FUCK. Why do I always reveal my power level? Is there anything I can say at this point that would change her opinion of me, which is probably incredibly low after that last text?
I've been on two dates with this girl, and I thought they went really well. We really clicked and she said she definitely wanted to see me again. But her texts make it seem like she is not interested. Should I just back off, not say anything more, and wait for her to make the next move, if she hasn't already decided to drop me?
>>26705794
She just lost interest m8. I don't see anything about "revealing your power level" in there. It happens. Stop talking to her and move on.
Also, you've been on two dates, but have you kissed her yet? If you haven't, you moved to slow.
Some people don't grasp that they should text as if they're speaking, using punctuation and emojis to emphasise and emotify points and feelings.
She may be this type of person, as most of us can be if we're sneak texting in class.
Text her later on in the day and see if she brightens up a bit. If not, move on.
Also, you only really fucked up with the "K", you shouldn't assume the worst so quickly and out her on the defensive.
>>26705794
you:
>over-discloses information she doesn't care about
her:
>short response
you:
>needy question
her:
>short response
you:
>upset teenage girl being short tempered response
her:
>reasonably explains why she isn't responding much
you:
>responds desperately
>>26705844
No but we hugged, and she was the one who initiated. It was a really passionate hug too. I didn't want to move too fast. I was gonna try for the kiss on the third date.
>>26705877
>"you doing anything this Friday?"
>needy question
Are you fucking kidding me?
>>26705794
>playing games with how you appear to others
I'm glad I don't socialize.
It really is an interesting place to be, when you realize you no longer want what you thought you desired.
When you realize just fickle and programmed perception actually is.
>>26705893
>passionate hug
um
>>26705893
So she gave you a "passionate hug" and you didn't even try to kiss her? You. Fucked. Up.
>>26705904
She said she was gonna be somewhere
she was already responding shortly
then he says OH ARE YOU GOING TO BE GONE THE WHOLE TIME???
>>26705904
Should've been like "hey let's hang out at x on friday" instead of sounding like a beta bitch, but props on trying.
>>26705905
It really is an interesting place to be, when you realize you've sunken so far into denial that you can't even admit on an anonymous image board that you would desperately cling to any woman who paid you mind for 4 seconds
>>26705932
I'm just pairing up the text conversation to your greentext. You called him seeing if she's free on Friday "needy".
>>26705954
It's beta sure, but not needy. She would have said no no matter how he phrased it.
>>26706000
So is all hope lost? Abandon ship? Never text her again?
>>26705794
Did u kiss? Fuck? Bj hj?
Shes gone mate. Ur best bet is not never ever contact her again. If she does try to hit you up wait unt shes texts you the 5th time or calls the second. DO NOT SEEM DESPERATE.
Yse suggestive language next time too like "we should get together" instead of "i want to get together" girls are stupid and need a man to guide them.
Kiss on the first date you beta.
Trust me i crush pussy. Pic related its me yesterday handcuffing my broad for some hardcore sex.
>>26705893
Denko pls
>>26705966
>board that you would desperately cling to any woman who paid you mind for 4 seconds
>presuming
Though, I'd be surprised if you didn't believe that.
Denial would be saying that I wasn't forced into this outlook. That it would change anything if I felt differently.
>over-analysing things
This is beta.
The worst thing you can be is over-invested in the outcome because it makes you much more likely to assume the worst and lash out over things that are innocent.
This is difficult advice to follow but important advice.
You shouldn't pay toooo much attention to the people analysing your texts as needy. They have a point but it's overstated. Nobody is suave and does the 'right' text 100% of the time and the people who try to be often come across as boring and not having a personality.
Different things work for different girls and often you can't predict what in advance.
>>26705893
this means nothing to the modern woman and doesn't indicate shit. judge on how she replies to the text
>>26705893
>I didn't want to move too fast.
THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS MOVING TOO FAST
SHE SHOULD WANT TO DATE YOU
SHE SHOULD WANT TO KISS YOU
SHE SHOULD WANT TO FUCK YOU
IF SHE DOESN'T WANT TO DO THESE THINGS THEN SHE ISN'T INTO YOU
>>26705893
>kiss on the third date
your mother made you watch romance films with her as a child didn't she? life isn't like those films op, you're fucking yourself over and she'll start thinking of you as non-sexual if you keep this up
>>26705794
>>26705877
Pretty much this m8.
>>26705893
>I didn't want to move too fast
You blew it. As soon as you were too much of a pussy to make a move, she lost all attraction for you. Better luck next time.
>>26706202
She probably already does. I'm fucked. My aspergers has fucked me over once again. I am a huge pussy and I don't deserve to be with a girl this beautiful and funny and smart. I do not understand why she even agreed to go on a second date with me.
>>26706243
>I am a huge pussy and I don't deserve to be with a girl this beautiful and funny and smart.
Stop putting yourself down and stop putting her on a pedestal. Literally steps 1 and 2 to gaining the confidence you need to succeed.
>I do not understand why she even agreed to go on a second date with me.
Because she liked you, you idiot. You had it in the bag, you just had to make a move.
>>26706243
relax m8 you've got a second date to redeem yourself. you need to kiss her and you need to make it absolutely clear you're into her otherwise she'll never associate you with sex and you'll be fuckednot literally
>>26706310
They already went on the second date. She gave him a passionate hug and he didn't make a move. He is non-literally fucked already.
>>26706339
oh shit i thought that was after that. well, you've fucked it op, she's more than likely stopped trying with you because she doesn't think you're as interested as she is
>>26706383
Isnt it obvious as fuck that I'm interested though? What can I say to communicate that without sounding like a huge pussy?
>>26705877
now the question is HOW DO YOU STOP SOUNDING NEEDY WHEN TEXTING PEOPLE AND WHAT DO I DO WHEN ALL I GET IS SHORT RESPONSES FROM A PERSON WHO TALKS TO ME A LOT IRL AAAAA
>>26706426
>What can I say to communicate that without sounding like a huge pussy?
Nothing now. Should have kissed her when you had the chance.
>>26705794
why'd you 'K' her bro.
>>26706448
>>26706426
i hate to say it op but they're right. anything you try now is going to come off as
>"p-please give me a chance!"
you're a non-sexual object to her. the thought of you two having sex is gone from her mind.
>isn't it obvious as fuck that i'm interested
not if you only reciprocated a hug that you claim she initiated. plus you didn't kiss herin the opportunity she actually gave you, which is rare for women, which is what someone who is interesed in her would have done
>>26706495
I don't fucking know why man. God I hate myself. I will never be happy.
I feel retarded for asking r9k for relationship advice but what if you've gone on two "dates" (second one was more hanging out) and you haven't kissed her yet but there's a lot of cuddling? am I fucked?
>>26706545
Why do things have to move so fucking quickly? What if you want to get to know a person really, really well before you start making sexual advances? Is this really how most people in our generation think? What the fuck?
>>26706074
This anon is correct. Over analyzing and assuming the worst has cost me 2 loving relationships where I freaked out because I thought shit was over and ended it myself. Of course I was wrong.
>>26706578
If she's still responding to you positively then you're good. Make a fucking move the next time you're together though.
>>26706578
R9k is going to tell you that you fucked up because you didnt alpha chad her yadda yadda. But in the REAL world some people, myself included, like taking things slow so 2 dates is perfectly acceptable. maybe give it a shot on the 3rd date and if she rejects then just wait a bit longer.
>>26706607
You don't have to fuck her on the first date but you do have to let her know that you are attracted to her as a potential partner.
>>26706578
No, stop thinking bullshit.
Wait a few days if she is not saying anything, come back and we can guide you
I always freak out when I text with people it starts off really well but later on I start to overanalyze shit i say and I start thinking I come across as boring or that she's gonna lose interest and this always fucks me up
>>26706607
I'll repeat my point from before.
Life is not like romance movies.
People get really bored and get disinterested when you don't show any signs of affection towards them. A kiss is no big deal. You don't have to get into a relationship straight away, you don't have to have sex with them straight away, but you can be intimate while still getting to know people (This is what most people do). Kissing someone after two dates is not moving quickly. If you're going on dates you obviously like the girl so what is the problem with trying to make things intimate? It lets the girl know you're romantically interested and if she reciprocates then you've got evidence she wants more with you.
Stop imagining life like a romance film, and get that beta single mother bullshit out of your head, it'll ruin you. It's ok to let someone know you're sexually interested
>>26705794
Do yourself a favor and wreck your phone with fire, you most stop writing in chat bc you sound clingy and beta af
>>26706622
The first time we hung out I think we both got too stoned to make any kind of move. She's coming over Saturday and we're probably gonna be drinking so hopefully I'll get some action out of it
>>26705794
get ur brain checked m8, you didn't say anything wrong and she qualified her 1 word responses with a reasonable explanation
chill tbqh
>>26706738
I will repeat my question that nobody has answered yet: what do I say next? WHAT DO I SAY NEXT?
>>26706790
Nothing. Stop texting her. Wait until she texts you. If she doesn't text back, it's over. Nothing you can say or do at this point will have saved you.
>>26706790
Tell her you're no good for her since you're a normie faggot posing as an autist on /r9k/.
Obligatory fuck-off-our-boards post.
>>26706557
>>26706557
telling you 'sorry', i'm in class' is her apologizing for the rather inane responses.
when you talk to a girl it's best to make sure you have something to talk about to string a meaningful conversation together
it's still salvageable. try not to start convo's that don't go anywhere
oh and be straightforward with her about wanting to be more thends. make sure she knows you like her famalam.
>>26707006
more than*
>>26707006
So what if I say this:
I know we just met, but I really like you and I want to get to know you better. If I'm bothering you, please let me know.
>>26707060
>How to Lose a Girl in 1 Text starring Anon
>>26707060
God , don't say that
You're putting your feelings out there on the table too fast
"Please let me know" pretend to be a guy who doesn't care about getting to know her that well yet you just met her
>>26707060
Not even OP is as beta as you. God rest.
>>26707122
What? None of what you just wrote makes any sense.
>>26707060
actually, you might just be fucked if you think thats a good idea to say anon
god speed now
>>26707157
Dumbass, I am OP.
>>26707188
Fuck this. I don't understand why that would be a bad thing to say. I'm being straightforward about how I feel. What the fuck is wrong with that? I do not understand how you guys think.
>>26707163
AUTISM
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You're acting very eager to get to know her and worried about upsetting her. Girls like it when you act like you don't really care if they stay or go because you've got your own cool shit going on. At least they like it at first.
>>26707220
GIRLS DONT LIKE WHEN YOURE STRAIGHTFORWARD ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL
GIRLS ARE NOT LOGICAL
THEY WANT A ROCK IN RESTLESS WATERS
>>26707060
Text her this:
>"I just met you, and this is crazy. But you've got my number, so call me maybe."
>>26707258
That's fucking retarded. I hate women. Why would acting like I don't care be attractive? What kind of fucking idiot thinks like that? Oh wait, I guess all women think like that, according to you guys.
>>26705794
When a girl needs more than 5 mins to answer you is because she doesn't give a flying fuck about you. Trust me.
If you go to class, or your work: Check out women there. They literally can't spend 5 mins without checking their cellphones, seeing who msg'd them, answering, txting people back etc.
Trust me, a woman NEVER EVER goes 1 hour without checking her phone specially while in class. If she liked you she'd show a lot of interestin you, but that's not the case.
Truth hurts but c'est la vie.
>>26707332
Nobody even listens to CRJ anymore
>>26707341
>Why would acting like I don't care be attractive?
Because that's how women think you imbecile. Basic human psychology.
>>26707341
An attractive man doesn't put effort into attracting women. An attractive man doesn't care if he offends women.
Only unattractive (read: beta) men work hard to entertain and satisfy women.
I'm not saying your crush ain't dumb. I'm just putting it the way it is.
>>26707361
That's bullshit. No one listen to this idiot.
>>26705794
>2016
>not just letting the autism flow
>not living up to your full beta potential
Chicks dig that shit brah, just bee urself.
>>26708807
You went full retard there
>>26705893
hhahahhahaha, fuck
Should I send it? What do you guys think?
>>26708997
no, absolutely not
"Hit me up when your free"
or something along those lines
You're coming off as needy while she seems uninterested. If she responds again or text you later, take it from there. If not, move on and talk to other girls.
>>26706055
>>pic related
>>filed deleted.jpeg
>>pussy crusher
>>26708877
Didn't you know anon? Girls love retards!
>>26708997
Looks good man. I think she's going to love the affection you're showing her!
>>26706055
anyone save?
>>26708997
Just wait for her to respond you beta cuck. She said she's in class so she's not going to be more interested in you than she already is in her school work.
>>26709093
Wait I'm confused. Text her before she responds again or wait until she responds (if she responds)?
>>26707506
Nah, that's just called a fuccboi m89.
You got it backwards.
>>26709160
It's almost 9 pm. I'm pretty fucking sure she's out of class by now.
>>26708997
DO it, OP.
Don't live your life regretting. Seize this opportunity
>>26709223
Don't be bitter about it, man. Learn your lesson and carry on. Just don't ever initiate text with her ever again, she had her chance.
>>26709223
Shut the fuck up.
Origional Comment
>>26709182
She's in class or doesn't really care about you anymore. But just know that bitches are always be on there phones in class and if she was interested, she would respond back.
You can send something along the lines of what I said or just wait until she responds. Don't send what you wanted though.
>>26708997
Yes send it please
FUCK IM SO CONFUSED I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO. YOU GUYS ARE TELLING ME SO MANY DIFFERENT THINGS AND I DONT KNOW WHO'S BEING SERIOUS AND WHO IS JUST FUCKING WITH ME. Fucking hell I hate this place and I hate myself.
>>26709400
DUDE!
Listen to me, just back off from texting her! If she wants you she'll message you, just leave it at that. It's hard to come to terms with the fact that you don't know if she's interested, but thats just life man.
>>26707220
It's the implication anon
>>26709400
DONT TALK TO HER BRO.
LET HER PINE FOR YOU.
WHEN SHE DOES MESSAGE YOU IGNOR HER UNTIL SHE SENDS 5. I F SHE CALLS YOU IGNOR HER UNTIL THE 2ND CALL. NOT THE 2ND CONSECUTIVE CALL 2ND CALL PERIOD. MAKE HER WANT U.
faggot i told you. Here is me.
>>26709107
Had to hide face then forgot
>>26706055
Do this. I get laid unlike these robots trust me.
>>26708101
But it's not dude.
You underestimate the amount of orbiters woman have. It's a sexual thrill for them. That and narcissism
>>26709485
Also if you have to lie about being busy do it. If ahe asks what your doing lie say your hanging out with a friend. Make her think shes not the only one your talking to. Nothing gets my girl more wet than me implying she isnt the only one for me.
jesus man, you've already pretty much ruined it. judging by what you've screenshot you are a massive beta fag
It really doesn't matter what you text a girl who likes you unless you're just trying to seem like something you aren't and manipulate her into wanting to see you, in which case, have at it.
Normally I laugh in these threads but kinda feel bad for OP in this one.
>>26705874
>text her later
awful advice. she couldnt sound less interested
>>26705794
her words are a scanner obviously
>>26710413
Uhhh...what does that mean?
>>26710445
It means that you are being judged at every step while she decides whether to pity-fuck you or not.
>>26710495
That's fucked up. I don't understand female psychology. I really don't.
>>26705794
That was a good text. Girls like it when men are straightforward about what they want. Don't pester her and pls respond over and over. Wait for her to text you first. Don't be desperate. But if you say "I like you and I want to see you," that's great. Way better than beating around the bush like you're scared of getting turned down.
What are some good stock texts to establish some kind of rapport with a girl? I've studied with this bitch once but it was mostly business
>>26711129
Be casual, ask her "what's up?", after she says what she is doing with the expected "hbu?" say you are listening to music. Let this segue into a discussion about music, try and keep in mind the kind of shit that you figure she would likely enjoy and then say that it is some of your favorites.
Bitches love music, anon
