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Do you have to actually have to want to lose your virginity to post? Because I'm 20 and I'm kissless, handholdless, hugless, virgin, don't particularly mind it either. All these horror stories from r9k and the rest of the internet have scared me off females entirely. Don't even feel bad about it either. I hope everyone else gets a qt gf though. Good luck, friends!
That's a really good show.
How do I prevent becoming a 25 year old virgin.
If I continue my life like this I will still be a virgin in 5 years
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>>26707308
>Do you have to actually have to want to lose your virginity to post?
No.
If that is the way you feel about your situation, then good for you! I just hope you aren't experiencing a case of "sour grapes."
I am not good-looking.
What else is there to say?
>>26707392
>dont be a shut in
>join clubs
>find or develop a social circle (crucial)
>have some money.
>have hobbies, a goal, or a passion besides finding a gf.
>>26707451
Theres more to it than that. SHARE YOUR STORY
>>26707417
I don't think it's sour grapes, more the fact that I was never really interested to begin with. I hope I don't come across as arrogant here but I just never placed much value on virginity and the act of losing it, and I'm not very attracted to either men or women. Must be autism.
>>26707490
I wasn't interested for a long time either but one day it's like I just woke up and realized all I've missed.
>Close to 30, will turn it in less than three months
>Consider more than once to just get an escort to lose my V-card before then
>Chicken out every fucking time
>>26707490
I felt like that at times when I was younger, but I feel like Im missing out from time to time though.
I've always cared more about money and career success though.
I feel much worse about being poor than I am about being a kissless virgin.
>>26707480
I'm not even sure what's worth mentioning.
I guess I'm not too bad-looking. It's mostly the extra fat I've gained after my parents divorce. Or maybe the fact that my parents never regulated the amount of time I spent playing video games. Or maybe the fact that they never encouraged me to take up sports. But I try to refrain from blaming them. After all, I should've known better myself.
When I look in the mirror, I see a rather attractive young man hidden under a layer of disgusting fat. My gay friend says the same thing. My non-gay friends just tell me to "b mself".
Character-wise, I'm pretty likable. Knowledgeable in various fields, good sense of humour, I'm good with people in general, easy to talk to and a good listener. And I value that, I really do, but the way I see it, there can be no healthy relationship without sexual attraction. With what I have right now, friendzone is the best I can expect. And I refuse to be friendzoned. Ergo, I don't really talk to women. Maybe that's the problem.
But I have this idea that unless I get my shit together and get in shape, I will never be sexually attractive to anyone. My friends are saying it's stupid, but they're all good-looking Chad with girlfriends under their arms, so what the fuck do they know?
And yet, I just can't make myself change anything. It's sad and pathetic, I know, but I just lack the willpower. Maybe I'm afraid it won't really help with my looks much in the end? Maybe I feel like I'm already too late to join the train of 'normal life'. I'm a 24 year old virgin, I never had a highschool romance, nor a university romance. I have missed so many experiences that normal people have, that I'm afraid I will never belong among them, even if I fix myself.
I did go to a gym for a year, but my progress was rather unspectacular. I even worked construction, and it sort of got in a better shape, but didn't really burn much fat. All I need is a bunch of cardio and a little less food on my daily ration.
>>26707672
Seems like you have poor self confidence and a negative outlook. That's not attractive either.
If you got fit, do you think you might find some other explanation for your lack of success with women?
25 v here. I've had chances actually that I passed up on, feel like a dumbass for it. Was all like waiting for my soulmate to lose my v-card to and leprechauns and minotaurs. I'm a hopeless romantic type. I've cucked myself. Screw this shit and my honor and morals, it has never helped me, I was born in the wrong age. I could have lost my virginity at age 15. This modern age is not made for guys like me. I should just be an immoral degenerate ass because that's what seems to be the only way to succeed in life.
>>26707763
>If you got fit, do you think you might find some other explanation for your lack of success with women?
Most likely, yeah. But it would also mean I would get an uncomfortable feeling of deja vu, making me reconsider. I'm generally pretty self-aware, maybe too much at times.
>28 reporting in
>i was that creepy quite kid in school
>i think one thing that is stopping me right now is no car and in a wheelchair
>stacey told me to go to a bar with friends but friend kind of moved on and another one moved out of state
>>26707774
>I should just be an immoral degenerate ass because that's what seems to be the only way to succeed in life.
Feel the same way robobro. Maybe that's what the normies call passion?
>>26707109
I'm 24 but turn 25 in a few months.
I could have lost my virginity in highschool. I did my undergrad in my home city and I have strict parents so I didn't get to go to parties and stuff where I am sure I could have probably had a few good prospects at getting laid, since I am after all decent to good looking if I put in the effort to 'look fresh'.
I'm currently in my masters and my life is basically go to class, go to wagecuck job, jack off to doujins at night, maybe hit up some oldfriendson league every now and then.
>>26707392
It's really hard to do, but 'break out of your shell' is LITERALLY the best advice I can give. Put yourself in social situations and eventual life will start throwing you chances even if you're a 5/10.
>>26707774
I feel you. If I wasn't a pussy I could have got laid ez but what fun is there in that? I haven't liked a girl since middle school either. Is there still hope or will I inevitably delude myself into believing the first girl who I'm able to reciprocate interest in is 'the one'.
ded thred rip
You know I think it's funny like how girls always complain about the guys they have and what guys they want and I fit every single criteria, yet I'm here gf-less and they keep chasing the guys they "hate"
I'm a 25yo KV. Given up since women are shallow and traditional values are dying/dead. Not a thing I can do about it.
22 khv here... About to graduate from college this May and the main reason that I'm still a kissless, handholdless virgin is because I never tried. I never bothered putting myself in social situations such as parties (not my type of environment). I do go to school clubs, but no girls go to these types clubs.
I also went to an all-boys school for my K-12 and that's why I never developed any social skills with girls. Basically, I am a coward. I'm scared of being rejected (not even romantically, just in social situations in general) and I'm a pretty below-average looking guy.
The only thing I have going for me is that I've started lifting last year and I have a well-paying job when I graduate. Hopefully, I can change myself when I move to this new job, but I really don't know where to start...
25 KV, I was always way too shy and reserved (I still am to a degree) in middle/high school/college, and my sex drive was/is pretty low, a fap every now and then keeps me sane, and relationships feels like too much of a hassle. And I've never met anyone I even considered asking out, I've never had that "click" or "chemistry" that I read about a lot
25 KV here. I am an antinatalist efilist. I more or less align with the ideology of "fuck life" so I am pretty much withdrawing from sex on moral grounds. I believe it is immoral to impose life/consciousness on another human and I realize my sexuality is just the insidious mechanism of my "need" to reproduce and therefore I resent it.
>>26709545
of course I remained this way so long because of other issues but this has been my attitude for about 3 years now.
>>26709545
Are you white? You have a duty to put white kids on the Earth so the shitskins don't overtake us. Have you no honor?
>>26709646
I might consider adopting a white kid that is already obviously genetically robust instead of passing my shitty schizo genes on. Of course I'd have to become a beta-bucks chump first to have that opportunity. Having a kid would just be a constant source of anxiety because I would feel deep personal responsibility for everything bad that happened to them.
>>26707109
>Be 27 kv.
>Single mothers now throwing themselves at me and blatantly hitting on me causing people that witness it to comment.
>Not used to female attention at all because I gave up on women 3 years ago after 9 years of asking out women with a 100% rejection rate.
>Find single mothers the most unattractive women on Earth.
>Try flirting with other women and asking them out who aren't single mothers.
>Keeping my perfect 100% rejection rate.
>Last living male in line with extremely rare surname.
>Mother hounding me for grandchildren.
About ready to kill myself to be honest.
You need to:
A) work out
B) listen to more rap music
C) date girls in your range and work your way up as you gain experience
D) Stop posting on r9k and go on reddit instead
>>26707462
>find or develop a social circle (crucial)
Could someone please give me advice on this. No matter what I do I can't make finds or find people. People just don't seem to want to hang out with me and breaking into existing cliques is impossible.
>have some money.
Well I only have my minimum wage job....
>have hobbies, a goal, or a passion besides finding a gf.
Is riding motorcycles a good hobby? I find myself just riding for hours on weekends.
>>26707109
does getting a handjob at a school playground at 3:00 in the morning count?
>>26709957
>tfw finding condoms in the playground as a kid
>you'll never experience being a teen and fucking prime teen pussy at night in a playground
>>26709957
>>26710283
It's the only sexual encounter I've ever had and I was really drunk and high so I don't remember it that well
>>26707109
wanting a GF makes you a failed normie, true robots don't have such primitive desires
>>26707109
Ugly and a Sperg. That is all.
26 in 2 weeks. I don't mind being around people to do something fun, but I find people too gross to get close to.
I'm a 28 year-old kissless virgin who has made a fool of myself every single time I've tried to get close to a girl, to the point where it doesn't bother me anymore. I'll banter a chick until she straight up stops responding to me, delete the contact and move on with my life. I've accepted my lot in life and instead of letting it keep me down, I'm owning it full force. I'm bee'ing myself and anyone who doesn't like it can go fuck themselves. If I need sexual release, I can give it to myself in a way that no one else. Instead of feeling lonely and ashamed after I masturbate, I make love to myself, have earthshattering orgasms and enjoy the afterglow. Maybe one of these days I'll run into someone who enjoys my particular set of quirks enough to let me violate her body in many ways. Maybe not, either way I'll be fine.
Need tips, I fell for this grill, I am already working to lose weight, I was 260 pounds, now I'm 240 pounds after a month's work. I am trying to be the more social and actually talking with her, but I doesn't pass from casual talk. More of a acquaintance kind of relation. Even though I'm a "fuck everything" kind of person, in the way of being and talking, but I actually doing good in University and working on my own goals like saving money for a car. I'm trying to emit a like more successful type of persona. but doesn't seem to work.
Any tips.
25yo here
It's the beginning of the end, I don't foresee any way outNo, I'm not hiring a hooker
i remember years ago when i watched great teacher onizuka and thinking "jesus christ, what a loser being a virgin at 22"
>fast forward a few years
>be me
>23yo virgin
i should have seen it coming desu
>>26710466
>I find people too gross to get close to.
This. Im also disgusted by myself too.
>>26712616
Ive gotta check that anime out.
>>26710741
I am literally in the same situation as you. Fell for this girl in my class at a party and ive started losing weight. Went from 126kg to 106 kg.shes very shy and introvert and gets depresses easily so we talk all the time about that kind of stuff but neither of us are good at small talk. I wanna go through and ask her if she likes me but i fear rejection so bad i think it might cause me to go through with the suicidal tendencies ive been having for some time. Wat do?
>>26713835
Just do it. And dont worry so much. Someone else will come along if it doesnt work out. You've already won half the battle. Most of us dont even have regular contact with grills.
Dont make a big deal out of it. Just invite her to hang out with you or something.
>>26707109
I'm not a virgin.
I'm 21
I have a qt. gf.
I took her virginity.
Suck it rocucks
>>26714329
Ive already done that. We went out a couple of times and talk almost everyday on normiebook. But ive got a really strange feel like im friendzoned or something. I wanna find out if thats the truth but im afraid i wont even be able to talk to her if thats the case
>>26714398
Get the hell out normal scum.
>>26707109
>fat
>unemployed
>boring
>don't leave the house often
>sickly pale skin and deep bags under eyes that won't go away
It's alright when you're 20, but when you're 25 and still doing this, it's really hard to come back from. I actually just started college (only 2 days a week though), and even though I doubt I'm ever going to make something of myself, the delusion that I "might one day" keeps me going.
>have you ever been with a woman?
>have you ever been with a.. man?
I thought I was finally beyond the "he must be gay" stage fuuuuck
>>26707392
follow this guide http://pastebin.com/px1Fapat
>26 (27 this year)
>neet. plan to stay that way
>live with parents. would like to live alone, but can't afford it
>no driver's licence. don't really want one
>poor
>quiet, gentle, shy personality
>mental health issues
>probable asperger, or possible schizoid
>no friends. don't want any, 'cause i'm asocial and don't enjoy being around people
>nonconformist; don't fit in society/community
>love-driven/romantic, not sex-driven
>just want a girl to actually like me for who and what i am
>never going to happen, since women want nothing to do with a man who won't get a job, has no friends, and lives with his parents. i am garbage to them
at least, i have the internet to keep me occupied
>>26707109
>26
>lost virginity to a hooker last summer
>didn't felt good only made me more sad
It's love I want not lust familia
>>26714869
>just want a girl to actually like me for who and what i am
You might need to become a more attractive person for that to happen. You sound like a slightly younger version of myself (except I drive). Gotta figure out what you want to dedicate your life to and get started. Im struggling to do the same thing.
khhv
Never tried asking a girl out or approaching women with that purpose. No female friends that I feel close enough to talk one on one in the first place either. Not that many close friends as I don't let anyone that close, including family. Have always been afraid of rejection or feared getting that close to someone emotionally that I have always just avoided the situation.
Never used to care about this. It's only when i got out of college that it really phased me. Part of it was the absence of any optimism that things might change in the future since I don't have the prospects of school to force me into the uncomfortable situations I avoid so fervently. The other thing is the decline of past friendships and the like. Former friends go their own way with their jobs or have a relationship of their own. Just feel I'm at a standstill, alone, while they all move on with their lives.
It's the fact I've never been in a relationship that makes me perceive something is wrong with me, besides being spineless. Can't really complain. I never go out much, and I've never made the effort. I had chances for things to happen in college, where I was approached at a party. Didn't want my first time to be with someone I didn't care about or know just for the sake of claiming i stuck my dick into a hole. By never giving myself a chance, I don't even get the chance to fuck up though.
>>26715169
>You might need to become a more attractive person for that to happen
i.e. work 5+ days/week and have my own house?
>>26715224
No. Be passionate about something besides consuming media.
>>26715325
i have passions, and i don't consume many media. i don't even watch tv. the fact that i don't conform and consume as much as other people do is one of the reasons why i'm alone. people can't relate to someone who doesn't follow contemporary trends and fads
>>26715390
So what are your interests robobro?
>>26715507
i like guns, animals, radical politics, ethnography, ufo phenomena, classic art. some other stuff
>>26715592
ok. Go be a gunsmith or an artist. Don't just "like' it.
>>26715690
guns are illegal and profoundly unpopular where i live. i don't want to be an artist; i just like looking at art.
>>26714869
They won't go for you because you have no ambition, you don't want to go anywhere, or at least taking actions towards going somewhere. Honestly I wouldn't go for a girl that isn't working.
As for me, I am 28 (29 in April), I mostly do things at my place by myself, and only go out for work and errands. I don't find many women enticing. While I'd like to have a girlfriend I am not drawn to many women. I don't go out with anyone, nor do I think others would want to go out with me so I just chill alone at my place.
25 year old virgin here. I have 8 months before I turn 26, when it all ends for me.
I know I have to start trying, but I've gotten too fucking comfortable in my current lifestyle. I can pass very, very easily for a normie, and most of my friends are Chads. Unfortunately, I'm still in college, with 1 more year to go. I can't even play that "older guy" angle, because I feel like I'm still 20 years old mentally. I've gotten success when I was 24, as I kissed a girl for the first time and got my dick sucked/fingered her with another girl.
>>26716741
>They won't go for you because you have no ambition, you don't want to go anywhere, or at least taking actions towards going somewhere
yeah. that's more or less what i wrote
>Honestly I wouldn't go for a girl that isn't working
i just don't value people by their job. most people do, it seems, including you
basically, women don't want men. they want a job, money, and imaginary concepts like ambition, that are attached to a physical being called "a man." who you are and how good a person you are don't mean shit
>>26714869
go back to tumblr you tumblrina girlll
>>26707109
>26 KHV
>employed, with a driving license, car, motorcycle but fat and ugly (6'2", 260lbs, 3/10 at the best)
>living with parents
>it's more like renting the room in their house
>no, mum doesn't take care of my anymore, i refused it
>my first (and last) love interest tried to beta orbiter me
>quickly left the space before even contacting the orbit
>so far only about 2 wymin were interested in me
>turned out they were insane harpies
>one of them wanted to kill herself if i won't love her back
>then some guys were calling me and threatening me if i won't love her
>eventually ghosted her
>my experience with wymin is complete shit
>now i'm in a phase of a rejection
>i think i don't even want a girlfriend now
>i just want uninterupted personal piece while the world around me burns
>but deep inside i feel really alone
I had a few chances of losing my virginity in my past but I didn't act on them.
I'm a romantic and I wanted my first time to be with someone I loved and who loved me back.
By the time I found out love doesn't exist, social anxiety and depression had ruined any future chance I might've had.
>>26707109
There is no story to be told, end of story.
I swear you have to actively work at being a virgin in this day and age. If you go with the flow of life you end up having sex by default, surely?
>>26717728
fuck off back to fagbook normalfag
>>26717728
>If you go with the flow of life you end up having sex by default, surely?
God no, that is how I became this way, or maybe I worked on it. I mostly stayed inside, not just playing video games but I would often draw, some days I'd just do it for hours, other times I would wait until night time. I also didn't go through the drug phase like all my friends did so I never did drugs with them so obviously excluded from most of their activities. I didn't berate them for it or anything, it wasn't something I did, that is all.
With that said people do think I am weird, like my mind is operating differently, not that I am spaced out or operating "intelligently".
You have to make an effort, not go with the flow because taking the path of no resistance surely won't lead you there.
>>26709545
i used to watch inmendham videos too! those were the days. can't watch more than 2 minutes now without getting bored.
Nobody ever cares but oh well, it helps me feel a little better:
I'm 32 years old. I never ever did anything with a girl. I don't think I ever wanted to actually do something IRL with them. Yeah there was a few years with raging hormones but it only made me masturbate all the time. I never really tought I actually should do anything besides surviving school and play video games to spend time. Honestly it never even occured to me I'm doing something wrong until I became 25+. My parents didn't give a shit until it became apparent I can't get a diploma and I'm pretty much unfit to do anything but basic work.
I never was attractive and I'm extremely passive and shy not to mention I'm pretty stupid. This molded my personality in ways which made it impossible to even find out how to be normal. I do what people tell me until I have a panic attack and return to my shell. My parents always told me I'm just "lazy" and I did believe it. But in reality my entire thinking process is about how to avoid any confrontation with people. The reason I never even tried to get a gf isn't because I'm afraid I got rejected or cucked. I never even think about trying.
I'm 26. I don't really care about being a virgin because sex is not a part of my life at all. I don't know any girls my age, all I do is work and play video games.
Maybe I will feel bad about missing out when I reach wizard age, but at the moment it's too easy just to think about other things.
