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How do I get over a fear of rejection?
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How do I get over a fear of rejection?
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you don't.

i've fucked 3 vaginas, and to go fuck a 4th would take just as much effort as the first

it does not get any better. it will always be a struggle for people like you and me
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>>26825736
You sound broken. I remember riding off the confidence I got from a blowjob at 14 for like 4 years, kek.

It's supposed to snowball. How far apart chronologically were those vaginas you fucked?
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>>26825838
random. went a year dry then fucked 2 girls in 5 months.

all of them were from online dating sites. im still a shut in, i just get 4/10s from online to come over sometimes
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You keep doing it and hit all the girls you can until you are cured.
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>>26825697

HOW DO NORMALS GET OVER THE FACT THEIR GF WILL NEVER HAVE A PUSSY AND ASSHOLE LIKE THE FEMALE IN ORIGINAL POSTERS PIC?

I WOULD RATHER NOT HAVE A GF IF I COULDN'T HAVE ONE LIKE THAT DESU FAMOLAM
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>>26825697

is this girl asian?

This looks like an asian vagina but idk
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>>26825885
seriously

that's like
>perfect ass
>perfect thighs
>perfect pussy
>perfect butthole

fembots, please explain how you could ever fucking compete with that
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>>26825902
definitely not Asian. that is pure white girl booty
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It not even a fear of rejection for me its just not giving a fuck anymore after fuckiing too many vaginas in a short amount of time

Yawns *
Sgit ain't worth anyone's time just fap shitlords and life your lyfe
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I can't stop fucking looking at the image. It's mesmerising.
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>>26825697
Improve your odds and gain confidence through practice and repetition
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>>26825697
Get rejected and watch as the entire world doesn't come to a fucking end you incredible pussy
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>>26825948
Every failure makes me feel more and more incompetent and worthless.
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>>26825697
How can an ass be this perfect? Is it photoshopped?
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Pull some meme magic like so: if I get dubs then tomorrow a girl I know will tell me she likes me
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>>26825697
rejection like all social fears is the fear of losing status. social status is worth more than money, it is the reason we get money, status gives us friends, respect, relationships..etc

to reduce rejection you either get so high status you dont care (chad), or you completely give up the game. the latter will mean you dont even really care about getting a girl, since beyond the status of having a woman/sex, they're useless.
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>>26825885
bro its just a pussay
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>>26825968
You didn't follow step one then senpai

You need a small one before you can go for a big one
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>>26825958
>break your leg
>WALK IT OFF PUSSY THE WORLD ISN'T COMING TO AN END
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>>26825943
the angle makes it look bigger than it is

it's obviously really nice, but the angle is manipulative
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>>26825902
looks asian to me tbqh
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>>26825927
I do not believe a white girl could be this perfect, also she has a pretty asian body

from what we can see of her face it looks asian


color is fairly asian
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>>26826025
I don't see it. looks like a white girl brunette to me

something about her hair says white girl rather than Asian.
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>>26825948
>>26825998
how do I gain confidence

I'm shitty
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>>26825697
Well i have a feeling that you've been rejected a lot, and so you've stopped trying. Well it goes like this. Understand where your at and pick your battles.
Women aren't going for you for a reason, and usually women refuse men on a physical basis, so evaluate yourself on that basis.
You're too fat and ugly? Well ugly is a battle you'll never win but fat is. Start working out. Make it a part of your life, start being conscious of how many calories you consume and how much physical activity. Once you have your cardio and strength up maybe get into a sport.
Don't have a job and make no money? Get a job, any job, and get good at it. Get better jobs over time. Learn skills, become handy. Learn how to cook, how to repair things, be something a woman sees as useful.
Now aside from physical attraction, what else could be diverting women from you? Well if you're really into anime maybe you should get away from that, its a pretty fast turn off. Secondly if you're an autist you're going to have to learn how to talk to people, so I advise going into work that forces you into situations where you may be afraid, under stress, eventually you'll find a lot of that neural fuckery sort itself out (partially). In other words, join the army.
Build your self on goals of self improvement, and not because you want women but because you recognise what you are repulses women. Now, the last step is this:
After years of effort of rebuilding yourself into this, you may want to try online dating. Most women you know see you as the loser you were, not the man you've become. Online dating let's you meet women without the bar scene or knowing how to dance. By trial and error learn how to talk to women. AND ABOVE ALL, EXPECT NOTHING FROM THESE WOMEN. Don't go into it expecting you'll get laid, married or shit. Things go the way they go.
Give that a go.
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The answer is that you get rejected again and again and again. Chad is Chad because he got btfo repeatedly during his formative years and now the thought of failure doesn't scare him.
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I'm like 0-4 and it doesn't hurt bad at all, but I'm still a bit scared of rejection. But its a relief when its over with and you tried.
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>>26826316
>Chad is Chad because he got btfo repeatedly during his formative years
???
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>>26825863
What sites do you use? Not original.
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does anyone else find these pics extremely fucking frustrating to look at? she might as well just drink semen for breakfast lunch and dinner
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>>26826221
pick the smallest battle you can and keep winning it of course

then gradually move up- do you even rpg anon?
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>>26825697
>>26826008
>>26826025

*BBBBBBBBBBRRRRRRRRRRRRAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP*

mute me again faggot i dare you
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>>26826316
the delusional is real

you probably believe fake-natties are natty.
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>>26826390
Thats fairly accurate. I got picked on a lot growing up and got shot down loads of times. When you stop giving a fuck and literally shotgun women, say hi to all of them and not get hung up on a single woman, its like having cheat mode enabled.
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>>26826538
only works if you're handsome btw
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>>26826538
>tripfag deluding himself into thinking that his opinion has any kind of value
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>>26826558
Also true, but uggos can still get girls by not giving a fuck.
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>>26826576
>uggos can still get girls by not giving a fuck
no
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>>26826587
But my anecdotes say the contrary therefore you're wrong.
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>>26826575
He's not even using a tripcode. How new can you be?
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>>26826575
what trip you fucking autist
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>>26826708
>>26826656
Namefag, tripfag is all the same shit in the end
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Fear of rejection has been proven to be paired with the zone of the brain that deals with physical pain.
That's why it's so crippling.
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>>26826025
she's white tard
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>>26827260
>>26826070
Are you guys blind just look at her eyes
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>>26825697
Same here brotha you have to accept the fact that sometimes you will fail and that's OK it happens to everybody you don't look like a fool for trying it
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Nobody has to accept you only you have to accept you
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>>26827438
How can I accept me if no one else will?
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>>26827475
Be sure of what you do and why you're doing it and you don't need anybody else's approval be aggressive and do things for yourself ultimately you need to please yourself you can't run around being sad all the time because you're wondering whether or not this person or that person is gonna like what you're doing so IDK get to know yourself and accept any insecurities you have and move forward and improve on then and it'll take time and lots of effort but don't fold easy
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>>26827360
Wrong quote, was meant for >>26826008
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>>26827636
Don't take it out of context and try to say I'm telling you to start being an ass hole to everyone when I say do things for yourself if you know you're doing nothing wrong go ahead and do it fuck them for giving you looks or putting you down
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>>26825697
I WANT TO BE LOVED
I DON'T WANT ANYONE TO BE NEAR ME
I'M ONLY COMFORTABLE WHEN I'M ALONE
I'M LONELY


WHAT IS THIS HELL
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