus I never left the Midwest. Half nervous, half excited about the future.
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>23 going on 24 in a few months
>still live with mom, but moved out for a while
>at least I have a gf
>she moved in with me and my mom too
A-at least I'm going to college next semester.
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>>26931547
>>she moved in with me and my mom too


jesus christ I'd rather die a virgin
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I DON'T KNOW ABOUT YOU
BUT I'M FEELIN 22
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>>26931610
I'm hoping we both move past neetdom together, but she's worse than I am I think. Her anxiety about being in public or going for interviews is, at least.
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>23
>live with parents
>just finished CNA school, awaiting state board exam
>no gf
>no friends
>going back to Uni for RN program in august
>come to the conclusion that just a total loser deep down

When's the Apocalypse so I can get a fresh start?
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>23 years old
>high school dropout
>khv neet of five years
>moved schools almost every year, so no friends at all as a kid
>sat in the back of the classroom every day
>ate lunch in the bathroom
>been a housebound neet ever since dropping out
>venture out of the house once every few months to talk to my doctor
>renews my psych med prescriptions
>mom picks up my chemical jew pills for me
>left the house for the first time in 2016 yesterday to investigate the graveyard across the street from my house
>put in online job applications every once in a while
>hear nothing back
>don't know what I would do if I got a job, too autistic to function
>Trump would cut my neetbux and force me to go outside
>tfw no way out but suicide
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>>26928761
My hairline is utter shit. I'm only 23. Ot's bumming me the fuck out.

I have a part time job that cut my hours because they hired more people.

I still live at my parents house and hate it.

I'm teetering in the brink of alcoholism.
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>turning 23 this summer
>about to finish college
>landed an actual job with benefits
>get paid double minimum wage
>going to save up and travel at some point
>also going to get a book published sometime soon
>learning how to make websites as a past-time
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>25
>suffers from all sorts of anxiety issues
>NEET on welfare
>feel bad for taking money from other people,including my parents
>if there was a job that would be more accepting of my situation i would happily work there, but there aren't alot of jobs to begin with
>i reached the point where something is wrong with my nervous system,i can't hear repetitive mechanical sounds more than few seconds, i can't hear screaming or shouting. it triggers me alot and i don't know why it happens
>bad shape, usually depressed
>had terrible life experiences, i believe most people are backstabber opportunists that get divine satisfaction from bullying and bantz
>my odds of healing completely are very slim
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>>26928761
>>26929398

This. 22 is a joke. 25 is when you realize what your life is shaping up to be, 30 is when reality catches up with you.

At 22 I had friends and did drugs and had a girlfriend and had sex and had some hope for the future, now I'm 30 and live at home and watch anime all day and argue with other idiots and losers on r9k.
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>24
>working an ok job in a major city
>no gf ever
>no friends
>came from a shitty background so sort of did well for myself
>recently fucked up big time by acting cold towards a girl who is literally a personal 10/10
>realized recently that my childhood really does weigh heavily on me and that I'm not as self-aware as I like to think
>worried I'm a narcissist and that I'll regret my youth in middle-age
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>thinking 22 is 'old'
31 here. Wait and behold the depths of depression and loneliness life holds for you, boys. The worst is yet to come.
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>>26928841
>The best place to meet friends or GFs are schools/universities
Pfff... 90% of women are already in a committed relationship, if not married in university. The other 10% are the ones even a robot wouldn't want.
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>>26928761
>22 y/o, sexless virgin
>minimal social life, just my two employees and a few friends
>zero contact with family outside immediate, pretty much hated by both sides
>no college degree/drop out
>fit and healthy, but socially awkward as shit even beyond first impressions
>own a nice cozy mobile structure home in a small town
>own a truck for work
>zero debt, good credit
>make between 6-8k a month by owning and operating a local painting/handyman business in the county+sea shore laborer jobs on the side
>want to do game design
>finally learning to with the very few friends I have, we actually made progress today
>spend most days thinking about the next opportunity to make money
>I'm thinking of buying a dual garage autoshop and letting mechanics rent out the garage for about 3000 a month, to boost my wages and monthly income so I can start looking at bigger houses next year to move into

Over all pretty good.
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>>26928761
I have engaged in experimental perspective based on inner mental strength, I shall say no more
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>>26928761
>economy in my city is absolutely destroyed
>graduating in less than 2 months
>only had one interview as there are next to no jobs
>bunch of classmates got rejection emails from the company
>still waiting for a response

If they reject me too, I might as well just kill myself.
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>>26928985
More like Bernie Sanders voters.
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>>26928854
>I'm 29 and my life still hasn't started yet
k
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>>26928761
25 in April. I earn good money, my job isnt terrible but it fucks with my health pretty bad. I'm breaking into the scene in my new town which I live, people are cool. I buy a lot of toys.

I'm lonely but life could be a lot worse
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As someone who's 18 and usually lurks in these threads I have to say that these stories are fucking terrifying. I'm seriously afraid of being the same as I am now and posting in threads like these. What can I do to not end up like you guys and make it?
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I'm 23, it's pretty shit and I want to die.
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>>26928936
>To old to date the girls I like
No you're not. Chicks dig older guys in college. My 29 year old classmates is fucking a girl who is 19 right now, it's not that weird, I've heard of 18-21 year old girls fucking guys well into their 30s.
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>>26933060
This is true though.

I miss going to school.
There were plenty of people to blend in among, and a lot of single girls.

When working, everyone you meet are married or washed up old party roasties.

And even so, you will be forced to go there all day every day.
At schools you have different hours in separate locations and more free time to just hang around.
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>>26928761
Finally over my depression.

Damn shame I lost ~7 years to that shit. It'll take me at least 10 more years to catch up to where I should be right now.
What hope is there?
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>>26933060
>Pfff... 90% of women are already in a committed relationship
That's true of everywhere that isn't a place specifically designed for singles. Speed dating is god-tier if you can make a good first impression, especially if you're funny.
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>>26933227
We're probably the wrong ones to ask
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>>26933227
>What can I do to not end up like you guys and make it?
DO NOT FLUNK OUT OF COLLEGE
Withdraw from a class if you're doing really bad, don't think you can make it up during the final, you can't.
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>>26933233
So close to quints.

24 here, still think it's not too late.

25 in 3 months tho.

OH LAWDEH LAWD ALL ABOARD THE COALTRAIN
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>>26933227
Just stay in school and pass all your classes its that easy.
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>>26928761
fucked an escort today. Pretty good experience. Would recommand if you got money to spare.
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>>26928761
>28 now
>job is ok, not much to do, pretty easy, but time consuming
>work 70 hours a week and about 40 of those i am shit posting
>live in a little flat on my own and spend every minute i am not working or asleep either playing vidya, watching tv or shitposting
>have a few acquaintances that i meet in the pub every sunday
>life could be a million times better, but im ok.
>doing open university this year to change my prospects too
>take a while but then ill have a degree
>no qt gf but i dont really care about that, waiting for my qt trap sub whore to come along

>tfw im doing way better than i thought i would be
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>>26933227
In the advice to those of us who are actually well career wise, the most important thing you can do is to be social and socialize. Take opportunities when you can, and get good at first impressions and small talk.

The college meme aside, as a business owner/inside here, you can rise above the average person by enhancing your social skills in the work place too. People have this mind-set that by JUST working hard you'll be noticed for your efforts, but thats completely wrong. You'll be a candidate for higher positions/promotions if you know how to impact people, particularly those in higher positions and partnerships with your current company. If something ever came up for a job spot, they'll always refer to the more common face and person around them.
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>34
>still NEET. Always have been after university when I was 22 or something
>starting to feel that urge to have a family
>starting to feel old
>still just play video games all day
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>>26932027
everyone takes advantage that's life
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>>26928761
>25
>recently switched jobs
>was told new job would have great benefits and pay better than what I was making
>turns out not at all
>making half what I made before
>also extremely physical work if I'm not careful I could be in pain recuperating the rest of the week
>hate this job but can't go back to old job
>also can't go back to school cause no money or savings
>can't qualify for financial aid because I used it up dicking around in my community college
>no jobs in my area pay better than this job
>in fact job I have is the top job most people would kill for
>feel selfish for not wanting this job
>slowly realizing I have no way out and I'll stay here until I destroy my body and I'm unable to work

I don't know how much longer I'll stay here I just want to grab a few things get in my car and leave and never come back to this life I fucked up so badly.
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>>26928761


In debt, but a grad student, so the trajectory is good.

Disregard females, acquire currency.

Can't wait to have disposable income so I can live comfy life and fuck prostitutes. Then I will truly have had my needs met and will be at peace.
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25, with a job, got my first warning after only 2 months working (record time).

I've never been able to hold a job for more than 1 year. Getting tired of this bullshit. I'm considering starting to plan my suicide already for whenever it's showtime - method, letter, etc
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>>26933610
Why did you get canned?
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>>26928761
>23 year old KV
>Trapped in a career which I despise
>No friends
>Completely paranoid, feel like the world is against me
>Just want to stay in my room the whole day
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>>26928761
>Become 23 years old
>Suddenly a fucking skeleton
Everytime I cough dust flies out of my mouth. Why am I so old?
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>25 years old
>NEET for 8 years
>Suicidal sibling
>Am suicidal myself
>Not doing anything with my life
>Live off canned food because no money to buy food
>Ran out of money to buy canned food
>Haven't eaten for 2 days

My childhood was terrible and my present and future are bleak. Waiting for my mother to die then I'll kill myself.
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>>26928903
24 is best, but 5 either side of that is good
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>>26928854
What does it mean to start your life tho? It's just jibberish designed to con you into feeding society.

Nice spook, anon.
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>>26928761
>23 this year
>got a loving hot gf
>got a good job that pays over $4000 a month
>living out of home

so far pretty good m8's. Never thought i would get this far. but on the other hand

>tfw fear every day im going to lose my job cause of my severe anxiety and paranoia of my boss firing me
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>>26933785
Around 22-25 your body changes.
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>>26933514
well i never feel like being mean to others
aside from all that bullshit the only thing keeping me together is that im a natural artist, i just have to push some more and ill be good tier
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>25
>Just started uni. Never attended before, only worked
>Studying engineering
>Have met 2 people so far and I don't even like them
>no gf for almost 8 years now
>found out i'm starting to bald so likely that the trend of no gf will continue

It could be worse all things considered.
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>>26933944
Disregard females and friendships, center yourself in your studies, you are an elder around kids, behave yourself like one.
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>29
>KV
>Finished degree 8 years ago
>Still on minimum wage

Pretty much kill me m8
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Turned 23 today (47 minutes ago)
Things looking up right now. Betty good.
I think my therapist is into me. She did the mimicking and touching hair stuff. I can't look her in the eye for long but I think she was checking me out. She started blushing when I told her I had gained weight due to muscle instead of lost weight.
Also gave me her personal number but that's not that rare right? Not for depressed individuals.
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>>26933241
>I've heard of 18-21 year old girls fucking Chads well into their 30s
FTFY
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>>26932027
Get 8 hours of sleep per day, learn about real nutrition rather than meme diets, start doing 10 pushups and 10 squats per day. Depression is 20% cured after 2 weeks.
>my odds of healing completely are very slim
No such thing as healing completely unless you're open to suffering brain damage.

>>26932096
>recently fucked up big time by acting cold towards a girl who is literally a personal 10/10
If it's any consolation, she was just trying to use you, so you got the last laugh.
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>23
started playing inter-mural soccer yesterday
saw a guy wearing a shirt from my old high school
so i asked him when he graduated
>>"...last year? you?"
>>"umm.. '11"
>>"oh"
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>>26933978
where do you live senpai we can kill eachother?
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>26
>Moved from NEET to actually somewhat successful working guy on high management.
>Found out the whole spectrum of possibilities this society can offer. From the full NEETdom to the fairly succesful wage-slave.
>Always though that having a nice gf I love, good place to stay, lot of money and frequent sex and being good at my job would be *that* I am looking for.
>When finally get to that point, only one question arises:
>This is it?
>After a few months, feel emptiness as never before.
>Break up with GF, leave my job.
>My life has no meaning, there is nothing to work/live and even die for. No great cause.
>Unemployed for five months now, working odd jobs.
>Decide to fuck all of this, play all-in
>Three months of training and preparing
>Leaving to join French Foreign Legion in a three weeks.
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>>26934333
Trips comfirm. She's into you
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>>26934796
Dunno how to make this move forward though. Sure we will be having a very personal relationship but it's not the right kind.
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>>26934755
That's not a big deal. When you do the math and realize the other new hire at your job was in 2nd grade when you were a senior in highschool, that's more of a striking feeling.
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>23
>got a STEM degree but it's with honours so it's worthless
>working a deadend job and I'm pretty sure my co-workers hate me
>no friends
>still live at home in the box room
>girls wanted nothing to do with me on tinder and okcupid
>meanwhile all my ex's have bfs
>think I probably have OCD and avoidant personality disorder
>spending my Friday night drinking alone and posting on 4chan
>kinda want to die

On the plus side, I've lost a lot of weight this past year and I've grown my hair out and I much prefer long hair to my awful short hair
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>>26934946
I meant without honours. Either way, it's shit and I'll never get a decent job because of it
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>>26934881
0.01% original content seriously
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I know i'm past the point of no return, but i can't sudoku, i'm a fucking coward. I just want someone to randomly kill me when i wont expect it.
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>>26928761
>23
>Studying in Oxford
> Thought Oxford would make things better but it kinda hasn't
>to quote >>26928789
'shitty' 'can't wait to die'
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I turned 23 last week.

I feel old, even though I know I'm not old. It's exacerbated by the fact that I'm still in some 1st year Uni courses (need elective credits) and I'm surrounded by 18 year olds. I look really young though so most people think I'm under 20. I'm going to school to be a teacher but I have second thoughts about it a lot, if I really want to do it or not. But I can't think of anything else appealing and I'm already halfway done.
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>>26930496
This reminded me of a sad story I have about when I was in college but you guys won't believe it
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>>26934782
people might call you a faggot but at least you're trying something out of your comfort zone. good luck.
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Turning 23 next week. Past couple months I've been worrying about my health like never before, thinking every little ache I feel is cancer. I haven't been to a doctor in 3 years and am seriously considering getting a physical but am scared of getting really bad news or judgement. Besides that life is ok, not a virgin but premature ejaculator. Handsome but skeleton. Piss poor GPA and graduating in May.
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>>26928815
>stopped vidya

I guess I've kinda done this too but not as an intentional decision. I just kinda lost interest in most games. Still play a little.

Are you saying you stopped like completely because you chose to like a no fapper?
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23 here

Idk i came clean to my parents that im not motivated to go through with premed classes (i graduated but im taking more)

I thought theyd get upset but i actuslly got a load off my chest

Im gonna start working somewhere and focus on my art, and get myself famous.

Ill be on /ic/ and /r9k/
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>24

>Neet, but chasing dream in TV (behind the scenes) career with some patches of success

>some friends but rarely see them,

>have a foreign girlfriend, long distance deal,

>fit but brittle from term bad form,

>after graduating 2 years ago I'm not where I want to be (like living like an adult), I see others younger who have far succeeded me and set themselves up which is daunting, I'm still trying to play the game
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>>26934946
hey im proud of you for losing weight and developing a little more self love
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>>26933493
JUS WANNA PLAY VIDYA GAMES
YAHURR

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hpsbj0OoeNo
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>>26935630
>I see others younger who have far succeeded me and set themselves up which is daunting

30 year old here, that's the worst thing you can do to yourself senpai. When I still had facebook 3-4 years ago and everyday I saw everyone perfect lives with their perfect careers and their perfect wives/husbands, some of them even already having kids, I was at my lowest.

I deleted facebook, stopped comparing myself to others, and finally figured my life out & took the first steps to fix it and move it forward.
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>>26935734
Thanks man. That means a lot
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>>26928761
28 years old
Reaching the end of my 20s
Health is starting to decline ever so slightly
>maybe drinking nothing but mountain dew since I was 15 wasn't such a good idea
In bed by 10:30 almost every night
Career as a copywriter is not what I thought it would be, feels like I'm on the wrong track in life, but too late to change now.
My parents are getting older
>haven't had sex or even an intimate relationship with a female for over a year. Last time I did have sex she told me to my face that it was the worst sex ever and never spoke to me again
I have loved video games for my entire life, but now I can't tell if they are actually shit or I don't want to play them because I've just grown too bored of them
>I can feel bitter cynicism washing over me slowly, flowing down and encompassing my body like a hard shell- like mud drying and cracking in the sun, and a water buffalo comes to drink from what was once a fertile pond but now offers nothing but harsh thirst and spurns the world
I haven't made any progress on my creative pursuits, and my 9-5 job absolutely drains me of energy so that by the time I get home, it's all I can do to microwave a couple hot pockets and sit in front of the TV watching netflix for a couple hours
I have to schedule hanging out with my friends in advance- the further in advance, the better.
My parents are getting older
I have developed a habit of spending too much on alcohol throughout the week. Scotch is not a cheap habit. I'm afraid I'm going to turn into an alcoholic like my uncle
>Drinking helps me cope with the anxiety of having a shitty life
My friends from high school and college are all getting married and having children. That's all I see on Facebook anymore.
More and more, life feels less like a fantastic experience, a one-time opportunity to make the most of everything, and more like a heavy burden to bear that increases in size as the years go by.
I spend more time posting on 4chan than I do talking to people in real life.
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>>26933667

In previous jobs?


First job I got fired because of some mess between my contractor and the company I was working at. I was outsourced.


Second job I got fired because I couldn't keep up with the workload so I started to mess up often, bosses got tired of my shit.


In my current job, I still have it but got a warning because I got caught not working (browsing internet and reddit in general) too often. The catch is: I often have nothing to do because the person who is supposed to help, train and delegate work to me (because I'm new and have been working for only 2 months) is too busy with his own work that he can't delegate to me because it's too advanced to me.

If I lose this job that's it. I'm done. I'm tired of keep going back to live with my parents and endure the shame of being a fucking useless piece of shit. My parents aren't rich and won't be here to save my ass all the time.
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23, male.

I'm training to become a technician in a field that is in high demand and hopefully won't be taken over by robos in the coming decades (it requires fine motor skills & shit). I have no friends and live with my parents. Reading and taking naps are currently my two greatest joys in life.
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>>26933329
Are you me m8?
I'm turning 25 in 3 months too. It's nothing but roasties and single moms from here on out.

It doesn't get better, only worse.
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>>26936293
>not just dating younger women
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>24
>1 year gf, 3 years younger than me
>might be my last NEET year, parents are on the verge of giving me an ultimatum
>currently live with sister
>might have to move with gf next year
>signed up for courses in uni
>my only friend is my gf, no other friends at all for 1000 miles radius
>if things go well in uni this semester, i'll look for a job related to what i'm studying
>if ultimatum comes, will apply anywhere i can

Man, I'm too dumb and lazy. I feel like this year is the year all begins to go well or goes to hell. I guess it's time to man up and not fuck it up.
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>>26928761
>28 soon
>living with parents
>had to move to one of the shittiest parts of the usa
>hate literally every single thing about this place
>work shitty job with a bunch of minorities
>in college though

I'll be 30 by the time I graduate, move out, get a real job and actually have a life. Fucking 30. Mfw.
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>alright draftsman job that allows me to afford a decent 2 bedroom apartment working 37.5 hours/week
>a couple friends who I share interests with - one's even a woman
>been seeing an escort once a month; decent amount of money, but it's the only reason worth living
>getting fat, but not yet obese

I mean it could be worse
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>>26936126
>My friends from high school and college are all getting married and having children. That's all I see on Facebook anymore.
>I spend more time posting on 4chan than I do talking to people in real life.
>My parents are getting older

Jesus Christ, those. All of them.
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>28
>NEET
>Dropped out of high school & college
>gave up on life when I was 15 or so
>knew nothing good was ever going to happen to me or get better
>no ambitions or goals
>still don't know what job I want
>too old to get back into education, couldn't if I wanted to
>everyone I knew growing up has moved on
>gfs/married/houses/careers
>left behind in a dead end northern town
>nothing to do here but drink yourself to death
>all the people here are either fat single mums/heroin addicted men/old people too old to leave
>nobody my age to socialise with
>nobody understands that there is nothing to do for someone my age who has no social life
>all their advice just boils down to "go outside!" or "just b urself :^)"
>all the activities that take place outside are social activities
>have nobody to go outside and be social with
>every time I go outside I feel like I don't belong there and can't relate to anyone or anything
>implying I could even hold down a conversation for more than 3 seconds to begin with
>just fill my days watching netflix and playing games to distract myself from the hopelessness of life


Turn 29 in 2 months lads. It never gets better.
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>22
>work in a bank
>started my own YouTube channel. Going pretty well. Nearly reached enough money to get paid for the first time
>have enough money for a deposit on my own house. Going to get my mortgage in a few months
>still no gf
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>23
>Certified spergers
>Have a nice GF
>Have a degree in biomed and a job
>just got a raise
>pretty good but will look for a better job the end of the year
>Stuck in a lawsuit I cant get out of that stresses me out
>increasing disdain for societies systems
>highly introverted aside from spending time with GF
>Just want to be alone and not part of the system.

AMA if you like
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38 It's ok. I could do with more people in my life that share my values.
It's pretty lonely when your friends hold essentially opposite views on life.
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When does the pain end?

Is it out of my control?
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24, gf, travel job, no pets, no more school.

Quite comfy
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>>26928903
Source on this? Seems oddly very specific
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>28
>shit got in a car accident almost three years
>therapist and personal trainer say do you have plans this weekend
>no
>feel bad inside
>feels kind of wanting to kill my self
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>25 in May
>Moved away from home state 2 years ago
>Eloped with qt
>Got an absurdly good job somehow. Make plenty of money
>cool apartment in big city
>Smoke too much weed because its legal here
>Don't keep in touch with friends from high school or college, but made new ones where I live now.
>Last year lost 60 lbs

Pretty happy with life tbqh senpai
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>26
>Good looking, /fit/
>Stable career with people I like, no student debt, 40K saved up
>About to get married to conservative Russian qt
>Learning Russian online and getting pretty good at it
>Have pretty much all my shit together
>Why am I so sad?
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23. I don't know, I've realized the general trajectory of my life is one of reclusive isolation. And I'm becoming alright with that.

Last year I fell into the worst depression of my life, which thankfully passed over. After college I'll effectively be shutting myself away and probably wagecucking online for little pay. But it beats leaving the house.

Tried doing that Tinder shit and it doesn't work that well for me, somehow I'm even more of an autist on online dating apps than I am in person. How does that work? I don't know.
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>that feel when finally figured out what I want to do and totally free of the women meme
>but no confidence that I can actually achieve it
>and no contacts to help
>and thinking it might never have been realistic
>and hate people
>and don't drive
>and can't do anything right
>and just want to die
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>>26939299
Oh, and, at 24 (in 20 days) it feels like I've really missed the starting gun. I'm going to be at a midpoint where most people are at the end.
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>>26928761
>25
>Married
>Maybe have kid soon
>Job is great
>Average 20% Raises
>Life is pretty great, Anons
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>>26928761
>Be me

>24

>virgin

>No friends or Family which give a shit about me

>Unemployed

>Living off of $750 a month from SSDI and some additional food stamps

>Crippling non-verbal learning disability, ADD/ADHD/ and an extreme temper and general hatred of people.

>Couldn't work up the will power or ability to get through college if my life depended on it.

>Have no talents or abilities, only a slightly above average IQ despite coming from a family filled with extremely talented/intelligent people.

>Bullied throughout school/middle school, ignored in high-school.

>Betrayed/shunned by friends when they went to college.

>Live in a city filled with Ivy League students and trust-fund yuppies assholes. So the competition for women is fierce and I don't stand a chance.

>A complete loner, spend nearly all my time indoors playing video games because my only choice for employment is working a minimum wage job washing dishes/making coffee for the aforementioned trust-fund yuppies assholes. As such, I would rather die or at the very least remain unemployed than stoop that low.

>Life is an endless cycle of waking up, playing videos games, browsing 4chan, maybe going out to eat, then returning to fap/sleep. Which isn't too, too bad but still rots the soul.

Living in such an affluent city while so poor drives you insane with hatred/envy/jealousy. It's like being placed in front of the gates of heaven to behold all it's splendor and beauty but never being able to touch it or partake in it. Nearly every time i go out to get food I have to listen to well-to-do over achievers and nepotistic rich brats talk about how fun their vacations to exotic countries were, how much money they have in their special bank accounts, and what type of amazing project they are working on in their high-tech jobs that I am barred from having because I wasn't born in the genes to find doing math anything but a torturous chore. I am like a shade, a hate filled, bitter shade.
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>>26933227
Continuous self-development. Never get too comfortable. Don't strive too hard - it's important to accept who you are - but work diligently and consistently on improving that self, every day.
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>>26937552
>>26937436
>>26938349
>>26939424
Why the fuck are you assholes even posting here? This board isn't for you.

Get out.
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>>26939430
>it's
The possessive form of "it" is "its"

you meme
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>>26928761
Just turned 22 a week ago. I'm fucked ain't I
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>>26939430
just sell drugs faggot
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>27
>Autism and ADHD.
>Bullied in Middle School and High school.
>Slightly overweight with a big body frame which makes me look even worse.
>Work a minimum wage job literally flipping burgers.
>No gf.
>I hate people and society.
>I want to die everyday.

Is there any hope senpai?
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Hey friends. I'm 24. About to finish Bachelors in BioChemistry and move in with my girl friend. Going on a cruise I won in a raffle in a few days. Cruise is 5 days 4 nights in the Bahamas and Virgin Island.

1 Year eval at place of employment is in a month or so. I expect they'll write they wish they could suck my dick. I expect a dollar or two/hour raise.

All in all life is decent right now. Only issue is my car is a screaming pile of shit. Waiting on my dad to invite me back to his house to rebuild my Camaro.
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>>26939559
FUCK OFF NOMRIE.

REEEEEEEE
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>>26939559
bich ur lying ur ass off.
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It's fucking shit
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22 and a half

going to just focus on making money and lifting, do a few roid cycles, then when i feel ready i'll try to pursue women. i used to have luck when i had an actual social circle but now i don't talk to anyone, but it's fine because i'm focusing on self-improvement

although it's getting increasingly difficult to find the will to continue with nogf
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>>26939590
Hey. Sure am not. If you want proof of any of it, I will provide pictures of Girlfriend/Cruise/Uni Login/Camaro.

Camaro got totaled by a semi last year. We gutted it and are putting the parts into another Z28 body.

Student at UCF.

Won the raffle at "Thornton Park Wine Walk"

Currently drive beater '03 Grand Am.

GF is a qt3.14 from Toronto.
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>>26933346
i literally did this but i'm still alone

if you want a GF and you're not tall with an attractive face you NEED to work on your social circle. it's hard though because most normies are intolerable to be around. and by most i mean 99%
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>24
>6 figure salary at Prestigious Company
>Graduated college in 3 years, speak 3 languages and am learning a 4th
>$50k in assets saved already
>Everyone considers me 'successful'
>Hate people generally, specifically in overpriced city I live in
>No close friends, just a few drinking buddies
>Can't get along with most people because I'm weird and obstinate, generally not a pleasant person
>Hardened against others from years of social anxiety
>Ex-gf from when I lived abroad for 2 years decided to move to another country instead of getting back together with me and moving here
This is success? Ok, I guess so.
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i'm almost 23yo and the closest thing i've ever had to a hobby or passion is arguing with people on the internet about politics

FML
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>23
>hikikomori
>no human contact besides parents
>They're taking out a big mortgage that I'm going to have to pay for.
>Even if I wanted a family of my own I wouldn't be able to afford it.
>tfw my future is being that creepy middle aged guy who still lives with his parents.
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>>26928761
24 and its eh.

I look decent and have a 3/10 gf who is in love with me so I got that going at least.

Main problem is I went to college and got two degrees not realizing I would absolutely HATE my job with every fiber in my being. 10 hours of literal suffering per day. I've almost walked away from everything to go to fucking mcdonalds and wait out for my inheritance. Still might do it, there is no point in suffering this much at this point in life.
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>>26939767
what job?

bloxxxxxx
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>>26939512
>just sell drugs faggot

No thanks. I have never done drugs and I'm not street-smart or imposing.

>>26939709
You don't belong here, you are financially successful and that is all that really matters in life. Stop pretending to be a robot.

No one here relates to you or likes you.
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>>26939709
>50k in assets

You should triple that saved by now with that kind of salary. What the fuck do you blow it all on
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>>26939780
CPA
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>>26939797
Well actually I started out of college at $35k. I was spending my money on rent in one of the most expensive cities in the world. Avg one bedroom where I live is over $3000/mo. I worked my ass off to get where I am now. I've been saving on this salary for less than a year. That's why the savings aren't as big as they could be. Idk whatever I guess I'm not successful then.
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>>26939709
Why the fuck is there a sudden influx of these rich assholes who think they qualify as robots?

Do you guys just come here to laugh at us or are you really delusional enough to think you have it bad in life?
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>25
>currently retaking my secondary education degree, finishing this year
>moving to Berlin for university from a different country after that
>have discovered hobbies like guitar in the past year, and reconnected with old ones like writing
>somewhat of a social life after years of NEEThood
>still KV, but I am not awkward around women any longer and I plan to date when I am finished with my current education.
It's never too late to start your life.
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>>26939866
Fuck off. You are not a robot. Go complain on another board.
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>>26939866
Gotcha. Easy to forget how fucked the cost of living can be in some places. I'm paying 1,200 for a great 1 br condo and I thought that was a lot.
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Every day gets a little more worse than the previous day
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>>26937731
Source is probably shit because it had men judge from a pool of 18-99 instead of 13-99
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>>26928761
>Tfw turning 22 soon
>19 will be my new 16 after a bit

Make it stop guys
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>22
>born rich
>self-publish a poorly-received book at 20
>drop out of college at 21
>have minorly successful band at 22
>bored of everything
>start trading stocks
>make enough money to just live off of my investments, very very very boring though

Whatever
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>24
>will be 25 in a few months
>can't drive
>only work part time in the same job I've had since I graduated HS
>take classes part time on and off at community collage
>still no degree
>still never been in any kind of sexual or romantic relationship or encounter nor do I want to be
>still live at home, but will have to move out in a year (my mom is planning to move and has made it clear that she wants me to not move into the new house)
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>>26933227
become a buddhist, life is inherently unsatisfactory
>>
Fighting my way through depression trying to make a life. Gonna start training with a chad friend and become chad
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>22
>almost 23 in less than a month
>college drop out
>living with my mom
>working at McDonalds
>still have a few friends but never hang out with them anymore
>spend all day on 4chan and watching anime or stuff on netflix
Well I guess it could be worse, at least I'm not still addicted to heroin.
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>>26933825
wnat some money anon?
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>>26935454

>Are you saying you stopped like completely because you chose to like a no fapper?

No, my brother hogs the console and I don't have any interest in new titles. I have a backlog of PS1 games I might play someday but life is just too busy right now. I guess I just don't make time for them like I used to. I will admit the current "nerd pride" associated with gaming has really left me a bit bitter. I don't want to be associated with all these kids and losers who proudly proclaim they're "gaymurz"

Admittedly, I'm no better. I want to be though.
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>>26933019
people saying 22 isn't old
you probably went to college or at least finished highschool
i dropped out of school and society completely at age 13
you think 22 isn't old but i'm turning 23 ths year and this will mark my 10th year of social isolation
most of you 25+ fags have probably only been socially isolated for 5 years at most
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25

i passed the normie station, never coming back, please let this ride end
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>22
>last semester student
>full time job
>no time for gf
>no time for >tfw no gf
>no time to funpost
I somewhat like posting here
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25. My life is like a cold hamburger.
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26
pretty bad. anyone else lose a bunch of friends? seems like no matter how nice I act or much I apologize for whatever it is I've done wrong, people still start to hate me
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>23
>Went back to uni after dropping out and working in a shitty job
>Chose shitty humanities mayor
>Great grades, got in exchange program to Japan
> Already 2 months in Japan, 0 friends, my japanese is still shitty.
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get in this thread
>>26942900
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>>26928845
>I'm legally allowed to drink
>mfw
Was that really so important to you that you just had to put it on the list ? Cancerous trip fags being cancerous as always. Just kill yourself.
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>>26943141
For me it was being single that made me lose my friends. Once they got into their relationships they only got together for couples events. I can make new friends but I don't have the time/energy for meeting new people for the sake of making friends. These days I just have heaps of acquaintances that I keep at an arms length who I only talk to about the reason why I know them (eg. only talk to gym friend about gym).
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>>26943404
>doesn't have a tripcode
>trip fag
pick one
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>>26937552
>Highly introverted aside from spending time with GF
>Just want to be alone and not part of the system

Which is it? Do you want to be single or in a relationship?
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>>26939424
Why did you get married? Why the fuck does anyone get married? I got a GF and I've never been more put off women in my life. Being alone is infinitely better than having to deal with someone daily.
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21 year old requesting entry

Any oldfags have some 'wisdom from age' for me? Just about life in general?
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>>26944114
not really. sorry dude. I get more uncertain and scared of things the older I get.

just try your best to take it easy I guess.
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26 here as well.

Bachelor degree with sub optimal grades. No jobs in my field with just a bachelor, unless top grades and huge network. Doing min wage jobs around town. Can't say I hate it, but I just feel like I'm wasting away. I also feel to old to go back to school.

Mostly just lock myself up in my room when I'm not working. No hobbies, interests or particular talent.
Regret almost every decision I've made, and now I spend hours brooding over them.
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>>26944114
21 quickly turns into 23 and 23 quickly turns into 30.

Prepare to do whatever you need to do NOW. Gotta lose weight? Do it now. Gotta go to school? Do it now.

I put off shit for years and years and now im a 26 year old doing an undergrad.
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>>26943052
>Thinking going to college/high school is a social experience for everyone.

>Alone in the back during lectures.
>Spend hours wandering alone around campus between lectures.
>Know all the secluded places to sit in peace.
>Feel like everyone is judging you with their eyes.
>Go back home to shitty student flat and lock myself in til morning comes and it all starts over.
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>>26932049
Oh god, reading your post made me feel sooo good.

One feels warm inside when people like you get their just dessert.
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>>26944298
I'd befriend you anon
>>
so many fucking successful normies in this thread. why the fuck do you come here? to feel better about yourselves?
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>24
>worst depression I've ever felt in my 14-15 years of depression
>worst depression I could imagine someone experiencing without immediately stabbing themselves
>think all day every day about what a miserable failure I am
>about how alone I am
>spend between 2 and 6 hours every day staring at the wall or the ceiling contemplating suicide and trying not to cut myself like the little faggot baby I am
>not interested in reading anymore
>nor vidya
>nor music
>nor art
>getting out of bed to go to work is physically painful and being at work is also physically painful even if I'm just standing there

I'm probably going to admit myself to the hospital tomorrow after work and let them send me to the psych ward. it'll only be my fourth time in eight months.
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>>26944351
Not one of the normies you're referring to but that's probably it. Use to go to wizardchan for the same reason, they're like a level below us(if they still exist even).
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>>26944351
It's not an insult to legitimate robots, I like to hear my problems be trivialized and my life put in perspective mostly
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26.
Still live with my parents. Still have zero personal income. Still a virgin.

I hate it, but I'm hanging on. I feel like I have little control over my own life. I just distract myself through reading, video games and exercise and try to forget how I'm going nowhere.
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>>26944505
Yeah, keeping my mind as busy as I can with videogames and stuff seems to work most of the time. But when i'm in bed my mind starts wandering. Feels bad
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>>26939542
Make your bullies pay.
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>>26939877

>never too late to start your life

Normie propaganda.
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>29
>Full job in the army
>Girlfriend
>Saving up for a place to buy, at about 60k USD saved up
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>>26928761
22 here

Managed to get a date like a month ago, and we even talked after it. She said she'd meet me the second time, but we never did and aren't even talking anymore because she says she's busy all the time. Guess I'm just gonna stay a KV for even longer.
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>25
>live with parents
>no job
>never had a job
>no real education, have a diploma in web development
>want job but no idea what i going to do. almost no job ever calls back and if they do the phonecall goes awfully
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>>26931713
I am the same except all my friends abandoned me when group of gypsies wanted to kill me. I also moved in with gf when 17 and been NEET while she works ever since. I understand your shit man
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>>26928761
28
>smoke weed
>browse internet
>no girlfriend or job
>life couldnt be better.
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It's not that bad but I still feel horrible on a daily basis
>i'm currently 22
>fucked up at uni, its going to take an extra year to graduate
>didn't make any friends at uni despite staying on campus for almost 3 years
>haven't worked since 2014
>Between being very frugal and some scholarships I'm doing ok financially
>never kissed a girl
>lost virginity to prostitute
>just moved into new sharehouse with some guys
>they're alright, everyone does their own thing, the place doesn't really feel like a home
>can tell parents are concerned and disappointed but are still supportive
>go from apathy to wanting to die
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>>26945419
>go from apathy to wanting to die

this is the worst. I miss how apathetic I was when I was a teenager. it was really comforting. now I care way too much about everything
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>>26945467
I was a lot more apathetic from 18-21
that apathy slowly deteriorated my life to the state it is today where it's so fucked It can't be ignored. I can't help but feel anxious about whats coming up and what a mess I have made of my life.
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>25 turn 26 in two months
>dropped out of uni at the end of '13
>defaulted on 13k loans with fees and interest sits at 19k
>live at home with mum and stepdad
>work as a part time supervisor barely making anything
>constantly paranoid and anxious I'll get fired
>otherwise a cozy job 8 months out of the year
>no license or no car
>fat/obese with no will power to drop the soda Jew
>hit the gym for 2 years but since Im not bulking or cutting I don't look any different since I started
>no friends at all or know any females to let me beta orbit
>Go out here and there but never make friends because of no personality
>wouldn't know how to approach a girl, let alone not feel like shit because of my small penis

Trying to put some money together for community college in the summer, interested in a few concerts happening soon, and booked a hotel for a small con maybe I'll find something there who wants to play vidya or cuddle ;_;
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>23
>have a very average (above average imo) paying job with coworkers I can't really make friends with
>thankful on a daily basis
>terrified I'm going to fuck it up on a daily basis

this is my life, the best case scenario is maintaining years of this mind numbingness and I would be grateful for it
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>>26945870
>going to a convention at 25

guaranteed way to get more depressed. everyone at those things will be way younger than you. you'll try to get laid but fail

good luck though
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I'm a wagecuck and while I had dreams of being an artist, I don't think I'll realize them. I think I was always insecure, but without the naive and confidence that comes with teenaged autism I can't do any project without feeling self conscious. I just learn that my city is known for richfags who'll pay anything for abstract bullshit and I still can't take my ass to the gallery.

Life is fucking shit.
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>>26933493
Daily reminder: These are the people posting in wagecuck threads
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23
>Minimum wage full time job
>studying evening classes, failing because i prefer to play video games
>everyone hates me at work, I can tell they think i'm awkward and dont want to be alone with me
>friends stopped inviting me out, ignore me when I try to invite them out
>Still live with parents, they want me to fuck off
>cant afford to even rent a room in a house share
>think about suicide daily.

I'm kind of getting better as I get older, starting to realise I am the cause of all of my problems and can fix them but its hard to get the motivation to do so.
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>>26945928
Tell me about it bro, probably my fifth con, second year at this one

That's what I love about these congirls, man. I get older, they stay the same age.

Going in with no expectations, seeing how last con I went, was supposed to meet up with people I met specifically online but they all flaked on me

>Getting laid
S m h familia
That glimmer of hope died when I realized that even among these outcasts I was outcast to them ;_;

It doesn't help I look like a balding manchild

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>24
>Grad school
>Low end job that pays for food and video games
>Good friends
>Two fuck buddies and a girl I date casually

Pretty good.
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>>26928761
It's basically the same as it was the day I graduated high school. Still friendless spending my days on 4chan, periodically trying and failing out of college.
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>>26933568
>tfw when you take advice from a /div/ thread

shiggidy diggidy doo
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>22

>was friendless mute in high school
>barely able to cope socially in college, few friends but still completely passive
>now in minimum wage job (first job)
>can do the work well, getting along all right with coworkers but that's because it's a jap company that attracts semi otaku types and vidya lovers
>still khv want to be more assertive and more active socially
>bad crush on coworker who already knows because other coworker told her, very awkward
>just woke up to my dad this morning having a nervous breakdown crying horribly due to financial problems
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>>26928761
> 22
> still living with my parents
> final year of university
> just got a job with a very good salary for a starter position in my country
> would not be able to survive on such salary in the first world, though
> do not know what I want from my life
> do not even make an attempt to get a gf
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>>26933227
Never wait until tomorrow.
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>>26933264
>tfw I'm bipolar and every time I feel like this I end up going a little crazy and then ending up even more depressed in a month or so.
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>27
>Decent job, somewhat stressful
>Live with parents but could afford to move out easily
>Not fat yet but getting less and less fit by day since I don't have to exercise because of work (excuses desu)
>Save a lots of money since I live frugal
>Total failure with women because I'm ugly as shit
Welp
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>24
>make $55k
>still live at home so save most of my money
>don't have much of a social life so mostly just go to the gym and play vidya
>have a couple friends that I see sometimes on weekends
>no gf but been on a couple dates with a qt from OKC
My life still feels boring and purposeless much of the time, but things could be much worse. Overall I'm pretty content. Mostly just with I had more friends or hobbies.
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>>26934782
Congratulations on becoming a normie!
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>24
>Renting, got car, got job
>life is good
>diagnosed with cancer last week
>well fuck
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> 23
> still live in Russia
Anyone else has worse life then me?
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Turning 27 this year. Life is okay. Finishing PhD and fucking the, as Frank from sunny puts it, "scraps". They're still hot chicks it's just that they're broken inside. I'm fine.
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>>26928782
Bullshit.

I'm 26 and my life has improved massively over the past few months.
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>>26946864
what kind of cancer mate?
sorry to hear that
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>>26929077
>tfw unmotivated as fuck and will probably never get good raises/promotions
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>>26929649
>Go to concerts/festivals alone at least once a month to fill the void
I do this too. They're fun but I still feel lonely when I see groups of friends or couples all around me..
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>>26946912
Testicle. Not sure if more yet but when the doc looked at the blood work he winced a lot and scratched his head. Ty doc
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I found a 22+ thread but it's already full of responses and too big to read
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>23 6'2 balding virgin this year
>Midschool progressively turned to hell
>Did better in high school
>Only lacked a bit of confidence and get rejected by 2 girls rather into me
>Rejected a girl
>Changed my mind and we spent a few days kissing
>Have to move in a high school in a new town for the last year
>Full of half retards
>Isolate myself socially in the Uni because I was in a fucking class of 5 people for 3 years
>Disconnected compared to other people, lost all friends
>Took me years to get better socially
>Moved in a new town this year
>Did my best
>Got rejected by a cute girl because I kissed badly
>Depressed/Suicidal/Anxious
>Sorta managed to did ok studying
>260 iwf in weightlifting doe but can't give a fuck right now

It wasn't supposed to go like that.
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>25
>Clinical depression since 14
>Been or felt alone and shitty for 10+ years
>Been trying to fake it 'til I make it
>Now close to making it
>Getting my uni degree in bus.admin/finance in a couple months
>Have ~$50k saved up, no debts cause education is free
>Guy I wrote my thesis with has talked me up to his boss, who wants to have an informal dinner with me next week
>Have started dating again this year, been on dates with 4 different girls so far, two went really well

I just really hope things are finally turning for me, that this isn't just a temporary thing. I really want to move from robot to normie so fucking much.
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>>26933438
is this just more elaborate "jus b urself :)"?
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25

Pretty fucking shitty.
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I'm 22.
23 soon.

Please tell me how. How do I find girls after college. What do people do. This is unreal. Like I think I'm genuinely going to spend the rest of my life without female intimacy because there's no opportunities to meet them anymore.
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>23
>got a cheap ass shitty car of my own
>moved into a cheap ass apartment with my GF
>my job finally became a stable thing
>stopped vidya a couple of months back
>put braces (finally, it's hard being poor)
>will start lifting next paycheck
>read books (.pdf format desu) least 2 hours every day

Jesus fucking Christ, I highly reccomend stoping playing vidya, so much free time.

Just feel shitty cause I can't stop smoking. I literally don't want to, even though I should, kinda weird to be honest.

All in all, already the best year of my life.
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>>26947402
hey I'm also poor and am saving up for braces. I was supposed to get them a year ago but the all the money went to the surgery to get my 4 impacted wisdom teeth out. how bad are your teeth and how did you get a gf?
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>35
>Still in professional school
>Essentially alone my entire life
>Stressed as fuck with responsibility and exams
>Working 80+ hrs a week

No complaints. Other than I got fat so it's gym time.
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>>26947518

My teeth in general were fine, but I was really fucking self conscious about the 2 bottom front teeth, as they were ugly as shit and as such low self-esteem whenever I opened my mouth.

As for the GF part, I only have one friend and 3 ago I went to a birthday dinner of his, nothing fancy, he invited like a dozen people, and I met this girl which was actually his girlfriend's sister. At the end of the nigh she asked him for my phone number.

We are all family now.
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>23
>still at home with parents
>am underweight and officially an autist
>finally getting the help I need
>trying to get into an IT school
>no friends
>never gotten close to a woman
>still feel like shit and depressed whenever I realise I'm still an autist

Accepting myself has been the most difficult thing recently.
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>>26947708
Would you recommend getting diagnosed?
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>>26928761
22 is the average age of this site, you fucking cunt

alll you kids are just retarded. fuck all of you very, very much
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23, and seriously needing people around to giving life a meaning

Even with the job, the gym, the savings and all that I feel like I'm not doing anything worthwhile or interesting

Coworkers talk about their families and friends all the time and sure it doesn't sound that interesting or great, but what do I have
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>>26947844
robots are our slaves
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>23
>should have fucking graduated 1.5 year ago
>struggling to find part time work, and need to have a job before end of the month
>made mistakes, changed degree once, and nearly failed some classes
>even dropped a major one because I had too much anxiety about it
>finally just now getting to where I should have been 2 years ago
>dad asks 'hows school going, you almost done yet'
>oh it's good I have like 2 semesters left probably
>'.... oh'
>mfw dad knows I'm a fuck up

doesn't help that my brother is a fucking lawyer.
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>>26947402
What do you do with your free time besides reading? I feel like its a waste of time sometimes, but not sure what I'd do otherwise..
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>>26947933
Damn, I know this feel so hard
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>>26947810
Depends, I feel like I'm actually getting somewhere now and I might get into special workplaces so I don't have to leech of my parents all my life, I don't think I could really get my life going if I were on my own.
Recent changes in the law made it also impossible for me to get autismbux so I really must get to work and thus I really need the diagnosis.

Still, I'm very early in the whole process, I'm not quite sure if this is going to solve anything but so far it's looking more positive than the previous three empty years of my life.
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>25
>in community college, not doing well either
>no friends at all
>haven't been hugged in 2 years
Could be worse. On the plus side I'm lifting weights and developing muscle and girls are starting to show slight interest in me.
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>>26929461
the trick is joining an actual security company, not some private business
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